Post: #101

I'm loving this battle of the pussy paradises.

Post: #102

(01-08-2015 09:24 PM)calwinston Wrote:  

(01-08-2015 08:53 PM)YardDog Wrote:  

(01-08-2015 07:44 PM)Hornet Wrote:  SEA
-rapid population and economic growth in the Philippines and region
-relatively peaceful and stable
-tropical paradise

....but you have to settle for 6 or 6.5/10 for a girl (but with one of the lowest divorce rates in the world)

Why would you have to do that and who are you speaking for? You might have to settle for that but I certainly don't.

Most people do settle.
But you should never settle. Always strive for the top tier.

Actually, you have a point. I guess I may have just had more experience with caucasians than asians. Still, I would say there is a larger pool of attractive Ukrainians making it more likely that you'd end up with a hotter girl.
Maybe a 1 or 1.5 point difference, on average.

But my point was, that at some point its worth trading a few points in hotness for a much more liveable country.

Post: #103

(01-08-2015 11:59 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(01-08-2015 11:40 AM)DVY Wrote:  That settles it. I need to run murder mayhem for the Phillipines and settle this debate once and for all!

=)

What's your plan?

Researching a trip as we speak. About to pull the trigger. Looking for ideas on what to look out for. Gonna book a trip for Feb.

Post: #104

I'll second some things said here:
- Yes Korea has some of the cuntiest men I've ever witnessed, strange passive aggressive douchebag vibe that blows even Jguys out of the water
- Yes Korea is not a pussy purgatory if you know where to focus, but saying 'easy hot' can only ever be a brag.
- From my research, both Korea and Japan were easier in the 2000s. From the things I read and heard, you used to be able to lay girls in hongdae/itaewon as easy as bangkok, back when being Western was more 'exotic' and there were less of you. Supply & demand.

Post: #105

(01-09-2015 04:38 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  I'll second some things said here:
- Yes Korea has some of the cuntiest men I've ever witnessed, strange passive aggressive douchebag vibe that blows even Jguys out of the water

This is true.

Quote:- Yes Korea is not a pussy purgatory if you know where to focus, but saying 'easy hot' can only ever be a brag.

I fail to see how that's bragging. Having lived in Korea and living now in Thailand, I'd say upper tier k-girls are quite easy. Again, that's my personal experience.

There's no conflict here. The problem is...some guys get the cockamamy idea that another man's experience is transferable. When it comes to attracting women, we're not all created equal.

Quote:- From my research, both Korea and Japan were easier in the 2000s. From the things I read and heard, you used to be able to lay girls in hongdae/itaewon as easy as bangkok, back when being Western was more 'exotic' and there were less of you. Supply & demand.

I kinda yawn when I read these 'good old days' stories. What's the point?

And honestly, I think it's a load of crock. Read up on golden age fallacy.

Post: #106

If upper tier Kgirls are quite easy, why don't you bust out a datasheet or a minisheet report on how it's done, along with some slight metrics on yourself so that others can contrast and compare. Break down your game for us, otherwise you could just be some guy trying to cockblock others with bad information. Don't make broad claims then sit back and cross your legs. Break it down for us.

Post: #107

I don't buy the whole "Korean girls are difficult" thing either. Well not entirely. You see, they are just as slutty as anyone, but their culture is a giant cockblock.

In my limited experience, Korean chicks like foreigners just as much as the Japanese do. However, Korean society is still more conservative and Korean men are more effective at shaming their women out of dating foreigners.

Despite this, it's not impossible by any means. I'm no Nick Krauser, but I did get laid during my first week in Seoul. In clubs in Hongdae I did fine and got numbers which I didn't close. I made friends with some young Korean guys who tried to help me out by translating with girls as 90% didn't speak any English. It probably would have been a different story with decent spoken Korean.

HOWEVER, when abroad, there is no other way of putting it - Korean girls become raging sluts. Whenever I find out a girl is Korean, my dick springs to attention as I know the chances are better with them that night than the locals. In Japan, I shagged a number of Koreans speaking Japanese only to them. One was dressed like a tanned Japanese gyaru but with fake branded clothes. My impression was that they were riding the carousel of Japanese alphas in Tokyo but were intrigued enough to sleep with a white guy too.

My friends in London once had a foursome with two Korean students. I actually did the approach on the dance floor but cockblocked myself by being way too drunk. These girls were literally waiting there for some English guys to bang them. One of those girls had the biggest tits I've ever seen on an asian (they showed me the photos).

