Post: #326

Guys, what are your opinions about the main Swedish dating site, Mötesplatsen?

Post: #327

(05-21-2015 11:29 AM)Katdogbirdduck Wrote:  Guys, what are your opinions about the main Swedish dating site, Mötesplatsen?

Is that the "main" dating site? I thought everyone was using Happy Pancake.

Post: #328

Hi all,

After my vacational trip in Rio (some of you maybe read my datasheet on that), I'm now in Stockholm for work, I actually found a contract 1 week after coming back from Rio and arrived here at the last minut.

I spent the 2 first weeks in hotels, very expensive and poor service for the price but I guess that's what you get in Skm when you book 1 day in advance in high season. I went back to Paris the first weekends but starting from this weekend I'm staying here.

Was working like crazy the first days (and I'm afraid it won't change in the whole summer as they brought me basically because they are late in the project) so I didn't have time to visit or go out at night. However the first week, one morning while I was going at work I saw a beautiful latina, long dark hair and nice ass, I talked to her, got her number and met her 2 days later. She is a peruvian girl living in Skm since 4 years, we went to my hotel and banged.

I daygamed a couple of girls, I didn't count but I would say around 6, some of them were nice, other total bitches. It's important to mention that I'm not into blond girls, I love latina, mixed and black girls, even some dark skinned asians attract me more than these cold blond dolls.

So far regarding the girls I'm quite disappointed with the quality, a guy in the previous pages of this topic was saying that the average girl in Skm is a 4, well I think he is not far from reality, of course my opinion is biaised because I was in Rio until mid may and girls there were so warm and sensual, the difference with here gets me depressed.

Tinder game sucks here, few matches with good looking girls and lot of them don't answer although they match you. After my experience in Brasil I'm quite impatient with these attitudes, if a girl is online and don't answer maximum 1 hour after my first message I delete the match.

Yesterday I spent 2 hours at Drottninggatan street, it's a big shopping street here. I daygamed an african girl then a mixed one.
I was standing in front of a shop and the mixed one was passing by, she looked at the window shop for several seconds and I felt she was actually checking me out discretely, it turned out that feeling was true. Talked to her and we went straight for a coffee, she's mixed angolese/portuguese, tall and thin with a lovely face.
I got her number and wish I'll manage to seduce her, she could be my little sunshine while I'm in this cold land.

My next steps here are to find an appartment with a good location and a nice gym. If some of you guys are in Skm pm me, I'm a nice guy

Post: #329

By the way I forgot to ask, are there neighborhoods in Skm with lot of black girls? are there ethnic clubs?
I don't like ghettos but most of the few dark skinned girls I saw in towns were ugly, a million miles from the surinamese beauties I used to see when I was living in Amsterdam.

Another question for guys living here, what are the cool places to live in? I'de like to avoid rich/snobish and family neighborhoods.

Post: #330

Over the past weekend Snoop had a little drama with the Swedish police. I'm awaiting a reply from Swedish deejay friend on this incident.

Meanwhile:

http://www.billboard.com/articles/column...ander-bard

Post: #331

(06-14-2015 04:13 AM)Lino Wrote:  By the way I forgot to ask, are there neighborhoods in Skm with lot of black girls? are there ethnic clubs?
I don't like ghettos but most of the few dark skinned girls I saw in towns were ugly, a million miles from the surinamese beauties I used to see when I was living in Amsterdam.

Another question for guys living here, what are the cool places to live in? I'de like to avoid rich/snobish and family neighborhoods.

I don't live in Sthlm but this is from my perspective. Maybe a RVF member in Sthlm can comment on this better.

Anyway,
Try hitting up bars and clubs in Södermalm. Everytime I have been to Sthlm I have seen stunning black girls here. They are really friendly too, at least from my experience. It's a typical hipster area so it can be a bit annoying sometimes.

If you want to avoid the snobbish places then you should avoid areas like Kungsholmen and Östermalm. But fuck, the girls there are beautiful...

