Post: #1

I don't like spooning or cuddling. I find it uncomfortable and I can't sleep with my arm wrapped around someone and hair going into my nose on each inhale. I'm sure most guys here share a similar opinions.

I much prefer sleeping with my back resting up against something. I'm cool with arms being wrapped around me or the chick touching me.

Social norms say the guy should be the big spoon.

AI think it should be the other way around.

What do you think?

Post: #2

I don't mind it with bitches who aren't annoying as hell. The sweet, cute slender girls love being spooned, and I'll do it for a little bit after a good session of sex.

But for chicks that are ratchet and/or talk too much, etc, I usually want them to get the hell out after getting mine.

Post: #3

I can't sleep if a girl is spooning me usually. I like a cold bed and the body temp interrupts my sleep quality.

After sex I usually allow her to rest her head on my chest while I play with her hair or tits and she strokes my body.

Once I am tired I push her off 'okay sleep time' and go to Zzzzz.

Most mornings I will grab her again though as I am a big fan of wake up sex and/or I need cold water from the kitchen.

Post: #4

I actually enjoy spooning/cuddling if it's a chick I like, but more as a post-sex relaxation thing, and never for more than 15 minutes or so. When it's time to sleep I need my own space. That said I usually sleep on my back, and one of the girls I'm seeing likes to sleep with her head on my chest. That's fine by me

Post: #5

(11-03-2014 01:51 PM)Atlantic Wrote:  I can't sleep if a girl is spooning me usually. I like a cold bed and the body temp interrupts my sleep quality.

After sex I usually allow her to rest her head on my chest while I play with her hair or tits and she strokes my body.

Once I am tired I push her off 'okay sleep time' and go to Zzzzz.

Most mornings I will grab her again though as I am a big fan of wake up sex and/or I need cold water from the kitchen.

Your avatar is hilarious

Anyways, I've had girls sleep on me. As in their entire body laid on me. T'was nice.

Post: #6

(11-03-2014 02:02 PM)Old Fritz Wrote:  

(11-03-2014 01:51 PM)Atlantic Wrote:  I can't sleep if a girl is spooning me usually. I like a cold bed and the body temp interrupts my sleep quality.

After sex I usually allow her to rest her head on my chest while I play with her hair or tits and she strokes my body.

Once I am tired I push her off 'okay sleep time' and go to Zzzzz.

Most mornings I will grab her again though as I am a big fan of wake up sex and/or I need cold water from the kitchen.

Your avatar is hilarious

Anyways, I've had girls sleep on me. As in their entire body laid on me. T'was nice.

Ya sometimes I enjoy it but I need a cold room so the body heat doesnt become too much. If the room is cold then yes but most buildings in Canada crank the heating too high in Winter so Id just end up sweating my ass off. Maybe I should buy a fan or something lol.

Post: #7

(11-03-2014 01:42 PM)Kickb Wrote:  I don't like spooning or cuddling. I find it uncomfortable and I can't sleep with my arm wrapped around someone and hair going into my nose on each inhale. I'm sure most guys here share a similar opinions.

If it's uncomfortable don't do it. Lest this devolve into a "is this alpha?" thread, I think that generally if you're comfortable sleeping a certain way, do it.

As for having hair in your nose, there's no reason for this. The girl should be able to sweep her hair away from you so that she's essentially sleeping on it as it goes no the pillow the other direction. Usually I'll even sweep it myself so that I'm not getting bothered by hair in my face.

Personally, most of the time I enjoy a girl I'm dating sleeping on my chest, or sometimes me cuddling them, but I move when I sleep so invariably I won't sleep that way all night anyway.

Sometimes it doesn't feel comfortable and just do it for a little while then separate. When I separate I'll usually still be touching the girl, including the reverse spoon.

Much of the time the girl is a little cold to the touch and I warm her up and she cools me down (I usually run fairly warm). Win win in my book.

Post: #8

Post: #9

I'm fine with it as long as they aren't overbearing and keep it light. My current main girl will lay with me a bit after or when we're dozing off.

Great thing is she'll roll over to her side and we pass out. We both don't like spooning much.

Most girls I bang don't or even better, they leave.

Post: #10

My routine is usually as follows. I personally see nothing wrong with spooning, humans need physical contact to produce dopamine, and the weather in the Bay Area never makes it too sweaty.

- Finish.
- Leave room for ~15 min. to brew coffee while her hamster runs.
- Come back in for seconds.
- If seconds are as good as first, cuddle/spoon if desired.

I just see this as Roissy's 2/3rd ratio poosy commandment. Now the punch line question. Was this beta?

Post: #11

Call me gay, but I have bitches spoon me. I curl up like a toddler and they're the big spoon. I just got through devastating that pussy like Shaquille O'Neal on an NBA backboard circa mid-90s.

