Post: #1

Hey guys, I’ve been lurking around from time to time on the forum, but it’s my first post here. I need some advice.
introduction: I'm 22, I’ve been in a relationship with a girl I hooked up with in high school for three years. It was good, but I was depending way too much on her so I ended the relationship. After that I moved abroad, started living my own financially and emotionally independent life and things are looking better and better. Now it’s time to score some, cause since a couple of weeks of banging this spring I haven’t had any for three years. I've been reading Roissy for more than a year now and Roosh lately.
Te situation: I am living in a hostel for university students and people move a lot around, they are also pretty much international folk. I've been living here for two years now and - except for some minor actions - haven't lived with the golden opportunity of score some easy meat who drops by, so now I decided I'm gonna give it a go. There is a new chinese chick around, she is slim and kinda cute, but somewhat reserved and she probably haven't had much experience with men yet. We got some good vibes going on, I get to meet her often because we share the same kitchen and I got her involved in playing an asian board game with me so we play from time to time in each others' rooms. It’s all nice and whatever, but... what now? Except for some kino and defining some sort of frame for myself I haven’t done much game to her.. how could I shift this situation into the realms of hot sex? I don’t mind going into a relationship with her - I might be mistaken, but I’m quite sure she’s the relationship type-o girl, coming from ~conservative morals. So that’s it.. I’m thinking of maybe asking her out to go to a museum in town.. but still it beats me how to let her know I’m interested in her/ to build up sexual tension with her. That's it, I've been around for some time now so I feel I need to make my move.

Post: #2

be brave and get in there before your in the friend zone.....
conservative chinese girl could possibly be a tough nut to crack though,especially if she's a good christian girl(lots of chinese are).
is there a language barrier?
i have had a thing for asian women forever and have had virtually no luck in that area myself.
im sure some of the more experienced playas on here could give you an insight into this particular field.

Post: #3

(09-27-2011 05:51 PM)Aske Wrote:  I’m thinking of maybe asking her out to go to a museum in town.. but still it beats me how to let her know I’m interested in her/ to build up sexual tension with her. That's it, I've been around for some time now so I feel I need to make my move.

The longer you wait the more likely the chances you'll be friendzoned. Ask her to the museum and get drinks after.

Post: #4

or tell her you really wanna learn how to cook chinese food and ask her to teach you.
pick up some ingrediants at the fresh food markets together,grab some wine,back to your place,get your cook on.......escalate from there dude.....good luck and report back.

Post: #5

(09-30-2011 02:39 PM)bez Wrote:  or tell her you really wanna learn how to cook chinese food and ask her to teach you.
pick up some ingrediants at the fresh food markets together,grab some wine,back to your place,get your cook on.......escalate from there dude.....good luck and report back.

This. Have a bottle of wine at the ready. Ask her to show you how to make Chinese Dumplings (potstickers). When she's showing you how to roll them, it'll be a good time to make body contact. If she's responds well, continue escalating. And if you're close to the ATL, have her make me some too. And some General Tso's chicken cause I'm hungry.


edit: Shit. Almost forgot. Siopao too with asado. It takes a long time to make and will give more time in the kitchen w/ her.

Post: #6

In my experience most traditional asian girls will give you a lot of rope before you get friended. It's due in part to the lameness of most asian guys and their overbearing fathers. I'm not saying to become a beta, but the need for "game" as you would on an American chick isn't necessary.

My advice would be to show her your smart side and just keep escalating. Try to get some alcohol in her, but don't force the issue. Turn on a movie or something and start touching her. That should do it dude.

Post: #7

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Post: #8

Hey guys, thanks for all the feedback. There is no language barrier between us, though from time to time I have to repeat myself and explain specific words for her. For the cracking of the nut... I tried the wine route connected to the kino (before I posted here actually), she didn't react well, even somewhat tipsy she was rather uncomfortable with me touching her.. so the final solution I came up with is to actually go old school and ask her out "as for a date". It didn't happen though and maybe won't even happen because I have an another project going on at the moment, I know I'm letting you down but now I'm gonna skip this old school diehard road with the unexperience chinese chick - I'm pretty sure she's still a virgin, she's 24 yo (it feels like you're talking to a 17 years old girl though) - so I'm gonna focus on the other girl. Let's see how it goes, if the other - Lithvenian - girl doesn't work out in the end I will give a go to the chinese one. Cheers!

