Post: #51

Here is mine. and it pains me to say this but he can become a player the INSTANT he chooses to be

- 6'4 Black dude in pretty good shape (like a filled in lankiness)
- College degree, really intelligent, etc
- All around good dude
- He just doesn't approach, flat out. I have never seen him intentionally approach anyone outside a house party setting.
- He moves way too slow. Several times he hung out with girls "as friends" to get to know them for a few hangouts, and the second he wants to make a move - she has already lost interest at that point. One time a girl straight up brought another dude to their "friends hangout".
- Refuses to "dress up". Even a little bit. Granted, his fashion sense is pretty good, but the places with the prettiest girls usually won't let in a black guy in sneakers. Refuses to wear the good shoes unless he is completely suited up (which happens 2-3 times a year).


And what suck is this guy could be swimming in vagina if he just approached, and accepted that women just are not gonna be as logical as men and take a few chances.

Post: #52

here's mine..

- he's going to be 26 this year, still a virgin, never even been kissed

- his style is pretty lame, loose t shirts and khakis

- smoke weed and play video games all day

- very judgmental

- super in-denial about having no game, he doesn't admits that he's a virgin.. nobody really brings it up 'cause he gets really butthurt.

- no life experience 'cause he's a big fuck'n pussy.. he haven't really done anything daring or anything that girls would find exciting.. he never even learn how to ride a bike.. that's how much of a pussy he is

- i showed him the private man's blog (only because it's more water down than roosh's.. i didn't wanna freak him out.. he's not ready for the red pill yet).. and he liked it and found it interesting, but still won't approach. i approached a bunch of girls in front of him and i don't even bother to introduce him in the sets anymore 'cause he makes it really awkward and have unintentionally cockblocked me before.

- he have no swag and don't know how to flirt. i told him to tease girls. he tried on a group of hotties that i opened and it turned out awful. it wasn't playful at all. one of the girls told me that he seems grumpy. haha.

- he once said that i try to hard to talk with girls and he tried to give me some horrible advice.. haha.. i know it's only to protect his ego because he's too much of a bitch to approach.. i gave up on helping him

even though he's a super omega, he's a cool dude.. i used to smoke a lot of bud, i met him through another bud buddy of mine. i didn't really get close to him until i got my dui, wrecked my truck and got my license suspended. the whole time my license was suspended i used to hit him up to give me rides and shit 'cause he usually didn't have anything else better to do.

Post: #53

Oh God, that was me not that long ago.

Post: #54

It's funny how a lot of these guys are very judgemental. Something about looking down on everyone for whatever reason seems to make you not get as much ass. Maybe I'm just crazy.

Post: #55

(03-18-2012 12:00 PM)houston Wrote:  It's funny how a lot of these guys are very judgemental. Something about looking down on everyone for whatever reason seems to make you not get as much ass. Maybe I'm just crazy.

I used to think a lot of the things guys would say to girls was cheesy and I'd get annoyed when they got play off of it. Now I don't give a shit. You have to avoid slut-shaming as well. If you accept the fact that they're all whores you'll find yourself doing better as well. Expect them to lie and cheat. That's what they do.

Post: #56

Okay here's mine:

My friend is 19 and has slept with on girl (way back when he was like 15).

He has terrible style (All he wears are football jerseys and baggy carpenter pants.

Doesn't drink and is afraid to go to parties.

Makes weird faces and is socially awkward all the time.

Gets mad at me and my other friends when we move in on girls who "are his", and cockblocks/spreads rumors about us.

Never leaves his house and won't go anywhere unless video games are involved.

Has never had a job, and can't take care of himself.

Is overweight.

Falls in love/facebook stalks every girl who talks to him.

Gets pissed at girls if he finds out they like a guy who's not him (he once called a girl to yell at her because she "was a huge whore", since she was hanging out with me and not him.

Post: #57

Well, here is mine...

- She is overweight
- Still virgin (tell me stories about ALMOST have sex, but I never met any men who had been with her)
- Has no style, only jeans and big T - shirts... No heels, and I ask her so badly to wear them. She says: I don't know how you can handle walk on these... I say: Start with small ones, then you get bigger and bigger, like these 15cm. LOL.
- Does not like to go out much, only with friends in a calm enviroment, parks, cinema, restaurants, no night clubs or bars and I know why: when we go to parties or places alike, all guys look at her with a "eeeeW" face. She gets a lot of attention, but I am sure it is not the one she wants. If I can see it... Imagine her.
- She is very sweet and feminine, a bit shy, but she is tall to brazilian standars (over 1.80 cm) and overweight (around 130 kg). My mom nicknamed her as sumo player (harsh, she is Japanese).