With the risk of over-hyping the club, F12 Terassen(google it) suppose to have mad talent (especially foreign talent) Never went there but my friends in Sthlm always talk about this place.

There is an asian event this Saturday (1/8) on the Thaiboat(google it). I have been to their parties before. The girls are hot! talent from the whole SEA. Don't forget to take pictures!

Post: #332

Need to check out that, thanks for the info [email protected] ^^.
Most black chicks i have met in clubs are at ambassador and marquees. Mostly Somalian though. I did meet a super hot blasian a couple of months back close to Östermalm though. I know there is a Ethiopian place at södermalm if my memory serves me right.

Post: #333

Ive checked several data sheets with no luck specific to what Im looking for...

Whats the best area for nightlife caveman game as they are leaving the bar/club? As mentioned in my other post Stockholm tinder hasnt been kind so resorting to plan B. I have a feeling rolling solo will also give me a hard time getting into clubs in Stureplan so wont bother.

I'm assuming women in Stureplan either Uber or Taxi it out of the area so approach after they leave will be hard. Correct?

How hard would it be walking back from a Sodermalm spot to Gamla Stan or Stureplan? How hard if walking with a girl in high heals after late night?
Will it be safe for me walking around semi suited around midnight to 3 am in said areas? Stureplan, Gamla Stan, Sodermalm

Daytime will be site seeing so no day game spots. There Friday - Sunday

Post: #334

^ The best area for nightlife is Stureplan, more specific would be the square in front of Sturehof I believe.

If you dress slick, you should be able to get into some clubs solo.

I have no idea how the women get around in Stockholm, whether it is Uber or Taxi. I did hear the Taxi's are very expensive.

You want to be staying in Stureplan or close to it as possible, check Scandic Anglais or Mornington hotel. Do you really want the girl walking blocks to your spot in high heels?

Stockholm is very safe, I did notice more police presence when I was there last year.

For such a short time, I wouldn't expect miracles.

Post: #335

(07-29-2015 11:45 AM)Ali Wrote:  

(06-14-2015 04:13 AM)Lino Wrote:  By the way I forgot to ask, are there neighborhoods in Skm with lot of black girls? are there ethnic clubs?
I don't like ghettos but most of the few dark skinned girls I saw in towns were ugly, a million miles from the surinamese beauties I used to see when I was living in Amsterdam.

Another question for guys living here, what are the cool places to live in? I'de like to avoid rich/snobish and family neighborhoods.

I don't live in Sthlm but this is from my perspective. Maybe a RVF member in Sthlm can comment on this better.

Anyway,
Try hitting up bars and clubs in Södermalm. Everytime I have been to Sthlm I have seen stunning black girls here. They are really friendly too, at least from my experience. It's a typical hipster area so it can be a bit annoying sometimes.

If you want to avoid the snobbish places then you should avoid areas like Kungsholmen and Östermalm. But fuck, the girls there are beautiful...

With the risk of over-hyping the club, F12 Terassen(google it) suppose to have mad talent (especially foreign talent) Never went there but my friends in Sthlm always talk about this place.

There is an asian event this Saturday (1/8) on the Thaiboat(google it). I have been to their parties before. The girls are hot! talent from the whole SEA. Don't forget to take pictures!

Thanks Ali for this reply.
I'm in Stockholm since 2 months now, the first 3 weekends I was going back to Paris and working like crazy during the week so not much action. Then I rented an apartment and started the real things. So far I got 7 girls (1 peruvian, 2 swedish, 1 danish, 1 hungarian, 1 australian and 1 mexican), + 3 girls I didnt wanna fuck, too ugly.

All of them were met through Tinder except the peruvian which I day gamed the first week.

A couple of observations:

- Chicks here are really into feminism, many of them mention it in their profile, I don't see the point since it's one of the most equal countries, I mean even at the hairdresser men and women pay the same price...

