Post: #1

Hey guys,



I was just wondering how to handle this situation. I was sitting in the library studying, when I noticed these FIVE girls studying across the table. I thought they might be from Turkey. I asked them, and sure enough they were Turkish exchange students. I asked for the number of the one closest to me, but only the girl at the far side had a cell phone. I got her number, and I got the email addresses/facebooks of all the other girls.

I got some things to consider:

Since all of them were together,

1. How do I decide which one I want?


I only have the number of the girl that was sitting on the far end(She is cute), but the one I was sitting closest to was the one I was doing most of the talking with(She is cute too). I would probably want to talk to the one closest to me. But, there were too many girls to digest, and I doubt all five of them will come to hang out together the next time.


2. If I want to talk to the girl closest to me, how do I get a hold of her? Email? Call her friend with the cellphone and have her invite her out when we hang? Or just go for the friend who has the cell phone?


Their names are practically impossible to pronounce, and so I am not even sure which name goes with which face. I know who the girl is that gave me her number, and I think I know which name belongs to the girl that was sitting closest to me. The problem of deciding which girl to go for could be rectified by adding the girls on facebook and seeing their photos, but I am not sure how comfortable I am with letting these girls see MY facebook account(You know how facebook can cause problems).

3. Should I add these girls on facebook to get a better idea of who they are?


4. Finally, has anyone had any experiences with Turkish girls before? Do they generally date American guys while in America? What are they like? etc.

Post: #2

Brah,

Here's what you do:

Call the one who's phone number you have.

Tell her that altought you think she is a beautiful young lady, something about the girl who's number you want just intrigues you. She'll be ok with that.

The trick is to sell it just right and flatter the hell out of the girl you are calling, so much so that

a) she gives you the # you want

and

b) she calls up the girl you want and talks you up to her.

The good thing about your situation is that if you wind up striking out with the one you wanted initially you can go back to the first one that you've already flattered and made a little jealous.

Aloha!

Post: #3

Invite them all to a party.

"How do I decide which one I want?"

Let nature take its course.

Post: #4

If they are anything like some Kurdish girls I met in the past...very tough to break. But good luck my friend.

Post: #5

Since you found a group of girls you're into, start hanging out with them and see which one you vibe with the most, and go for that one.

Post: #6

(11-17-2009 05:37 PM)edgun Wrote:  If they are anything like some Kurdish girls I met in the past...very tough to break. But good luck my friend.

Lumping Kurds and Turks into one category is a very good way to get slapped

Post: #7

(11-18-2009 11:31 AM)Eric Wrote:  

(11-17-2009 05:37 PM)edgun Wrote:  If they are anything like some Kurdish girls I met in the past...very tough to break. But good luck my friend.

Lumping Kurds and Turks into one category is a very good way to get slapped

Agreed. Whatever you do, don't even suggest anything about any other Eastern European culture. I don't know which ones get along with the others, I just think it's best to let all that be. A long time ago I asked a girl from Romania (I think it was Romania, it was so long ago I don't remember for sure now) if they spoke Russian, and she got super pissed. Now I know they speak Romanian, but I was young then. And I know Russia is a touchy subject in Eastern Europe.

Post: #8

(11-18-2009 11:31 AM)Eric Wrote:  

(11-17-2009 05:37 PM)edgun Wrote:  If they are anything like some Kurdish girls I met in the past...very tough to break. But good luck my friend.

Lumping Kurds and Turks into one category is a very good way to get slapped

(11-18-2009 01:40 PM)Brandon E Wrote:  

(11-18-2009 11:31 AM)Eric Wrote:  

(11-17-2009 05:37 PM)edgun Wrote:  If they are anything like some Kurdish girls I met in the past...very tough to break. But good luck my friend.

Lumping Kurds and Turks into one category is a very good way to get slapped

Agreed. Whatever you do, don't even suggest anything about any other Eastern European culture. I don't know which ones get along with the others, I just think it's best to let all that be. A long time ago I asked a girl from Romania (I think it was Romania, it was so long ago I don't remember for sure now) if they spoke Russian, and she got super pissed. Now I know they speak Romanian, but I was young then. And I know Russia is a touchy subject in Eastern Europe.

haha i already did and one of the girls got pissed. I told them it was by accident and she said it was ok but that they hated being mistaken for turks.