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RE: 51 year old marries 16 year old
The more time women spend in the sexual market, the worse they become as a mate and as a person. Here is a passage from Houellebecq, which I had previously quoted in a thread on him, which perfectly describes what I mean:
Quote:From the amorous point of view, Veronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she wished to still be capable it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals which characterizes the modern era. Veronique had known too many discotheques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for other sex in a single loved being rarely, resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort; progressively, and in fact extremely quickly, one becomes as capable of love as an old slag. And so one leads, obviously, a slag’s life; in ageing one becomes less seductive, and on that account, bitter. One is jealous of the younger, and so one hates them. Condemned to remain unvowable, this hatred festers and becomes increasingly fervent; then it dies down and fades away, just as everything fades away. All that remains is resentment and disgust, sickness and the anticipation of death.
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Handsome Creepy Eel
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RE: 51 year old marries 16 year old
(05-09-2012 12:26 AM)basilransom Wrote: The more time women spend in the sexual market, the worse they become as a mate and as a person. Here is a passage from Houellebecq, which I had previously quoted in a thread on him, which perfectly describes what I mean:
Quote:From the amorous point of view, Veronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she wished to still be capable it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals which characterizes the modern era. Veronique had known too many discotheques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for other sex in a single loved being rarely, resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort; progressively, and in fact extremely quickly, one becomes as capable of love as an old slag. And so one leads, obviously, a slag’s life; in ageing one becomes less seductive, and on that account, bitter. One is jealous of the younger, and so one hates them. Condemned to remain unvowable, this hatred festers and becomes increasingly fervent; then it dies down and fades away, just as everything fades away. All that remains is resentment and disgust, sickness and the anticipation of death.
Basil and others, do you think that this effect applies to both sexes, or is more common for females? As a guy, I too find that as I get more into game and am more and more successful, I experience progressively less deep feelings for a girl. I have the feeling that this is due to me having a lot higher standards, not tolerating bullshit and thus not getting attached to girls with obvious character flaws, which is all ok and my value keeps increasing... but since so many women are unfortunately flawed that way now, doesn't that make love impossible?
I don't blame Game for this, because the last time I was really in love my fiancee ended up cheating on me with an ex who had nothing but excellent asshole game going for him, and there's no way that kind of thing won't make you jaded. But as I discover how extremely rare quality girls, I am sometimes afraid of never being able to feel love again.
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RE: 51 year old marries 16 year old
(05-10-2012 06:02 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote: (05-09-2012 12:26 AM)basilransom Wrote: The more time women spend in the sexual market, the worse they become as a mate and as a person. Here is a passage from Houellebecq, which I had previously quoted in a thread on him, which perfectly describes what I mean:
Quote:From the amorous point of view, Veronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she wished to still be capable it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals which characterizes the modern era. Veronique had known too many discotheques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for other sex in a single loved being rarely, resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort; progressively, and in fact extremely quickly, one becomes as capable of love as an old slag. And so one leads, obviously, a slag’s life; in ageing one becomes less seductive, and on that account, bitter. One is jealous of the younger, and so one hates them. Condemned to remain unvowable, this hatred festers and becomes increasingly fervent; then it dies down and fades away, just as everything fades away. All that remains is resentment and disgust, sickness and the anticipation of death.
Basil and others, do you think that this effect applies to both sexes, or is more common for females? As a guy, I too find that as I get more into game and am more and more successful, I experience progressively less deep feelings for a girl. I have the feeling that this is due to me having a lot higher standards, not tolerating bullshit and thus not getting attached to girls with obvious character flaws, which is all ok and my value keeps increasing... but since so many women are unfortunately flawed that way now, doesn't that make love impossible?
I don't blame Game for this, because the last time I was really in love my fiancee ended up cheating on me with an ex who had nothing but excellent asshole game going for him, and there's no way that kind of thing won't make you jaded. But as I discover how extremely rare quality girls, I am sometimes afraid of never being able to feel love again.
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When it comes to human interaction, love is overrated emotional pornography. I think that's one of the biggest issues ruining our society. Instead of building a relationship based on teamwork and focusing on roles within that framework, people (mostly women) act upon how they feel that very moment. They will disregard and throw away the past on the off chance that the moment may lead to a better future.
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RE: 51 year old marries 16 year old
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RE: 51 year old marries 16 year old
(02-16-2014 01:05 PM)jariel Wrote: Since chicks have decided they have the right to throw their pussies around like Joe Montana, I have the right to be Jerry Rice.
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