Post: #58

Smh, mine:

- he is overweight, and has had a ridiculous beer belly since college to the point that he looked like he was 30, damn near 40 something and we were only in our early 20s. the ironic part is that he doesnt even drink beer. he eats horribly tho
- already has one of those weird hairlines thats made worst by thinning hair at the top. wont just shave it bald tho for whatever reason
- has absolutely no swag when it comes to fashion. will wear flip flops, a too little shirt and fucking too little basketball shorts TO THE MALL where he has to know women will be in abundance
- NEVER approaches girls with any real intent to try to holler at them. the most he'll do in a loud club is try to grab a girls hand just to give the illusion that he is trying to holler. Ive literally never seen him pull a chick in my life
- Is the guy that will automatically start talking about how there arent any fine women in the club or wherever we are and we've just merely stepped in the place
- has horrible oneitis when he finally does reconnect with a chick that he claims he used to kick it with in high school or whenever. NEVER meets new girls tho
- will literally lie about fucking chicks and will make up stories that most of my friends have acknowledged he is lying about with one another. none of us have the heart to tell him we know he is lying tho
- despite all of this, still tries to come off like he knows how to get women to the point that he will try to give you advice smh

His good points tho:
- is a hardworker when it comes to his job
- is loyal as fuck and will fight the whole club with you, just you and him, if it comes to that
- will give you his last if you really need it

It pained me to actually type this shit cause this dude is like my brother. I want to help him but I dont think his ego would allow it.

Post: #59

(03-21-2012 01:38 PM)theIVth Wrote:  It pained me to actually type this shit cause this dude is like my brother. I want to help him but I dont think his ego would allow it.

For sure. I have a few friends like this. I know we would totally slay pussy together but for one reason or another every time I subtly try to bring it up they don't seem into it. The only friend I talk about game stuff to has a girlfriend and always ends up winging for the guys with less/no game.

Post: #60

My friend that gets laid the least is actually a cool dude. Like he's really private and doesn't talk much about sex, its hard for him to express himself in that regard. He'll never talk about how nice it would be to bang a particular girl. He's straight and likes girls but doesn't have them as a priority supposedly. He says he wants more girls in his life but he doens't really do much about it but he doesn't seem depressed about it either. Its weird like he is asexual? He's 25 and all he has are 2 or 3 makeouts, a few blowjobs from his first and only girlfriend when he was 18 and one time his friend asked him to go to the whore house with him and he had sex with a hooker that one time.

Its kind of weird, even his brothers and other people sometimes wonder about it, makes it almost seem like its repressed and he'll go postal but then you talk to him and he's super cool, chill, smart, dedicated, has hobbies, totally normal above average looking dude that could definitely pickup but he just won't.

He's said a few times he's picky and he doesn't really think its that important for him. Its all a little weird to me.

Post: #61

(03-21-2012 10:44 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Well, here is mine...

- She is overweight
- Still virgin (tell me stories about ALMOST have sex, but I never met any men who had been with her)
- Has no style, only jeans and big T - shirts... No heels, and I ask her so badly to wear them. She says: I don't know how you can handle walk on these... I say: Start with small ones, then you get bigger and bigger, like these 15cm. LOL.
- Does not like to go out much, only with friends in a calm enviroment, parks, cinema, restaurants, no night clubs or bars and I know why: when we go to parties or places alike, all guys look at her with a "eeeeW" face. She gets a lot of attention, but I am sure it is not the one she wants. If I can see it... Imagine her.
- She is very sweet and feminine, a bit shy, but she is tall to brazilian standars (over 1.80 cm) and overweight (around 130 kg). My mom nicknamed her as sumo player (harsh, she is Japanese).

Take her to America, she'll do fine here!

Post: #62

Yeah, I know... She cooks wonders, she is very independant... But her lack of self steem kills any game possible.

Post: #63

(03-24-2012 07:25 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Yeah, I know... She cooks wonders, she is very independant... But her lack of self steem kills any game possible.

She could get laid if she wants. Women have the easy side of the hustle.

Post: #64

(03-24-2012 07:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(03-24-2012 07:25 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Yeah, I know... She cooks wonders, she is very independant... But her lack of self steem kills any game possible.

She could get laid if she wants. Women have the easy side of the hustle.

So many girls refuse to acknowledge this, even though deep down they know it to be true.

Post: #65

(03-25-2012 01:57 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

(03-24-2012 07:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  She could get laid if she wants. Women have the easy side of the hustle.

So many girls refuse to acknowledge this, even though deep down they know it to be true.

Yep. Simple denial.

I think it's a way of rationalizing their bangs.

i.e. "I'm really not the gatekeeper of access to my vagina, so I can't be responsible for fucking him!"

Post: #66

I don't hang out with dudes that don't get laid. They are going to salt your game in one way or another.

Post: #67

I don' know guys... You have issues in game, and we have ours issues in game too.

Post: #68

It depends on my social circle. I may, pathetically, be one of the best in some circles, but I'm definitely "that friend" with the two single guys I usually go out with. They are both very solid, especially for DC standards.

I liken myself to somebody who has a lot of Ferraris but can't even sell one. I have very high confidence in myself, but I have very low confidence in conveying this. I suppose that's what "game" is anyway.

One clear difference also is motivation factor. Although they both hook up with hotties sometimes, they also have no qualms about hitting on just about any halfway decent girl. Maybe its a pride issue, but i just don't follow along with it. I have a mediocre fuck-buddy also which I recently just told I'm going to stop sleeping with b/c she kills my motivation.

