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WesternCancer 路 2014-10-10 19:48:00 路 #3751
So the highway BJ chick just sent me this
"wanna meet up tonight and do some blow and fuck some chicks"
I'm so torn. Trashy sluts are my biggest turn on, but theres a 99% chance I'm gonna get stabbed or get AIDS
EDIT: so apparently I'M supposed to supply the chicks. what the fuck bish!!!
"wanna meet up tonight and do some blow and fuck some chicks"
I'm so torn. Trashy sluts are my biggest turn on, but theres a 99% chance I'm gonna get stabbed or get AIDS
EDIT: so apparently I'M supposed to supply the chicks. what the fuck bish!!!
pheonix500000 路 2014-10-10 19:57:00 路 #3752
(10-10-2014 07:48 PM)WesternCancer Wrote: So the highway BJ chick just sent me this
"wanna meet up tonight and do some blow and fuck some chicks"
I'm so torn. Trashy sluts are my biggest turn on, but theres a 99% chance I'm gonna get stabbed or get AIDS
Do it man just dont fuck raw, how did you meet her?
ThePrinceOfDixie 路 2014-10-10 22:48:00 路 #3753
(10-10-2014 07:57 PM)pheonix500000 Wrote:(10-10-2014 07:48 PM)WesternCancer Wrote: So the highway BJ chick just sent me this
"wanna meet up tonight and do some blow and fuck some chicks"
I'm so torn. Trashy sluts are my biggest turn on, but theres a 99% chance I'm gonna get stabbed or get AIDS
Do it man just dont fuck raw, how did you meet her?
Co-signed.
kaotic 路 2014-10-11 04:10:00 路 #3754
(09-08-2014 04:25 PM)kaotic Wrote: Follow up on the girls below:
1.The first one is my homegirls friend whose "intrigued and I'm cute" yet doesn't want to text me because it would be "awkward"....wants to hangout in a "group setting" seriously ?
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28919-...#pid824845
Update (I learned ALOT):
I finally met her last week, she's a bonafide HB 9, 30 Year Old (I know old), banging body, fake tits, Jolie lips, and bright green eyes, knocked down to 8.5 because she has 2 kids, I got her number. We planned on drinks tonight ,the last minute she says she'll be late, then she ends up being early (I told her she owes the first round). She then texts me saying one of our mutual homegirls will be meeting her there. I'm stuck in traffic still and pissed. The venue I set up happens to be where an old friend is having his surprise bday party (purely by coincidence).
I say fuck it and head to the venue I planned, even before I walk into the door, one of the bartenders walking in knows what's up (knowing i've got a girl waiting) and shoots me a smirk. (I love this venue, it's dark, loungey, awesome vibe, servers/bartenders are rad). ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE ON LOCK !!!
So it's me, HB 9, and my homegirl, she gives me shit for being late, I tell her to fuck off and she still owes me a round (with a smirk of course) and she agrees. We all shoot the shit, my homegirl isn't drinking (which turned out to be a good thing). Eventually me and HB order a 2 person fish bowl (got me pretty buzzed), so I've got my home girl HB 7.5 one one side and HB 9 who moved to my right side. (I can see other guys jocking, I felt like a lion with his pride, high SMV)
We're having a good laugh and HB wants a cigg (cue) so I follow her to her car, right before she lights up I say "Well let's get this out of the way" and make out with, she's got those Jolie lips, immediately I can tell we vibe on the same level sexually, I'm pulling her hair, she's grabbing my ass/hips bringing me in closer, I'm doing the same, I immediately go for her neck and the back of her head, I can tell she's instantly turned on the by low moans. She says "I bet you do that with all those little girls" (remember she's 30) I say with a smirk "I get that alot". She laughs, finishes her cigg and we go inside.
Turns out my homegirl drank most of the fish bowl (actually a good thing) and my HB pays the tab for everything (including homegirls appetizer, money spent $0
) We bounce to the next venue.We walk in and I give a server/bartender I know a hug and we get appetizers and HB and me get drinks (YES I paid this time lol). I notice HB is getting super touchy feely again with me rubbing my back holding my hand leaning into me. All the IOI's are there.
We close up and my homegirl see's a friend and talks, I IMMEDIATELY take this opportunity and pull my HB out of the bar and outside we start making out, I slam her against the wall and shit's getting real hot and heavy.
Eventually we make it to the parking lot, and she starts talking about how people are gonna fuck who they wanna fuck and she doesn't have time for games etc, I say "how convenient my car has double tint" - I guide her over to my car, she's not having it, so I throw her on my hood, we're dry humping and making out. (My bartender is leaving and sees it and so do the other girls from the bar, I don't give a single fuck) She says "I know your reputation, it proceeds you," and some other shit to which I say "doll, you don't know a damn thing" of course with a smirk. It's becoming apparent that I'm getting a somewhat player reputation, which I actually enjoy.
Eventually we make it to her car across the way and I end up holding up both her legs with her back against the car and her pussy right above my belt line. She's moaning, heavy breathing, I'm pushing for the car bang, I tried bulldozing/mancaving twice, but she gave me a shitton of LMR, then she said "Look you're really attractive to me, you're on the same sexual level/vibe I am, If you want to see me again you will, if not, you won't"
At this point I'm tired of fighting, I'm sobering up an exhausted, she bends over into the car and calls our friend, we don't know where she is. I immediately grab her hair, grab her tits, hold her hips and grind my dick on her, we start getting heavy again, I'm pulling on her thong, but alas, our friend shows up.
I may have not got the bang BUT I came off with her wanting more. Now it's "don't fuck up game".
Lessons:
-A woman always forgives/rewards an aggressive and unapologetic man.
-ALWAYS go for the bang.
-No matter how much of a hard on/lust you have ALWAYS play it cool. You'll always win.
-ALWAYS escalate as much as you can.
-COOL. CALM. COLLECTIVE.