To wrap this up though, I don't think Koreans are worth it for the most part. First of all, they aren't all that hot. Walking around Myongdong you will see a hot girl every 10 minutes. In Shibuya you see 30 hot girls a minute. Simply put, the Japanese and many Chinese chicks stand above Koreans on natural beauty. Second, as discussed their country is too conservative and anti-foreigner to make it worth a long stay. From that point of view, I will take any Koreans thrown my way abroad but there's no need to go out searching for them. Go to a SEA resort or a language school in Japan and you can lay them by the bucketload.

Post: #108

(01-09-2015 08:42 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  If upper tier Kgirls are quite easy, why don't you bust out a datasheet...

Alright. I was in Korea for just over 3 months this last year. Most of my time was spent in a satellite city an hour away from Seoul, but I also hanged out in Gangnam during the weekends quite a bit.

During my stay, I banged 14 korean girls. 11 of these were ONS in night clubs or "booking" clubs. 3 of them, were girls I knew in my social circle.

Quote:Break down your game for us

I wouldn't know where to start. I've never studied game or put much thought in how I talked to women. It's not a subject that really interests me frankly.

Over half of the ONS I had in Korea were initiated by the girl. No effort on my part.
If there was a way to break down the strategy involved in that, I would do it gladly.

As for me, I'm 6'2, blonde and lean. Admittedly, that look plays well in Asia.
I seem to do better than most here. And on that note, I met RVF members in both Korea and Thailand who'll vouch for me.

Quote:You could just be some guy trying to cockblock others with bad information.

If I was cheer-leading Korea as a pussy paradise (which I wasn't), how would that be cockblocking? That's hype at best...

And as I said, I recommend giving the place a swerve. It's a frozen hell.
If it weren't for the hot/easy women, I might have very well lost my sanity!

Post: #109

(01-09-2015 09:56 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  

(01-09-2015 08:42 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  If upper tier Kgirls are quite easy, why don't you bust out a datasheet...

Alright. I was in Korea for just over 3 months this last year. Most of my time was spent in a satellite city an hour away from Seoul, but I also hanged out in Gangnam during the weekends quite a bit.

During my stay, I banged 14 korean girls. 11 of these were ONS in night clubs or "booking" clubs. 3 of them, were girls I knew in my social circle.

Quote:Break down your game for us

I wouldn't know where to start. I've never studied game or put much thought in how I talked to women. It's not a subject that really interests me frankly.

Over half of the ONS I had in Korea were initiated by the girl. No effort on my part.
If there was a way to break down the strategy involved in that, I would do it gladly.

As for me, I'm 6'2, blonde and lean. Admittedly, that look plays well in Asia.
I seem to do better than most here. And on that note, I met RVF members in both Korea and Thailand who'll vouch for me.

Quote:You could just be some guy trying to cockblock others with bad information.

If I was cheer-leading Korea as a pussy paradise (which I wasn't), how would that be cockblocking? That's hype at best...

And as I said, I recommend giving the place a swerve. It's a frozen hell.
If it weren't for the hot/easy women, I might have very well lost my sanity!

Look at one of the many datasheets, especially one with a good layout/format like Cattle Rustler's MILF sheet:

/thread-37230.html

or content and depth wise like Moma's:

/thread-9679-p...#pid144727

or a wellrounded kickass one like LeightonBlackStock's:

/thread-29228.html

Even if you are 6'2", probably used White God Factor, it doesn't matter. Let your work speak for itself. Lots of guys have that factor too and would appreciate the intel nevertheless.

Post: #110

(01-09-2015 05:28 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  

Quote:saying 'easy hot' can only ever be a brag.

I fail to see how that's bragging.
...
When it comes to attracting women, we're not all created equal.

Lol thanks, I enjoyed that

Not too worried about whether my 'good old days' stories keep you awake or not, chum. I just researched it out of interest. And claiming that 'golden age' is only ever a fallacy doesn't fit the facts in any area of life.

Post: #111

(01-09-2015 10:32 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  Look at one of the many datasheets, especially one with a good layout/format like Cattle Rustler's MILF sheet:

/thread-37230.html

or content and depth wise like Moma's:

/thread-9679-p...#pid144727

or a wellrounded kickass one like LeightonBlackStock's:

/thread-29228.html

Even if you are 6'2", probably used White God Factor, it doesn't matter. Let your work speak for itself. Lots of guys have that factor too and would appreciate the intel nevertheless.

When I get spare moment, I'll put up a proper Korea datasheet.

Just out of curiosity travelerkai...what's your experience in Korea? Have you lived there? It'll help us all connect the dots here.

(01-09-2015 10:49 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

(01-09-2015 05:28 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  

Quote:saying 'easy hot' can only ever be a brag.

I fail to see how that's bragging.
...
When it comes to attracting women, we're not all created equal.

