Post: #1

I know everyone has their type, but I'm talking about something else.

I've begun to notice a pattern in my bangs. To me the girls in which I have the most attraction to and bang for the longest period of time are girls that look similar to girls I was attracted to as a young teenager/through high school.

When I was a kid I had the hugest boner for Aly Michalka. I've been banging a girl that looks a lot like her, same lips, same nose, same everything except she has brown hair and her face is a bit thinner. I just realized this a day or two ago.

I used to be all over the porn star Stoya. To me she is a 10, something about the dark hair, blue eyes and pale skin does it for me. The girl I was in a LTR for about 2 years with looked a lot like her. Same complexion, haircut, lips and body. Facially she wasn't as similar. However, more recently I banged a girl that has that same complexion but a face more similar to stoya's.

There was this girl in highschool I knew was in to me, but I didn't really have an interest in girls, or talked my self out of it. I can't remember which. Last year I was banging a girl that looked very similar to this girl from highschool.

My babysitter when I was <10 was a super hot russian girl with an equally hot accent. Now a days I am all about the EE/russian girls. I am banging one. I also banged a girl on a SNL that looked a lot like my old babysitter.

I can trace most of my bangs with girls that I really wanted to fuck and enjoyed the sex with a lot to girls I was attracted to when I was first going through puberty. However, I never once during sex with these girls realized this fact and said "fuck yeah I'm banging a chick that looks like ___" I realized it long after.

Is your physical preference in girls -- your type -- determined by the girls you were exposed to and found attractive during puberty/young life, or is it that attraction preference is determined mostly by nature rather than nurture. If the first statement is true are we trying to fulfill the fantasies of our adolescence by banging specific girls?

When I say physical/attraction preference I'm talking about certain specifics that make an already hot girl preferred. ie. if you had two girls whos attractiveness was rated the same, but you chose one over the other.

Post: #2

I reckon there would be a stronger pattern if you followed the girl's mental characteristics. Don't we always hear about guys dating crazy ass bitches? My first two bangs were like that, one was an alternative-hipster with a broken family, the other was a sociopathic liar who would infiltrate and destroy social circles.

Back on topic - the common physical feature for me -> they were all asian~

DISCLAIMER - I only have 3 notches so far. Various makeouts and fingerbangs on the dancefloor in my younger days, but they don't count.

Post: #3

I would say that if you're banging a pattern of women that look the same, that means you're making a choice (and able to fulfill that choice) to bang the type of women you're attracted to. And that, my friend, likely puts you ahead of 80% of the male populations IMHO.

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Post: #4

yes they all have a pulse.... well most of them

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Post: #5

I feel you big time Western. For me it might be a little extreme in that I seriously can't get a boner unless some very specific and nitpicky qualities are met, which probably disqualifies me from being a true playa, but whatever.

The American ideal, blonde hair, blue eyes, tall barbie types do nothing for me, if anything it's a turnoff. I'm like the opposite of Indian trolls. I grew up in a city where 90% of the population was like that.

Stoya: FUCK YES. Definite 10 in my book. Totally my type. I remember when I first saw her I couldn't believe a girl so hot would ever do porn.

EE/Russian girls for sure, but also Eurasian. I love SE asians but nothing is sexier when they get some Euro blood in there too.

Girls I've banged are rarely over 5'6". Always dark hair, usually dark eyes too. Skin color is all over from pale as fuck to Filipina brown girls. Crooked or otherwise imperfect teeth seems to be a reoccurring theme. Despite my moniker, can't do the chubby chaser shit, I just can't get hard, even if the face is good. Gotta have that thin little waist. Tits and ass are all over the place, I've done flat chested to stacked, asian girls with no ass to a colombian girl with the big ol' bubble butt.

Post: #6

Asians...Asians...more Asians

Post: #7

Freckles and redheads are a consistent theme from my teenage years.

Post: #8

Many of my girls fit this description:

-Petite (usually short, but sometimes just scary-skinny)
-Pale (alabaster skin)
-Dark hair
-Light eyes
-Freckles, often
-Great ass, small tits

Sticking with the porn theme, think something in this general direction:

   

Post: #9

Mostly white. Disproportionate number of redheads. Fewer light blondes. I don't do well with all-American blonde types, feels like I have too much personality for them.