Post: #9

(09-27-2011 05:51 PM)Aske Wrote:  Hey guys, I’ve been lurking around from time to time on the forum, but it’s my first post here. I need some advice.
introduction: I'm 22, I’ve been in a relationship with a girl I hooked up with in high school for three years. It was good, but I was depending way too much on her so I ended the relationship. After that I moved abroad, started living my own financially and emotionally independent life and things are looking better and better. Now it’s time to score some, cause since a couple of weeks of banging this spring I haven’t had any for three years. I've been reading Roissy for more than a year now and Roosh lately.
Te situation: I am living in a hostel for university students and people move a lot around, they are also pretty much international folk. I've been living here for two years now and - except for some minor actions - haven't lived with the golden opportunity of score some easy meat who drops by, so now I decided I'm gonna give it a go. There is a new chinese chick around, she is slim and kinda cute, but somewhat reserved and she probably haven't had much experience with men yet. We got some good vibes going on, I get to meet her often because we share the same kitchen and I got her involved in playing an asian board game with me so we play from time to time in each others' rooms. It’s all nice and whatever, but... what now? Except for some kino and defining some sort of frame for myself I haven’t done much game to her.. how could I shift this situation into the realms of hot sex? I don’t mind going into a relationship with her - I might be mistaken, but I’m quite sure she’s the relationship type-o girl, coming from ~conservative morals. So that’s it.. I’m thinking of maybe asking her out to go to a museum in town.. but still it beats me how to let her know I’m interested in her/ to build up sexual tension with her. That's it, I've been around for some time now so I feel I need to make my move.

One thing is know is whether she's from Taiwan--girls from there have a reputation for being the easiest ethnic Chinese in the world.

If she's from the mainland (with the exception of Shanghai) and/or Christian as another poster mentioned, it might be very tough.

As another poster stated however, with Chinese (or Asian) girls you don't really need much game anyway, if you're friendly already (and she doesn't have a boyfriend or think you're gay). Just take her to a nice meal, or go to a romantic movie and ask her what she thought of it afterwards (or probably better yet rent one and watch it together), etc., and make a gentle move (kiss) when you're alone and escalate from there.

(And like with most women, if she freaks out and tells you she's not interested in you that way, just head home and let things cool off for a while. Then [after a couple weeks] recontact her and ask her to something like coffee or tea. If she shows up looking nice [makeup, hair done, unusually nice clothing] it means she changed her mind and is willing to go for it, if not she probably doesn't.)

Post: #10

Well, if he hasn't banged her by now, he is DEFINITELY deep into the friend zone lol. Check the dates before you respond to threads you dig up bro.

Post: #11

If she's attracted to you (and only you will be able to discern this), just slowly ramp up and make small kino moves (hand holding, whispering into her ear etc) before going for the kiss. You really don't run American-style Game (negs, excessive DHV, AMOG, numerous other acronyms) on Chinese girls; if you look good, treat her reasonably well and move when she gives you an open, that should be sufficient. I am baffled by how many Chinese couples there are, that have been dating for a decent chunk of time (1 year +) that aren't fucking.

However, do none of this in public; I've had Chinese girls ask me to turn around when they got dressed moments after I had finished fucking them...you can see how I would find this strange.

If she's Chinese and you are white, you have substantially more headway than you realize, but that doesn't mean you should lag on shit.

Post: #12

There's still a giant social stigma on pre-marital sex. Hell.. My mum would give me a good lecture if she knew the shenanigans I am doing these days.

It'd be helpful if you kinda let us know your location and where she is from (Mainland China, Taiwan, HK, SG, M'sia, Indonesia, ABC, CBC etc..).