Lol thanks, I enjoyed that

You're welcome, bud. Your accusation did jump the gun a bit though.

Post: #112

Connect what dots? I only spent a few days there. Most of my time abroad was in China (check out my China datasheet in my signature if you want to know more about me). We are just trying to change the attitude around here on Travel subforum. We have had an unusual amount of trolling (mostly racial and ballerism) in the Travel section lately and we are getting to the point where we are going to be forced to tell newbies with almost no post count to put up or shut up, especially when they make bold claims.

Don't take it personal. There is nothing wrong with a professional confrontation every now and then. Everyone is trying to improve in here and the only way that happens is by sharing what we know and discourage cockblocking. As they say, Iron sharpens Iron.

Post: #113

I never take anything personally. It's just when my experience in a country is called out---by guys who've barely spent anytime there---
it makes me scratch my head a little.

With that said, this threads derailed enough. Lets take it back to SEA.

Post: #114

(01-09-2015 01:05 PM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  I never take anything personally. It's just when my experience in a country is called out---by guys who've barely spent anytime there---
it makes me scratch my head a little.

With that said, this threads derailed enough. Lets take it back to SEA.

Been in one city in Thailand for a couple months...

(01-08-2015 03:18 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  The whole region is swamped with geriatrics into p4p. I've been in Chiang Mai a couple months now...

Implies everyone in a region spanning 11 countries is lazy and doesn't develop themselves...

Quote:Honestly, despite being great value...I think SEA's a bit of a trap for young guys. Life's too easy, too comfortable. There's a tangible laziness in the air here.
Not optimal for personal development imho.

Says all guys who like SEA are from a shithole and don't get laid...

(01-08-2015 06:30 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  Most guys screaming about how awesome it is are coming from the bowels of America or W. Europe. Many just weren't getting laid before they arrived. So when they get to SEA, they think they've died and gone to heaven.

Says people's stories are bullshit...

(01-09-2015 05:28 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  I kinda yawn when I read these 'good old days' stories. What's the point?

And honestly, I think it's a load of crock. Read up on golden age fallacy.

Yet...

(01-09-2015 01:05 PM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  It's just when my experience in a country is called out---by guys who've barely spent anytime there---it makes me scratch my head a little.

Don't play the victim. If you're going to call people out on this forum, expect them to return the favor.

How much time have you spent in Bangkok, Indonesia, the Phils, Cambodia, Singapore, Malaysia, etc. by the way, that makes you qualified to call people out on them (based on your very own standards)?

Post: #115

(01-09-2015 09:56 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  ...
Over half of the ONS I had in Korea were initiated by the girl. No effort on my part.
If there was a way to break down the strategy involved in that, I would do it gladly.

As for me, I'm 6'2, blonde and lean. Admittedly, that look plays well in Asia.
I seem to do better than most here. And on that note, I met RVF members in both Korea and Thailand who'll vouch for me.
...

Not impossible if you run GLG - good-looking-guy Game as a Westerner in the East. 50% initiated by women - well that certainly is not Game - also it tells nothing of the quality.

It's not impossible to do that well under certain conditions:

   

We sometimes get guys here who claim: "You morons! The best Game I saw was by guys who just have to show up and get approached actively - they show up and voila - those are the greatest Playboys!"

What those guys are missing is that:
1. Most of the women approaching them are way way below their looks & they usually bang way below their looks
2. Those men are in the top 1% of looks on the male scale
3. They have often zero Game
4. They usually live in a country or place where there are is no massive oversupply of men and of attractive men - EE, FSU, right look for that country etc.

Sometimes those "Players" meet a really good looking Player who fucks mainly 8-9s, real catwalk models or celebrities and they realize that they have been selling themselves short.

Of course we are not created equal, but Game advice by extremely good-looking guys who admittedly don't know much about Game is useless:

/thread-39932-...#pid818723

Quoting Tuthmosis here:

Quote:Taking game advice from good-looking dudes is as bad as taking it from women. In most cases, they have no idea why they're successful.

I say this in my private life all the time. In fact, I briefly considered writing something about it on ROK. The luxury that good-looking guys have are that they can make mistakes with chicks and get away with it. So they never really know what works and what doesn't. The worst are some of the above-average looking dudes selling their advice. Their tips and lines are often outright laughable.

The same holds true for dudes that are above-average in height, to a certain extent. Height (and general size) is probably the single most important determinant of attraction from a woman. If a 6'4" guy comes around trying to tell me what works and what doesn't, I shut him down and dismantle his so-called "game" piece by piece. The conversation usually ends with me saying, "Dude, you're coasting on your looks. You have no idea what game is."

