Post: #1

So after finishing a year and a semester of community college (2nd semester here) I have applied to a lot of universities. I talked to admissions at UGA and they have pretty much said that I don't have to worry too much. Overall, I am sure I will be able to make it in as a transfer there.

Had great high school stats, got into Emory but could not afford it (35k a year after scholarships). Parents had a big say in it too, made me apply to the Ivies, rejected.

After much talk with my parents and much analysis, it is pretty much imminent that for my final 3 years of college I will be headed to UGA. (Will have to spend an extra year there of college)

Problem?

Three of my friends from high school went there and had a bad experience their first year. One Korean, One Black, and One Latino. All three are less outgoing and less social than me but they say that compared to Atlanta, Athens is a lot more "redneck".

I playfully asked my Black friend how much luck he has had in getting laid (met with three of my friends in the winter break), he took it seriously, gave me a serious look, and shook his head. In high school the three of my friends managed to hook up and fuck some girls soooo now I am shocked.

The word on the street is:

1. Sorority girls only date and get with White guys
2. Most interracial relationships there involve White men with non-White women
3. Only guys that get play there who aren't White are Black football players from some girls
4. Most girls (7 out of 10) are White, majority of the good looking girls are White

In high school, I did not have much trouble getting laid. Of course ATL is very diverse and such so I did not have to rely on White girls (though managed to get with them too) much.

Decided to see who on here could give some input. Btw im east indian if that means anything.

Post: #2

and I want to say that it was my last resort

in high school everyone tried to avoid the SEC culture

my teacher for history (White guy) went to UGA in the 80s, heard a lot of horror stories about race but it is 2012, something must have changed right?!

n I do want to say my three friends are a lot less outgoing, social, and way more conscious than me, I had more success than they did in high school

Post: #3

I went to an SEC school. I'm white, but I was an athlete so I think I can comment on the scene from what I saw with my friends.

1) There will most certainly be a subset of people, and a subset of girls, that will just not be very receptive. They may even be openly racist, but this is kind of rare. It's usually more 'polite to your face.' This is an unfortunate reality but, frankly, I doubt it's something you haven't experienced before.

2) With the majority of people and especially girls, you may have a slight uphill battle but you'll have a decent shot at inclusion/introduction to social circles/getting some play.

3) There will be another subset, about the same size as group 1, that will fetishize hooking up with a non-white guy; this will help you in a constructive fashion but may turn you off over time. Either way, you'll almost certainly have some serious interest if you generally do the things we should all be doing: dress well, hit the gym, etc.

In summary: don't let this shit worry you. UGA would be a ton of fun. Some of my most prolific friends were black dudes that carried themselves well, dressed well, and just were generally desirable dudes. Be one of those guys.

Post: #4

UGA is big enough that you'll find people who are open to socializing with anyone cool amidst the full-throttle racist crowd. You would have a much harder time at a slightly smaller SEC school...like Alabama or Ole Miss.

Post: #5

ya, I do consider that too

I mean it is no Florida but UGA in my opinion is better than a lot of the SEC west schools in this manner

Post: #6

Look man...I'm gonna give you some real colorful advice

Don't fucking worry about it....your there to get your certification so you can have access to professional jobs...you're what 20-21..you have a good 30-40 years of fucking white chicks (blacks don't age)...just get there and handle business and build connections...then head straight to Atlanta or where ever..I went to college in the mythological integrated north and my school was the same fucking way..."dry" school....I survived by jerking off, eating chico stix's, and reverse logisitcs with chicks i went to h.s. with...but I feel your pain but don't let that shit distract you from the bottom line...

Post: #7

(03-02-2012 05:23 PM)Caramel Communist Wrote:  Look man...I'm gonna give you some real colorful advice

Don't fucking worry about it....your there to get your certification so you can have access to professional jobs...you're what 20-21..you have a good 30-40 years of fucking white chicks (blacks don't age)...just get there and handle business and build connections...then head straight to Atlanta or where ever..I went to college in the mythological integrated north and my school was the same fucking way..."dry" school....I survived by jerking off, eating chico stix's, and reverse logisitcs with chicks i went to h.s. with...but I feel your pain but don't let that shit distract you from the bottom line...

well that isn't the mentality to go into a fight!

Post: #8

(03-01-2012 11:44 PM)hungario Wrote:  I playfully asked my Black friend how much luck he has had in getting laid (met with three of my friends in the winter break), he took it seriously, gave me a serious look, and shook his head. In high school the three of my friends managed to hook up and fuck some girls soooo now I am shocked.

