Post: #1

A 22yo model I met invited me to a birthday party at a lounge tomorrow night through text. Here it is:

Girl: it's a casual bday party fyi

Me: so cats will be wearing Chucks and skinny jeans? I'll be suited up

Girl: no need to dress up, all artsy types don't want you to feel out of place : )

Me: First, don't tell me what to do. 2nd, I enjoy being the best dressed. In fact, wear heels and a skirt.

Girl: Why?

Me: So you make a good arm piece

Girl: lol ok!

Me: and if your friends are boring...might not want to wear panties either. I love bathroom swooping.

Girl: you are so baaad ; )


Point is....I always tell a girl how to dress and this chick flipped the script, but I reframed. We'll see how it goes. Nevertheless I'll post a pic of her this weekend for the helluva it.

Post: #2

Quote:Me: First, don't tell me what to do.

This bit was too much. No need to be reactive.

Better yet:

Girl: no need to dress up, all artsy types don't want you to feel out of place : )

You: Ill tell you what we'll do. I enjoy being the best dressed. So wear heels and a skirt.

Post: #3

(03-16-2012 12:25 AM)germanico Wrote:  

Quote:Me: First, don't tell me what to do.

This bit was too much. No need to be reactive.

Better yet:

Girl: no need to dress up, all artsy types don't want you to feel out of place : )

You: Ill tell you what we'll do. I enjoy being the best dressed. So wear heels and a skirt.

Touché.

Why all the anger?

Anyhow, nice move.

Post: #4

Still, it's an interesting lesson.

A girl that digs you will let you get away with shit.

A girl that doesn't won't. So she let you get away with a poor comment like "don't tell me what to do" because you already had her in the palm of your hand. Had she not already been attracted, it could've backfired.

But this is a good example (with in-built improvement suggestions) of how to establish more alpha-cred, but this is like a B to C move, not A to B.

Post: #5

(03-16-2012 12:25 AM)germanico Wrote:  

Quote:Me: First, don't tell me what to do.

This bit was too much. No need to be reactive.

Better yet:

Girl: no need to dress up, all artsy types don't want you to feel out of place : )

You: Ill tell you what we'll do. I enjoy being the best dressed. So wear heels and a skirt.

Yeah, I kind of recoiled at that too, but if he's already banged her, and he talks like that to her in person and she digs it, it won't be a problem in a text.

I do tell girls to wear heels for first dates, but I do it over the phone. Over text, you can seem like a weak controlling prick, instead of a cheeky charming bastard.

Post: #6

Good insight guys. I do come across a bit harsh sometimes, but surprisingly I get away with it. I'm working on moving away from harsh to a bit more charming though.

Post: #7

I like your attitude McQueen.

Post: #8

A brazilian girl would ask where are "we" going and dress the proper outfit automaticly. This discussion seems patetic.

Post: #9

Weird, I thought the only girl that would know what "suited-up" or "swoop" means would be Miss Chocolate or some other female lurkers on here.

Cool that this "lizard" went for it though

Post: #10

(03-16-2012 08:41 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  A brazilian girl would ask where are "we" going and dress the proper outfit automaticly. This discussion seems patetic.

You should know by now that most American broads are pathetic.

btw-I always tell them to wear heels too. Oftentimes before we have even met as I do a lot of online game.

Post: #11

Guys, I can't take this thread seriously. Period.