The best game advice comes from average dudes with above-average results. End of story.

Post: #116

(01-08-2015 07:41 AM)Enigma Wrote:  The bias against SEA on this forum is quite honestly insane.

I'm here because I could not bear being in the sexual desert that America is for a non-famous 50 something guy.

But the Philippines as far as I've seen has very little high culture-- ballet, symphony, avant-garde arts stuff.

The people are really nice, the pollution in Cebu and Manila are an insidiously corrosive problem that I can 't ignore for years. I would warn especially young guys about this: There's no symptoms of COPD until the damage is done. All the machismo and "abundance thinking" in the world cannot prevent your lungs from getting caked with this shit.

But there is a big difference intellectually here from what I saw in Northern California.

If your primary concern is business, that may not be very important.

For me I just really needed a place where the 21-25 YO 6s don't treat me like a leper. I've realized I'm probably better off NOT battling for an 8 ( or 7 as guys with higher standards would put it) because if I bring her back to the US , as long as she has a kid I might be able to hang on to her longer.

A somewhat homely chick who was happy to get me in the Phils might take 10 years or so to ditch me if she has a kid to tie her down.

Post: #117

If he is coasting on model looks and WGF it will show in his writing and datasheet. Like Tuth says, the proof is in the nuance or the details.

Post: #118

Kai - I wouldn't hold your breath on that datasheet.

Post: #119

(01-09-2015 03:51 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  But the Philippines as far as I've seen has very little high culture-- ballet, symphony, avant-garde arts stuff.

A simple google search reveals dozens of art galleries, a contemporary art fair that just wrapped in October, at least two symphony orchestras, and numerous concert halls and ballet studios, all in Manila.

Also, the Philippines is just one country in Southeast Asia, a region consisting of 11 different nations. You might consider cities like Singapore or Kuala Lumpur, if you're looking for something more cosmopolitan.

Quote:The people are really nice, the pollution in Cebu and Manila are an insidiously corrosive problem that I can 't ignore for years. I would warn especially young guys about this: There's no symptoms of COPD until the damage is done. All the machismo and "abundance thinking" in the world cannot prevent your lungs from getting caked with this shit.

Then move somewhere less polluted...? There are options even within the Phils for that. Davao, for instance.

I've never said the Philippines, Southeast Asia, or anywhere was without fault. I can point out plenty of things I don't like.

My point was and continues to be that NOWHERE is perfect. Every city, every country, every region has distinct advantages and disadvantages which must be weighed. For some, certain advantages will be more important and certain disadvantages will be more noticeable.

Some guys want a country with beautiful women on every corner and will overlook certain things to get that. Other guys would prefer somewhere with breathtaking natural beauty, terrific business opportunities, etc. and will overlook the fact that they have to look a little harder to find the hotter women.

The level-headed among us can say, "this place isn't for me, I'm going to try somewhere else", rather than the "this place sucks, you guys are all losers!!!" reaction I often see regarding SEA.

Quote:But there is a big difference intellectually here from what I saw in Northern California.

I can't imagine a third world country on the other side of the planet NOT being different intellectually than Northern California.

I mean, are we really comparing San Francisco to Cebu on the basis of theater and art, when the former dwarfs even the majority of the United States in those areas?

You want to take advantage of less feminized women with fewer options and live on a small budget, while still retaining the affluence of Northern California. This is also known as "having your cake and eating it too".

If you want to be surrounded by high society types and the intellectual elite, you're going to have to pony up more than $500 for rent and stop shagging girls that work at the mall.

Quote:For me I just really needed a place where the 21-25 YO 6s don't treat me like a leper. I've realized I'm probably better off NOT battling for an 8 ( or 7 as guys with higher standards would put it) because if I bring her back to the US , as long as she has a kid I might be able to hang on to her longer.

A somewhat homely chick who was happy to get me in the Phils might take 10 years or so to ditch me if she has a kid to tie her down.

Okay.

Post: #120

(01-09-2015 05:28 PM)Enigma Wrote:  My point was and continues to be that NOWHERE is perfect. Every city, every country, every region has distinct advantages and disadvantages which must be weighed. For some, certain advantages will be more important and certain disadvantages will be more noticeable.

Some guys want a country with beautiful women on every corner and will overlook certain things to get that. Other guys would prefer somewhere with breathtaking natural beauty, terrific business opportunities, etc. and will overlook the fact that they have to look a little harder to find the hotter women.

The level-headed among us can say, "this place isn't for me, I'm going to try somewhere else", rather than the "this place sucks, you guys are all losers!!!" reaction I often see regarding SEA.

