Post: #1

I banged this HB9 over the weekend and now she texts me a couple times per day but the texts are boring, simple texts that show that she just wants to get a conversation going. I never text her first but she will eventually text me "hey what are you doing?" or something similarly generic.

I don't know for sure if I want to pursue relationship with her but I would like to keep banging her because she is hot and good in bed.

how do you respond to these generic texts without coming off as boring and driving the conversation toward stale and generic topics? It's basically small-chat in text form.

Also, do you ever initiate texts with these types of girls? I want to keep her interest in me high while Im out of town for work all week and hit it again when I come back.

thoughts on this?

Post: #2

Text to set plans, not to chit-chat.

Post: #3

(04-10-2012 10:30 AM)Klasmatic Wrote:  how do you respond to these generic texts without coming off as boring and driving the conversation toward stale and generic topics? It's basically small-chat in text form.

Also, do you ever initiate texts with these types of girls?

To start off, I never initiate texts with girls, they will text you and they'll want you more if they see you don't need them. Texting them first can come off as needy. However if you are telling them to go on a date with you text them calling is more effective though.

As for your first question I usually respond by telling them a funny story that happened to me in my day or in the past and ask them if they have any funny stories, usually they'll just offer one up after you say yours. Make it funny/interesting from there and you have yourself a nice conversation. =]

Good luck to you man!

Post: #4

(04-10-2012 10:41 AM)Fujiwara Wrote:  Text to set plans, not to chit-chat.

so should I just totally ignore her lame chit-chat and only respond if I have something worthwhile to say?

Post: #5

(04-10-2012 10:30 AM)Klasmatic Wrote:  I would like to keep banging her because she is hot and good in bed.

how do you respond to these generic texts without coming off as boring and driving the conversation toward stale and generic topics? It's basically small-chat in text form.

Also, do you ever initiate texts with these types of girls? I want to keep her interest in me high while Im out of town for work all week and hit it again when I come back.

Topic of text convo ---> sex. Get her worked up and taking pics for you.

Post: #6

Is it unacceptable to just text back and forth each day?

Post: #7

(04-10-2012 05:25 PM)Klasmatic Wrote:  Is it unacceptable to just text back and forth each day?

A few texts is fine. Texting back and forth each day seriously screws up your game and turns you into her emotional tampon. Do you want that? No.

Post: #8

(04-10-2012 10:30 AM)Klasmatic Wrote:  I don't know for sure if I want to pursue relationship with her but I would like to keep banging her because she is hot and good in bed.

There are two types of girls in the world. There are hot girls that are content to hang around and be your fuck toy while you decide what you really want and then there are girls that actually exist.

In all seriousness, if this girl is a 9, then she is going to be getting constantly hit up with better offers. If you're going back and forth with her on text, not really sure what your end game is, there's a good chance that you're going to be coming across as needy. It's one of the paradoxes of the game. Dudes spend a lot of time and effort trying to come across as aloof and it almost never works. The more you try to "play it cool" with her, the more you're going to end up playing her game. In other words, you start spending all this time trying to come up with the perfect text response and deciding what's the right amount of time between texts.

Better off just keeping the texts to a minimum. Text her just enough to stay on her mind and at random times. Other than that, use texts purely to make plans. Your attention, your conversation should be something she gets only when she takes the effort to actually come and see you. Guaranteed that a hot chick has a platoon of orbiters who are constantly showering her with text attention.

Post: #9

(04-10-2012 06:55 PM)j r Wrote:  

(04-10-2012 10:30 AM)Klasmatic Wrote:  I don't know for sure if I want to pursue relationship with her but I would like to keep banging her because she is hot and good in bed.

There are two types of girls in the world. There are hot girls that are content to hang around and be your fuck toy while you decide what you really want and then there are girls that actually exist.

In all seriousness, if this girl is a 9, then she is going to be getting constantly hit up with better offers. If you're going back and forth with her on text, not really sure what your end game is, there's a good chance that you're going to be coming across as needy. It's one of the paradoxes of the game. Dudes spend a lot of time and effort trying to come across as aloof and it almost never works. The more you try to "play it cool" with her, the more you're going to end up playing her game. In other words, you start spending all this time trying to come up with the perfect text response and deciding what's the right amount of time between texts.

Better off just keeping the texts to a minimum. Text her just enough to stay on her mind and at random times. Other than that, use texts purely to make plans. Your attention, your conversation should be something she gets only when she takes the effort to actually come and see you. Guaranteed that a hot chick has a platoon of orbiters who are constantly showering her with text attention.

ok, but what about if she is texting me first, which she always does? I keep texts short, un-punctuated and somewhat cocky-funny when necessary. I also don't respond immediately unless I'm trying to make plans.

Should I completely ignore texts that she sends me unless they are to meet up?

Post: #10

(04-10-2012 10:41 AM)Fujiwara Wrote:  Text to set plans, not to chit-chat.

No no no, he's already banged her. That rule applies primarily to girls you haven't banged yet.

Let's take a look at some things in my phone right now, shall we?

W: Thanks for coming last night!
Me: Thanks for letting me molest everyone in front of you!

A: I still can't believe you
Me: I know my penis is pretty unbelievable!

J: Hey how ya been?
Me: Been a total ass 24/7, u? (admittedly I should've put total slut, but oh well)

B: What are u up to 2nite
Me: IDK, hopefully cumming on ur forehead while I whisper Simba in ur ear


All of these were responded to; Conclusion: it really doesn't matter what you write, so have fun with it. As you can see I'm most amused texting about sex and my dick, so that's what I write. After you've banged, it really doesn't matter though. I wish I still had all the old texts from the girl I kept asking when I was done with her if she would to bang my dad.

Post: #11

You banged her already, jesus, either move on, or remember how she replied to your texts before you banged her (usually short texts, boring, who gives a shit attitude). Do the same.

Dude you have the upper hand, never text her first, let her pick you up in her car next time you hang out, let her buy dinner/lunch. Enjoy.

That's how yours truly plays it.