The word on the street is:

1. Sorority girls only date and get with White guys
2. Most interracial relationships there involve White men with non-White women
3. Only guys that get play there who aren't White are Black football players from some girls
4. Most girls (7 out of 10) are White, majority of the good looking girls are White

Well, this fellow didn't last very long. Oh well. IRT strikes again.

Regardless, I wanted to respond to this as it resonates quite well with me. All four of these qualities are TOTALLY applicable to my school (Ivy League, Northeast, relatively small compared to SEC schools, quite fratty), with just some slight modifications:

1. Just about all of the girls, not just the sorority girls, only date and get with White and occasionally Asian guys. Actually, I'd say Asian guys do pretty well on my campus relative to other places. It is better to be asian (South or East, no matter) here than it is to be black from a purely romantic perspective. Not a lot of places where I can say that, but this is certainly one of them.

2. Most interracial relationships here involve White men with non-White women (this is the only place I've seen vastly more white male-black female couples than the reverse).

3. Black guys get very little play here, even the athletes. Part of this is just cultural. The sports blacks tend to play most (basketball and football) that are popular elsewhere get very little love here, and quite a few people just openly dislike them. The football fraternity is probably 3rd tier here.

Even at most middling state/private schools that aren't D1 (nevermind the frikkin SEC), football players get a lot of respect and people gravitate to their hang out spots. Not so at my Ivy-many avoid the football frat and the players. The Lacrosse, Soccer and Rugby houses are unquestionably at the top of the heap (hockey gets some love too). This is odd, since people elsewhere could care less about those sports, but here we invert the norm.

I know more than a couple of black All-Ivy team captains (I played football here, for the record) who graduated having never touched a white girl, and that wasn't for a lack of trying either. Exceptions exist, but they are very much not the norm. Even the guys who do relatively well with them here admit that its much harder for them to go interracial here than at home or on other campuses.

4. Most girls (9 out of 10) are White or Asian, majority of the good looking girls are obviously White or Asian. We have a few white latinas (cubans especially).

The black girl pool here is not very deep, certainly not as deep as it'd probably be at a good SEC school. Obesity is rife-for every genuinely attractive black girl you see, there will be 2 landwhales to compensate (and 1-2 girls who aren't fat, but are definitely unattractive facially or otherwise). Its rough. This definitely ain't Howard or Grambling.

This thread is probably dead due to Indian Race Troll activity, but I figured I'd add my two cents anyway. Make of it what you will.

Post: #9

Southern girls in the ATL area are not racist, and even if they are its rare(I have not seen or heard of it). Its funny how the PC environments like the Ivy Leagues and Toronto are way worse for IR dating and dating in general. People here are friendly as hell,

Guys of all types do well in Atlanta.

My black friend absolutely kills in ATL. I went to a club even in UGA and saw black dudes and Asian dudes doing well. If you join a frat you'll do well with anyone.

Dude Universities have ratios in favor of men so you'll be compltely fine. Also the black girls are hot here.

Post: #10

Oh and the black girls are hot as hell and ATL has a surplus of black girls looking for guys. I believe UGA also has a fair amount of black girls.

Post: #11

Partied at UGA a lot (had a friend who is an alumnus). My perspective.

UGA is a hell of a party school.They have a great downtown scene.

You can get fucked up, find a girl, and fuck that night, almost every night of the week.

I was in full beta mode during my times at UGA and got approached by lots of women.

Collegeranking websites have consistently put UGA near the top (or at the top) of schools where it is easiest to get laid.

A lot of girls their date inter-racially. You can get play if you are a black guy. Lots of brown guys getting down with tan white chicks (which is the vast majority of UGA students btw).

Oh yeah, there are a lot of house parties as well. Feel like I've made my point,but there is a reason UGA was the #1 party school in 2010, and #2 party school in 2011. It is a great party school.

That said, there are some considerable negatives.

For one, the segregation is very strong. Whites go to white bars, Indians go to Indian bars, etc. Of course, there is intermingling, but I got the sense that many Southerners from Georgia went there to relive the "Good ol days," of the South. My black friend mentioned he was never called the n-word until he went to UGA.

This is not to say that UGA doesn't have open minded cats. It does. However, you will know for a fact you are black when you go to UGA. That is for sure.

