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ginatingles 路 2017-02-01 04:18:00 路 #2576
24 days of NoFap & 30 days of NoPorn. I'm getting rock hard boners just from hugging a girl. It should always be like this. Duh.
Snowplow 路 2017-02-01 05:17:00 路 #2577
Well I laspsed. I did 62 days. It was mainly out of boredom, and I just wasn't feeling naturally horny anymore. I'm gonna see how I am when I am fapping again, see if my libido raises or stays the same.

To all of you still going strong, keep it up!
John Michael Kane 路 2017-02-01 05:24:00 路 #2578
Day 1, lapsed. Spending too much time idle after a medical operation has me house bound for a few days. Time to hit the gym soon to refocus.
Mercenary 路 2017-02-01 05:27:00 路 #2579
(02-01-2017 05:17 AM)Snowplow Wrote:  Well I laspsed. I did 62 days. It was mainly out of boredom, and I just wasn't feeling naturally horny anymore. I'm gonna see how I am when I am fapping again, see if my libido raises or stays the same.

If you do not mind me asking, during the 62 days, did you bang any girl ?

Also, was this the longest amount of days that you managed to go without, or do you have another similiar record ?
Snowplow 路 2017-02-01 06:31:00 路 #2580
(02-01-2017 05:27 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(02-01-2017 05:17 AM)Snowplow Wrote:  Well I laspsed. I did 62 days. It was mainly out of boredom, and I just wasn't feeling naturally horny anymore. I'm gonna see how I am when I am fapping again, see if my libido raises or stays the same.

If you do not mind me asking, during the 62 days, did you bang any girl ?

Also, was this the longest amount of days that you managed to go without, or do you have another similiar record ?

No bangs. Got close once to getting lay but had hard LMR.

The longest I've ever gone before this is a week. As I wrote when I first started I used to only jerk off on Sundays if I didn't get a lay that weekend.
redbeard 路 2017-02-01 08:24:00 路 #2581
62 days without sex is a dry spell. What's wrong? Are you hit by Seasonal Affective Disorder?
Snowplow 路 2017-02-01 11:05:00 路 #2582
(02-01-2017 08:24 AM)redbeard Wrote:  62 days without sex is a dry spell. What's wrong? Are you hit by Seasonal Affective Disorder?

I haven't had sex since summer. The 62 days was no fap. I don't have S.A.D. I just work graveyard shift. It's even more difficult trying to pull tail.

I did have some spells of depression, but I'm coming out of it. For me it's ebb and flow. When I get tail, I get lots of it, but when it stops, well I bet you get the idea.
redbeard 路 2017-02-01 12:52:00 路 #2583
Six months without getting laid?

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Put NoFap on the back burner until you get your sex funnel set up. Aren't you in a major city?
ShotgunUppercuts 路 2017-02-01 14:55:00 路 #2584
Guess I'm doing hard mode cuz I still have my v card.

I'm trying dammit... I'm trying.
John Michael Kane 路 2017-02-01 15:28:00 路 #2585
Grrr. Day one again. Spending too much time on the cell phone is an opportunity for temptation.
Mercenary 路 2017-02-01 15:38:00 路 #2586
(02-01-2017 02:55 PM)ShotgunUppercuts Wrote:  Guess I'm doing hard mode cuz I still have my v card.

I'm trying dammit... I'm trying.

Are you approaching at least 1 girl in real life (not online) per day ?
ShotgunUppercuts 路 2017-02-01 19:30:00 路 #2587
Nah I work during the day.

Read,Study n lift after work .

Struggling to shake the FuckArounditis.
Meat Head 路 2017-02-03 11:13:00 路 #2588
I am more for less fap than no fap. I want to cut down from everyday to once every three days.

Where do you normally fap? Bed, shower, in front of computer? If I make it a rule to not fap in the bed I will cut down my fap by fifty percent.
Mercenary 路 2017-02-03 11:20:00 路 #2589
(02-03-2017 11:13 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  I am more for less fap than no fap. I want to cut down from everyday to once every three days.