It could be just in my head, but I think DC is the kinda place the rewards dogged pursuit. I get laid pretty easily when I'm on vacation, and girls will chat me up constantly. My guess is both of these guys have fucked 100+ girls. I'm only around 40, but most of those were before I moved the DC.

I'm hoping they rub off on me, but it hasn't been working just yet.

Post: #69

The Virgin

-22 years old
-Girls tell me he's a GOOD looking dude
-One of the bros. Has no trouble fitting in, hilarious as hell. Good all around dude
-Has better fashion sense than most
-Seen him chat up numerous girls going out and gaming perfectly
-RICH!! Not his parents are rich, at 22 he is LOADED
-Comes to closing, can't do it

I have no idea how my buddy doesn't pick up all the time. Everyone I hang with can wheel And we all lost our virginity like 8 years ago. So I think he's so far behind in the ole sexual department, he is waiting for the "one." he's so embarrassed by being a virgin still cause all he sees is the bros getting laid every other weekend. Few weeks ago there was a solid 8 me and him were both gaming. I told him he could have her, but he had to take her home. He ended up going back to her place and NOTHING HAPPENED! Aske if he got her number and he said yeah. Won't phone her. I dunno how he can't pull the trigger. Tiny wiener? Hahah

Post: #70

(03-24-2012 07:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(03-24-2012 07:25 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Yeah, I know... She cooks wonders, she is very independant... But her lack of self steem kills any game possible.

She could get laid if she wants. Women have the easy side of the hustle.

girls with low self-esteem are a fucking draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaag.

she probably doesn't get laid because she's no fun.

Post: #71

My friend that gets laid the least...

smokes weed
stays home
unemployed
doesn't interact with women on a daily basis
complains
is depressed
is a pussy

Post: #72

(04-16-2012 01:15 PM)theoogabear Wrote:  

(03-24-2012 07:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(03-24-2012 07:25 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Yeah, I know... She cooks wonders, she is very independant... But her lack of self steem kills any game possible.

She could get laid if she wants. Women have the easy side of the hustle.

girls with low self-esteem are a fucking draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaag.

she probably doesn't get laid because she's no fun.

She is a great friend and as a person, but this is not what it takes to have a night stand. You need beauty, social skills...

Post: #73

Women do not need many social skills to get one night stands.

Post: #74

We need at least show interest. And even though can be hard.

Post: #75

I got a few friends that come to mind and some amaze me:

Getting laid the least:

- I got one friend back home who is a cool guy but tries way too hard with girls. He acts all tough around friends (we once got into a fight because he sucker punched me over anger that I was dating a girl he "didn't like (i.e. he was jealous I was getting some and he wasn't). but he tries to play the tough outside, soft inside thing and it doesn't work much for him. We wonder if he's ever been laid, he'll deny it and get pissed but it's true. He wants a girl so bad but can't get it done. I think he thinks the "Jersey Shore" style of doucheness works on chicks, but 1.) he's emo at heart and 2.) the chicks he goes for are drawn by money, muscles, and fake bravado, basically shallow whores. None of which he has.

- A real life Good Guy Greg, this another friend is super nice. He gets friend zoned all the time. He's real friendly, talkative, and girls flock around his nice humor but it's always friend zone. He'll do anything for people, he takes jokes on him in stride, and he always wants to help out. He seems content not getting laid but at same time we see him try and girls we know are just like "well he's a nice guy but..."

- Another dude is suave, has looks of a clothing model, is smart, and is classy. But he;s still crying over a chick who dumped him over 2 years ago. He can open a conversation with a chick no problem but usually gets friend zoned because he comes across over eager or too nice.

- Two other guys I know are good guys and smart but have zero looks and zero game. They both want to find a girl but have zero game and are both likely virgins. The one came out of his shell a few years ago and has some success getting friend zoned while the other gets funny when he drinks but girls find him creepy.

And the success stories:

- One friend had never kissed a chick and time he did the boyfriend came calling day after a party to try and kick his ass. I was a bad friend who swooped up chicks he liked multiple times right in front of him. I'm surprised he didn't' kick my ass back then. Fast forward about 7-8 years and he's finally in a stable band as a the frontman and while they are still just starting out, he now gets laid on a regular basis.

- One of my best friends is the biggest dick to most girls he knows. He'll make fun of them in ways that is borderline offensive, he'll blow them off, he'll call them dumb whores, he lives at home with rich parents and sometimes has a job. He dresses like a wigger from the late 90s...and yet he gets mad pussy. I beat him to the chase being "first" among our friends to get laid, and he was pissed when discovered I fucked a chick a week before he got the same girl...but even as we get older he still brings in fresh girls, he usually has 2-3 on rotation and always looking for another. For a while he was a wreck drinking and doing drugs and during that time he was scoring with no effort, now it;s a little harder but he still has a few chicks wrapped around his finger and always has one or two he's working. I have no idea how he does it, he demeans women like crazy but they can't wait to jump on his dick.