-Even if it's the hottest girl you're hanging with, TREAT HER LIKE THE REST (I can't emphasize this enough)
(10-09-2014 05:12 PM)kaotic Wrote: I'm REALLY creeped out right now:
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-24128-...#pid847937
The post above refers to a girl from tinder, she gave me her number. I haven't hit her up yet.
She somehow found my fucking Instagram (it's not private), I don't have any info on my Tinder about my IG.
EDIT: Turns out she knows a somewhat mutual (and HOTTER) friend of mine. They work together and found me on my IG and added me, gonna turn this into an excuse to reach out to the hotter friend.
So I followed up with the hotter friend, she sent me her number via IG. I gotta transition this QUICK from "just grabbing a drink" to having her know my intentions.
I also got another number from Tinder. I also am farming 2 other girls for this coming week.
AntiTrace 路 2014-10-11 10:56:00 路 #3755
(10-11-2014 04:10 AM)kaotic Wrote: We're having a good laugh and HB wants a cigg (cue) so I follow her to her car, right before she lights up I say "Well let's get this out of the way" and make out
That's how you do it boys. Don't worry about when its the right time to go for the kiss, just fucking go for it. "Well lets get this out of the way" = stolen.
Quote:Lessons: [/b][/u]
-A woman always forgives/rewards an aggressive and unapologetic man.
-ALWAYS go for the bang.
-No matter how much of a hard on/lust you have ALWAYS play it cool. You'll always win.
-ALWAYS escalate as much as you can.
-COOL. CALM. COLLECTIVE.
-Even if it's the hottest girl you're hanging with, TREAT HER LIKE THE REST (I can't emphasize this enough)
spitting nothing but truth. repped.
AntiTrace 路 2014-10-11 11:20:00 路 #3756
I had some CRAZY sex last night. Four times actually.
It goes like this:
Got plans to meet with chick at 7pm. She hits me up at 5 to say she has to cancel, watching her friends kids or some other bullshit. I tell her thank for giving me a heads up. If a girl gives me heads up I don't consider it a flake, it's only a flake if its a last minute cancel or no show. I was actually happy that she letme know ahead of time.
Hit my buddy up. He's a mid 40s player currently banging a smoking western European chick in her mid 20s. We dont get to hang out much, once every couple months and its a blast. But unfortunately he can't stand out to game with me, the European chick is throwing a hissy fit and hes in that "I'm almost 50...it may be time to lock someone down, and it may as well be a 20 something smokeshow" state of mind. I can't argue with that logic. He offers me a kind of open ended job offer for the company he works for, essentially the dream job of probably 90% of RVFers here. I told him it's at least two years before I consider it, he says that's not a problem. I'm legit pumped and gonna start networking with his work colleagues.
Female hits me up at 10, kids are gone and she needs a "Drriiiinnkkk". Perfect timing as my buddy is leaving. Get her to a bar, have a drink, bounce to my apartment. My logistics are tighter a straight mans ass. Have some drinks in the apartment, we start banging.
And then this happens:
NSFW: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x1hrdw9...nes_people
SHe had the same body as the chick in the video, and it happened almost exactly like that except she started full on open hand slapping me. First one was light, second one wasn't too bad, third one she wound up and followed through.
It goes like this:
Got plans to meet with chick at 7pm. She hits me up at 5 to say she has to cancel, watching her friends kids or some other bullshit. I tell her thank for giving me a heads up. If a girl gives me heads up I don't consider it a flake, it's only a flake if its a last minute cancel or no show. I was actually happy that she letme know ahead of time.
Hit my buddy up. He's a mid 40s player currently banging a smoking western European chick in her mid 20s. We dont get to hang out much, once every couple months and its a blast. But unfortunately he can't stand out to game with me, the European chick is throwing a hissy fit and hes in that "I'm almost 50...it may be time to lock someone down, and it may as well be a 20 something smokeshow" state of mind. I can't argue with that logic. He offers me a kind of open ended job offer for the company he works for, essentially the dream job of probably 90% of RVFers here. I told him it's at least two years before I consider it, he says that's not a problem. I'm legit pumped and gonna start networking with his work colleagues.
Female hits me up at 10, kids are gone and she needs a "Drriiiinnkkk". Perfect timing as my buddy is leaving. Get her to a bar, have a drink, bounce to my apartment. My logistics are tighter a straight mans ass. Have some drinks in the apartment, we start banging.
And then this happens:
NSFW: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x1hrdw9...nes_people
SHe had the same body as the chick in the video, and it happened almost exactly like that except she started full on open hand slapping me. First one was light, second one wasn't too bad, third one she wound up and followed through.
RexImperator 路 2014-10-11 11:22:00 路 #3757
I agree with the lessons but how exactly do you merge the cool/laid back vibe with escalation, when "cool" might be interpreted as acting somewhat disinterested. It seems to be a careful balancing act.
AntiTrace 路 2014-10-11 11:26:00 路 #3758
(10-11-2014 11:22 AM)RexImperator Wrote: I agree with the lessons but how exactly do you merge the cool/laid back vibe with escalation, when "cool" might be interpreted as acting somewhat disinterested. It seems to be a careful balancing act.
desperation is leaning in trying to get the makeout. asking for permission to kiss.
saying "lets get this out of the way" and then just grabbing her and going for her it is being "cool"
MrXY 路 2014-10-11 14:23:00 路 #3759
Cold approached a twosome in a country nightclub after visually screening them using my sniper game. As I expected, they were tourists who just got into town that morning and were looking to party and open to meeting men. They were both friendly; I ended up concentrating on the one with the better face and bigger tits. Realized later that was a mistake; she is separated and kept bitching about her husband and their community property settlement dispute,etc. Also seemed more prudish than the other one, who is younger and more lively.Kind of a butterface with a nice body. Got the older ones number, but thinking about if I can pull a switcheroo and start working the younger one. The opportunity to kiss or pull the older on just wasn't there last night, so I didn't do anything to lock myself into one or the other really. I'm thinking of suggesting we all three meet up again and just start gaming the younger one and try to isolate her in some way
After we changed venues, the older one told me that she had gone to the bathroom at the country nightclub and when she opened a stall door there was a woman already in there. Except that the "woman" was standing up and pissing into the toilet. She described "her" as a hot blonde wearing a black miniskirt. Not something you would expect in a country bar. Be careful out there guys.
