Post: #51

(06-04-2014 07:34 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

(06-04-2014 10:36 AM)pitt Wrote:  LISTEN

Do not bring any foreign girls to your country, this will be the biggest mistake you will ever make.

If your goal is just to get laid, you better off having sex with high quality escorts or travel to those locations whenever you have time off work and keep working on your game meanwhile.

Bringing a girl back to your country to spend some time with you will make you look like a fool in her eyes and probably she won't be a good girl. What good girl will just meet a foreign guy and decide to go spend sometime with him in his country?

She may even decide to make your life hell while she is in the US with you. Remember, the more you help them, the more ungrateful they become.

Don't do this man, for real.

Why not? If a girl is well off and can get a visa to visit you, why not have her come over? A friend of mine had a girl from Moscow visit him for a couple of weeks. 2 weeks of no strings attached sex with a reasonably hot girl for a guy who generally has trouble getting laid with the kind of girls he likes. Sounds like a pretty good deal to me.

Another friend met a Russian girl who was already in the US learning English and living in a dorm room. She moved to his place and spent a few months there before she came back to Russia. A hot girl, about 15 years his junior.

Fair enough, 2 weeks or a month (maximum) may be justified to have lots of sex with a really hot girl coming from abroad.

More than that and she will probably going to be more of a problem than anything else.Why would you live months with a girl that you barely know? While she is there, she may decide to dump your ass and go live with her family member. Don't think she will be sitting at home the whole day waiting for you to fuck her, she will be out in the streets too. If she is really that hot, she will have other guys hitting on her, with more game, swag and money than the OP. Sounds like the OP doesn't have much game, in his situation it can be dangerous to bring a girl from abroad.

I have heard so many of these stories and I never heard one that ended well. OP you better off moving to these countries and deal with these women in their countries unless you are a sex addicted,I don't see why you would want to pay a woman to come see you in your country and stay with you for months.

Post: #52

Rereading my first post, I must say...damn, it was a dark day when I wrote that.
I'm glad I did, it definitely describes my sentiments from time to time, and you guys gave me some good advice and told me what I needed to hear.

As for working on my game, I think I probably need to get input from other people (either professional or a wingman) on what I'm doing wrong. There might be something subtly wrong with my body language and facial expressions, or other odd mannerisms I have, that is unsettling to girls.
I don't have that much trouble getting girls' numbers and occasionally getting dates, I just don't end up banging those girls, they get turned off by me in the meanwhile.
The funny thing is that some of my acquaintances think I have good game because they've seen me approach hot girls and get their numbers. I've mastered the first 15 minutes of interaction but those skills don't generalize. Maybe I should look at this at this is a general issue of social skills, not just game, but it's not clear what's the right way to work on it.

Post: #53

(06-04-2014 10:48 PM)Blunt Wrote:  Just be careful about what kind of visa you invite a girl over on. Girls have entire forums dedicated to finding a way to get permanent status without getting married to you (ie false DV claim).

yeah, if you bring her on a k1 fiancee visa, she's supposed to leave if you don't marry. unless she claims asylum cuz yer "violent"

Post: #54

Thinking you don't need Game in a marriage or LTR is a serious error.

Post: #55

(06-07-2014 07:57 PM)Great Ape Wrote:  Rereading my first post, I must say...damn, it was a dark day when I wrote that.
I'm glad I did, it definitely describes my sentiments from time to time, and you guys gave me some good advice and told me what I needed to hear.

As for working on my game, I think I probably need to get input from other people (either professional or a wingman) on what I'm doing wrong. There might be something subtly wrong with my body language and facial expressions, or other odd mannerisms I have, that is unsettling to girls.
I don't have that much trouble getting girls' numbers and occasionally getting dates, I just don't end up banging those girls, they get turned off by me in the meanwhile.
The funny thing is that some of my acquaintances think I have good game because they've seen me approach hot girls and get their numbers. I've mastered the first 15 minutes of interaction but those skills don't generalize. Maybe I should look at this at this is a general issue of social skills, not just game, but it's not clear what's the right way to work on it.

On these dates are you escalating? Are you pushing for sex as fast as you can? If not, that could be your problem. You need to be unapologetic about your desire to have sex with the women you meet. It may seem like the wrong thing to do but they will thank you for it in more ways than one.

Post: #56

(06-12-2014 12:51 PM)invictusiii Wrote:  

(06-07-2014 07:57 PM)Great Ape Wrote:  Rereading my first post, I must say...damn, it was a dark day when I wrote that.
I'm glad I did, it definitely describes my sentiments from time to time, and you guys gave me some good advice and told me what I needed to hear.

As for working on my game, I think I probably need to get input from other people (either professional or a wingman) on what I'm doing wrong. There might be something subtly wrong with my body language and facial expressions, or other odd mannerisms I have, that is unsettling to girls.
I don't have that much trouble getting girls' numbers and occasionally getting dates, I just don't end up banging those girls, they get turned off by me in the meanwhile.
The funny thing is that some of my acquaintances think I have good game because they've seen me approach hot girls and get their numbers. I've mastered the first 15 minutes of interaction but those skills don't generalize. Maybe I should look at this at this is a general issue of social skills, not just game, but it's not clear what's the right way to work on it.

On these dates are you escalating? Are you pushing for sex as fast as you can? If not, that could be your problem. You need to be unapologetic about your desire to have sex with the women you meet. It may seem like the wrong thing to do but they will thank you for it in more ways than one.

Exactly.

You can always 'apologise' for being too manly, but you can never convince a girl with "I'll be more manly next time".