Post: #1

With a bit of advice from Roosh I have been able to date multiple girls at the same time. This includes coworkers, friends of friends, randoms and even an ex...all of which have no idea about the others. I dont mean to hype myself up, i'm just saying that remaining calm, cool and collected has helped me smooth talk my way out of numerous potentially reputation ruining scenarios. Thanks Roosh for all your advice.

Post: #2

So, I bought Bang not long after it came out but never got around to reading it. Then, when I broke up with my girlfriend I was like "what the hell, why not give it a shot." No joke, the day after I finished the book, I got a notch. I used a ton of material from the book -- venue selection, changing venues, touching manuevers, phone game, bedroom game -- I even used the "can I use your bathroom" line and it worked! When I read that line in the book I was like "you've got to be kidding me, that will never work" -- and yet it worked perfectly!

So now I thumb through the book before dates, just to remind myself of some of the best moves. Maybe the stuff in Bang is old hat to a lot of people, but I have found it to be ridiculously useful. Thanks Roosh.

Post: #3

I have a feeling that a lot of guys read my book and then put it away without trying what i teach. This kills me because the techniques ACTUALLY work. You'd be surprised at the number of emails i get that are like.. "So roosh there is this one girl that i really really like. Can you please tell me how to get her?"

Post: #4

I'm definetly with you on that Roosh, so far I have read it through once, now I want to get back into and properly READ it, as most thing's I've taken in but not fully i.e. to put into practise!

There were some questions that I had that came out of it though, they'll probably come back when I re-read through it

Post: #5

I wonder if reading but not actually doing anything much describes most people who read these kind of blogs. I admit it describes me, and I don't get the impression many of the commenters are knee-deep in women.

I read lots of blogs like Roosh's and have read Bang and a couple more books on the topic to the point where I really appreciate, believe and can explain the principles behind attracting women. But I'm no more successful than some of the friends who I now feel I can advise on how to deal with women.

Actually making use of the advice myself to get a lot more dates etc. is a different thing than understanding it. I don't really make the time for it in the way I should and - let's be honest - I often chicken out when the opportunity does come up. So while I have applied plenty of game-like behavior successfully in certain contexts, I think I'd find mentally exhausting an hour-long conversation where I'm cagey and constantly witty. With work, it wouldn't be, but it's an effort.

It's sort of like staying in shape. Everyone knows how: a balanced diet and regular exercise. But walk out your door and you'll quickly see how many people aren't putting it into practice.

Post: #6

I was able to have a Mother/Daughter menage using techniques from Bang. I've never seen my mother and sister so happy before. Thank Man!

Post: #7

Bang does work.

Last Saturday. I was at a bar in Bmore. I approached this woman. Instead of putting her on a pedestal like I always did. I automatically thought of her, and treated her like a whore. (Whores until proven not)
She loved that I was treating her like a piece of azz. Then I said something that I have never said before. "Let's go." She said OK. I was dumbfounded, but I had my poker face on.
We went to a pizza shop, and got something to eat. Then it was back to my car for a BJ. It wasn't a notch but god's honest truth. I have never gotten a BJ in the same night of meeting a woman.

Thanks. lol

Post: #8

(08-12-2008 07:25 PM)Rapedaddy Wrote:  I was able to have a Mother/Daughter menage using techniques from Bang. I've never seen my mother and sister so happy before. Thank Man!

Liar

Post: #9

I co-sign that liar......impossible outside of BangBus fantasy land

Post: #10

When someone stuffed "The Game" by Neil Strauss in my back pocket I curiously read it wondering what all this "PUA" stuff was all about, and all that book really let me in on is a lot of what I thought I already knew as a man. I found Roosh's blog in a sea of blogrolls relating to "game" and the no-nonsense approach to the subject of game as well as life in general appealed to me. I had recently picked up a book called "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle (if any of you haven't read it yet I recommend it) and it talks about coming to a state of consciousness that only concerns yourself with the present moment. When you take a look at your life in that sort of way for the first time, you really start to see how much you are kidding yourself. There are two major revelations I've come to in the recent months :

Inner peace and joy : how can you ever improve at anything if there is a constant war going on inside of yourself. once you start fixing yourself on the inside you realize how harmless new pain is. you can stare it in the face and take it on like some sort of thrillseeker does. new pain in the art of game is the fear of rejection or failure. i don't have to re-iterate how to use failure or a rejection with an approach to your advantage.

I think the reason why a lot of folks are the type who just read the book or blog but never put it to practice is because they haven't stopped that war going on inside of them yet. the past is gone and the future doesn't even exist yet. it's like untangling a wad of cords. you eliminate the past and future related problems from your list and start fixing the problems that really matter: the ones that affect you "NOW".

I think once you let go of your ego it's quite simple to do this. you just have to come to that point where you stop kidding yourself.

2. Confidence : 100% of what you do communicates this. what you say, what youthink, how you move, etc.

Post: #11

Not to pick a philosophical debate over a book I haven't read, but, uhhh, isn't worrying only about the now and not about the future how a lot of Americans have racked up way too much debt and all?

You definitely do have to let go the past. Whatever failings you've had in the past, they can change, starting now. You live, you learn, and then you move on.

I've never entirely gotten the "fear of rejection" thing. Is that really what people are afraid of? Your self-esteem can't be dependent on what other people think of you. I do get approach anxiety (I'm getting much better about it), but I've always experienced it as just a general "freezing up." Not fear of any particular outcome, not necessarily even not knowing what to say, just a general "I know I should approach, but... uhhh... why am I still standing here? Oh, crap, now I've been standing here too long doing nothing." Rejection, on the other hand... rejection actually feels somewhat liberating to me.

Post: #12

(08-31-2008 01:27 PM)zorgon Wrote:  Not to pick a philosophical debate over a book I haven't read, but, uhhh, isn't worrying only about the now and not about the future how a lot of Americans have racked up way too much debt and all?

You definitely do have to let go the past. Whatever failings you've had in the past, they can change, starting now. You live, you learn, and then you move on.

I've never entirely gotten the "fear of rejection" thing. Is that really what people are afraid of? Your self-esteem can't be dependent on what other people think of you. I do get approach anxiety (I'm getting much better about it), but I've always experienced it as just a general "freezing up." Not fear of any particular outcome, not necessarily even not knowing what to say, just a general "I know I should approach, but... uhhh... why am I still standing here? Oh, crap, now I've been standing here too long doing nothing." Rejection, on the other hand... rejection actually feels somewhat liberating to me.

I don't know, maybe it's fear of living? I think most guys are not actually in the game. They live in their comfort zone. I am guilty of this to some extent, I shut everything down game wise in the late fall to recharge and don't really start approaching again until the spring.

Getting rejected by beautiful women is a good thing, it means I am trying. If you are getting rejected by ugly women, what the fuck, why are you hitting on low value women in the first place?

Post: #13

Holy god damn necro, Batman!

Post: #14

(05-02-2016 09:48 PM)Hannibal Wrote:  Holy god damn necro, Batman!

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