On the country theme, a friend in his early twenties who goes to country concerts told me recently that the quantity and talent of women at these concerts is fantastic. He said sometimes there are 5 girls to every guy, and a lot of hotties. Think I'm going to buy a cowboy hat and explore this niche.
After we changed venues, the older one told me that she had gone to the bathroom at the country nightclub and when she opened a stall door there was a woman already in there. Except that the "woman" was standing up and pissing into the toilet. She described "her" as a hot blonde wearing a black miniskirt. Not something you would expect in a country bar. Be careful out there guys.
On the country theme, a friend in his early twenties who goes to country concerts told me recently that the quantity and talent of women at these concerts is fantastic. He said sometimes there are 5 girls to every guy, and a lot of hotties. Think I'm going to buy a cowboy hat and explore this niche.
Valhalla 路 2014-10-11 20:51:00 路 #3760
Just got blown out by a girl i approached today within 5 txts
She sent me a txt saying i was "highly disrespectful" i was being c&f and guess it didn't work too well with her. Amazing how easily you can fuck up with women. I'm beginning to lose my interest in chasing women.
I threw a few mass txts to like 6 other girls i haven't talked to in a bit and one responded and we scheduled a date that i fully expect her to flake on, another one blew me out.
I gotta admit it's a slight blow to the ego on days like this. Women can be highly fucking annoying and i hate dealing with their shit.
I have a plate and that's good enough for me.
She sent me a txt saying i was "highly disrespectful" i was being c&f and guess it didn't work too well with her. Amazing how easily you can fuck up with women. I'm beginning to lose my interest in chasing women.
I threw a few mass txts to like 6 other girls i haven't talked to in a bit and one responded and we scheduled a date that i fully expect her to flake on, another one blew me out.
I gotta admit it's a slight blow to the ego on days like this. Women can be highly fucking annoying and i hate dealing with their shit.
I have a plate and that's good enough for me.
Travesty 路 2014-10-11 22:07:00 路 #3761
(10-11-2014 02:23 PM)MrXY Wrote: On the country theme, a friend in his early twenties who goes to country concerts told me recently that the quantity and talent of women at these concerts is fantastic. He said sometimes there are 5 girls to every guy, and a lot of hotties. Think I'm going to buy a cowboy hat and explore this niche.
Someone needs to write a Datasheet on this for guys that aren't into country music at all.
Back in OC it is huge. Hot hot hot chicks. Stagecoach Festival....etc...
Girls can get plastered with their friends to sing along at these things.
I really hate country music, and I am terrible at gaming at big events. So I never dabbled.
I don't know how much or long I could fake being a country guy. These chicks are also seriously into (it really matters):
1. Do you have a big pickup truck?
2. Do you own guns?
3. Are you military? Cop? Firefighter? Some very manly occupation.
4. Happens often enough... are you a Christian and love Jesus?
5. Are you white and jacked? By white I mean Scandanavian / Germanic heritage All-American looking?
6. Do you line dance well? Do you know all the popular line dances? Do you know the lyrics to a bunch of alcohol drinking related country classics?
7. Are you good with your hands? Car repairs, home improvement etc...? A true handyman.
There is a HIGH correlation with these, especially for the hotter ones that have their pick of these types of guys.
Of this list I have 0/7. I could lie about all of 'em but it seems like a ton of work.
They are looking for the Anglo-Saxon All-American hard-skilled alpha stereotype.
If you can land one of these hotties they do seem like true catches. They love keeping in shape, having their hair and makeup done, looking hot while never looking trashy, and seemed obsessed with being a woman and pleasing their man.
The only bad news is I am betting many or most blow up and get fat after kids. Maybe not.
(10-11-2014 11:22 AM)RexImperator Wrote: I agree with the lessons but how exactly do you merge the cool/laid back vibe with escalation, when "cool" might be interpreted as acting somewhat disinterested. It seems to be a careful balancing act.
I would say escalate as much as you can for an ONS. Otherwise, I do think there is a balancing act btw lots of kinoing and not making her uncomfortable/acting thirsty.
There's girls who want to make out right away and those who want to fuck. Not every girl falls into the latter category, although you need to calibrate which is which.!
WesternCancer 路 2014-10-12 00:07:00 路 #3763
You guys really need to try unemployed lowlife game.
I've had dates with 3 chicks this week and they've all paid for EVERYTHING. I got meals, snacks, one drove me around to places. One even offered to buy me something from the mall.
For best results have a devil may care attitude and be very sexual.
Fucked one of the chicks a couple times.
Smoked/drank with the other one and ended up just cuddling till she kicked me out (I think I posted about her earlier, couldn't get anything sexual going, but I luv me some cuddles)
Just got back from the 3rd ones place. She bought me dinner and some candy. I was all ready to ask to use her bathroom when she invited me in. We started making out as soon as we got in her room. She ended up giving me a hand job and teased the fuck out of me. She'd jerk me for a bit then kiss the tip of my cock then lick one of my nuts telling me I had to wait. Then she'd go cold for a bit. I'd start kissing again, she pulled off her panties and rubbed the head of my cock on her dripping wet pussy, but jumped off as soon as I tried sliding it in saying she wasn't that kinda girl...
Biggest blue balls of the century.
I've had dates with 3 chicks this week and they've all paid for EVERYTHING. I got meals, snacks, one drove me around to places. One even offered to buy me something from the mall.
