Post: #1

SNAPSHOT:
I am close to having a rotation here and it's getting complicated, not always in a good way. At a pudgy late-50s, it's been really hard to break in to 7.5/8 levels, which for me here in Phils means under 23 as they fade fast.

I've been working really hard with a rather dim-witted but lovely girl-- tall, with a thigh gap and perfect skin-- it's hard to get all three here.

She's reserved, but agreed to my surprise to a second date after my first date attempt to get her over my apartment failed completely.

After I set up the date, I was cleaning my apt, and texting her and another girl and...you know the rest.

Misdirected a highly sexual test obviously meant for the Other Girl , and man...-- All I can say is when she was in a jealous rage she was even hotter.

Tried and tried to patch things up but no go... all from simply not noticing who I was texting.

"Liar." was her verdict.

I thought-- is there an app that changes each text chain's background color to help prevent them getting mixed up, but.....too late now...

It's rather nice to graduate to slimeball, however.

Post: #2

Tough break, though I would be surprised if this hasn't happened to almost everyone here at one time or another

It's easier to play it off when it's a borderline flirty text, but when you're in the middle of icebreaker chat with a new prospect and you inadvertently fire off one of those patented 'Can't wait to bend you over the couch', it's pretty much a wrap

Post: #3

IKE, she is insulted and her girl pride is wounded. But her knowing you're a player and can be very sexual is not all bad. She'll be thinking about you...

Give it a little time, a week or even two, then try to restart her with a brief but flattering text. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her (especially if that's true to any extent... if you've long since forgotten her and moved on no need to bother). She'll know you're fucking other girls but still thinking about her, and she will be flattered to the depth of her heart and pussy.

It's not very likely to work but it's by no means impossible and worth a try.

Post: #4

That sucks man and it has happened to me couple of times.

What kind of phone do you have? iPhone or Android?

Post: #5

HAH....I've haven't lost a girl...yet. I have an iPhone and I never save girls numbers, I've almost been fucked over a few times.

Post: #6

(03-05-2015 12:01 PM)kaotic Wrote:  HAH....I've haven't lost a girl...yet. I have an iPhone and I never save girls numbers, I've almost been fucked over a few times.

Why don't you save numbers? I'm guessing it's a security issue since you have a main woman right? I have an iPhone 6+ and it has the fingerprint sensor so my phone is locked all the time. Even with using names it's still confusing when you have 3 Lisas, 4 Michelles and 2 Tamies lol. I'm starting to make notes on new contacts and also adding a photo of them to their contact info to keep things straight.

Post: #7

(03-05-2015 12:34 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(03-05-2015 12:01 PM)kaotic Wrote:  HAH....I've haven't lost a girl...yet. I have an iPhone and I never save girls numbers, I've almost been fucked over a few times.

Why don't you save numbers? I'm guessing it's a security issue since you have a main woman right? I have an iPhone 6+ and it has the fingerprint sensor so my phone is locked all the time. Even with using names it's still confusing when you have 3 Lisas, 4 Michelles and 2 Tamies lol. I'm starting to make notes on new contacts and also adding a photo of them to their contact info to keep things straight.

Absolutely it's because of her, also I'm good at remembering number. Besides I can always claim it's apart of a group text (which I'm in alot of).

Yeah i hate saving then deleting old numbers, so I let old numbers settle in the bottom of the inbox, send them mass texts.

I've made a habit of reading the convo before sending text, it also gives you a pause to see if you're sending something valuable to the person

Post: #8

(03-05-2015 01:34 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I've made a habit of reading the convo before sending text, it also gives you a pause to see if you're sending something valuable to the person

+1
Perfect habit for safety! Never failed me either.

Post: #9

Used to do this a lot in college. I used to prep for mistakes by randomly sending wrong messages so when I finally did slip up it would just be me "playing around again."

-CD

Post: #10

At least you have a story to tell.

Charge it to the game.

Post: #11

Poor cunt.

Post: #12

lol this happened to me. I was a retard one summer and just didnt save a few girls names in my phone. Just winged it from memory. They had very similar numbers. And i mixed two of em up. I texted one throughout the week, thinking she was a different girl. The one that I mistook for the other was pretty pissed when i asked who she was I had been flirting and setting up a meetup. I was just sooo tripped out that i thought i was talking to the other girl. The other girl was pretty receptive to me...since I had unintentionally ignored her (she was hotter, hence why i was texting what i thought was her!) Fuckin intermediate game fail.

My Lesson...don't get lazy/cocky when you're on a roll.