Second, tons of post-feminist girls. UGA is 70% hipster. I remember getting into a heated argument with a girl at a party because I openly declared I wanted to bang tons of girls. Thanks to the betaization of men, everyone at the party sided with her. She effectively took every guys nuts away at that party.

Three, the scene can get old really fast. Yeah, there are tons of bars, but you will get tired of going to The LOFT at the end of every night. It is routine for newcomers at UGA to kill it freshmen year and not go out all at all for sophomore and junior years. It takes about one year to get sick of partying.

Four, their football team, though recently improving, will always lose out on a shot at the BCS title so long as UF, LSU, and Alabama are in existence.

Five, the school, like any SEC school, lives and dies by football. When the team wins it is party central. When the team loses the downtown area looks like a ghost town.

I think the only reason to not go to UGA is because you can't stand football, don't like partying, and have no desire to be surrounded by a conservative/quasi-racist campus, or you have a pathological hatred of the UGA bulldawgs. Athens is not a city in the least. You will get used to your surroundings quite fast, and eventually, you will get sick of it. But yeah, if you are looking for the "college experience" you will find it there.

Post: #12

Go for it man, anything is better than a small private school or a community college.

Focus on your studies though. Don't get too sucked into the party scene, I have too many friends who are regretting that now. It's a really fine line.

Tennessee/Chapel Hill/UGA. All good places. I'm currently at one of the three. It just depends on what state you grew up in. Still the experience is pretty similar across the board. Don't worry about racism, etc. the student populations are large enough to have countless niches. Nobody will be outright racist, but I would say that most of the upper-class sorority girls will stick to their demographic. Is what it is.

If you have the work ethic to be able to study and work a job at the same time, by all means do it. You might be restricted in terms of being able to go out every weekend and get laid, but the advantage is that you'll graduate with a nice amount of $ saved up.

This comes in handy especially if you're moving to NYC after you graduate. Fucking expensive.

Post: #13

I attended two schools: The first one was a school that was for the most part racially integrated and had no qualms with IR dating/hookups. The second school was one that resembles UGA in all of the segregating, anti IR dating for minority males aspect. The pathetic fact is that the more integrated school was about 80% white, and the racist college was a "diversity touting" ACC school (only reason why I went to the second one was because it was more affordable to be in-state).

If I were you, my strategy would be the following:

-Major in a REAL subject that will guaran-damn-tee you a job anywhere in the country (and outside) without being in school for several years. At this point, I'd focus on either most engineering disciplines or an IT related major, i.e. computer science. After you graduate, only apply for jobs where you want to live in. You can even go to places way better than Atlanta. Whatever you do, DO NOT take majors that are easy (criminal justice, any sort of art or history major) or vague (economics, philosophy, communications). I wouldn't even touch business majors these days due to multiple factors.
-I'd keep reading up on gaming forums, putting those skills to use in Atlanta whenever you get the chance. Don't even waste your time in some Podunk place where the social system is setup against you from the get-go. It's just going to discourage you and question game techniques as a whole.

I can tell you from personal experience that if you're not going to be welcomed into the "social scene," then just avoid that scene altogether and kill it academically. You'll have plenty of time for pussy afterwards on much greener grasses. But whatever you do, DO NOT ever reach the level of feeling sorry for yourself over your college predicament. I'd wish I didn't feel sorry for myself, because all that did was lower my GPA average, receiving a mediocre degree (economics), and (still) being stuck in a racially segregated city.

All in all, it's 20-fucking-12, and at this point, if people aren't going to integrate, then they never will. Not that the Northeast is any better, but IMO, the only Southern States that are worth a shit (IOW, where the majority of people have gotten over the Civil Rights Movement) are Virginia, North Carolina, and Texas.

P.S.: What about Georgia Tech? Isn't that supposed to be the more studious public university in that state?

Post: #14

DRESS WELL, AND DRESS CLASSICALLY.

Girls first opinion of you will be heavily influenced by your clothes. Basically, wear a gray sports coat, a dress shirt, jeans, and black belt and black leather shoes that you would expect to see (but not necessarily be from) Banana Republic. This will help greatly lessen any differences because of your race, as well as make you look better dressed than 99% of the men at UGA.

DO NOT go for whatever you might think is the latest fashion. Hell, if you really want to make an impact, go all the way and buy the kind of suits Cary Grant used to wear. If you skip the tie, it won't look weird at all.

