Post: #1

Over the last couple of months I noticed something. When I drove to pick up a girl to bring her on a first date, I was getting the snl. In fact, I've banged 5 of the last 6 girls that I drove to pick up put out on the first date. The one that didn’t put out on the first date put out on the second date. She specifically told me that my picking her up made her “excited.” Last night, I banged a girl that I picked up within two hours of meeting her for the first time (I met her on the internet originally). In fact, they almost always thank me for picking them up. And it’s not because I’m rolling up in a Porsche or anything. I’ve got a 2002 SUV that is in good shape, but isn’t anything special.

I think the reason this has worked is that it relates to dominance. I’m picking her up when I want, and I'm bringing her where I want to go. She has no choice to but to go. Also, I generally use kino immediately, touching the girl on the leg or arm for emphasis when I say something.

Anybody have a similar experience?

Post: #2

Yeah I have definitely noticed this as well. I believe that there are a few factors at play. There is high trust and an extremely low flakiness level for girls who agree to this. In my experience I think a lot of them had decided to bang or hook up before the date even began. Since 99% of the time when I drove them back to their place after the date, there was almost no resistance to me weaseling my way inside.

The confidence and leading you mention is also true. She is pretty much submitting herself to you.

Post: #3

I'm going to start trying this, ASSUMING they live within like 20 minutes. I'm not going way out of my way for some broad. Been there done that, no thanks.

Post: #4

Worked for me only once, but that was probably because she was a stripper so I was already headed in with an advantage there. I actually prefer having them park at my place and then me driving, so that gives me a reason to bring them back to my place after whatever date we have.

Post: #5

(05-27-2012 03:20 PM)Nom_De_Guerre Wrote:  Over the last couple of months I noticed something. When I drove to pick up a girl to bring her on a first date, I was getting the snl. In fact, I've banged 5 of the last 6 girls that I drove to pick up put out on the first date. The one that didn’t put out on the first date put out on the second date. She specifically told me that my picking her up made her “excited.” Last night, I banged a girl that I picked up within two hours of meeting her for the first time (I met her on the internet originally). In fact, they almost always thank me for picking them up. And it’s not because I’m rolling up in a Porsche or anything. I’ve got a 2002 SUV that is in good shape, but isn’t anything special.

I think the reason this has worked is that it relates to dominance. I’m picking her up when I want, and I'm bringing her where I want to go. She has no choice to but to go. Also, I generally use kino immediately, touching the girl on the leg or arm for emphasis when I say something.

Anybody have a similar experience?

Are you doing it in the car or back at her place?

Post: #6

Eh, I've picked up tons of girls with my car who didn't put out.

Post: #7

to further expand...what do you do if they live at home?

Post: #8

chicks are so used to guys telling them to meet them somewhere, or dudes not willing to put in any effort at all to see them.. they get moist when a guy actually picks them up for a date. <-- a chick told me that.

It's also better logistically speaking, because you KNOW you're going back to her place after night out and you can bust that Roosh patented "can I use your bathroom?" line to get up in her crib. It's fuck up avoidance and LMR from that point right?

Post: #9

I think another factor is when you are in the car it is a natural environment to isolate and escalate.

Post: #10

Bang has covered me pretty well on this. "How about we meet at...." and if she doesn't mention transportation assume she is making her own -- if not then "Let me know if you need a ride".

When I pick her up I like to crank the heat(unless you are in a humid environment) then I bring her somewhere chilly like the beach. Or you can do vice versa. Take over her environment.

Post: #11

I used to always offer to pick them up but they were always hesitant to give me their address unless i knew em from social circle, so I kinda gave up on it. How do you get past the, "Well i don't really know you that well, so I rather not give you where I live just yet" thing?

Post: #12

(05-30-2012 10:00 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  How do you get past the, "Well i don't really know you that well, so I rather not give you where I live just yet" thing?

I don't think you can weasel your way around it coz for most girls it becomes a safety issue but you shouldn't let her get to the point when she can outrightly reject your offer as that would make your position weak. How about you just say "I'll be driving so let me know if you need a ride" or if you know beforehand where she lives(say XX), then you could say "XX is on my way, let me know if you need a ride" and let her respond with a plain yes or no?

Post: #13

When I was rookie I tried having them meet me at my place but I wasn't closing with consistency. Out of exasperation I began offering to pick them up and used the "Can I use your bathroom?" line when I dropped them off. My close rate went up and I figured I was onto something. I noticed they tended to drink more since they didn't have to drive. That being said, I do screen if they have roommates or live with their parents; if so then I have them meet me at my place.

Post: #14

The girl comes to my place 9 times out of 10 in her car. I know I'm fucking if I pick her up which only happens if she has no car or it's in the shop. What do you do if she lives far (40 min+)? She's going to want to meet at the bar or wherever but Houston don't play that. It's a lot harder to bring her back home if we do that.

Also keep your car nice and clean players. It's a good idea to have a nice smelling air freshener. Maybe a little something to smoke and drink while y'all drive to the destination. I remember an old hoopty overheating on the freeway years ago when I was with a girl lol.

Post: #15

(06-01-2012 06:37 AM)houston Wrote:  The girl comes to my place 9 times out of 10 in her car. I know I'm fucking if I pick her up which only happens if she has no car or it's in the shop. What do you do if she lives far (40 min+)? She's going to want to meet at the bar or wherever but Houston don't play that. It's a lot harder to bring her back home if we do that.

Also keep your car nice and clean players. It's a good idea to have a nice smelling air freshener. Maybe a little something to smoke and drink while y'all drive to the destination. I remember an old hoopty overheating on the freeway years ago when I was with a girl lol.

I'll never pick her up or even meet up with her if she lives far. Most of the girls I go after are local, but on the off time that I want to meet up and she's far I'll just meet her at a bar and do the best I can. I admit it's a really low percentage move which I rarely use anymore. 99% of the time if a girl is not within a 15 mile radius, I say fuck it. Exceptions being if I know her through social circle or she has given me extremely strong signs that she wants to get laid. Example I once had this chubby girl from okcupid who lived 45 minutes away constantly sending me nudes and wanting to meet up. She picked a bar that was within walking distance of her place.

I've picked up girls who were even in their late 20s for dates and got the bang or close to it. Sometimes what will happen is we'll have a great first date where for whatever reason sex does not occur. On date two I pick them up, go somewhere and then drive them back. I hit them with the bathroom line, or before I read bang I would just go super direct with "Hey let's hang out for a little bit." Rarely did the girl refuse. Got in, talked about her pad for a bit, sat on the couch and went for it.

Post: #16

(05-30-2012 10:00 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  I used to always offer to pick them up but they were always hesitant to give me their address unless i knew em from social circle, so I kinda gave up on it. How do you get past the, "Well i don't really know you that well, so I rather not give you where I live just yet" thing?

Usually, during the texts setting up the date, I mention a great place for sushi or drinks or whatever. During the part when I am setting up the day and time, I’ll just put it in. For example, “9 ill pick you up”. Sometimes it dies at that point, but that is normal for text game. Usually, she’ll reply with her address or an “ok.” If it’s just an ok, I need to follow up with something like, “ok where do i pick you up?” Standard text game applies, e.g., take more time that her to reply, have messed up grammar and syntax, etc.

Post: #17

"i'll pick you up at 9, send me your address." In the same text, needs no followup from you unless she doesn't send the address.