No desire for black girls, 95% of the time, have only banged one who my friends thought was cute but I wasn't interested in hitting again. Will bang cute Asian girls if given an easy opportunity, but I won't make much effort and will not hit multiple times.

As for your theory, I'm not so sure. I wasn't exposed much to non-white girls growing up, and I'm not really attracted to them (except for some Latinas). But I looove big asses and never saw them growing up - my love for the booty grew as I started squatting and getting a big ass myself. And I like blondes and redheads at least as much as brunettes even though I saw less of them growing up.

Post: #10

Wouldn't want to be Tuth's wingman... we'd be going after similar girls. Though I tend to like mine a bit more tan.

Post: #11

I noticed a pattern that most of my girls were born in August or September. No idea why. Heh, and they were all dark haired. This year however all girls have been blonde. Something's changing.

Post: #12

As you can tell by my avatar, I just love big boobs.

There is no limit to size, I just have to have a girl with a huge rack. It started in my early teens when I began noticing girls and continues to haunt me until this day. There is nothing I love more in this world than big jugs. Nothing.

That said, I have recently come down with the yellow fever though which is a bit of a contradiction, however there are some diamonds out there who fit the bill.

Post: #13

For some reasons, most of the women I have been with -- and I dunno, my notch count is probably slight south of 100 -- are big bottomed women and big boobed. The woman I lived with coming out of college, had two of different sizes.

They tend to be as tall or me or not much shorter.

I am also a sucker for big lips. Virtually all the women I have been with have been very oral.

Post: #14

I have no pattern at all in terms of physical appearance- I have had a wide variety of ethnicities, body types, sizes, colorations, facial looks etc. My similarities are more in terms of personality, social class and lifestyles

Post: #15

Have you guys found any link between hair color and personality among white girls? In my experience, American blondes are more judgmental, narrow-minded, insular, more likely to only fuck within their circle, than girls with other colors. More easily weirded out if you say something off-color. It's a pretty pervasive archetype in pop culture too, eg 'the Ice Queen' - do you guys encounter it? I feel like I do on a daily basis.

Red-heads are more voluble and excitable. Brunettes are the default against which I compare the others.

Post: #16

(05-13-2012 10:25 PM)basilransom Wrote:  In my experience, American blondes are more judgmental, narrow-minded, insular, more likely to only fuck within their circle, than girls with other colors. More easily weirded out if you say something off-color.

Definitely. I agree with this 100 percent. It even plays out online. It's always the blondes that are the most insistent on dating within their own race (and even penalize you, "match-wise," for not adhering to their insular views). I have a huge sampling in my head, and blondes are overwhelming the ones who do this:

   

   

Post: #17

A vagina.


If they give me a boner I'll give them said boner.

I do prefer redheads and blondes, and am trending towards the dainty body type which is a change for me as I have always been a fan of big cans.

Post: #18

(05-13-2012 10:58 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(05-13-2012 10:25 PM)basilransom Wrote:  In my experience, American blondes are more judgmental, narrow-minded, insular, more likely to only fuck within their circle, than girls with other colors. More easily weirded out if you say something off-color.

Definitely. I agree with this 100 percent. It even plays out online. It's always the blondes that are the most insistent on dating within their own race (and even penalize, "match-wise," you for not adhering to their insular views). I have a huge sampling in my head, and blondes are overwhelming the ones who do this:

I don't know if it's a genetic thing or it's being blonde in the US. When I talk to a certain type of girl, to which blondes far more often belong, it's like I have too much personality, I'm too weird, and too much of a foreigner, even though I'm white and American-born. Like they have this narrow band of men they socialize with, and everyone else is just "eww, rando." Usually but not always they skew towards the sorority type. And some of the blondes I have fucked made it clear that they had a strong weirdo streak themselves, so they were atypical.

My impression doesn't owe at all to online dating, because I only get a yes/no rejection there, and I don't get the nuanced emotional reaction that you do in person, that judgmental contortion of the face these bitches love to show when you show the slightest deviation from normalcy. They will have no qualms loudly pronouncing you 'weird' and of course white knights and betas will instinctively side with her. They also seem the most likely to get incensed if you show any signs of having a pair.

Based on a small but strong sample size, the worst of the worst are decent-looking blonde engineers, the ones who don't style themselves as nerdy but only try to hang out with cool people. They get so committed to excluding the lame people so abundant in engineering that they get these monstrous bitch shields.