For best results have a devil may care attitude and be very sexual.
Fucked one of the chicks a couple times.
Smoked/drank with the other one and ended up just cuddling till she kicked me out (I think I posted about her earlier, couldn't get anything sexual going, but I luv me some cuddles)
Just got back from the 3rd ones place. She bought me dinner and some candy. I was all ready to ask to use her bathroom when she invited me in. We started making out as soon as we got in her room. She ended up giving me a hand job and teased the fuck out of me. She'd jerk me for a bit then kiss the tip of my cock then lick one of my nuts telling me I had to wait. Then she'd go cold for a bit. I'd start kissing again, she pulled off her panties and rubbed the head of my cock on her dripping wet pussy, but jumped off as soon as I tried sliding it in saying she wasn't that kinda girl...
Biggest blue balls of the century.
simondice 路 2014-10-12 01:39:00 路 #3764
(10-12-2014 12:07 AM)WesternCancer Wrote: You guys really need to try unemployed lowlife game.
I've had dates with 3 chicks this week and they've all paid for EVERYTHING. I got meals, snacks, one drove me around to places. One even offered to buy me something from the mall.
For best results have a devil may care attitude and be very sexual.
Fucked one of the chicks a couple times.
Smoked/drank with the other one and ended up just cuddling till she kicked me out (I think I posted about her earlier, couldn't get anything sexual going, but I luv me some cuddles)
Just got back from the 3rd ones place. She bought me dinner and some candy. I was all ready to ask to use her bathroom when she invited me in. We started making out as soon as we got in her room. She ended up giving me a hand job and teased the fuck out of me. She'd jerk me for a bit then kiss the tip of my cock then lick one of my nuts telling me I had to wait. Then she'd go cold for a bit. I'd start kissing again, she pulled off her panties and rubbed the head of my cock on her dripping wet pussy, but jumped off as soon as I tried sliding it in saying she wasn't that kinda girl...
Biggest blue balls of the century.
Ouch, that doesn't healthy at all. Good stuff regardless
Yeti 路 2014-10-12 09:01:00 路 #3765
I'm looking for suggestions on either: Getting a student ID card, or finding another means of campus entry.
I work next to a large, very good university (smart girls but also generally very attractive).
I want to game while I'm supposed to be at lunch but there's heavy security with access points.
If I had a student/staff ID with a picture that looks like me, I could probably enter. Or is there another way? Where can one acquire a university ID card?
I work next to a large, very good university (smart girls but also generally very attractive).
I want to game while I'm supposed to be at lunch but there's heavy security with access points.
If I had a student/staff ID with a picture that looks like me, I could probably enter. Or is there another way? Where can one acquire a university ID card?
(10-11-2014 02:23 PM)MrXY Wrote: On the country theme, a friend in his early twenties who goes to country concerts told me recently that the quantity and talent of women at these concerts is fantastic. He said sometimes there are 5 girls to every guy, and a lot of hotties. Think I'm going to buy a cowboy hat and explore this niche.
I have heard of this, seen some evidence, think 5-1 is way too high but even 2-1 is a goldmine.
Too bad I can't force myself to go to them. Maybe I should just tailgate?
Went out with one of the new college girls Fri nite. She ditched meeting her friends to come out with me.
Had a drink first, she complimented the suit many times, then grabbed some sushi, petite girls don't eat much it seems, got constant sparkly eyes.
She clearly had spent a couple hours getting ready, dressed in not much of a dress and heels. No visible tattoos. Attracted a lot of attention but ignored it.
We left and she immediately grabbed my hand. Lots of kino. Walked around visiting the open galleries nearby.
As we left one I grabbed her neck and started making out on the street, had my hands inside the dress. Hopped into my car where this continued, she kept squeezing my hand with her thighs & leaning into me.
Got to the next bar for a nightcap, but then she had to leave for work in the am or something. WNB on first date, so I sent her home and hit the sack to rest up for Sat. Said she had awesome time and can't wait to see me again.
Had a drink first, she complimented the suit many times, then grabbed some sushi, petite girls don't eat much it seems, got constant sparkly eyes.
She clearly had spent a couple hours getting ready, dressed in not much of a dress and heels. No visible tattoos. Attracted a lot of attention but ignored it.
We left and she immediately grabbed my hand. Lots of kino. Walked around visiting the open galleries nearby.
As we left one I grabbed her neck and started making out on the street, had my hands inside the dress. Hopped into my car where this continued, she kept squeezing my hand with her thighs & leaning into me.
Got to the next bar for a nightcap, but then she had to leave for work in the am or something. WNB on first date, so I sent her home and hit the sack to rest up for Sat. Said she had awesome time and can't wait to see me again.
reco2100 路 2014-10-12 17:41:00 路 #3768
Its been a really good week. As far as bangs go this one is one of my most successful. I have been working some online game. And going on a few dates. I have been studying what is going on here at RVF. And learning as much as I can. Even though I am 52 I am fairly new to the game. So here is a chronological rundown.
Monday: Had lunch with a blond 36YO MILF. She showed up on time and wore the clothes I told her. She was very receptive and ready to have fun. However she did not look that good in person. I am giving her a 5. But she was sweet and thin and decent body and very funloving and it had been a while so I thought fuck it. I am going for it. The seduction was not that hard. Lots of teasing, eye contact, touching, and eventually the kiss. I told her lets get a room and she said ok. Took her to the hotel. And fucked her twice. She gave awesome head and was a total freak in bed. I started to choke her and she wanted it harder. I was amazed at how hard I was choking her and she wanted more. Shit I don't want to kill her. lol But afterwards major pain in the ass. Very very clingy. Complementing me a lot asking what I am thinking. etc. I knew this would be the last time ever saw her. Nice girl. Not going to repeat.
