Post: #1

Took a girl out for the third time yesterday night and got the bang. Really sweet Russian 9. She ended up not sleeping over as she had to work the next day. I followed up right before her shift to for a quick chat and told her she left her earring at my place. She said she wasn't wearing earrings last night. Pause in conversation (I just plowed through). Conversation ends and I'm thinking shit...did I blow this? I think back and remember that she had to be wearing earrings otherwise her ear lobes must be made of metal.

I guess my question is how to proceed from here. I consider this girl a potential LTR and at the very least someone who I'd see again. I guess it depends on the girl but the earring thing could go either way. To her it either means she needs to continue to be on her game because I have options...or I need to do some serious damage control game.

Might be more of a vent then a question. I'm wondering what you all would do in this position? If anything?

Post: #2

Didn't end up mattering and seems to have worked in my favor. Although I did it inadvertently, other players might be able to use this little move post-bang