Post: #19

i like tall girls, short girls, skinny girls, thick girls, hell sometimes chubby girls or if im feeling wild for the night fat girls, blondes, redhead, brunetts, bald girls, girls with big boobs, girls with no boobs, like big butts but i will smash a chick suffering from nasatal.
blue eyes, green eyes, LOVE brown eyes, pink eye, honey badger dont care!!

but even with all that said an done... i like colombia style thick bodies an brown eyes. So pretty much latin women would be my "prefference" but that doesnt mean i dont like chicks with all types of other features

Post: #20

Light-skinned black, asian, latina or white chicks can apply. Big tits a must. I'm talking Cs on a slim chick all the way up to ridiculously massive tits on a chunky broad. While a nice round booty is a plus, it's not as important.

My LTR chicks have been my height 5'9" or shorter and their weights ranged in the 140s-200. Clearly I like them thicker than most. Current LTR is around 150 and slimming down.

Post: #21

Comparing some of my first bangs...

1.) About 5'0", 110 lbs., long and straight dirty blonde hair, brown eyes.

2.) About 5'6", 120 lbs., shoulder length straight blonde hair, blue eyes.

3.) About 5'3, 100 lbs., curly dirty blonde hair, green eyes.

4.) Hispanic, about 5'6" 125-130 lbs., shoulder length black hair, brown eyes.

...to my most recent bang: Curly brown hair, blue eyes, five feet tall, 95 lbs.

I just look for "fuckable" honestly. Mostly petite but certainly not always.

Post: #22

I've got two types. One of them is the stereotypical American blonde and the other is the petit brunette with small, sharpish facial features and nice tits/ass.

I've always had a thing for blonde pixie-looking chicks but I've never gotten with one so I can't pass judgement on that.

I live in a boring part of the midwest so I haven't had much opportunity to chase girls from another race; I think black girls would probably be fun.

Post: #23

I like women that are shapely, but it can be on women with different frames and heights. Nothing has to necessarily be BIG, just shapely. Racially, I can find any woman attractive, and things like freckles or a mole don't turn me off. I prefer a little color over someone that's pale, but if she's otherwise sexy to me it isn't a deal-breaker. I don't like anything at the extreme ends of the spectrum (no fatties or stick figures), but I can work with anything in the middle if everything is in the right places.

Post: #24

(05-13-2012 11:48 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

(05-13-2012 10:58 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(05-13-2012 10:25 PM)basilransom Wrote:  In my experience, American blondes are more judgmental, narrow-minded, insular, more likely to only fuck within their circle, than girls with other colors. More easily weirded out if you say something off-color.

Definitely. I agree with this 100 percent. It even plays out online. It's always the blondes that are the most insistent on dating within their own race (and even penalize, "match-wise," you for not adhering to their insular views). I have a huge sampling in my head, and blondes are overwhelming the ones who do this:

I don't know if it's a genetic thing or it's being blonde in the US. When I talk to a certain type of girl, to which blondes far more often belong, it's like I have too much personality, I'm too weird, and too much of a foreigner, even though I'm white and American-born. Like they have this narrow band of men they socialize with, and everyone else is just "eww, rando." Usually but not always they skew towards the sorority type. And some of the blondes I have fucked made it clear that they had a strong weirdo streak themselves, so they were atypical.

My impression doesn't owe at all to online dating, because I only get a yes/no rejection there, and I don't get the nuanced emotional reaction that you do in person, that judgmental contortion of the face these bitches love to show when you show the slightest deviation from normalcy. They will have no qualms loudly pronouncing you 'weird' and of course white knights and betas will instinctively side with her. They also seem the most likely to get incensed if you show any signs of having a pair.

Based on a small but strong sample size, the worst of the worst are decent-looking blonde engineers, the ones who don't style themselves as nerdy but only try to hang out with cool people. They get so committed to excluding the lame people so abundant in engineering that they get these monstrous bitch shields.

I think most blondes have dyed their hair and self-select. Seems like blondes, at least on average, put more effort into makeup, nice clothes, etc. It seems a little odd that that would correlate with close-mindedness and sensitive to "rando," but not so much when you consider that they seem to have blander personalities and are more mainstream.

Post: #25

Tall and lanky (but well porportioned). Oh also as of now I've been with more black girls than anything else.