Post Reply 
How common is Dating down for women in Real life?
Author Message
Deluge Offline
International Playboy
******
Gold Member

Posts: 3,995
Joined: Jun 2011
Reputation: 76
Post: #26
RE: How common is Dating down for women in Real life?
(04-22-2012 05:04 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Something I have noticed - fat girls seem more vocal and aggressive in admiring and courting attractive men. I was at a bar not too long ago, where after a bunch of girls in underwear pranced around on a catwalk, they had some jacked shirtless guy come out. I was standing near a couple girls, and was surprised to see the FAT GIRL touching her cute friend excitedly on the shoulder, going "OMG look at him, he's so hot!" while the cute friend was pretty indifferent to the whole spectacle.

I see this sort of behavior among fatties increasing sharply, this bald objectification of men much much hotter than them.

I've been taking note of something really similar. I noticed a little while ago that a plain clique of girls always talk about how "cute" guys are far far more than a hotter group. It's almost like these girls are going for hotter guys so their children will have a shot at being good looking but the better looking girls don't have this pressure.
(This post was last modified: 04-23-2012 01:28 AM by Deluge.)
04-23-2012 01:27 AM
Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
Bad Hussar Offline
True Player
*****

Posts: 1,536
Joined: Nov 2010
Reputation: 21
Post: #27
RE: How common is Dating down for women in Real life?
(04-22-2012 05:04 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Lol, recommending a player be ugly totally shreds your credibility here. When girls have found me and told me that I was attractive, I've never felt it to be a disadvantage. I can't recall a legendary player like Porfirio Rubirosa ever lamenting his looks. Looks are much more important when cold approaching in loud hostile environments, less so in the favorable ones I mentioned.

Ya, I'm not going to argue this point too hard, since for me it's an observation I can't completely explain (Think Pablo Picasso as an example of what I mean, though). After all, logically why would it be better to be ugly than good looking? Good things are good and ugly things are ugly by definition.

It may be more accurate to say that it is better to have, or even pretend to have, one big weakness, rather than appear perfect at everything. So being ugly being an advantage will only come into play if you score really high on everything else. Or astronomically high on one thing (Pablo Picasso). Why is it better not to appear perfect? Don't know, but maybe people just won't believe you really are that perfect. They'll think you're fronting. There's a bit about this in "48 Laws of Power" I think. Robert Greene can probably explain it better than I can.

Also, someone who is good looking has had a different kind of life than someone who is ugly. As a chick if you're ugly you're in pretty deep trouble, but as a guy you can, at least theoretically, compensate. Sometimes this compensation leads to great inventions, enterprises, the development of exceptional personal attributes etc. But as a more basic example: Ugly guys may be more motivated to understand game since they don't have their looks to fall back on. I realise that this compensation doesn't usually happen, since, well, it's hard to be exceptional - by definition. But I suppose what I'm saying is when it does happen it blows mens looks out the water. So imagine you're in a bar in Santa Monica and you and another guy are hitting on the same chick. Say the other guy is Rory McKilroy. Who does the chick pay most attention to?
04-23-2012 08:06 AM
Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
Eliogabalus Offline
Banned

Posts: 145
Joined: Mar 2012
Post: #28
RE: How common is Dating down for women in Real life?
(04-22-2012 01:58 AM)P Dog Wrote:  He sees them as being uber hot because they're natural blondes and have "Germanic" features. It's an obsession that's in every single one of his posts.

Troll

The dude in the second picture is the actor who played Ari Gold in Entourage.

Most males would see them as very hot, if you dont is because you have something wrong with your tastes.

(04-22-2012 02:27 AM)HiFlo Wrote:  since when is being the world's number one golfer not high-status?

These are terrible examples of unbalanced couples.

Here's a good example:
[Image: 12093_u7ysemsnwe_l.jpg]

who is that man? I guess he has a very fat walled because looks-wise...
(This post was last modified: 04-24-2012 05:16 PM by Eliogabalus.)
04-24-2012 05:13 PM
Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
Greek kamaki Offline
Banned

Posts: 4,676
Joined: Feb 2012
Post: #29
RE: How common is Dating down for women in Real life?
His wallet is also obvious in his bathing suit.
04-25-2012 02:24 AM
Find all posts by this user Like Post Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Possibly Related Threads...
Thread: Author Replies: Views: Last Post
  Online Dating Trends: Men now out number women 9 to 1 yang2287 97 10,230 04-15-2019 11:40 PM
Last Post: bantersmyth
  Real Life Lessons From a Real Rat (in the woods) RatInTheWoods 2 1,512 10-24-2018 09:46 AM
Last Post: Jefferson
  Make dating fun again - how to avoid online dating burnout Delta 20 4,316 10-17-2018 01:20 PM
Last Post: ksbms

Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)

Contact Us | RooshV.com | Return to Top | Return to Content | Mobile Version | RSS Syndication