Slept with this girl without a condom, right after she looked at me in this scary way and said, "promise me you won't have sex with anyone" with wide eyes and clear dread. she then made the argument that since she let me have sex without a condom i wasn't to have sex with anyone else so she wouldnt get anything. i didn't know what to say to her but i implicitly agreed(I didnt want to but I've never been in such a situation). I told her I'd keep her in the loop if I slept with any girls. I lost my hand here but I couldn't help feeling like a dick if I didn't agree.

what are you supposed to say or do in this situation?

Pussy is like money.

Sometimes, despite your best efforts to get it, you will be flat broke.

But if you just put your head down and keep grinding out the work, eventually you will have a time when it is falling from the trees.

(09-22-2014 09:06 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Slept with this girl without a condom, right after she looked at me in this scary way and said, "promise me you won't have sex with anyone" with wide eyes and clear dread. she then made the argument that since she let me have sex without a condom i wasn't to have sex with anyone else so she wouldnt get anything. i didn't know what to say to her but i implicitly agreed(I didnt want to but I've never been in such a situation). I told her I'd keep her in the loop if I slept with any girls. I lost my hand here but I couldn't help feeling like a dick if I didn't agree.

what are you supposed to say or do in this situation?

I had what I guess I'd call my main girl ask about this a month ago, if I'd "been having sex with anyone else since we were having sex without a condom". I said I'd been with one other person since we first slept together (not true) and that I'd used a condom (also untrue).

If your situation came up I think my response would be with a chuckle "You're going to be able to keep me satisfied all by yourself?" her- blahblah "Well I definitely promise not to have unprotected sex with anyone else". Easy to say when I'm not the one on the spot though.

In the awkward and unlikely situation you did give her something you can say the condom broke or you caught it from oral, that has actually happened to me before with the clap.

Girl I had a ONS with saturday night left her necklace here in the morning. As many have stated, this is an obvious attempt to see me again right?

Anyways, today I tell her I can give it to her and to meet me at my apartment building doors. I played it off as if I were walking back from class, so I could take her up to my room to grab it instead of bringing it down to her. So we went into my room, started talking about the night, and she's giving me strong sexual eye contact. So I said something about doing it again and kissed her, but she kind of resisted and I walked her down to the door and hugged her. Got a bit of a weird vibe as she left.

I really want to fuck her again because she was easily the sexiest girl I've ever fucked, and I was really drunk so I didn't really get to savor it. She was pretty sober that night by the way. I suggested hanging out and she said yeah but I didn't get a real excited vibe. Any thoughts on how to proceed?

Also, I forgot to add: Saturday night as I was really drunk, we had a pretty big argument about condoms and I was really pissed she didn't let me hit raw. I don't know if I fucked up.

Do you guys recommend continuing talking to a girl to keep things warm after a bang if you wanna see her again or going radio silent(for dread)?

I fucked my boss last night. The body on her was amazing. She was a kinky little girl too, I always knew it.

(09-23-2014 01:26 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  Do you guys recommend continuing talking to a girl to keep things warm after a bang if you wanna see her again or going radio silent(for dread)?

Dread game is for LTRs; it doesn't apply at at all here. So, yes.

(09-23-2014 06:15 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  I fucked my boss last night. The body on her was amazing. She was a kinky little girl too, I always knew it.

Wow! What led up to this and how did you make it happen?

(09-23-2014 09:03 AM)MrXY Wrote:  

(09-23-2014 06:15 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  I fucked my boss last night. The body on her was amazing. She was a kinky little girl too, I always knew it.

Wow! What led up to this and how did you make it happen?

She doesn't get out much and I live right in the heart of downtown.

She took me up on my offer to grab a drink and relax after work. Took her to this swanky little bar. I used the classic "First rounds on me" line when I dropped my credit card on the bar and ordered for us.

Getting her talknig, I brought up a few other cool bars nearby and told her about them. Then just went into other random subjects that we have common interest in. She finished her drink and I said "Hey, lets check out that cool Irish dive bar I told you about. You owe me a round." Then led her off there.

That cool little Irish dive bar is on the bottom floor of my apartment building, funny how that works isnt it . Had a drink there, brought up some cool goPro snowboarding videos I had made. We bullshit some more. When her drink has one last sip in it, i say "Lets get out here, I'll show you those videos real quick then I'll walk you to your car".

