Post: #1

I need a little help. How do I get through that virgin shield? I have one prospect that is a confirmed virgin..thankfully I dont think it is religious based but rather it is something that just hasn't happened for her.

I think that my best approach and the way I have handled it so far is to not push too hard for it but try to build some trust through a few dates and hangouts.

What do you all think? What is the approach to virgin game?

Post: #2

There is no such thing as a confirmed virgin unless you are a doctor and have her on the table in stirrups.
Even then, the hymen repair services that are extremely popular in France among north african immigrants, can make it hard to tell.

Post: #3

(04-23-2012 03:53 PM)hoops330 Wrote:  I dont think it is religious based but rather it is something that just hasn't happened for her.

Just accept it and don't make a big deal of it. You should keep your intentions and interaction physical (she can do other sexual things). At the same time you should chase other women. If she gets jealous, tell her "I accept that you aren't ready to have sex with me. But then it is not acceptable that you don't want other women to have sex with me either!"

Post: #4

i took a girl's virginity back in january.

she had done other stuff with guys prior, but honestly i proceeded as normal: escalating as far as i could with every hangout, rapport, etc.

she offered a lot of resistance when we got into bed, saying, "we're not having sex!" (we ended up having sex).

this is only one incident for me, but it gave me a lot of insight: you don't run different game on virgins, just proceed normally. and if she doesn't put out, move on.

Post: #5

I dealt with a virgin and I got the strong sense that everything we did together was a new "milestone" in her mind. Kissing, staying over at my place, taking off clothes (but not having sex) -- these were all big deals to her and she put up strong resistance every time.

At some point I just thought "fuck it," and guided her head to go down on me. Even though it wasn't sex, this was kind of like breaking the mental seal in her mind, and it wasn't long afterward that we had sex.

Post: #6

Related question -- anyone have any special tips for how to help virgins have their first orgasms during sex? Girls always finish with me during sex but I would like to help a virgin that I've been with learn to enjoy orgasms and I wonder if I have to do something differently

Post: #7

I think Imma get alot of hate from alot of people for this but....


The best way to approach virgin game is to not approach it at all.

Hottest chick I ever dated was a virgin. She surpassed all of the other cuties on my list, bar maybe one pole dancer who-I-can't-really-count-cause-i-didn't-get-the-fuck-close.

Running game on a virgin, in an alpha sense, is essentially assigning yourself as the A- guy for her. Rollo describe it best here: http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/02/15/the-a-guy/

Yes, its a position of power, and yeah, I'll redact my first comment (SLIGHTLY) to say that you guys should probably try this one maybe once in your life (or just wife the girl, she's pure), but nothing good comes out of being a girl's first time if your eyes are already open to game. You will run circles around her, and add one more burned female to the one hundred-million strong 18-28 year old crowd of women who act terrible around men.

But who am I kidding? If you weren't gonna do it, some other guy probably will 3-6 months later.

Post: #8

ive banged 3 virgins in the past 2 months.

had a 4th naked an fooling around but i just got frustrated an kicked her out

Post: #9

Where do you find virgins at? It seems everywhere but the states. I stay out the high schools but I guess under 21 might have some. 60+ notches with no virgins. I think if a girl drinks she's been fucked. Never met an overly religious woman before. Maybe I need to step my day game up or start going to Christian functions. Most of my pre-deployment smashes within the year have been college girls. Good luck finding anything pure there.

I think a girl who is 18-21 age and hasn't given it up is waiting on something. Who knows what. I like the Alpha theory. Or maybe these lizards are waiting on their Vampire to scoop them up. Those Twilight guys seem pretty beta. Maybe you could pull vampire/beta game. If they are waiting on love your fuked, unless you're going to ruin the lizards outlook on men for the next few years of her life. Maybe her family had her on lock and she never really went to parties blah blah blah.

I say proceed as normal but knowing when to escalate is key. Never get stuck on just that lizard. Keep your rotation in play and she may come around eventually. (Now im evaluating the type of pussy I am attracted to or attract)

Post: #10

Shouldn't this thread be called : breaking in virgins ?

Hoops, are you still in Florianopolis ?

Post: #11

I would agree that it's best to ignore it and not make a big deal of it. Hell, I recently broke through a 'virgin shield' without even knowing it, on a 2nd date, with a girl in her mid-20's who didn't tell me she was a virgin until several months later (she ended up being a LTR). Pretty amazing for a girl in North America who was hot and not a social reject to go that long without sex, I wouldn't have thought such a thing was possible these days but apparently miracles can happen.

Post: #12

(04-24-2012 05:02 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  Shouldn't this thread be called : breaking in virgins ?

Hoops, are you still in Florianopolis ?

No Neil, I have been home since December...unfortunately.

I think I'm in because the girl has been texting me saying I just feel like you're different from all the others. Now it is just a matter of time....Virgin notch?

Post: #13

As my friend's father says "Slow walk her down son."

Post: #14

It depends on how old is she, where is she from, and what is her attitude (is she the "keep it for the husband" type, or she's looking to get rid of it?).

But I can tell you this ain't fun, so think twice whether you really want it.

Post: #15

(04-24-2012 03:50 AM)TexasMade Wrote:  Where do you find virgins at? It seems everywhere but the states. I stay out the high schools but I guess under 21 might have some. 60+ notches with no virgins. I think if a girl drinks she's been fucked. Never met an overly religious woman before. Maybe I need to step my day game up or start going to Christian functions. Most of my pre-deployment smashes within the year have been college girls. Good luck finding anything pure there.

I think a girl who is 18-21 age and hasn't given it up is waiting on something. Who knows what. I like the Alpha theory. Or maybe these lizards are waiting on their Vampire to scoop them up. Those Twilight guys seem pretty beta. Maybe you could pull vampire/beta game. If they are waiting on love your fuked, unless you're going to ruin the lizards outlook on men for the next few years of her life. Maybe her family had her on lock and she never really went to parties blah blah blah.

I say proceed as normal but knowing when to escalate is key. Never get stuck on just that lizard. Keep your rotation in play and she may come around eventually. (Now im evaluating the type of pussy I am attracted to or attract)

Do you even need to ask? Forget about college parties or clubs as you won't find them. Just look at the most famous athlete in America, Tim Tebow as he is a self-proclaimed Virgin.
Many hardcore religious women be it Christian or Muslim are Virgins. Not sure if that is your game but they do practice what the Bible and Koran teach of "no sex before marriage". If you are a Muslim guy pretend you're interested in an arranged marriage or if you're Christian just start attending Christian functions at your local Church. I guarantee you that you will meet plenty of 21 year old Virgin's. I've know a few in my life.