Post: #51

^^^what are some solid ways a man can flip it so a girl is qualifying herself? Presupposing a man is limited in his outward awesomeness, or at least thinks so.

Post: #52

DO:

Go to China

DONT:

Stay in China

Post: #53

(02-29-2012 09:52 PM)Leónidas Wrote:  -Don't say personal information but make her talk
-Don't ask her number
-Don't ask questions, just make assumptions even if they're wrong

To add to the questions, while I agree for the most part, if you say "you must be a fashion student," and she dabbles into her clothing and how she likes a particular style, it's always good to ask why? Ask why she like that, or why she likes whatever she is personally fond of.

It subconsciously challenges her; don't over do it however.

Post: #54

DON'T

-Become a spectator in a conversation. Either steer, contribute, or exit.

-Nod during a conversation.

-Allow anyone to speak for you or about you while you are present.

-Enter any room for the first time without announcing your presence by saying "Hey" to everyone nearby

-Leave any room for the day without announcing..

-Eat junk. Eat complex carbs, lean protein, fruit and veggie. That's it.

-Lean in.

-Forget to work your back

-"Don't write what you can say, don't say what you can nod, don't nod what you can wink"

-Hesitate to show disapproval to someone with authority. Go out of your way for this. Calibrate after the fact.


Do

-Wake up first/Start the day early

-Pepper in a back-turn every so often

-Make solid eye contact and genuinely ask every cashier you speak to how their day is going (change someone's day everyday)

-Find a sustainable supplement stack that makes you feel good (zinc, creatine, multivitamin, fishoil)

-Symmetry

-Push-pull

-Remember, if it doesn't benefit you it doesn't exist.

-Be first to end a conversation/move on to something else.

Post: #55

- Game and pick-ups are 100 % about you 0% About Women: Work to build an attractive lifestyle that offers value to women, instead of coming from the perspective of constantly trying to suck value from women.
-Push to the point of failure. Then you rest, analyze, learn from it, and go at it again. This is growth. It takes time.

"Such a waste of talent. He chose money over power. In this town, a mistake nearly everyone makes. Money is the Mc-mansion in Sarasota that starts falling apart after 10 years. Power is the old stone building that stands for centuries. I cannot respect someone who doesn’t see the difference."
Frank Underwood [House of cards]

Post: #56

Don't
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deny marriage. My first meeting I had a strange feeling that I was going to end up marrying my girlfriend, I told her outright that I was going to marry her, just before we had sex. If you want to make a wife loyal you have to give her a bit of confidence that you'll stick around for more than just a bang.

Then again my wife was a Chinese virgin so in that case

DON'T DO THIS WITH WESTERN WOMEN.

Do
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Watch Pirates of The Caribbean... women love guys like Cpt. Jack Sparrow. If you can embody some of his traits, girls will eat out of the palm of your hand.

Try thinking out of the box.

Walk the Earth as if you were an Epic Level adventurer when you hold that attitude, you may eventually be called upon to do Epic level things. It sounds like bullshit but for some reason, when you make yourself a certain way the world corresponds in kind.

Openly help others, people notice that, especially women. You'll make more friends, never feel depressed and always have something 'going on'. What goes around, comes around... it always does, all the time.

Do only what you REALLY like, be true to who you are: If you like video games, play them. If you like reading romance novels, DO THAT but be proud of it and if someone calls you out for it, tell them where the fvk to go. Men and women love a confident man. A friend of mine recently lost an opportunity with a girl because he pretended he was too cool for video games... just so happens that SHE loves them. When he tried to re-neg and 'get her back' she thought he was just a liar trying to impress her... be true to yourself, when you love what you do awesome will always shine through.

Create your own luck. Don't rely on the lottery of life to put opportunities before you and if you manage to get really lucky and one does pop up, TAKE IT. Let me tell you, I have offered my hand to more people than I can count and VERY few have ever taken me up on the offer. The one's who did are still reaping the benefits.

Don't second guess yourself, when the opportunity presents itself, do it..
- The Secret


These may seem counter 'game' but as long as you don't let women hold any power over you, then you are truly free to do as you please. You will define what is cool and women won't be able to understand the power you have over them.

