Post: #26

OP, this entire forum is the biggest resource you could hope for.

Where you are in your game right now, you might want to pull a George Castanza and do the opposite of what your gut tells you to. Feel like complimenting a woman? Don't. Feel like picking up the phone and calling a girl to thank her for a date? Don't. Don't feel like working out? Do it. Don't feel like shopping for new clothes that you might consider overly stylish or peacocky? Do it.

Like Gmac said. If you want different results you have to change yourself first. Don't be afraid to become someone else.

Post: #27

Quote:Like Gmac said. If you want different results you have to change yourself first. Don't be afraid to become a better you.

Fixed.

Post: #28

Right. That sounds better. It's just when I was going through the motions, oftentimes I felt like, "This isn't really me. This isn't who I am." I was doing things that weren't part of me naturally. In a way I was being someone else, but eventually I became that way. But I had to be open to the idea of becoming someone else before I could accept those changes. I think in the changing process I felt that I wasn't being true to my "authentic" self, but in reality, I was just changing for the better.

Post: #29

I did that because there are so many game deniers out there who just don't get it. They'll say oh you're just changing yourself into someone you're not just to get some pussy. No. Pussy just flows for the better man. Common sense.

Post: #30

(05-27-2012 07:29 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Quote:Like Gmac said. If you want different results you have to change yourself first. Don't be afraid to become a better you.

Fixed.

Learning game didn't so much change me as it unleashed the man I always was inside but didn't know how to express

To other people i'm sure it appeared that i changed, but to me it was more a feeling of "Finally!"

Post: #31

Find more girls, then you just don't care if you get zoned or not.

Also, never compliment your target, I just don't mention the way girls look, and if I do, it's to say they look "okay" after they have pushed me for my opinion on their appearance.

Post: #32

One time a girl sent me a photo of herself, this was before I found out about game by the way, and after I got it, I just didn't say anything. After she pushed me for an answer, I said she looked okay. It practically sent her in to a mental break down, and she became very needy. This was 7 years ago, and she still remembers this moment clearly. Insane.

Post: #33

As others have posted before me, simply put, asskissing is never a good strategy. At all.

Post: #34

(05-26-2012 10:48 PM)balistik12345 Wrote:  (After a few texts about nothing...talking about the Gym and shit)

Me: I want to tell you I think you are a very attractive lady and you seem cool and down to earth. I'd like to hang out with you and get to know you better.

Her: I'm just looking for friends right now. I've got a lot going on but we could always catch a lunch together or something.

Me: Yea I need someone to help me explore these places around here to eat I keep hearing about. I just hope you chew with your mouth closed...if you have food falling out of your mouth I'm gonna act like I don't know you.

Her: Haha good for you lol I believe in manners

I was going to tell you that there is nothing wrong with you telling women that she is attractive but when i read this '' I want to tell you I think you are a very attractive lady and you seem cool and down to earth. I'd like to hang out with you and get to know you better'', i just thought that you fucked it up.

If you are going to compliment her, at least compliment her with ''gangsterness'', avoid sounding needy, corny or sweet, these three things just completely destroy chances of hooking up. Before yesterday i met this chick at the bank, then later in the night on the phone she asked me why did i approach her, i told her, i saw this perfect phat ass when i was walking in and i just felt 'fuck it, let me halla at this woman''. Yesterday she came to my house and after some resistance i ended up fucking the shit out of her. The reason i ended up fucking her although i complimented her is because i didnt put her on pedastal and i was being sexual throughout the whole time.

If i can reccommend you something is that you should be as much sexual as you can. If you want to try once again, call her, ask her what she is doing, then start asking her questions like ''do you like to kiss or to be kissed?'' '' do you kiss with your tongue or lips'', if you were here, i would kiss your neck, then i would kiss your belly and then go down on your pussy and start licking your pussy till you come in my mouth..hmm i love licking pussy''. Man, being extremely sexual pays off, these bitches are all looking to get fucked, period.

Post: #35

(05-26-2012 11:26 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  Not to beat a dead horse or make you feel bad dude, but:

"I want to tell you I think you are a very attractive lady and you seem cool and down to earth"

This is painful to read. The vast majority of guys have had a massively beta phase in their life, usually in the younger days, god knows I did. But please, at least internalize the fact that this phrase should never, ever, be uttered or texted towards a female.

I'm going to play devil's advocate here. A lot of guys on here are going to tell you to fuck as many girls as possible, but it's clear you want an LTR. No woman in any Western society is going to respond well to open statements of affection like that. The golden rule of LTRs is: the person who cares least controls the relationship the most. The second rule is there is always one person who wants their partner more than vice versa. Obviously, you want her to want you more than you want her.

The funny thing is your line about her having manners isn't bad. If you would have maintained a playful teasing tone like that the entire time your outcome might have been different. You might have some decent game in you, it just seems like you need some editing.

Emech, have at it.

Just curious - why do you say specifically "no woman in any Western society"?