Post: #1

this is the story. I picked up a girl at the street, in the evening. Got her phonenumber. Everything went quite well. Sent a text to her next evening. Very short (How r u?) She answers about an hour later. A quite long text. I anwer an hour later, just small talk.

Next day, in the morning she replies. Quite sweet. I wait with my answer to the evening. Tell her to come to a place and have a drink. She comes. I change location. Everything seems quite good.

Asked her if she wanted to kiss me. (Stupid I suppose.) She answered: I want to wait. Outside her she kisses me, intensely. "You will get more tomorrow"

Next day I text her and ask her if she wants to grab something to it. She answers an hour later:O no I forgot I had promissed to have dinner with my parents. This "girl" is good looking. I took her to be 27, but she told me that she was 30 something. Behaves like a little girl. I will not contact her again.
What went wrong?

Post: #2

NEVER ask a girl if you can kiss her. You should of just went for it.

Post: #3

Sounds to me like the OP made it about her (he initiates contact every time, gives her options, she's basically cockteasing) - and the girl got validated in the process. She was probably only interested in that in the first place.

Divnius, just keep your distance - if there's still something to be gained from the interaction, she will get back in touch. Maybe try with a "restart text" a week or so later - roosh wrote about that somewhere on his blog.

Post: #4

(03-07-2012 01:46 PM)calex Wrote:  Sounds to me like the OP made it about her (he initiates contact every time, gives her options, she's basically cockteasing) - and the girl got validated in the process. She was probably only interested in that in the first place.

Divnius, just keep your distance - if there's still something to be gained from the interaction, she will get back in touch. Maybe try with a "restart text" a week or so later - roosh wrote about that somewhere on his blog.

Restart Text from Roosh's Blog:
http://www.rooshv.com/the-restart-text

Post: #5

Thanks for your advice. Actually she texted me last week. Part of the problem is that I met the girl abroad. She knew that I was going to leave her home town two days after our date, although she also knew that I am going to visit the town later this spring. I came out a little bit too weak, a little bit too needy. In addition she was an ex-beauty miss, which might have given her a feeling of hight value from the outset.