Post: #1

THIS POST IS FOR A FRIEND OF MINE. He's going to make an account here. He's 22. First time poster here and wanted to get some expert opinion. In 2010 met a cute girl at a social event, talked for a bit and decided to keep in touch. I didn’t do much until recently mainly because:
I’m a huge noob when it comes to gaming chicks
I was in university taking classes in another city about 1.5 hours away
When I met her she was 15 (the legal age here is 16)

So in 2011, she turned 16 and recently decided to push my luck further and since January we got closer and closer, met up with her a few times and I thought we were pretty compatible. She dropped plenty of hints she wanted to get with me so last Saturday I met with her and made a move. After hanging out and pulling in her driveway, we start making out, decided to move in the backseat and things escalated but she wasn’t down for a blowjob or anything so waste of time.


I said whatever and talked with her, she agreed that we should continue seeing each other. Now, here’s the kicker. I used to talk with her every day then she ignores me for 2 days until Monday when she decides to drop this bullshit excuse bomb: “I realized that I’ve been jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend and I need some time alone to solve my issues.”


Now, I know she’s 16 and don’t expect much from girls this age so I was like fine, whatever but I left and deleted all contact with her (messenger, fb, numbers, etc.) because I figured it would be a waste of time continuing to keep in touch.


My question is what would you guys do from here? I was thinking of letting things cool off for a few months, do my own thing, then get in touch again. Any recommendations?

Post: #2

Oneitis. If you have at least 2-3 girls in your rotation that you're actually fucking you wouldn't be posting about this one. Blow her off for 3 months and go chase other girls.

Post: #3

(02-11-2012 03:34 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Oneitis. If you have at least 2-3 girls in your rotation that you're actually fucking you wouldn't be posting about this one. Blow her off for 3 months and go chase other girls.

+1

Also your friend shouldn't be taking to that girl every day unless he's getting it every day.

Post: #4

Making an account here takes all of what, 5 minutes tops?

Anyway, I've had this happen before and I used to take it personally. Then a friend of mine pointed out to me, "Why do you care? You already banged her, you got what you wanted, you won." Since then I've stopped caring after I get the bang. In fact, I almost prefer to cease communication after I've slept with a girl, because there's so many other girls to experience.

Tell your friend to relax, not worry about it, and that he doesn't get another notch for banging her a second time.

Post: #5

yea, I don't know why he didn't make an account on here and post it himself. I didn't question him on that. Maybe cause he thought he'd be flamed if that was his first post. He didn't get the bang. He got a makeout and feeling up session only.

Post: #6

Oh I'm sorry, I thought he did bang her. Regardless, she's 16 her behavior will likely be extremely erratic at that age and isn't worth the time investment. Tell your friend to forget her.

Post: #7

Yea hes going to. He said he couldn't make an account because he gets the message that accounts can only be created on the first day of every month.