Post: #1

So I met a girl at a house party. Brief makeout there, but got separated when the group bounced to a club.

Had first date about a week later. Drinks at a lounge w/ good convo, light kino, bar/club after w/ heavy dance floor grinding/making out. Told her we were going to bounce back to my place and she agreed, but needed to use the bathroom first. She comes back totally disgusted by the state of the club bathroom and all vibe/forward momentum is killed. Date ended shortly after.

Texted her twice and left a VM once over the course of the following week, radio silence. I did a good job doing push/pull, cocky funny shit, but in hindsight, didn't build enough connection. Lesson learned.

How should I proceed from here?

I'm currently not planning on contacting her further. However, she's peripherally in my social circle (friend of a friend), so its probable that I will see her in a group hangout situation in the future. How should I play it when I see her?

Post: #2

In my opinion, the only option you have is to ignore her completely and if possible flirt with other chicks to make her jealous. If she comes around and talks to you, go completely cold and act aloof.

Post: #3

yeah, act like the date never happened. aloof shit.

if a dirty club bathroom is enough to kill her, she's strange anyway.

if u ever have to defend urself because of rumors she may spread use that to your defense: "Man she came back from the bathroom and flipped a switch at it being dirty - i mean its a club for crissakes! - she got really angry, blah blah blah!"

Post: #4

(05-18-2012 03:22 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  yeah, act like the date never happened. aloof shit.

Pretty much this^. Lower her priority. In person talk to her like a guy instead of a girl you're interested in. Friendzone her like she fucked up ...cause she did.

Post: #5

Shit, if you're proud of how you performed, I'd be telling everyone in my social circle. Peeps love that shit. I'd go, "man I met up with her at this house party, sparks really flew and we were both into each other. I thought I'd ask her to hang out, and we laughed and had such a good time. Then she went to the bathroom, and came back psycho. Probably did a line or something. Does she have a drug problem?"

In my experience, that's what most conversation in social circles is about anyway - who did what, with whom, and when. hahaha

Of course to her face act like u never went on a date.