Post: #1

Fellas,

First, it's a pleasure to be part of the community. I've been off the market for ~6 years, but am actively relearning how to be a bachelor. So far I have enjoyed all the beginner's luck that Roosh talks about in "Bang." It's so easy to improve when you're starting from zero.

I seem to have identified my niche, which is a more educated kind of girl. Unfortunately, the kind of woman I'm attracted is a textbook bombshell. Believe me, if I could change it, I would. Apart from purchasing some hair gel, whitening my teeth, and dressing like a douchebag, I'd like to know how to improve my success with blonde bimbos and superficial bitches. Unfortunately, my humor, which usually works to my advantage, goes right over their heads. Tried to post an image, but it will have to wait until post #10.

Ultimately, I'd like to have success with all genres and flavors, but for right now, this is where I'd like to break out. Your guidance is much appreciated -- hope to be giving something back once I have a little more field experience.

Post: #2

Ludovico Technique yourself with Jersey Shore re-runs

I'd find a spot where those kind of girls are plentiful and watch the dudes in there that do well with them. Get tight with a couple of the guys, but some drinks, ect.

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Post: #3

Welcome to the forum brotha. Good first post topic.

I'd probably say brush up on your stripper game and hit up the strip clubs and casinos. Lotsa girls like that in those venues. Probably some decent threads on here that cover that.

Post: #4

In short: Up the asshole and cockiness on the "party girl" type. Tone it down for the smarter or "indie" ones.

Post: #5

(02-03-2012 01:36 AM)HawkUnit Wrote:  Unfortunately, my humor, which usually works to my advantage, goes right over their heads.

I get this all the time. I dare say I have great wit and oratory skill but when I'm speaking passionately some of these dumb bitches just get a blank look on their faces and go "huh?". Some even have the gall to say something like "you talk weird", it takes the patience of an angel not just to punch these girls.

What I did was that I started calibrated and dumbed down my dialogue. the topics had to be induced with pop culture references along the lines of jersey shore and similar. And yeah it worked, it gives you moist relief. Years down the line however I feel hollow inside when I do something like this, which is why I just keep to the smarter chicks these days. If I can't have fun when I'm meeting chicks then the pussy isn't worth it for me. Then again, if I hadn't had my share of bimbos then I might not have felt this way.

Post: #6

You need to have a lot of passive attraction switches to attract them. All of the suggestions above are somewhat active (i.e. you have to run some game to get them attracted to you). What I am suggesting is to have that great body, that nice clothes, the status, etc as much as you can. To attract superficial girls, you need to be "superficial" too.

Post: #7

I believe, if you want to make yourself more attractive to theses types of chicks, you need to create the image and back it up that you are a player. So it means having a cool pad, nice car, good clothes, work on your game, and be cocky and aggressive. Try to surround yourself with buddies who also are like this so they can wing you in clubs or at day game, and chicks notice who you hang out with. I live in a somewhat superficial city (LA), so I know what this can be like. I tried to stay grounded that and not attract these kinds of girls always by traveling, and meeting chicks who are not from here. Personally, you can have these types of girls, but they are not my type unless its a ONS..... Good Luck !

Post: #8

(02-05-2012 09:44 PM)Raoul Wrote:  You need to have a lot of passive attraction switches to attract them. All of the suggestions above are somewhat active (i.e. you have to run some game to get them attracted to you). What I am suggesting is to have that great body, that nice clothes, the status, etc as much as you can. To attract superficial girls, you need to be "superficial" too.

In retrospect it seems like a stupid question to ask. If you want to be attractive to people that are superficial, you need to load up on superficial qualities as mentioned above.

I've had more hits with a cocky demeanor, but really, I can't bring myself to go in for a faux hawk or purchase a tanning salon membership, not to mention it's going to be a few years before an Audi is sitting in my drive way. It's a shame: I suppose that investing that much into one's appearance can only result in neglect of the other areas.

There is some really good advice above; I am much obliged to you all.

Post: #9

In my experience if you can actually make a connection with them beyond the superficial level it will go a long way. Also make sure you describe your crazy ex who was just like them.

Post: #10

(02-06-2012 12:50 PM)babelfish669 Wrote:  In my experience if you can actually make a connection with them beyond the superficial level it will go a long way. Also make sure you describe your crazy ex who was just like them.

That's actually a really great platform to introduce a subtle neg of whatever flavor you like:

"... she relied WAY too much on her looks too."
"... her opinion of herself was REALLY high, too <smirk>"
"... couldn't afford gas, but she had a Coach purse for her iphone."
"... thought that being a model meant she could get away with ANYTHING."

Thanks man.

Post: #11

Actual personal stories about when an ex did something dumb have gone over well for me once the girl is already finding the conversation funny.

Calibrate the stories to her, and of course, being a robot won't work with a girl this experienced.