Post: #1

my face:



his face:

Post: #2

The look on that guy's face is utter humiliation.

I feel bad for him.

You guys notice it's acceptable and even funny when this happens and it's a man, but called a romantic heart breaking movie and the guy's a jerk when the roles are switched?

Post: #3

(05-09-2014 04:41 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  The look on that guy's face is utter humiliation.

I feel bad for him.

I felt the vacuum clap from the speed at which his balls shrank up from across the globe.

Post: #4

Damn, painful to watch. I wanna ask why the fuck he's just standing there still holding her hand, but I guess he's just in shock about what just happened.

If there's anything that'll force the red-pill down your throat it's watching your girl make out with some dude while she's still holding your hand.

Also, I'm not sure I could do that to a guy. Is that beta?

Post: #5

Survivel of the fittest is something that comes to mind when i see this. He let his girl get stolen so he has no one to blame but himself for not capitalizing

Post: #6

That was painful to look at. I felt sorry for that guy. Hopefully that experience sets him on the right path. If that were me I'd have probably just to turned around and bitch-slapped the shit out of both of them.

Nothing will open your eyes quite like seeing a woman disrespect you in public. After, that, provided you're not a total bafoon, you'll know not to take shit like that again.

Post: #7

He shouldn't be angry at the guy for macking on her, but at the girl for being a tremendous slut. The guy hasn't made any promises to him, the girl has. Same if the genders were reversed - never blame the impostor, blame the one who embraced the impostor with open arms.

Following that line of thought, it would be absolutely pointless for him to attack the guy. A girl who is not absolute trash won't let herself get swooped away like that, and neither will she test you by trying to incite you into fighting over her.

And following that line of thought, it would also be absolutely pointless for him to attack the girl. Sluts aren't worth such a heated reaction. This is the only valid answer:



Walk way, vanish, and don't return her calls. Everything else is just not sensible.

I hope he learns something from this, but I doubt it.

Post: #8

(05-09-2014 05:23 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  He shouldn't be angry at the guy for macking on her, but at the girl for being a tremendous slut. The guy hasn't made any promises to him, the girl has. Same if the genders were reversed - never blame the impostor, blame the one who embraced the impostor with open arms.

... etc

Agreed.

My feeling is she had to know the guy she was with was a total doormat or she wouldn't have done it. If a girl is worried about a guy's reaction she's not going to risk catching a punch herself by being so blatantly disrespectful.

The fight risk is too high to swoop a girl like this, IMO. Not because I'd get my ass kicked, but because getting arrested ends the night on a sour note and assault charges aren't my idea of fun either.

Post: #9

Another reason not to ever place a chick ON a pedestal. Place her UNDER the pedestal.

Post: #10

Do we know what country this was filmed in?

Post: #11

(05-09-2014 06:03 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  Do we know what country this was filmed in?

Sign behind them says Tazmania Ballroom
Google returns Hong Kong

Post: #12

(05-09-2014 06:03 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  Do we know what country this was filmed in?

Looks/sounds (and seems) like the Lan Kwai Fong area in Hong Kong.

Post: #13

Hilarious and agonizing to watch at the same time. However, I'm not too impressed because of the Asian factor. Asian guys' game is generally too weak and the girls are too easily impressed by white guys. It's like God realized that he had been too unfair to men by making women so sexually diffident, so He created the Asian girls to make up for it.

Post: #14

Wow. Sluts have the same body language the world over. I've seen that slutty almost serpent like movements broads do, but literally thought it was a Western thing only. It's most aggressive right after that first kiss when she's still kinda on the phone. You can see it very bold, I am sure many of us have seen that body language projected in a possible prospect in the field. That was very surprising to me.

I thought homeboys world crashed after he snuck them kissing, but nope. It wasn't until that broad pressed the lever down on the guillotine, in pushing away his hand, did he get that awkward moment of being conflicted in what to do. He is to much of a noodle back to ever question a woman's actions, part of me feels he would of attempted to act more bold if it was the playboys male friend whom did that hand swipe. Even just a shove, or some minor vital sign that he still has his balls and is a man. You could tell he was having major brain farts of emotions both aggression and sadness. That part was tough to watch, be even so I still chuckled because I'm a asshole at times lol. That white guy was smaller then him and that dude could of easily puffed out his chest and been bold and he would of scurried away 100%. But if you know what to look for and you see slutty serpent body language from your girl you kinda gotta accept you picked a bad egg. You can't lock down and date them sluts. They always prey on betas and fest on them for dinner so you gotta be vigilant and aware of that if your transitioning with game.