I like the movie Labyrinth, its got a good message. Don't take anything for granted and really very few things have true power over you. When you need them, you'll have friends to help you but ultimately you've got to face stuff alone. Nothing has any power over you, unless you let it... well women and society anyway.

Post: #57

Do

- Learn how to spank with both hands
- Get strong legs & hips

Post: #58

Don't settle into an LTR before you become competent at game.

That's the equivalent to taking two steps foward then driving half a mile backwards.

All your progress will be washed down the drain. The Beta Wraith will seize control of your mind and you will be forced to essentially 'relearn' game when your LTR inevitably fizzles out.

Just don't do it.

Post: #59

Based on the most common mistakes I see men with poor game making (85% of men)

Don't lean in

Don't talk too fast, excitedly or high pitched

Don't get that gooey, overly broad smile on your face

Don't ask "interview" factual type questions until you get to the comfort/screening stage and even then minimize them

Don't buy a girl a drink early in the interaction

Don't answer direct questions directly-be vague, evasive, or funny

Don't face the girl directly early in the interaction

Don't put your hands in your pockets or behind your back

Don't speak first to the girl in a group who is your target if you can avoid it

Don't be eager to please

If you just avoid these basic mistakes, you'll be way ahead of most guys

Post: #60

This thread is gold.

Overall I think a true "alpha" is relaxed 99% of the time, which of course implies not talking too fast (while still being outgoing) as several members have mentioned. That's my main problem IMO. As a high energy guy, I sometimes find it hard not to switch to monologue mode and speak really quickly. It's a big sign of weakeness, but I'm getting better at avoiding it.

Post: #61

(08-20-2014 12:18 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Based on the most common mistakes I see men with poor game making (85% of men)

Don't lean in

Don't talk too fast, excitedly or high pitched

Don't get that gooey, overly broad smile on your face

Don't ask "interview" factual type questions until you get to the comfort/screening stage and even then minimize them

Don't buy a girl a drink early in the interaction

Don't answer direct questions directly-be vague, evasive, or funny

Don't face the girl directly early in the interaction

Don't put your hands in your pockets or behind your back

Don't speak first to the girl in a group who is your target if you can avoid it

Don't be eager to please

If you just avoid these basic mistakes, you'll be way ahead of most guys

Excellent points very well put.

From a 10,000 foot perspective I'd say above all don't ever, ever be a 'needy' guy. Women hate that shit.

Post: #62

DO:

Approach girls. Approach, approach approach

DONT:

Dont fucking clam up like a deer in the headlight when a girl approaches you.
I'm guilty of this today. Among a shitstorm of bitchshield, approach anxiety and flaking, being approached by a girl might catch you totally off guard.

Post: #63

(08-23-2014 06:17 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  DO:

Approach girls. Approach, approach approach

DONT:

Dont fucking clam up like a deer in the headlight when a girl approaches you.
I'm guilty of this today. Among a shitstorm of bitchshield, approach anxiety and flaking, being approached by a girl might catch you totally off guard.

This happened to me on Thursday. I went to the mall and did a few approaches that were mostly met with "I'm married or I have a bf" (I forgot to look for rings) Anways I walk into the Vans store and this super cute girl with braces opens me with "wow your eyes are just amazing" and she starts giggling. I fucking froze up like a bitch and said "Thats what all the girls say" and then I walked off and didn't even go for the number. I fucking laid in bed that night thinking some other fucker is nailing that juicy young pussy tonight because I'm a bitch.

Post: #64

I don't think what to do when approached has been discussed much on this forum but it should be

As your game, including your body language,style and the people you are seen with improve, girls will approach you a lot more often

The best rule I have found is to dial back on the cocky/funny and definitely no asshole

Remember, when a girl approaches you she is "putting herself out there" even more so than a man and she is not used to rejection like a hardened player is.

She will interpret any negs or asshole attitude, or even too much cockiness as a rejection and will slink away and you are very unlikely to be able to repair the damage

Confident, friendly beta is the best approach here. Remember, she's already strongly attracted or she wouldn't have approached. Maybe even throw in a little humility or vulnerability if it seems right