Post: #1

Meet this girl a couple weeks ago at club. 5'9" filipina chick... Get her number and texted her the next week. Since vday was right there I was trying to not call her that day or set up a date then. I told her we would do something next week when i get back from LA. "monday ok?" "sure she says" I didn't really confirm this and was already seeing it as a flake. Never texted her until that day, "hey what time did we say today?" "oh im sorry something came up" "oh don't worry, there is a game on tonight anyways... how's thursday at 6:30?" "yes!! " she responds.

In the week after getting her number her text responses were coming at me seconds later, not minutes or hours. She was very responsive to me. I even called her once and had a lil convo before our date just to get some comfort.

Date comes and I ended up switching venues to a another bar because the lounge i told her to meet me at sucked ass. We get there and the conversation doesn't stop. Never lulled once. All the positive signs are there... body language is open, she is laughing, she's asking me questions. She must've asked how tall I was 4 times.

We walk to another venue and she has her arms folded and is shivvering. I put my arm around her and then say give me your arm. I unfolded her arms put one around me and held her in from the cold. I stop her and look directly at her put her arms around my waist and go in for the first kiss and pull away first.

Hit another bar and she pays for drinks. We play pool and she is flirtingly smacking my ass when im shooting. Later on she comes out of the bathroom and leans into me for support, puts her arms around me and we make out a lil. Teach her how to salsa dance and bending her over, while catching her in my arms. She mentions she has to be up by 5 and its now 10:30. I told her Yea i was trying to get out by 11 I have work too.

I walk her back to her car and tell her she can drive me back. Along the way I pick her up after talking about weight and height and she's easy to handle. Ended up making out on somebody's porch.

Walk to her car, back to my car and she texts me when she's home "Home. Had fun Tonight " I text her back: ";) me too... hit you up over the weekend" She responds: "sounds good have a good day at work gn ;D"

Ok 3 days pass and i call her sunday night. There is no answer... I didn't leave a message and just decide to text her the next day. Text her around 2pm... "hey vball girl, how was your weekend? 2 and a half hours later i get a very late response, very unlike her "Hey! Sorry, I forgot u called last night. I was knocked out! I was super tired after the tourney! And it was fun. got 2nd." An hour later i respond "Awesome... what's your schedule like this week? was thinking something fun wednesday night "

No response... Where did i go wrong?

Post: #2

Sounds like you could of used Tuth's guide. Why didn't you try to fuck that night?

Post: #3

Pssst...

Post: #4

(02-29-2012 12:06 AM)houston Wrote:  Sounds like you could of used Tuth's guide. Why didn't you try to fuck that night?

She mentioned she had to get up at 5am... me 7am... figured it went well and would push on the second

thx guys

Post: #5

That's when you tell her to make sure to set an alarm. You're assuming she's sleeping at your place.

(02-29-2012 01:28 AM)Manystyles Wrote:  

(02-29-2012 12:06 AM)houston Wrote:  Sounds like you could of used Tuth's guide. Why didn't you try to fuck that night?

She mentioned she had to get up at 5am... me 7am... figured it went well and would push on the second

thx guys

Post: #6

It really seems like going for the bang on first date is the only solution in existence. Even with the best game, the "bitches be crazy" still applies...

Post: #7

For one, too many emoticons. The final text response was probably too quick too. You might not be completely sunk in this situation, but the deck is heavily stacked in her favor because you've been pretty clear about communicating your interest via initiating contact repeatedly after not hearing from her. It seems unfair and stupid that these subtleties matter, but they do.

Are you seeing other girls? Spinning some plates really helps rid you of the urgency of contacting any one particular chick. This makes you flakier on texts, less committal about hanging out, and less eager to please. Girls will eat this up.

Post: #8

(03-01-2012 08:38 PM)Black Knight Wrote:  For one, too many emoticons. The final text response was probably too quick too. You might not be completely sunk in this situation, but the deck is heavily stacked in her favor because you've been pretty clear about communicating your interest via initiating contact repeatedly after not hearing from her. It seems unfair and stupid that these subtleties matter, but they do.