Just fuck them sluts and don't call them back. The situation could of been prevented, but be had many chances to intervene so can't really feel sorry for him. Let's hope he learns from this.

Relevant and needed is a Tuthmosis gif for a Asian girl worshiping that white boy D. Dude looks like a clown but bad major balls to pull that off, so respect on that. His homie was gripping a mediocre and ugly Asian broad I wouldn't even let massage my balls let alone grip on and fuck with. His homie gets no props. His girl was wack.

Post: #15

You guys are reading too much into this.

Two guys were trying to mack on one girl and she didn't know what to do.

You can even hear in the beginning her friend is saying to the other guy that the girl is embarrassed that two guys are fighting over her. He asks her which one she wants to win, and the girls says "the white guy."

The Asian guy was being a bit more persistent, and he probably would have won out just because the girl didn't want to rock the boat and was going to fall into the path of least resistance. Whoever led was bound to take the girl out of there (though being a bit passive, the Asian guy may have gotten dismissed to go home shortly after).

With some egging on from the girl's friend and his friend, the blonde kid decided to step it up three notches and won the girl by offering a stronger lead. I think she liked him more anyways and was waiting for him to turn up the heat. She keeps looking to him for rescue while the other guy's talking to her.

Asian guy had a hard time taking it and made himself look like a dumbass standing there holding her hand like that. His friend had to come in and rescue him from himself - though for a second I wondered if he was going to start swinging some haymakers. haha

But it wasn't like his ole lady got stolen or anything. He just lost the battle a bit later in the game than is usual due to the whiteboy throwing a hail mary.

I'm sure it stung, but he'll get over it.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #16

Ya... the girl had her hand on white guys lap right from the start in the video.
So how exactly did he "steal" her?

Also white god factor in full display

Post: #17

^ Typical white groupies in that area, I'm sure. Note their perfect English and hanging out at a bar where it's clear both whites and locals intermingle. Not to mention the hanging on each other and making out (not typical of Asian joints in most places).

Doesn't hurt that his buddy is with her friend either. Looks like the gears had been turning on that hook-up for a while.

Don't know the country, but if that Asian kid is local, I'm sure there are plenty of other clubs where he'd be a huge favorite over the white kid.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #18

I can speak from personal experience when I say that there is nothing more efficient and effective in forcing red pill digestion than female delivered humiliation, especially when it comes in front of other people. I remember the feelings, and it is those memories that motivated me (and continue to motivate me) to move away from my old habits. I've seen what rock bottom looks and feels like, and I simply never want to go there again.

In that sense, I feel for this guy, but he needs to understand that there is no mercy in the sexual marketplace. Women hate weakness and will always punish it with displays similar to this when given a chance. They are engineered to test the strength of men, and they're ruthlessly efficient at it - if you come across as a doormat, they absolutely will walk all over you, wiping their feet and taking a few extra stomps just for good measure. If he wants to change that, he needs to change himself.

(05-09-2014 05:23 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  He shouldn't be angry at the guy for macking on her, but at the girl for being a tremendous slut. The guy hasn't made any promises to him, the girl has. Same if the genders were reversed - never blame the impostor, blame the one who embraced the impostor with open arms.

Following that line of thought, it would be absolutely pointless for him to attack the guy. A girl who is not absolute trash won't let herself get swooped away like that, and neither will she test you by trying to incite you into fighting over her.

And following that line of thought, it would also be absolutely pointless for him to attack the girl. Sluts aren't worth such a heated reaction. This is the only valid answer:



Walk way, vanish, and don't return her calls. Everything else is just not sensible.

This is all valid. I find disappearance to be quite an effective skill to develop. When you are always ready and willing to simply disappear when needed and can get to a point at which you can reliably do so anytime necessary, you're training yourself to decrease your outcome dependence and neediness. If you're a guy who has historically been very weak, supplicating, needy, and outcome dependent in your relations with women, training yourself to disappear following blatant signs of disrespect is a very good idea. It forces you to correct those weaknesses, insulates you from the kind of soul-crushing embarrassment this guy in the video must have felt (I've been there) and lets people know that you're not one to stand for disrespect. The man who simply leaves is more respectable than the man who stands there like a confused, broken puppy and takes the abuse. Had the man in this particular video been willing to simply walk way from this girl, he'd have been much better off.

