Post: #1

Came across this article and has alot of valid points.

I see alot of dudes on this forum doing everything based on "what women like, will they approve, what kind of car to impress women and other nonsense.

And my theory has always been "who gives a fuck" seriously..just do what the fuck you want to do and you will attract they type of chick that fits your personality.

Check it out.


Stop Living For The Approval Of Women

Post: #2

(03-01-2012 12:57 AM)txbeachbum Wrote:  Came across this article and has alot of valid points.

I see alot of dudes on this forum doing everything based on "what women like, will they approve, what kind of car to impress women and other nonsense.

And my theory has always been "who gives a fuck" seriously..just do what the fuck you want to do and you will attract they type of chick that fits your personality.

Check it out.


Stop Living For The Approval Of Women

I actually don't see a lot of that at all. I see a lot of information swapping on how to bang women, not earn their approval. Big difference.

Post: #3

Indeed, I don't know where this is coming from.

Regarding topic title, no newsflash there.

Post: #4

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Post: #5

Make them start living for yours.

Post: #6

It's interesting that of the both words "approach" and "approval" have "app" in them. Seems like there's a lot of anxiety wrapped up in the "app."

Post: #7

(03-01-2012 02:49 AM)P Dog Wrote:  Make them start living for yours.

Well put.

Post: #8

(03-01-2012 01:18 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

(03-01-2012 12:57 AM)txbeachbum Wrote:  Came across this article and has alot of valid points.

I see alot of dudes on this forum doing everything based on "what women like, will they approve, what kind of car to impress women and other nonsense.

And my theory has always been "who gives a fuck" seriously..just do what the fuck you want to do and you will attract they type of chick that fits your personality.

Check it out.


Stop Living For The Approval Of Women

I actually don't see a lot of that at all. I see a lot of information swapping on how to bang women, not earn their approval. Big difference.

The difference between the forum and most guys is that we're comfortable with ourselves. We're not ashamed to say we want to bang attractive girls. And we will examine everything under the sun that lets us accomplish that.

Other guys will deny that they're doing something 'only to bang girls.' And then subconsciously, they will do just that. But it's usually in a sloppy, ineffective way because to do it properly, they'd have to analyze what they are doing. Which would mean owning up to their true intentions.

Cars are a good example. Guys have been convinced that driving a nice car is key to getting girls. But the evidence is pretty thin on the ground. Guys on here, if I've read the forum correctly, have been pretty skeptical of spending money on cars to get girls. The attitude is, if you want to spend money on cars, sure, go ahead, but if your aim is getting laid, there are more cost effective means available. Regular Guy is in denial that he's buying a car to get laid, and also believes that it will work.

And no, do what the fuck you want to do does not always work. Sometimes you just have to say fuck it, I'm only doing this to get laid.



You should be saying too, Stop Living For The Approval Of Other Men.

Post: #9

(03-01-2012 03:43 AM)basilransom Wrote:  

(03-01-2012 01:18 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

(03-01-2012 12:57 AM)txbeachbum Wrote:  Came across this article and has alot of valid points.

I see alot of dudes on this forum doing everything based on "what women like, will they approve, what kind of car to impress women and other nonsense.

And my theory has always been "who gives a fuck" seriously..just do what the fuck you want to do and you will attract they type of chick that fits your personality.

Check it out.


Stop Living For The Approval Of Women

I actually don't see a lot of that at all. I see a lot of information swapping on how to bang women, not earn their approval. Big difference.

The difference between the forum and most guys is that we're comfortable with ourselves. We're not ashamed to say we want to bang attractive girls. And we will examine everything under the sun that lets us accomplish that.

Other guys will deny that they're doing something 'only to bang girls.' And then subconsciously, they will do just that. But it's usually in a sloppy, ineffective way because to do it properly, they'd have to analyze what they are doing. Which would mean owning up to their true intentions.

Cars are a good example. Guys have been convinced that driving a nice car is key to getting girls. But the evidence is pretty thin on the ground. Guys on here, if I've read the forum correctly, have been pretty skeptical of spending money on cars to get girls. The attitude is, if you want to spend money on cars, sure, go ahead, but if your aim is getting laid, there are more cost effective means available. Regular Guy is in denial that he's buying a car to get laid, and also believes that it will work.

And no, do what the fuck you want to do does not always work. Sometimes you just have to say fuck it, I'm only doing this to get laid.



You should be saying too, Stop Living For The Approval Of Other Men.

Fucking attractive girls is not the problem but "examining or doing everything under the sun to accomplish that" is exactly what I'm talking about.

Basing your decisions in life about (car, clothes, job, how to stock ur bar, what traits they find attractive, should I learn to cook? And other bs dressed up as "game" about what women like or what impresses them or to "get laid" is still seeking their approval no matter which way you view it.

You still putting on a dog any pony show to get some pussy. Fucking attractive chicks should be a byproduct of your lifestyle not the focus!

Quote:Other guys will deny that they're doing something 'only to bang girls.'

Just because you ADMIT you doing it to fuck girls and "other" guys don't doesn't mean you both aren't doing the same thing, which is doing shit for approval to get some pussy. Same shit different toilet.

Quote:And no, do what the fuck you want to do does not always work. Sometimes you just have to say fuck it, I'm only doing this to get laid.