Offer her a beer and we sit on my couch on watch the movies. I start rubbing her back and legs and what not. I'm kinda slouched down, pretty much laying down, on the couch with my around her. She puts her drink down and looks at me, I pull her in for the makeout. Some mild petting and a good makeout sesh, then shes gotta leave. Walk her to her car and make out with her again.

Started date 7pm. At my place by 9pm. Making out by 10pm. I like to start dates early and slow roll.


Went out with her the next day to grab some food at an exotic food place (think frog legs, goat tongue, ostrich, etc) that I had told her about the night prior. Get a couple drinks there, eat some cool food, bounce to my place to smoke hookah. Bang.

Start date at 7pm. My place by 9pm. Banging by 10pm. I can pretty much set a clock by my typical date routine.

Body of an 8. Face of a 7-7.5. Not bad. Definitely a 1 on my favorite scale, the 0-1 scale .

next goal: fuck her at work. so I can cross that off my bucket list.

Been trying out observational approaches and teasing as a way to start conversations with hot girls. A normal person might see it as trying the girl, but it's a very good way to screen out the chicks who are not cool. The results have been definitely outstanding, the women I get a reaction out of either respond badly and very annoyed or respond hard, laugh and they are very rewarding these interactions. Even though there are a couple shit tests here and there, it's a great way to start building sexual tension and keep it. It also screens out the cool chicks from the boring, not interested.

Had a weird approach

Approached a girl asking her about Starbucks and she was fairly smitten, but very probing. The first 5 minutes of conversation were almost like going through airport security. Shit tests were flying everywhere, she put me through the wringer to the point where I walked away.

She was a 7 at best but no amount of potential blowjobs is worth that much annoyance.

She got mad at some of my remarks and teasing but she couldn't let me get away.
She said "so do you always ask girls about Starbucks in order to talk to them"

I kept teasing her about not being nice to strangers and she was eating it up.
When I finally walked away she was like "you know what? Bye" like in a shit test way.
I walked away (had enough of her shit) and then she's like "nooooo, come back. What's your name again?"

Kept mentioning how I'm the strangest man she's ever and she invites me to walk her to the vending machines.

I think this type of game is rewarding for me, or when indirect is required, doing Roosh's Daygame formula is enough.

Finally did it.

After a hockey game, I brought my main regular back to my work (she parked here).

I banged in my office, right on the table doggy style, she thought it was hot as fuck, and I was hard as fuck.

Being adventurous with sex always pays off.

Cross one off my bucket list.

Bucket list

Fuck a (hot) cop
Fuck a professor
Hot twin sisters threesome

(09-23-2014 03:16 PM)simondice Wrote:  Bucket list

Fuck a (hot) cop
Fuck a professor
Hot twin sisters threesome

cop <-- yes
professor <-- yes, but I have never saw one single professor that passes the binary scale
Hot twin sisters threesome <--- why stop there, lets win the lottery while were at it haha

@ AntiTrace, were there any additional incentives besides a quality bang that you had in mind?

Since I'm sure you're familiar with the saying "Don't shit where you eat". What made you not give a shit in this situation?

(09-23-2014 04:15 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(09-23-2014 03:16 PM)simondice Wrote:  Bucket list

Fuck a (hot) cop
Fuck a professor
Hot twin sisters threesome

cop <-- yes
professor <-- yes, but I have never saw one single professor that passes the binary scale
Hot twin sisters threesome <--- why stop there, lets win the lottery while were at it haha

It will happen before I'm dead, I'm sure of that.

(09-23-2014 04:18 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  @ AntiTrace, were there any additional incentives besides a quality bang that you had in mind?

Since I'm sure you're familiar with the saying "Don't shit where you eat". What made you not give a shit in this situation?

Shes traveled the world, and is planning on leaving within the next 6 months for another year or so of backpacking. Were on the same page that were not getting into an LTR or anything serious.

Combine that with the fact the job is a part time gig that I took only for shits and giggles and because it gives me access to young college chicks. I don't care about losing the job if shit goes down.

(09-23-2014 04:42 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(09-23-2014 04:18 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  @ AntiTrace, were there any additional incentives besides a quality bang that you had in mind?

Since I'm sure you're familiar with the saying "Don't shit where you eat". What made you not give a shit in this situation?

Shes traveled the world, and is planning on leaving within the next 6 months for another year or so of backpacking. Were on the same page that were not getting into an LTR or anything serious.

Combine that with the fact the job is a part time gig that I took only for shits and giggles and because it gives me access to young college chicks. I don't care about losing the job if shit goes down.

Yup exactly !