Post: #15

(03-02-2012 07:20 PM)torontokid Wrote:  Its funny how the PC environments like the Ivy Leagues and Toronto are way worse for IR dating and dating in general.

Ironic, isn't it? They definitely fooled me.

Post: #16

(03-04-2012 02:47 AM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

(03-02-2012 07:20 PM)torontokid Wrote:  Its funny how the PC environments like the Ivy Leagues and Toronto are way worse for IR dating and dating in general.

Ironic, isn't it? They definitely fooled me.

It's usually the places that claim they're so open minded and PC that have the worst racism. People don't go around preaching that shit if that's how they really feel, they just do it and you can tell its genuine. That smile in your face and talk shit behind your back racism is a lot worse than someone who let's it be known right away.

Post: #17

I think there are various reasons for this Houston.

I had a co-worker that was from somewhere North of Boston and he claimed all whites in the South were horribly ignorant racists, that he would forever be a hard core democrat/liberal and all the other filler that comes with blanket "liberal" type comments. After living in DC/NoVA area for about 6 months, he moved back to his 99% white haven. The problem was, as he put it, "..I just dont feel safe here with my wife and child with all of these muslims, latinos and blacks in the DC area..."

Now Im not trying to say that he was now justified in becoming a full fledged racist, but I will go ahead and say that he had to now see the not so ideal situation that sometime comes with living in a multi cultural area. I grew up with my share of black kids and while it wasn't always roses between the races, I learned to deal with it and how to cope with the diferent cultures (between the varying kinds of whites as well as different classes of blacks) and this was simply something that was alien to my co-worker. This guy had found it so easy to sit on his boat in cape cod and imagine life outside of his white country club existence. Once faced with real diversity he ran in fear.

Everyone knows about the uber liberal whitey who brow beats and judges other white folks for their "racist" behaviour while in his gated community and his kids in super private catholic schools.

Post: #18

Yep Rocco81, I know exactly what you're talking about. What can you do though. Life is to short to focus on stupid shit like that.

Post: #19

@Rocco: That's basically the attitude of nearly all twenty-something yuppies in every major city east of the Mississippi (as well as East-Coast-Carpetbagged SF and LA), and in most of those cases, many of them were covert racists to begin with.

But there is a two-way street. Most major cities always seems to have the worst examples of each minority as the majority of that group. Honestly, I think this was purposely done by the Federal Govt/elites to keep the races at each other's throats and minimize & discredit any sort of black success. I can admit for a fact that as a black person, dealing with typical DC black locals daily will make almost any non-black person become racist, or become self-justified in their racism. It's not PC and it's not right, but it's the cold hard truth.

My suggestion for any minority trying to "even the gaming ground" is to move to a place where your ethnic group is only present in the middle and upper income brackets, or a least a place where it isn't the city's de-facto lower class group. And this is much easier for Indians and Asians than it is for Latinos and especially blacks.

Post: #20

I find it hard to believe a black man on any university campus in America is going to have a hard time getting non-black pussy.
there is no one more exotic on a University campus than a black male. College or University is were the great majority of white females experience brothers for the first time.

Post: #21

"I went to a club even in UGA and saw black dudes and Asian dudes doing well."

Do you only consider them doing well if they're scoring Anglo Saxon/European pussy?..
That seems to be the idea I get from a lot of these threads!

Post: #22

(04-02-2012 10:20 AM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  "I went to a club even in UGA and saw black dudes and Asian dudes doing well."

Do you only consider them doing well if they're scoring Anglo Saxon/European pussy?..
That seems to be the idea I get from a lot of these threads!

I mean in general.

Of course, if you got to a school with 90 percent Caucasians you'll have to do well with them otherwise you're out of luck in terms of options.

Post: #23

(04-02-2012 06:41 AM)simer101 Wrote:  I find it hard to believe a black man on any university campus in America is going to have a hard time getting non-black pussy.
there is no one more exotic on a University campus than a black male. College or University is were the great majority of white females experience brothers for the first time.

- This is kind of funny....are you saying that there are so few black males in college it makes them "exotic" ?
- The "great majority" of white girls experience brothers in college? Where did you read or hear this? Also where are you from (honestly this could affect your answer's intention)

- Where I am from and I'm probably not alone here, there were tons of mixes of races all through high school and way before. There would be no chance a girl would just meet a black man for the first time on college campus..of course unless she's from Alaska and maybe attended school in LA or something.