Are you seeing other girls? Spinning some plates really helps rid you of the urgency of contacting any one particular chick. This makes you flakier on texts, less committal about hanging out, and less eager to please. Girls will eat this up.

Last week I had 4 dates... LA for weekends to fuck this chick i know. Sooo... yes I am seeing others and trying to set shit up. I actually told a girl that i met valentines day the other day... "take care" after asking if tonight at 7pm was cool and she kept responding. "where" "what bar" and such. After i told her i never got a response. At this point if im not getting the response i want i just tell em nice knowing ya.

I texted a girl today that i haven't talked to in a month. She flaked the second date also. I told her that i was leaving in two weeks and we never got to hang out again. She hit me back with a "lets go to the shooting range!" so i have that for next week, supposedly.

The girl in the op, seriously i don't know wtf. Its a brainfuck... I'm going to call her tonight and if she doesn't answer just leave a message and thats it. What do you think i should say other than a, "hey haven't heard from ya... i know you had fun last time we hung out so lets do it again... call me" ?

And most of the emoticons were coming from her. The only emoticon i use is the "wink" thats it

i read a post on here about emoticons and exclamations points... something like Yeah! 1 she is friends with you Yeah!! she thinks your cute yeah!!! she wants to see you yeah!!!! she wants to fuck.. something like that... lots of exclamation points in her last text... didn't post everything 100%

Post: #9

(03-01-2012 09:59 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

(03-01-2012 08:38 PM)Black Knight Wrote:  For one, too many emoticons. The final text response was probably too quick too. You might not be completely sunk in this situation, but the deck is heavily stacked in her favor because you've been pretty clear about communicating your interest via initiating contact repeatedly after not hearing from her. It seems unfair and stupid that these subtleties matter, but they do.

Are you seeing other girls? Spinning some plates really helps rid you of the urgency of contacting any one particular chick. This makes you flakier on texts, less committal about hanging out, and less eager to please. Girls will eat this up.

Last week I had 4 dates... LA for weekends to fuck this chick i know. Sooo... yes I am seeing others and trying to set shit up. I actually told a girl that i met valentines day the other day... "take care" after asking if tonight at 7pm was cool and she kept responding. "where" "what bar" and such. After i told her i never got a response. At this point if im not getting the response i want i just tell em nice knowing ya.

I texted a girl today that i haven't talked to in a month. She flaked the second date also. I told her that i was leaving in two weeks and we never got to hang out again. She hit me back with a "lets go to the shooting range!" so i have that for next week, supposedly.

The girl in the op, seriously i don't know wtf. Its a brainfuck... I'm going to call her tonight and if she doesn't answer just leave a message and thats it. What do you think i should say other than a, "hey haven't heard from ya... i know you had fun last time we hung out so lets do it again... call me" ?

And most of the emoticons were coming from her. The only emoticon i use is the "wink" thats it

i read a post on here about emoticons and exclamations points... something like Yeah! 1 she is friends with you Yeah!! she thinks your cute yeah!!! she wants to see you yeah!!!! she wants to fuck.. something like that... lots of exclamation points in her last text... didn't post everything 100%

Just a lil update...

So another week goes by and I try and reach out to her again:

Call her and she goes "heeeyyy, whats up?!"
she was at the gym and i told her i'd call her back and she's finished and she says, "how about i text you..." I said cool... Nothing lol

I texted her 4 days later:
"hey we only hung out once and your playing hard to get already... whats up? If anything just keep in touch, you were a cool chick."

she responds with:
"Hi!! Sorry!! I have been soo busy and i keep forgetting to text u back! How are u!!? Ur leaving soon aren't u?"

I didn't respond til a couple hours later with
"Leaving tuesday... Lets talk tomorrow, g'nite"

Called next day, left a message no response lol

Post: #10

What a surprise. Woman flakes on man after giving him her number.


WHAT A SURPRISE!


Don't worry dude, keep going for numbers. Even though you'll waste hundreds of hours, I'm sure one of them will pull through!