Post: #1

I'm the "gameless wonder". I've seen before on the forum guys volunteering to run someone's online dating account for a bit to help them see first hand how to banter and move the interaction forward. Anyone good at the online stuff who wants to give it a shot on my okcupid account? If so, PM me.

I have other online accounts (i.e. Match, Tinder). Think it would help my success on online platforms in general if I could see firsthand how a successful gamer does things on one of them. Hope I'm not overstepping in asking. If so, just ignore this and don't PM.

One thing to know is I'm 40 so if you're much younger, like under 25, your style probably wouldn't be congruent with mine. How you approach at say age 22 is just a little different dynamic I think.

Post: #2

Do you need someone to fuck these chicks for you too?

There's a wealth of knowledge on this forum.

I suggest you mine that, work on your game (and all aspects of life), stumble/fall, learn from your mistakes and come out the other side a better man for it.

Post: #3

I can handle the fucking part.

Post: #4

Man to put your Dick in... You got to put the work in playa!! Your age got nothing to do with it. And someone managing your accounts would be so detrimental to your game because you'd be relying on the emotions someone else created. Women might be a lot of dumb things, but they've got an uncanny ability for spotting incongruence like you wouldn't believe! Game was not natural to me, so I invested a lot in it!

   

All of them bought cause I wanted to invest my money in to force myself to get good! You gotta do the same. Hopefully you won't go overboard like I did

Post: #5

Before anyone beats me to it, yes I've seen the "How to get laid on okcupid like a boss" thread and read a lot of it: /thread-3601.html

Post: #6

(01-20-2015 12:48 AM)Captain Gh Wrote:  All of them bought cause I wanted to invest my money in to force myself to get good! You gotta do the same. Hopefully you won't go overboard like I did

Damn, thats a lot of material!

Post: #7

Come on man, you should know better than to ask that.

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Post: #9

So why would someone do all the annoying parts of game for you, just so you can reap the rewards of banging chicks?

Post: #10

How much you paying?

Post: #11

I needed context because I wanted to make sure you weren't living under a bridge, and if you aren't a troll, to help a brutha out. I try not to castigate because we all have something to offer here. So I read your two decent length posts since you've joined.

From your posts: You were a virgin at 30. V-card from a pro, then a one night shitty-sex stand at some later point. Accountant, same company 12 years, never promoted, not getting other jobs.

You need to piss some people off. I'm guessing (which means I may be wrong)...You never take risks, you never get in fights, you never push escalation, you never get into arguments or stand your ground, you're basically Mr Nice Guy (that was me in a past life).

You need to start not giving a fuck, and not just DGAF in your head, but in your actions. You need to develop a level of narcissism. Just start breaking social norms like not holding the door open, buying something on craigslist and negotiate the seller to the point where they feel uncomfortable, getting a date with a less attractive woman and standing her up without explanation.

You sound like Mr Friendzone.

I wouldn't suggest these things to most people, but you have to break the mold you've created for yourself. Also, do these things as far away from your workplace and social circle as possible. And don't do anything destructive.

Note: I'm not a licensed therapist, I don't know you at all, and I could be totally wrong.

Edit: I can relate with your accounting career experience.

Post: #12

OP, let's say you get a "pro" to run your account and it does brind you some girls.

You'll be happy it worked, but what when this guy has to move to something else?
You'll be again in the same situation as before, or even worse as you'll have tasted success and won't be able to reproduce it.
(BTW I must stress I'm very sceptical this would work, as the guy will have showed great dialog skill on the net, which you won't be able to reproduce once face to face with the girl, but that's an other subject).

I think you must learn by yourself, and by that I mean try different things, fail and learn from your failures.
Change what you see doesn't work, keep what you see does work.
It will take time, but at the end, you'll be able to pull by yourself girls from the net, isn't it what you truly want?

Post: #13

You need experience to gain knowledge. Everyone on this forum has tried something and failed. You need to learn how to fail to learn what works and what does not. Start your own profile, message girls, gauge their response rates as well as views, and customize it to your personality. And please, don't take internet dating seriously.