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sterling_archer 路 2016-11-25 09:43:00 路 #2351
So we start from the beginning at the same time haha. Mine goal is also complete nofap, which is bit difficult. No porn is easy.
Vet-Boy 路 2016-11-27 08:10:00 路 #2352
Haven't fapped since August 19th of this year, but had 2 wet dreams since (the only I've had in my life).

Major changes in psyche have started to arise, and voice is deeper but hasnt changed significantly since last post on this thread. (in september i believe)

Havent watched porn since then as well save for 1 test run i had during the first month when I hadnt gotten an erection in over 2 weeks and got worried and decided to make sure i could still get one.

Do sex scenes in shows/movies like Vikings for example count as "porn"?
Ivanis 路 2016-11-27 19:26:00 路 #2353
I really got to get back on the no-fap train. Being sick and bored is a great way to cave a good two week streak... It ain't long for some of you, but that's the longest I've gone since I was thirteen.
Il Sorpasso 路 2016-11-28 06:31:00 路 #2354
seems like i can't get past day 5-6. i just feel a big knot of energy around my pelvis, as if i had a weight strapped to my junk, which is very uncomfortable and it gets me to relapse everytime.
anyone feels the same? it shouldn't be this hard... brb looking into taoist books for an answer
Mercenary 路 2016-11-28 07:10:00 路 #2355
(11-27-2016 08:10 AM)Vet-Boy Wrote:  Do sex scenes in shows/movies like Vikings for example count as "porn"?

Yes, it does count.
Once you give up porn your brain will start looking for fake substitutions/alternatives to porn like girls in bikinis or lingerie, hot girls on social media, softcore nudity or fake sex scenes in movies...even down to advertising of cute girls in totally normal clothing.

You need to avoid ALL of that.

The only thing making your dick hard should be your imagination (which you should control) or girls you see out of the house in real life.
sterling_archer 路 2016-11-28 09:53:00 路 #2356
Actually watching game of thrones and vikings never made me hard, even though there were very hot actresses involved. So what if I watch it, I am not gonna fap to it.
Meat Head 路 2016-11-28 15:01:00 路 #2357
I understand why it is necessary to quit porn. But I dont understand why fap is wrong. It is normal and fun.
JohannesAusPrag 路 2016-11-28 15:54:00 路 #2358
Jacking off is not wrong and harmful, well unless you sit all day on your ass and masturbate, for me the reason why I want to quit porn for good (and still fails) and to get rid of jacking off for time is because I am addicted to porn in a way that i cant jack off without it and it also affects my life in negative way.

I suppose there is more people with same reason, but for me it is about learning self control even over the most basic urges.
philosophical_recovery 路 2016-11-28 20:11:00 路 #2359
This holiday, due to bumping me off of several routines, also lead to more slippage.

Holy shit am I complacent about approaching girls after binging on porn.

May try to shift to the occasional jerk without porn, but I'll see later after I build up more momentum. It would be nice to get a +1, but I've been striking out a bit lately. Hopefully some prospects avail themselves soon.
Ivanis 路 2016-11-28 20:57:00 路 #2360
What is the consensus on erotic literature? The images are still left to the imagination, just more vivid I suppose...
Mercenary 路 2016-11-29 06:13:00 路 #2361
(11-28-2016 08:57 PM)Ivanis Wrote:  What is the consensus on erotic literature? The images are still left to the imagination, just more vivid I suppose...

Unless you are sending or writing this kind of literature to a real girl that you meet and fuck in real life, it's just another fake substitute that tricks your brain into thinking it's getting sex, when in reality it is not. Stay away from all fake external stimuluses.

Whether it's images or written stuff, if it doesn't involve a real girl you are banging in real life then it's harmful to your brain.
ShotgunUppercuts 路 2016-11-29 06:16:00 路 #2362
I'm on my 3rd day.out of pure boredom I had a strong urge to just do the deed and start over the first if December.
Scaro066 路 2016-11-29 10:31:00 路 #2363
(11-29-2016 06:16 AM)ShotgunUppercuts Wrote:  I'm on my 3rd day.out of pure boredom I had a strong urge to just do the deed and start over the first if December.

That's a bad mentality to have. Then you will say the same thing to yourself to just start all over in December then January, February, etc. Boredom is a huge redflag when it comes to nofap. Your brain will trick you into giving up, it is one fight you don't wanna be in, better defeat the urge before it starts. Stay strong bro.
Vainikka 路 2016-11-29 15:56:00 路 #2364
Fuck fuck fuck

Had day 62 and fapped.... Boredom, stress, etc.
It didn't even feel good. That was stupid...
But yeah must go on.

62 days was a lot of time and easily my record.
Ivanis 路 2016-11-29 16:37:00 路 #2365
I'm back on it, gonna set my goal to last until Christmas.

Best of luck gents.
ShotgunUppercuts 路 2016-11-30 02:48:00 路 #2366
You are right scaro.im coming up on 4 days in a few hours
Meat Head 路 2016-11-30 10:51:00 路 #2367
For me everyday is day 0.
Mercenary 路 2016-11-30 13:48:00 路 #2368
(11-30-2016 10:51 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  For me everyday is day 0.

1. Have you blocked porn on all your electronic devices ?

2. You are probably spending too much time in private...try to be in public places as much as possible throughout the day, from the very early morning to the late evening.
philosophical_recovery 路 2016-11-30 14:53:00 路 #2369
(11-30-2016 01:48 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(11-30-2016 10:51 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  For me everyday is day 0.
2. You are probably spending too much time in private...try to be in public places as much as possible throughout the day, from the very early morning to the late evening.

This.

I've been going out significantly more and except for during the holiday when I had time off and slipped, I literally had too much to do. Didn't have time to watch porn and also go out.

The problem becomes what to do when you're trying to build a side business that is almost entirely computer and internet based...

I'm thinking of getting a standing desk and moving my computer away from comfort. Standing wanks are possible but not very likely for me.
Enjoythedecline 路 2016-11-30 22:04:00 路 #2370
Well I guess I'll try 1 month off for december...
They Call Me Mister Tony 路 2016-11-30 23:50:00 路 #2371
Looking to go porn free in December after quite a few relapses last month.
Meat Head 路 2016-12-01 07:41:00 路 #2372
I dont need porn to rub one off. All I need is my imagination.

I am working on cutting down from everyday to once a week.
Mufasa 路 2016-12-01 14:16:00 路 #2373
3 days since incident
-GTL 路 2016-12-01 14:57:00 路 #2374
I'll just leave this here (worth the watch btw) :





http://www.dailystormer.com/watching-por...o-a-pussy/
YoungBlade 路 2016-12-01 22:53:00 路 #2375
30 days, beat my old record. Trying again, gonna kick it for good this time.
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