Where do you normally fap? Bed, shower, in front of computer? If I make it a rule to not fap in the bed I will cut down my fap by fifty percent.

A gradual (but consistent) reduction in fapping can help many men more than an immediate full stop, but to do this effectively you need to keep a record or diary of every single time you do it.

This way you will know if you are making progress or not.

Once you know your weekly and monthly numbers you have to work hard to reduce them more and more, until you eventually and hopefully never fap again.

I would only reccomend this method if you have already tried everything else many times (including blocking porn on all devices) but keep failing.
Silver_Tube 路 2017-02-03 11:40:00 路 #2590
I met a girl on Tinder last week, it is making nofap a lot easier. I am on day 7 without really even thinking about it, which ties my record.
FilipSRB 路 2017-02-03 12:52:00 路 #2591
It has been 3 full weeks now. it is getting really harder these last couple of days because I started going to the National Library to study for my exams, as it has great conditions for it and is close to the student's cafeteria. Of course I'm not the only one with this idea, and there are a lot of girls who are way too dressed and made up for the occasion. Still soldiering on though.
wingtip 路 2017-02-04 15:11:00 路 #2592
Been no porn since Jan 1st. Think it has definitely made a big difference, one thing I've noticed as a slight downside is because of increased desire to get bangs, I keep saying something that comes across as 'creepy' just as I'm getting close to getting in a girls pants haha.

Still usually end up banging but, think a few have been put off me via text game.
ShotgunUppercuts 路 2017-02-04 16:04:00 路 #2593
Still in.
abscondere 路 2017-02-05 03:38:00 路 #2594
Starting no fap today. My immediate goal is 7 days. I've been doing it almost daily for about 20 years. Yikes.
John Michael Kane 路 2017-02-05 03:54:00 路 #2595
(02-05-2017 03:38 AM)abscondere Wrote:  Starting no fap today. My immediate goal is 7 days. I've been doing it almost daily for about 20 years. Yikes.

It starts with Day 1. Check in on this thread for each successful day if you find it helps give you accountability. I also keep track on my phone using an app called Habit Tracker. Setup porn filters to also block you from temptation. Welcome to the community!
Jean Gabin 路 2017-02-05 04:23:00 路 #2596
Self-mastery. That's my biggest improvement since 1 month on NoFap. While around the 2 week mark my standards went down to 6, it now went up to 7.5s min. as a cut-off. Even though nowadays a 6 can get me hard I pass on most of them. It's a bit contradictory to be more hungry and still reject everything below the 7.5 mark but it feels right at this stage. One reason could also be that my pipeline is of a much higher quality because of improved game and more approaches, so I don't bother about average quality.

Also business wise I seem at a high point, calm but very focussed on the end goal. I do a lot of high level negotiating for my business and have in the last weeks closed some of the best deals I've ever made by using some very polarised strategies, same as in my approaches.

NoFap is real guys. Just try it, you have absolutely nothing to lose, NOTHING!
Mercenary 路 2017-02-05 11:02:00 路 #2597
NoFap self help book from 300 years ago:
London, England 1722



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Mercenary 路 2017-02-05 11:17:00 路 #2598
Another NoFap self help book from way back in 1845:


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Contains illustrations on the harmful effects that too much masturbation causes to men:

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TrifeLife 路 2017-02-06 14:20:00 路 #2599
Checking back in, about 40 days no porn right now with Xmas being the last day. Had about 5 solid months until I relapsed in November. Looking to make it a year.

Honestly, I don't notice any crazy differences with an increased sex drive or anything. I do it because porn is addictive and avoiding it makes me feel in control of myself and my life.

Here's to getting a whole year, good luck boys.
Felix88 路 2017-02-06 18:51:00 路 #2600
I've tried many thing including meditation but I always relapsed. Now I'm doing the only thing I have never done before, praying to God everyday and I don't have strong urge to fap anymore, the belief that you are always in the watchful presence of a benevolent being is very liberating and empowering, to say the least.
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