Exactly.

There isn't really a place that "sucks", you just trade one set of benefits/problems for another when you go somewhere else.

I think the guys that malign SEA are a bit to focused on one thing. SEA is a great, well -rounded place.

Post: #121

(01-09-2015 02:23 PM)Enigma Wrote:  Don't play the victim. If you're going to call people out on this forum, expect them to return the favor.

I didn't call anyone out. I made some general statements about Thailand (and SEA) that evidently hit a nerve in your case.

But honestly, what did I say that wasn't true?

-SEA is a huge p4p destination. FACT.

-The upper tier women are hard to get. FACT.

-The caliber of expats here (on average) is lackluster. FACT.

-The culture is a lazy one. DEBATABLE. But outside of Latin America, I've never seen so much loitering. And lets just look at the GDP per capita for crying out loud.

Iknowexactly also raised valid points about pollution and lack of haut couture. In the case of the prior, I'm gonna have to leave Chiang Mai soon for a month due to the burning season. If you stay, you might as well be smoking a few packs of cigs a day. It's a legit health concern.

Despite ALL of that, I do actually like it here. As I said, it's "great value" and it's a very easy place to live. Great weather. Awesome food. Epic scenery.
And if you're content with 6s, you can literally swim in pussy. It's ain't so bad.

Post: #122

So... in South Korea hot chicks approach you for ONS. But in Thailand, they are hard to get...

Does Thai weather give you vicious raging acne or something?

Here that is equivalent to saying 'hey guys actually the world is flat'. No one cares about the original topic now, we just want to hear more about this new revelation.

I am very much looking forward to a datasheet.

Post: #123

(01-10-2015 04:16 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  So... in South Korea hot chicks approach you for ONS. But in Thailand, they are hard to get...

Does Thai weather give you vicious raging acne or something?

Here that is equivalent to saying 'hey guys actually the world is flat'. No one cares about the original topic now, we just want to hear more about this new revelation.

I am very much looking forward to a datasheet.

Well, now that you mentioned it...the humidity in Thailand has made my skin a little more oily than normal.

In all seriousness, I get approached a fair amount here too, by decent-looking girls.

But upper tier girls (8+) in CM are a tough nut to crack. Why? Because most hot girls here are in the upper class. They're a bit snooty, their English is non-existent and they hang out in thai-style clubs which are a nightmare for pickup.

Post: #124

(01-08-2015 09:28 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(01-08-2015 08:51 AM)ShanghaiPlayer Wrote:  

(01-08-2015 08:09 AM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  Korea isn't SEA, but I agree on the hot/easy women there. Though I've heard it's changed a bit over the last decade or so.

The rumor of Korean girls being difficult to lay is highly exaggerated.

Like you're going to tell me you can go to a club in Gangnam on any given Friday or Saturday night and not even see one foreigner pulling a hot Korean girl? Give me a break.

I have to agree with you somewhat. The girls are not hard I think. They even seem to take interest in black men based upon the level of IOI and interaction I saw when I was there for 2 days. It's like they all want their own Usher and everyone knows they love American RnB. Girls were touching their mouths with their fingers and staring at me with hungry eyes. Huge smiles. You name it. You do not get that in China. Everyone usually stares straight ahead and never break stride unless you are in the countryside. I don't speak a lick of Korean, and I have no interest in their women, so I did not bother trying to pull any. So I do not have a lay count to back anything, but I have not heard anything about them being hard to lay from other guys I know.

This is pretty interesting to me. I agree with you that Korean men for the most part act like cocks (even in the Philippines or mainland China) but your experiences surprised me. Korean women from the motherland can be very status/social conscious..even more so than Korean-Americans.

I still think the sweet spot are Koreans in the southern U.S. They are down home traditional, semi-religious in a good way, and don't have the west/east coast angst of their brethren. The Korean girls I dated in CA were all from the south. They also didn't have the hardcore ingrained neo-nazi level prejudices typical of Korean culture either. They were sweet as can be but their annoying west coast relatives/friends eventually still prevented anything long(er) term from developing.

It would be interesting if some black/white rooshv'ers around Atlanta could test out my theory.

Post: #125

(01-10-2015 05:36 AM)Russkie Dusha Wrote:  But upper tier girls (8+) in CM are a tough nut to crack. Why? Because most hot girls here are in the upper class. They're a bit snooty, their English is non-existent and they hang out in thai-style clubs which are a nightmare for pickup.

Hmm that's interesting.

The hottest girls in Thailand i've met usually have OK english in because they were usually Thai-chinese with good education. They just don't like to speak it with people they don't like.

Chiang Mai is a Thai-chinese epicenter.