Then I was on to another city to a meeting and then drinks with a 23 sweet young shy thing that was going to be our first meet also. Very cool chick. Not too great looking about a 6, but a rocking body and very sexy. Kind of quiet at first but she warmed up to me as I escalated. She was better than the blond above and such a tight young body. So we had some drinks appetizers couple of hours, and then on to the next venue my hotel. It was within walking distance so we talked and made out a lot. No resistance whatsoever. Took her up to the room. Still no resistance. Started kissing, then got her on the bed stood over her and put my cock in her mouth. She gobbled it up hungrily and without heasitation. Awesome blow job. Fucked her switched to a few postiions and then flipped her over and put her ass up in the air and grabbed her long thick hair by the back of her head and shoved her head into the pillow. She loved it and got real vocal and super wet. Pounded her and then rested. She had to go and I was exhausted anyway. It was 12:30pm by this time. I like this one. Some chicks are just cool. She is like that. Totally DTF no drama, super wet pussy, tight body.
Tuesday: Got up around 7AM and did some work. Then I picked up my 18YO former cheerleader at 12 and took her to lunch. She is very frisky and cocky so it is kind of fun watching her try me. After lunch back to the hotel for 2 hours of fucking. She wanted to wrestle which was kind of annoying but I played along and pinned her down. She is fun. She is totally into me. But not sure I want to keep up with her immature antics. I am fucking her every other week so far. She wants a lot of sex so she may not stay around too long.
Then I had a date scheduled with a 45 YO divorcee for that night. My cutoff is usually 40 but she looked so good in her pics and seemed cool on the phone. I wanted to give her a try. Plus she is a successful businesswoman and I figured it would be good practice. We picked a bar near her house. I had several previous conversations with her and she was real cocky. For instance told her to send me sexy pics with poses and then told her what to wear. She gave me shit all the time. Constant shit tests. I just batted them down and laughed at her. In the end she sent me the pics. I said to her when she protested. Dont you want to make me happy. She said I know how to make you happy. I laughed at her and told her. So let me get this straight, you are going to tell me how to make me happy? And then I would laugh at her. She then saw how absurd she was. Still she was slowly moving into my frame. Time for the meet and she is late. She said just jumping into the shower. So I just drove on home. She called me about 20 minutes later and said that she was ready am I at the bar yet. Fucking bitch was intentional making me wait. Huge shit test. I just laughed and said I am headed home. She started to argue and then she said forget it. That was it for the dried up 45YO. Certainly going to end up lonely and sad. My expectations were not high anyway.
Wednesday: Met for drinks with a 36YO beach babe. Very cute better in person. She was tall and thin 5'9" before the heels. Nice shape on a thin body. Very long straight light brown hair. Give her a 7. She was very sad and spent the first hour recounting her problems. I turned it around and got her laughing and having fun. Several cocktails later she is totally into me. Lots of kissing and touching. I have read these stories about guys fingering a chick in a bar and wanted to try it. She never resisted me once, never fingered her but had my hand up her dress and was rubbing her pussy. We went for a walk we were at an outdoor venue with lots of shops and stores and bars. Found a quiet place and really started making out. Then she said she had to go. But she was really into me and wanted me to come to her place and what day could I come by. I walked her to her car and really got into fingering her and the parking lot was kind of dark but anyone could walk up pretty easily. She went straight for my cock and was stroking me through my pants very skillfully. Then a couple walked near by to get their car. So we stopped and waited with her sitting in her seat with her legs on the ground facing out and me standing next to her. Finallly the other people left and I immedialty pulled out my hard cock and she went to work. Man could she suck a dick. She spread her legs and I fingered her little pussy. Fucking blew right there in the parking lot and she swallowed every drop. We planned on meeting up on Friday and she leaves. Get a text when she gets home saying how much she likes me and what a great time she had, and night is good. However she never responded back to me again for Friday plans. Not sure why. Any ideas from the experts here? She would make a great fuckbuddy.
Thursday: Went to another city for a meeting. And had a date planned with a cute little 26YO Cubana for drinks that night. Met and hit it off right away. Her face was better, but her body was a little thick. I give her a 6.5. Very conservative. I really like this one. We really clicked. Of all the ones I met this week she was my favorite. And I pushed it to the limit. I wrote about this one on the suburbs thread. It was truly the highlight of a very good week. She is down for a regular thing also. So plan on seeing her this week again. Also already have plans with the 23YO above. For next week.
Thats my week. Very good. Maybe the best ever and never had so much semi public sex. lol
Monday: Had lunch with a blond 36YO MILF. She showed up on time and wore the clothes I told her. She was very receptive and ready to have fun. However she did not look that good in person. I am giving her a 5. But she was sweet and thin and decent body and very funloving and it had been a while so I thought fuck it. I am going for it. The seduction was not that hard. Lots of teasing, eye contact, touching, and eventually the kiss. I told her lets get a room and she said ok. Took her to the hotel. And fucked her twice. She gave awesome head and was a total freak in bed. I started to choke her and she wanted it harder. I was amazed at how hard I was choking her and she wanted more. Shit I don't want to kill her. lol But afterwards major pain in the ass. Very very clingy. Complementing me a lot asking what I am thinking. etc. I knew this would be the last time ever saw her. Nice girl. Not going to repeat.
Then I was on to another city to a meeting and then drinks with a 23 sweet young shy thing that was going to be our first meet also. Very cool chick. Not too great looking about a 6, but a rocking body and very sexy. Kind of quiet at first but she warmed up to me as I escalated. She was better than the blond above and such a tight young body. So we had some drinks appetizers couple of hours, and then on to the next venue my hotel. It was within walking distance so we talked and made out a lot. No resistance whatsoever. Took her up to the room. Still no resistance. Started kissing, then got her on the bed stood over her and put my cock in her mouth. She gobbled it up hungrily and without heasitation. Awesome blow job. Fucked her switched to a few postiions and then flipped her over and put her ass up in the air and grabbed her long thick hair by the back of her head and shoved her head into the pillow. She loved it and got real vocal and super wet. Pounded her and then rested. She had to go and I was exhausted anyway. It was 12:30pm by this time. I like this one. Some chicks are just cool. She is like that. Totally DTF no drama, super wet pussy, tight body.