- They are extremely flaky, cancel very often at the last minut, you need to be patient and act as if you absolutely dont mind, which is easier of course once you got some pussy on the side, but this pissed me off the first weeks.

- Many girls have iranian background, they are from what I saw the ones with most attitude, acting like they are princesses (even if they are ugly as fuck), I would personnaly avoid these chicks, not worth the effort considering the gorgeous blonds around.

- As I said in my previous post, black women here are very ugly, many of them come from Ethiopia, Somalia and countries around, I love black women but god the chicks I saw so far were so ugly !!

- I dont waste time with girls, if one flaked once I go to the next one, it's her loss. I generally invite them to a bar very close to my place or directly to my place.

- I didnt experience the nightlife yet except in 2-3 bars in my neighborhood (I rented an apartment at Kungsholmen).

- I find actually swedish girls quite friendly even if day game has lead me nowhere, I had a couple of numbers but never saw the girls.

I ve been in touch with a forum member, very cool dude even though I didnt met him yet...

I'm writing this message very quickly so excuse potential mistakes, if you have questions dont hesitate guys.

Post: #336

You are welcome, mate.
7 notches in two months? That's actually a good number. Sweden is not a cakewalk.

Your observations are spot on.

- Chicks here are really into feminism, many of them mention it in their profile, I don't see the point since it's one of the most equal countries, I mean even at the hairdresser men and women pay the same price... Welcome to Sweden, my friend

- They are extremely flaky, cancel very often at the last minut, you need to be patient and act as if you absolutely dont mind, which is easier of course once you got some pussy on the side, but this pissed me off the first weeks. True dat, very common

- Many girls have iranian background, they are from what I saw the ones with most attitude, acting like they are princesses (even if they are ugly as fuck), I would personnaly avoid these chicks, not worth the effort considering the gorgeous blonds around. It's just an act. Typical behaviour from westernized persian girls. Just keep plowing through. They will be very sweet once they like you

- As I said in my previous post, black women here are very ugly, many of them come from Ethiopia, Somalia and countries around, I love black women but god the chicks I saw so far were so ugly !! You will usually see the hot ones at bars and clubs

- I dont waste time with girls, if one flaked once I go to the next one, it's her loss. I generally invite them to a bar very close to my place or directly to my place. Maybe you are being too direct? Try suggesting a coffe, just a walk or an activity and then you can try to bounce to your place afterwards. Some will require a couple of dates before sealing the deal, some won't

- I didnt experience the nightlife yet except in 2-3 bars in my neighborhood (I rented an apartment at Kungsholmen). That's a fancy area to live in. You seriously need to get your ass out in the nightlife. That's where it's at. It can be pricey as fuck so don't get careless

- I find actually swedish girls quite friendly even if day game has lead me nowhere, I had a couple of numbers but never saw the girls. Approach foreign girls too. You will be rewarded for your balls. Daygame is good in Sweden as many are too afraid to approach unless they are drunk of their minds.

How long are you staying? I will probably head over to sthlm this month or next

Post: #337

(08-03-2015 04:07 PM)Ali Wrote:  You are welcome, mate.
7 notches in two months? That's actually a good number. Sweden is not a cakewalk.

Your observations are spot on.

- Chicks here are really into feminism, many of them mention it in their profile, I don't see the point since it's one of the most equal countries, I mean even at the hairdresser men and women pay the same price... Welcome to Sweden, my friend

- They are extremely flaky, cancel very often at the last minut, you need to be patient and act as if you absolutely dont mind, which is easier of course once you got some pussy on the side, but this pissed me off the first weeks. True dat, very common

- Many girls have iranian background, they are from what I saw the ones with most attitude, acting like they are princesses (even if they are ugly as fuck), I would personnaly avoid these chicks, not worth the effort considering the gorgeous blonds around. It's just an act. Typical behaviour from westernized persian girls. Just keep plowing through. They will be very sweet once they like you