No maybe it just doesn't work for you.

There was just a post about guys getting plenty of play when they weren't looking "their best" ie coming from the gym, "hangover game", being sick etc and going out for a quick run to the store or stop by a bar for quick drink and end of fucking chicks without trying. You know why, cause women can smell that "fuck it attitude" in your system the guys for whatever reason were to focused on something else to care about getting laid, they wondering why isn't this guy part of the "I'll do anything to get laid" 80% crowd.

Like I said I noticed it with quite a few guys on the forum not all, so if it doesn't apply to you then it's to be ignored but if the shoe fits then get the fuck over it and wear it.

Quote:You should be saying too, Stop Living For The Approval Of Other Men.

You lost me on this one...but regardless I'm done talking about it.

Post: #10

To bang a girl, you don't get her approval. You get her to seek your approval.

EDIT: Stupid andriod... meant to rate this 1 star but the touch screen read 5 stars.

Post: #11

(03-01-2012 12:57 AM)txbeachbum Wrote:  I see alot of dudes on this forum doing everything based on "what women like, will they approve, what kind of car to impress women and other nonsense.

And my theory has always been "who gives a fuck" seriously..just do what the fuck you want to do and you will attract they type of chick that fits your personality.

100% agreeed Tex. Be warned that your don't give a fuck attitude (like mine) may be mistaken for arrogance by women in many countries where men are huge betas or lying, ass-kissing, orbiters. This of course, impacts her desire to bang you, so always have an adjustment knob.

Mixx

Post: #12

Quote:I see alot of dudes on this forum doing everything based on "what women like, will they approve, what kind of car to impress women and other nonsense.

Newbie forum doesn't count.

Post: #13

I've never seen guys talk about how to impress women. It's also ironic that Art of Manliness would run an article like this considering some of their past work:

52 Love Note Challenge
Cheap Dates She'll Love
Do's and Don'ts of a Dinner date
Apologising like a man
The ultimate guide to buying the perfect engagement ring
Supplicating break up advice
The case for marriage

AoM is a guide to trying to please women.

Post: #14

(03-02-2012 01:07 PM)dulst Wrote:  I've never seen guys talk about how to impress women. It's also ironic that Art of Manliness would run an article like this considering some of their past work:

52 Love Note Challenge
Cheap Dates She'll Love
Do's and Don'ts of a Dinner date
Apologising like a man
The ultimate guide to buying the perfect engagement ring
Supplicating break up advice
The case for marriage

AoM is a guide to trying to please women.

Jeez-just the titles are horrible (except the cheap date one)

I won't click on the links- it might induce projectile vomiting

Post: #15

(03-02-2012 01:07 PM)dulst Wrote:  I've never seen guys talk about how to impress women. It's also ironic that Art of Manliness would run an article like this considering some of their past work:

52 Love Note Challenge
Cheap Dates She'll Love
Do's and Don'ts of a Dinner date
Apologising like a man
The ultimate guide to buying the perfect engagement ring
Supplicating break up advice
The case for marriage

AoM is a guide to trying to please women.

Post: #16

Yeah, who cares that a woman wants an alpha. If you are comfortable being an omega who just beats off to hentai, then do that. You won't be getting any bang, but at least you will be comfortable with yourself. Those anime girls don't ever judge.

Post: #17

I should add as a caveat that the breakup one is actually called "how to break up like a man", but the advice within is standard shit about "making it work".

Post: #18

Why are you so hostile? You're not even arguing, you're just making a bald assertion over and over.

Hell, why are you even on these forums? The general take on seduction here is that you must approach women to get laid consistently. Approaching women is not just 'living your life.' If it were, many more men would be doing it.

Why is going after what you want a bad thing? I didn't say make it the focus in your life. Just devote time expressly to getting girls, because your other activities aren't getting you enough.

I would probably go to bars less if there were no pussy payoff for going. Why is it such a sin for me to go to bars to get girls? You seem to have this bizarro Puritanical mindset that many girls have, that explicitly pursuing pussy is A Bad Thing. And they usually think that because getting laid for them requires zero effort.

Besides, wanting to impress a woman and wanting to arouse her are different things. The Roosh V Forum is a little different from the Art of Manliness.

Post: #19

This article is basically along similar lines to the book "No More Mr. Nice a Guy."

Post: #20

Sorry OP but your argument is bullshit. You're basically saying that if I want to be a fat, badly dressed slob who only hangs out with his other badly dressed overweight friends and doesn't approach girls then I should still get plenty of girls and not only that, but attractive ones. All because I don't give a fuck.

AS. IF.


As others have already said. This forum is not about doing what women approve of. If that were the case we'd all be complete gentlemen talking about what romantic gesture we can do next to woo our lovely ladies who we respect and value so much.

In fact I'd argue it's the opposite, it's about doing what is effective to get into a womans pants. That is why PUA's cop so much flak from Feminists.

Post: #21

I think to a certain extent you shouldn't live your life seeking approval from women, but in other instances it's a must. It's like what I tell my friends, you have what it's suppose to be and you have real life. And in real life most men, whether they admit it or not seek approval of women. No matter if it's buying a nice car/clothes or acting alpha.