I got nothing to prove.

Post: #12

(11-03-2014 03:38 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  Call me gay, but I have bitches spoon me. I curl up like a toddler and they're the big spoon. I just got through devastating that pussy like Shaquille O'Neal on an NBA backboard circa mid-90s.

I got nothing to prove.

Beat me to it. I feel like this works especially well when they're on the brink of feeling overgamed. Obviously, you would be planning to bang again. No need to be little spoon for a ONS.

Post: #13

(11-03-2014 02:02 PM)Old Fritz Wrote:  

(11-03-2014 01:51 PM)Atlantic Wrote:  I can't sleep if a girl is spooning me usually. I like a cold bed and the body temp interrupts my sleep quality.

After sex I usually allow her to rest her head on my chest while I play with her hair or tits and she strokes my body.

Once I am tired I push her off 'okay sleep time' and go to Zzzzz.

Most mornings I will grab her again though as I am a big fan of wake up sex and/or I need cold water from the kitchen.

Your avatar is hilarious

Anyways, I've had girls sleep on me. As in their entire body laid on me. T'was nice.

I guess you're not really a chubby chaser then

Post: #14

I enjoy it and all that post-coital oxytocin is great for building a connection with a girl but I run so hot that I'll wake up in an ocean of sweat if I sleep with another person. I typically push to go to their place so I can just dip back to my place to sleep when my needs are met. Really pissed off my most recent ex.

Post: #15

(11-03-2014 06:27 PM)NorthxNorthwest Wrote:  I enjoy it and all that post-coital oxytocin is great for building a connection with a girl but I run so hot that I'll wake up in an ocean of sweat if I sleep with another person. I typically push to go to their place so I can just dip back to my place to sleep when my needs are met. Really pissed off my most recent ex.

That's actually a good point. Cuddling/spooning after her orgasm can build a connection and trust in you that'll make her want more for next time.

Post: #16

Its funny... I was laying with a chick the other day thinking about starting this exact thread.

I think its alpha as fuck to hold a woman after a good hard bang. There's nothing more manly than a petite, feminine woman's heaving chest sprawled across yours. If a girl does this it means she digs you and feels shes protected by you. There's no better feeling than laying there with your girl during the refractory period enjoying that serotonin/oxytocin cocktail.

Optimal sleeping position:

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If Achilles does it its gotta be manly

Post: #17

I personally love having a little spoon in front of me or a girl sleeping on my chest.. and they love it too.

Half the fun of gaming chicks is all the other (physical) affection I'm getting from them besides the bang -- it's exciting for at least as long as they're worth keeping around. Just pounding 'em by itself would be kind of a ripoff by comparison.

Post: #18

I suppose as long as you don't look like this



You're in the clear.

Post: #19

I definitely never look like that D:

Post: #20

(11-03-2014 07:58 PM)Kickb Wrote:  I suppose as long as you don't look like this



You're in the clear.

fuck

they told me they wouldn't put that picture up

Post: #21

(11-03-2014 01:42 PM)Kickb Wrote:  I don't like spooning or cuddling. I find it uncomfortable and I can't sleep with my arm wrapped around someone and hair going into my nose on each inhale. I'm sure most guys here share a similar opinions.

I much prefer sleeping with my back resting up against something. I'm cool with arms being wrapped around me or the chick touching me.

Social norms say the guy should be the big spoon.

AI think it should be the other way around.

What do you think?

I heard that spooning is pretty much mandatory right after sex, Helps the women not feel abandoned and then want to cry rape. So if you hate spooning, only do it after the bang (like when you"finish") for like 15-20 minutes.


To be fair Lennon used to beat the shit out of Yoko...

(11-03-2014 03:38 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  Call me gay, but I have bitches spoon me. I curl up like a toddler and they're the big spoon.

Can someone explain this to me? What do you mean someone "spoons" you? If she's laying on your chest. . .is that what you mean? A bit confused here.

Post: #22

Delete.

Post: #23

Second Atlantic on the temperature issue. I start with spooning, but eventually roll away because it gets too hot. However, sometimes in the morning, the relative body temperatures are somehow compatible and you can sleep in a spooning position for like an hour or two. In that circumstance, it is really amazing and something I thoroughly enjoy.

Tuthmosis, being little spoon is beta. Just sayin'.

Post: #24

(11-03-2014 09:19 PM)Menace Wrote:  Tuthmosis, being little spoon is beta. Just sayin'.

You're outta your mind. Doing something you don't want to do to appease a woman is beta. This is what it looks like. I wake up rested, and with circulation in both arms.

   

Post: #25

What works for me is having her possitioned so that the top most part of her head is on my chest that keeps her body off my arm and shoulder joint. She should end up fitting nicely in your arm pit with your arm and shoulder feeling no pressure.
With the hair thing I just turn my head the other way.