If a HB 8 was hired at my 9-5 corpo, sure I'd flirt a bit, but wouldn't go for the bang unless it was THAT obvious.

My weekend job, well I've already banged 2 of the girls fro there, flirt with new girls hired. Not to mention I try to farm numbers from hot girls who come in.

If she's leaving, you've got nothing to lose banging her, especially if it's part time. Good shit man !

Boyfriend goes to school 5 hours away... Okay babe.

yeah, haven't banged any girls in my office yet. One is a sure thing, another girl like 90% up for it.

But my real goal is to get a bj under the desk and come in her mouth on a workday. My door locks, so shouldn't be a problem. Both girls would definitely say yes to that, a few glasses of bubbly at lunch and mission accomplished.

I don't know why I value that over the rough sex on my desk, I just do. Both are going to be awesome. I'll report back after.

I had one boss that I absolutely positively would have banged the fuck out night and day and the following night.

(09-22-2014 09:06 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Slept with this girl without a condom, right after she looked at me in this scary way and said, "promise me you won't have sex with anyone" with wide eyes and clear dread. she then made the argument that since she let me have sex without a condom

Get an STD test. Ask her for one. Show her you're clean when she gets tested.

(09-23-2014 08:36 PM)horn Wrote:  

(09-22-2014 09:06 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Slept with this girl without a condom, right after she looked at me in this scary way and said, "promise me you won't have sex with anyone" with wide eyes and clear dread. she then made the argument that since she let me have sex without a condom

Get an STD test. Ask her for one. Show her you're clean when she gets tested.

You should have a clean STD test on file anyways.

I once got an STD, knew exactly who the fuck gave it to me. Problem was I had banged 3-4 girls before the symptoms showed, and I knew they were all going to come at me with rage.

So I went the hospital, got tested, got meds, and got clean. After the treatment, I asked for another test "just to be sure". I kept a copy of those results.

When the shit hit the fan, I told the girls I regularly get myself tested just to be safe. The of course called bullshit. That's when I whipped out my clean test dated within the last couple weeks. Then I turned the rage around on them, and pretended to be losing my mind that she might have gave me an STD.

Worked like a charm

(09-23-2014 01:26 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  Do you guys recommend continuing talking to a girl to keep things warm after a bang if you wanna see her again or going radio silent(for dread)?

Absolutely DON'T go radio silent - you are setting yourself up for a false accusation.

As has been said "dread" is for hand in LTRs, not first bangs.

If you want to see her again, hit her with some texting, keep it light/fun and don't make her feel weird about it. Then suggest another meetup.

(09-23-2014 08:51 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(09-23-2014 08:36 PM)horn Wrote:  

(09-22-2014 09:06 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Slept with this girl without a condom, right after she looked at me in this scary way and said, "promise me you won't have sex with anyone" with wide eyes and clear dread. she then made the argument that since she let me have sex without a condom

Get an STD test. Ask her for one. Show her you're clean when she gets tested.

You should have a clean STD test on file anyways.

Yes, I agree, but most guys don't get tested every 3 weeks.

Gotta a Coffee Meet Bagel chick on the line, just taking my time reeling her in

Been on the site for a few months now, after a quick initial 'match', shit was moving slower than your avg glacier

ignored it for awhile, came back & changed to a more 'mysterious' pic, sure enough - new matches instantly

This latest one is 10 years younger (my target group as of late), has pretty much been leading the interaction as I've been sitting back nonchalantly

Gotta love when girls game themselves into your bed

(09-24-2014 10:18 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Gotta a Coffee Meet Bagel chick on the line, just taking my time reeling her in

Been on the site for a few months now, after a quick initial 'match', shit was moving slower than your avg glacier

ignored it for awhile, came back & changed to a more 'mysterious' pic, sure enough - new matches instantly

This latest one is 10 years younger (my target group as of late), has pretty much been leading the interaction as I've been sitting back nonchalantly

Gotta love when girls game themselves into your bed

I have not gotten a SINGLE match on there. I should use my fake FB and drop myself down to 24. Idk all I've seen are asian girls on CMB.

Yeah, for a while all I was getting was Jewish career type chicks

I've seen some hotties and some one's I wouldn't hook my enemy up with

The upside is that it only takes 10 seconds to scroll through her pics and say yay or nay - minimal time investment

Maybe switch the order of your current pics or try a new one if it's been a while since you've touched it up

My new 'mysterious' pic is one where I'm rocking shades and looking nonchalant. Not being able to see your eyes sometimes makes them "curious"