RE: Bad genetics?
From a South-Asian perspective, Yes. An average Swede, Colombian, Lebanese or Korean chick does appear more attractive than your average Indian. Two thirds of the world is relatively short with black hair, black eyes and so being tall, blonde and blue eyed is going to be a novelty in most places.
Most households in India, emphasize economic advancement (money)+academic achievement (status) a million times over grooming oneself and being athletic. Everyone's chasing credentials, paper and favors - it's not easy competing in a developing country of 1 billion. You're constantly stressed out in the rat race and conservative values discourage you from impressing the opposite sex. Grooming is only encouraged when a girl/guy is of marriageable age. But fear not! Globalization and women's liberation have arrived, so this is rapidly changing, especially in the cities.
Food-I'm no expert, but your average Indian meal is starchier than it needs to be. It's overkill, in an era of 9-5 office jobs where you sit on your ass all day. Love handles are standard equipment. A generation ago, a paunch was considered a sign of status (well fed) in a man. India has a rich culinary heritage so good food is central to "having a good time."
Indian men tend to be soft spoken and non-confrontational so women are less pressed to maintain their body after marriage - having a baby can make an Indian girl hit the wall so hard you'll be drywalling that shit for years. You will routinely see buxom, fair-skinned girls with love handles being worshipped by sexually frustrated, apologetic, nice-guys, raised on bollywood films while they wait to marry the girl-next-door introduced by their mother.
This environment is counterproductive to raising bold, attractive, manly men. The women follow suit because they don't need to step up their game for their beta-provider husbands.
But, south asians are wealthier (avg. GDP) and younger (avg. age) than before and are presenting themselves to the world on a daily basis. The value of improving appearances is increasing and will improve their attractiveness as time goes by. Combined with the steady growth in women's liberation, the number of attractive females open to sex is only going to go up! They'll still suck at giving head though.
Genetics, upbringing and lifestyle all play a role in determining appearance. You can improve the latter and still outdo any potential negative effects of the first two.
Aside: I know a South Asian "natural" who uses this "bad-genetics" argument to invalidate every single pickup attempt by an Indian dude. He says women wince when they take note of the "bad genes," kwik-e-mart accent and weak voice, so there's no point approaching unless you were born attractive.
I don't think you need good genes to stop bitching, take more showers, eat healthy, exercise regularly, speak boldly, be proud of your roots and flirt with chicks. It's life, some have it easier, others earn their stripes.
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