Post: #1

I've been in the community for a bit and not entirely without game.

Saturday afternoon, I number closed the cute girl who is reception for my hair salon by asking, "Why aren't you my girlfriend?" (a line from Zan) This was after some fun banter. She happily numbered up.

But the problem is actually the girl who I met Saturday night at the Carnegie Club in Manhattan. (it a high end cigar bar) She is Chinese, not sure that it matters... After I opened with something about my iPhone, we had a great convo... I told her I was going to Harlem on Monday and she said she had never been, hinting that she wanted to go. I said that I could call her tomorrow with details and she acted happy. She called my iPhone so I would have her number so I know it was a good number close.

She seemed to enjoy my occasional touches (nonsexual) during our conversation. I'll admit that after just meeting a man in a bar, agreeing to go to Harlem to a jazz club might seem quite adventurous. But I qualified her for being adventurous; she is into exciting things like skydiving etc...

When I called her on Sunday, she didn't pick up or return my calls.

Any theories as to why a woman would fake interest and keenly give her number. Do you think that she got home and realized that it would be too scarey to go out and meet someone she just met....

Thanks,

Dr. Dupree

Post: #2

It happens to all of us. Charge it to the game and move on.

Post: #3

Quote:Any theories as to why a woman would fake interest and keenly give her number. Do you think that she got home and realized that it would be too scarey to go out and meet someone she just met....

Validation rearing its ugly head...or her boss gave her shit because you number crunched her at her job (which does happen). Pick one, but the smart money is on option A.

Post: #4

Damn man, I got bad news for you.

Women flake hardcore. Numbers mean shit. NEVER go for numbers, always push for sex ASAP. Get her to some drinks after work, then back to your place for a bang. There are literally 100 threads on this subject, I would suggest doing some searching.

Post: #5

(03-05-2012 08:10 PM)Cousin Dupree Wrote:  I've been in the community for a bit and not entirely without game.

Saturday afternoon, I number closed the cute girl who is reception for my hair salon by asking, "Why aren't you my girlfriend?" (a line from Zan) This was after some fun banter. She happily numbered up.

But the problem is actually the girl who I met Saturday night at the Carnegie Club in Manhattan. (it a high end cigar bar) She is Chinese, not sure that it matters... After I opened with something about my iPhone, we had a great convo... I told her I was going to Harlem on Monday and she said she had never been, hinting that she wanted to go. I said that I could call her tomorrow with details and she acted happy. She called my iPhone so I would have her number so I know it was a good number close.

She seemed to enjoy my occasional touches (nonsexual) during our conversation. I'll admit that after just meeting a man in a bar, agreeing to go to Harlem to a jazz club might seem quite adventurous. But I qualified her for being adventurous; she is into exciting things like skydiving etc...

When I called her on Sunday, she didn't pick up or return my calls.

Any theories as to why a woman would fake interest and keenly give her number. Do you think that she got home and realized that it would be too scarey to go out and meet someone she just met....

Thanks,

Dr. Dupree

Did you guys kiss??

I'm wondering why the same people that gave me advice for the same situation aren't chiming in with, "did you go for the bang?"

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