Tuesday: Got up around 7AM and did some work. Then I picked up my 18YO former cheerleader at 12 and took her to lunch. She is very frisky and cocky so it is kind of fun watching her try me. After lunch back to the hotel for 2 hours of fucking. She wanted to wrestle which was kind of annoying but I played along and pinned her down. She is fun. She is totally into me. But not sure I want to keep up with her immature antics. I am fucking her every other week so far. She wants a lot of sex so she may not stay around too long.
Then I had a date scheduled with a 45 YO divorcee for that night. My cutoff is usually 40 but she looked so good in her pics and seemed cool on the phone. I wanted to give her a try. Plus she is a successful businesswoman and I figured it would be good practice. We picked a bar near her house. I had several previous conversations with her and she was real cocky. For instance told her to send me sexy pics with poses and then told her what to wear. She gave me shit all the time. Constant shit tests. I just batted them down and laughed at her. In the end she sent me the pics. I said to her when she protested. Dont you want to make me happy. She said I know how to make you happy. I laughed at her and told her. So let me get this straight, you are going to tell me how to make me happy? And then I would laugh at her. She then saw how absurd she was. Still she was slowly moving into my frame. Time for the meet and she is late. She said just jumping into the shower. So I just drove on home. She called me about 20 minutes later and said that she was ready am I at the bar yet. Fucking bitch was intentional making me wait. Huge shit test. I just laughed and said I am headed home. She started to argue and then she said forget it. That was it for the dried up 45YO. Certainly going to end up lonely and sad. My expectations were not high anyway.
Wednesday: Met for drinks with a 36YO beach babe. Very cute better in person. She was tall and thin 5'9" before the heels. Nice shape on a thin body. Very long straight light brown hair. Give her a 7. She was very sad and spent the first hour recounting her problems. I turned it around and got her laughing and having fun. Several cocktails later she is totally into me. Lots of kissing and touching. I have read these stories about guys fingering a chick in a bar and wanted to try it. She never resisted me once, never fingered her but had my hand up her dress and was rubbing her pussy. We went for a walk we were at an outdoor venue with lots of shops and stores and bars. Found a quiet place and really started making out. Then she said she had to go. But she was really into me and wanted me to come to her place and what day could I come by. I walked her to her car and really got into fingering her and the parking lot was kind of dark but anyone could walk up pretty easily. She went straight for my cock and was stroking me through my pants very skillfully. Then a couple walked near by to get their car. So we stopped and waited with her sitting in her seat with her legs on the ground facing out and me standing next to her. Finallly the other people left and I immedialty pulled out my hard cock and she went to work. Man could she suck a dick. She spread her legs and I fingered her little pussy. Fucking blew right there in the parking lot and she swallowed every drop. We planned on meeting up on Friday and she leaves. Get a text when she gets home saying how much she likes me and what a great time she had, and night is good. However she never responded back to me again for Friday plans. Not sure why. Any ideas from the experts here? She would make a great fuckbuddy.
Thursday: Went to another city for a meeting. And had a date planned with a cute little 26YO Cubana for drinks that night. Met and hit it off right away. Her face was better, but her body was a little thick. I give her a 6.5. Very conservative. I really like this one. We really clicked. Of all the ones I met this week she was my favorite. And I pushed it to the limit. I wrote about this one on the suburbs thread. It was truly the highlight of a very good week. She is down for a regular thing also. So plan on seeing her this week again. Also already have plans with the 23YO above. For next week.
Thats my week. Very good. Maybe the best ever and never had so much semi public sex. lol
kaotic 路 2014-10-12 17:57:00 路 #3769
(10-11-2014 11:22 AM)RexImperator Wrote: I agree with the lessons but how exactly do you merge the cool/laid back vibe with escalation, when "cool" might be interpreted as acting somewhat disinterested. It seems to be a careful balancing act.
Like Anti said don't act thirsty, I felt a strong sexual vibe with this girl, so I kept my excitement locked down.
I always use asshole/clown game, it's just who I am. I make sexual jokes of everything, I constantly tease the girl, neg her here and there (with a smirk of course).
Honestly, I never kino much, I pretty much know I'm making out/banging the girl. I don't poke/caress/tickle a girl, I rarely touch her during dates.
I always just go balls in and kiss her, I've never been rejected (in my beta days I did).
When I DO kiss her I escalate fast as fuck. I'm talking pulling hair, grabbing her by the back of her neck/hair pulling, lip biting, neck biting. Sometimes I'll even throw in some choking to see how they react.
I do as much as I can as fast as I can, it overwhelms the girl and I always get a strong sexual/positive reaction.
It's like a blitzkrieg strike, you aren't flirting hard/or giving hints of what you're going to do to her, but when I do strike, it comes fast, hard, and sexual.
keysersoze 路 2014-10-12 22:37:00 路 #3770
Pretty bummed out right now. Last night I got completely played.
My neighbors in my apartment complex had a bit of a "block party", if you will. There were plenty of good looking girls, and I felt like I was completely killing it with several of them. You know, the sort of night where you feel like you have your pick of several girls. My apartment was right down the hall so bringing one back would've been pretty basic and simple.
Anyways, there's a girl I previously knew who I saw at one of the parties. I felt mutual attraction. I talked to her for about a half hour, before she headed to a bar right down the street. She asked me to join, but I wanted to continue to game at the parties because of the abundance of girls and how well my game seemed to be working. Therefore, I told her I would meet her at the bar down the street in about a half hour.