- As I said in my previous post, black women here are very ugly, many of them come from Ethiopia, Somalia and countries around, I love black women but god the chicks I saw so far were so ugly !! You will usually see the hot ones at bars and clubs

- I dont waste time with girls, if one flaked once I go to the next one, it's her loss. I generally invite them to a bar very close to my place or directly to my place. Maybe you are being too direct? Try suggesting a coffe, just a walk or an activity and then you can try to bounce to your place afterwards. Some will require a couple of dates before sealing the deal, some won't

- I didnt experience the nightlife yet except in 2-3 bars in my neighborhood (I rented an apartment at Kungsholmen). That's a fancy area to live in. You seriously need to get your ass out in the nightlife. That's where it's at. It can be pricey as fuck so don't get careless

- I find actually swedish girls quite friendly even if day game has lead me nowhere, I had a couple of numbers but never saw the girls. Approach foreign girls too. You will be rewarded for your balls. Daygame is good in Sweden as many are too afraid to approach unless they are drunk of their minds.

How long are you staying? I will probably head over to sthlm this month or next

True that I'm being very direct, internet caveman

The truth is that after having spent 5 weeks in Rio in April and experienced the very quick action with hot girls it's difficult to readjust to western (Northern in this case) countries where you have to play some game to get chicks.

I'm basically being very direct in purpose, if the girl is into me she will come, if not I don't mind, the sea is full of fish.

Post: #338

Booking Berns Hotel tonight. Sounds like logistics heaven. Club to room steps away

Post: #339

(08-04-2015 02:17 PM)chyamor Wrote:  Booking Berns Hotel tonight. Sounds like logistics heaven. Club to room steps away

How did it go?

Post: #340

Rolling into Stockholm now and staying for a week in Stureplan and gonna link with a couple of the local cats. This should be fun...

Post: #341

^^Good thing you came in august, the weather has been abysmal this summer with alot of rain especially in June. Swedish summer weather has been very unpredictable the last couple of years.

Post: #342

[u]Yep, Stockholm is one boring city between Mon - Wed.... i did mostly day game this week and last, night games basically in stureplan, bars like Berns and Compaignet, on average i would say most Swedish girls are 5 & 6s.... but when u see a 8s and 9s................. daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn, managed to to pitch my flag on a blond 5' 10, slim but curvy 8, got chatting to a 6 footer 19 yr old model\Student - 8.5... i leave on Friday, but plan to keep in touch, next time i will come, just before universities close for holidays in June... is Stockholm a black man paradise? No.. u need game, but being British and Black does help..alot

Post: #343

(09-02-2015 02:25 PM)AAYUSLASH Wrote:  Is Stockholm a black man paradise? No.. u need game, but being British and
Black does help..alot

Ja Ja. Go there when a big time hip-hop artist (Jay-Z, Kanye, Snoop, ect.) is performing in Stocktown.

Post: #344

How is it during February?

Post: #345

^Cold and no tourists.

Post: #346

(09-03-2015 11:50 AM)Mentavious Wrote:  How is it during February?

I was there in February this year. Was told several times in Stockholm I should come back in the Summer but couldn't make it this year.

But my trip was specifically to see the Aurora Borealis so I had to go in winter and headed to the Arctic. I spent a few days in Stockholm before and after but each time starting off with more than 24 hours of no sleep at all. So I wasn't in the best mood when in the city.

If you have to go in Feb consider heading to the Arctic to see the Northern Lights and/or go to a ski resort. Actual skiing is much better in the Alps, but the impression I get about Swedish ski resorts is that most people going there are Scandinavians, with the odd British group.

Post: #347

Didn't want to start a new thread. For those that have been to both, what are the differences between Swedish and Finnish women?

Post: #348

^Finnish are easier.

Post: #349

^^^^

Just slightly easier or a big difference?

Post: #350

Can anyone really answer that? My experience will be different than the next person.