Eventually she called me, asking me to join her to go to a bar district 15 minutes away from campus. I thought it was fucking stupid, I absolutely did not want to go, but there was a very hot girl begging me to go with her to some bars, so I left the parties and went. When we arrived, she said we had to go straight to XYZ Bar to meet her friend. Soon, after buying the "first round" of drinks at the bar, I found myself in a three way conversation between myself, the girl, and a guy on the football team. Within one fucking minute, it was a two way conversation, and guess who was stuck there standing by themselves? Me. I hung out for about five minutes. I was livid, called a cab to pick me up and bring me back to the parties. $30 and a while later I arrived back at the parties, and every girl I was talking to was gone.
This fucking bitch asked ME to come with her and two of her friends to a bar, pulling me away from other girls, and proceeds to ditch me for a different guy who was already there, which was completely predetermined. Ruined my chances with other girls and ruined my night. I've never felt so damn disrespected.
My neighbors in my apartment complex had a bit of a "block party", if you will. There were plenty of good looking girls, and I felt like I was completely killing it with several of them. You know, the sort of night where you feel like you have your pick of several girls. My apartment was right down the hall so bringing one back would've been pretty basic and simple.
Anyways, there's a girl I previously knew who I saw at one of the parties. I felt mutual attraction. I talked to her for about a half hour, before she headed to a bar right down the street. She asked me to join, but I wanted to continue to game at the parties because of the abundance of girls and how well my game seemed to be working. Therefore, I told her I would meet her at the bar down the street in about a half hour.
Eventually she called me, asking me to join her to go to a bar district 15 minutes away from campus. I thought it was fucking stupid, I absolutely did not want to go, but there was a very hot girl begging me to go with her to some bars, so I left the parties and went. When we arrived, she said we had to go straight to XYZ Bar to meet her friend. Soon, after buying the "first round" of drinks at the bar, I found myself in a three way conversation between myself, the girl, and a guy on the football team. Within one fucking minute, it was a two way conversation, and guess who was stuck there standing by themselves? Me. I hung out for about five minutes. I was livid, called a cab to pick me up and bring me back to the parties. $30 and a while later I arrived back at the parties, and every girl I was talking to was gone.
This fucking bitch asked ME to come with her and two of her friends to a bar, pulling me away from other girls, and proceeds to ditch me for a different guy who was already there, which was completely predetermined. Ruined my chances with other girls and ruined my night. I've never felt so damn disrespected.
Checkmat 路 2014-10-12 23:45:00 路 #3771
^ Live and learn. It sounds like you let her lead where the evening went.
brofists 路 2014-10-13 00:34:00 路 #3772
(10-12-2014 10:37 PM)keysersoze Wrote: Pretty bummed out right now. Last night I got completely played.
My neighbors in my apartment complex had a bit of a "block party", if you will. There were plenty of good looking girls, and I felt like I was completely killing it with several of them. You know, the sort of night where you feel like you have your pick of several girls. My apartment was right down the hall so bringing one back would've been pretty basic and simple.
Anyways, there's a girl I previously knew who I saw at one of the parties. I felt mutual attraction. I talked to her for about a half hour, before she headed to a bar right down the street. She asked me to join, but I wanted to continue to game at the parties because of the abundance of girls and how well my game seemed to be working. Therefore, I told her I would meet her at the bar down the street in about a half hour.
Eventually she called me, asking me to join her to go to a bar district 15 minutes away from campus. I thought it was fucking stupid, I absolutely did not want to go, but there was a very hot girl begging me to go with her to some bars, so I left the parties and went. When we arrived, she said we had to go straight to XYZ Bar to meet her friend. Soon, after buying the "first round" of drinks at the bar, I found myself in a three way conversation between myself, the girl, and a guy on the football team. Within one fucking minute, it was a two way conversation, and guess who was stuck there standing by themselves? Me. I hung out for about five minutes. I was livid, called a cab to pick me up and bring me back to the parties. $30 and a while later I arrived back at the parties, and every girl I was talking to was gone.
This fucking bitch asked ME to come with her and two of her friends to a bar, pulling me away from other girls, and proceeds to ditch me for a different guy who was already there, which was completely predetermined. Ruined my chances with other girls and ruined my night. I've never felt so damn disrespected.
I can't even comprehend how I would feel in a situation like this. Like the above poster said, take this as a lesson and nothing more. I fully agree that you have to lead and have her commit to your frame from now.
Sometimes we rationalize things and let our frame go because of women being hot, and we give them excuses, and turn to our lizard brains and our former selves.
it's hard to do, but you've learned a valuable lesson that very few other men have experienced, so you can proudly tell yourself, "challenge completed". You are one better man coming on top from this, just remember that.
In the journey of self improvement, you have ups and downs, the fact that you didn't throw a fit or escalate the situation with anger or rage is a very strong accomplishment in itself. I am sure many people would have done something they might regret.
Be proud yourself my friend, you've done nothing wrong and everything right and more.
Checkmat 路 2014-10-13 00:46:00 路 #3773
On a first date with a girl a few weeks ago. At the first bar, everything is going great and she says, "Well, I'm feeling good. Do you want to go get a drink somewhere else?" So we bounce.
From the jump I've been wearing an Irish-style scally cap. Once we get outside and start walking to the next bar, she says something weird. She says, "So since we're going to be in a public place...Would you mind taking off your hat?"
I say, "What?"
Her: "I don't like hats on guys. I bet you have a really nice-looking head!"
Me: "You want me to take off my hat."
Her: "Yeah...If you wouldn't mind. I'd just be more comfortable. I don't like it when guys wear hats."
Me: "Damn, that sucks for you."
Her: "Will you take it off?"
Me: "No."
Her: "What!"
Me: "You know, I was going to take it off anyway but now I think I'll keep it on."
Her laughing: "What! You're going to keep it on just because I asked you to take it off?!"
Me w smirk: "Yup."
Her, pouty: "awwwww..."
Me, in my best 8-year old girl impersonation: "awwwww...I didnt get my way! ungh! I'm a girl, I usually get what I want! Thats not fair!"
Followed by a grin, kino and normal game escalation at the 2nd venue.
Ended up banging 2 hours later
From the jump I've been wearing an Irish-style scally cap. Once we get outside and start walking to the next bar, she says something weird. She says, "So since we're going to be in a public place...Would you mind taking off your hat?"
I say, "What?"
Her: "I don't like hats on guys. I bet you have a really nice-looking head!"
Me: "You want me to take off my hat."
Her: "Yeah...If you wouldn't mind. I'd just be more comfortable. I don't like it when guys wear hats."
Me: "Damn, that sucks for you."
Her: "Will you take it off?"
Me: "No."
Her: "What!"
Me: "You know, I was going to take it off anyway but now I think I'll keep it on."
Her laughing: "What! You're going to keep it on just because I asked you to take it off?!"
Me w smirk: "Yup."
Her, pouty: "awwwww..."
Me, in my best 8-year old girl impersonation: "awwwww...I didnt get my way! ungh! I'm a girl, I usually get what I want! Thats not fair!"
Followed by a grin, kino and normal game escalation at the 2nd venue.
Ended up banging 2 hours later
kaotic 路 2014-10-13 03:35:00 路 #3774
2nd fasted Tinder conversion ever tonight:
Matched a tinder girl with a nice rack, probably a 6.75 overall. Turns out on weekends she's in town from the Navy.
I get off work at 7, I handle some house shit and cooking. I immediately get her digits she lives 30 mins away and is here by 10.
Her Tinder bio says she doesn't drink, loves coffee.
Wouldn't you know it, she got a pumpkin spice latte (I didn't get anything because the coffee place was about to close).
We chat and end up on movies (important) and she talks about her coffee.
I tell her earlier in the day by friend said this restaurant a block away has pumpkin spice beer (logistics). Waddya know she drinks a beer, when she says she doesn't, weird.
Anyways we bounce from 2nd venue back to my place because we're gonna watch a movie we both love.
Once again no kino, no signs i was making moves besides bringing her close to me aka cuddling. I just go for the kiss and she's into it, not the greatest kisser, hardly any tongue.
Watch the movie, no heavy petting, no bang, just making out.
I understand why because "she just met me" and at this point I want her out because I need sleep for work. She hints she'll be back in town next weekend. Hoping to close the bang then.
My sober game improved I wasn't nervous at all kept the funny asshole thing as I would when drinking.
Saturday night:
I ended up in bed with the snookie chick I talked about last week, thick girl, big old DD's, pierced, no bang because she was literally on her rag. Just used her place to crash because I don't want a DUI.
Definitely want to bag her later this week, thing is, she seems....kind crazy.
Unfortunately funds are tight so I'm laying low for a few days, I'm having my main HB take me out to dinner and a movie this week, really want to see Andre 3000 as Jimi Hendrix in the new movie that came out.
Matched a tinder girl with a nice rack, probably a 6.75 overall. Turns out on weekends she's in town from the Navy.
I get off work at 7, I handle some house shit and cooking. I immediately get her digits she lives 30 mins away and is here by 10.
Her Tinder bio says she doesn't drink, loves coffee.
Wouldn't you know it, she got a pumpkin spice latte (I didn't get anything because the coffee place was about to close).
We chat and end up on movies (important) and she talks about her coffee.
I tell her earlier in the day by friend said this restaurant a block away has pumpkin spice beer (logistics). Waddya know she drinks a beer, when she says she doesn't, weird.
Anyways we bounce from 2nd venue back to my place because we're gonna watch a movie we both love.
Once again no kino, no signs i was making moves besides bringing her close to me aka cuddling. I just go for the kiss and she's into it, not the greatest kisser, hardly any tongue.
Watch the movie, no heavy petting, no bang, just making out.
I understand why because "she just met me" and at this point I want her out because I need sleep for work. She hints she'll be back in town next weekend. Hoping to close the bang then.
My sober game improved I wasn't nervous at all kept the funny asshole thing as I would when drinking.
Saturday night:
I ended up in bed with the snookie chick I talked about last week, thick girl, big old DD's, pierced, no bang because she was literally on her rag. Just used her place to crash because I don't want a DUI.
Definitely want to bag her later this week, thing is, she seems....kind crazy.
Unfortunately funds are tight so I'm laying low for a few days, I'm having my main HB take me out to dinner and a movie this week, really want to see Andre 3000 as Jimi Hendrix in the new movie that came out.
keysersoze 路 2014-10-13 11:32:00 路 #3775
(10-13-2014 12:34 AM)brofists Wrote: I can't even comprehend how I would feel in a situation like this. Like the above poster said, take this as a lesson and nothing more. I fully agree that you have to lead and have her commit to your frame from now.
Sometimes we rationalize things and let our frame go because of women being hot, and we give them excuses, and turn to our lizard brains and our former selves.
it's hard to do, but you've learned a valuable lesson that very few other men have experienced, so you can proudly tell yourself, "challenge completed". You are one better man coming on top from this, just remember that.
In the journey of self improvement, you have ups and downs, the fact that you didn't throw a fit or escalate the situation with anger or rage is a very strong accomplishment in itself. I am sure many people would have done something they might regret.
Be proud yourself my friend, you've done nothing wrong and everything right and more.
I was absolutely livid and I felt completely defeated. Not only did I get played and disrespected, but it ruined my almost sure-fire chances with other girls. I was having a blast at the parties too. I wasted my money and wasted my night on top of the embarrassment. Oh well, live and learn.
But you're completely right, it was a valuable lesson. I will never predicate my night based on where a certain girl is going, especially when there are other options. I completely lost my frame and I payed for it.
Furthermore, I will undoubtedly see her again within the next couple weekends. I don't exactly know what I'll say, but I know I won't give her the time of day.