That being said, all of the above can be augmented:

(05-09-2014 05:41 AM)weambulance Wrote:  My feeling is she had to know the guy she was with was a total doormat or she wouldn't have done it. If a girl is worried about a guy's reaction she's not going to risk catching a punch herself by being so blatantly disrespectful.

This is an important factor. This man got treated the way he did because this woman knew he was a pliable doormat. She understood that she could embarrass him openly in public and he would not leave. He also understood that he would not fight either. He posed no physical threat whatsoever - she had no fear of losing him or of him physically standing his ground and halting her flirtations.

When a woman understands that her failure to treat a given man with a certain degree of respect can result in a) his disappearance and/or b) physical confrontation, she's less likely to get out of line. Had she understood her man to be the type to physically stand his ground and potentially threaten the physical wellbeing of any man she tried to humiliate him with before subsequently dropping her from his life and disappearing in response to her disrespect, she'd have been far less openly welcoming of other invitations because a) she would have found the man she's with more attractive for his willingness to stand his ground, b) she would prefer not to cause any fights and c) she would have been very afraid to lose him. These are the fears that keep women respectful around their men.

As a man, you either develop the ability to inspire those fears in the women you are with or you get used to tolerating blatant disrespect on an increasingly regular basis. It is, now more than ever, an either/or proposition: there isn't much of a middle ground anymore.

Post: #19

LOL that Asian guy looks like a complete doormat not to mention not the best looking. That girl though definitely looked like she like to go around. Best thing to do at that moment is either pick her up and get out of the venue or just say fuck it and leave.

Again though, if that guy was in any way well built, the guy would not have messed with him. Easiest way to stop guys from stealing your girls is to get jacked, or you can learn effective game. Getting jacked does take a bit of time. I highly doubt a "normal" girl would do that, especially if they are seeing each other. Probable scenario: Both hitting on her that night, and Asian guy is being weak for not pulling. White guy takes initiative, win.

Post: #20

The asian guy didn't have a strong enough hand with her from the word go. I'm guessing there met at another club and were doing a venue change.
What he should've done was have her back facing the group of people and making out with her minimum.

The white dude wasn't a ice cold player stealing some dude's long term gf. He snagged a club slut plain and simple.

People were right when they said one stern look at the white guy and he would've folded like a house of cards.
I'm never the biggest guy in the club but every time some dude has tried this with me mid-pull one look is all it takes and they vanish like magicians.

A lot can be learned from this guys unfortunate circumstance.

Post: #21

(05-09-2014 09:22 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  The asian guy didn't have a strong enough hand...

Looked like a pretty good grip to me. Took some tugging from the other girl to get him off.

Post: #22

That guy looks like a scared child holding his mamas hand.

I think that kind of behavior is so ingrained on this dude that it needs to be shocked out of him.

Hopefully, he'll find this forum as that video goes viral and he takes a worlds worth of shame on his shoulders.

I can see that guy's hover hand movements at the end. He doesn't know what to do with anger and his arms start flailing around a little.

Post: #23

You're right, I missed the part where it was implied that the blond guy and the local (?) were fighting over the woman. In that case, the guy sholud've just walked away. I decided long ago taht I would never compete with anyone over a woman...it just pedestalizes her too much and reduces you to little more than a dog or monkey dancing for her in the hopes of being rewarded with a snack. Usually, girls who let to guys fight over them are in it more for the validation anyway. I'm not playing that shit. If I met some girl in a club and something like this happened, I'd do what CreepyEel described and simply walk away.

Post: #24

@ iop890

I was referring to the "pimp hand"

A hoe, that works for a pimp with a strong hand, never gets out of line because as Excelsior stated above the threat of physical violence is extremely high for her to behave like this.

If the asian dude indeed had a strong hand then she would've rejected the advances of the white dude. Plain and simple. She would've moved away from him or alerted the asian guy to what was going on.

This was an example of a dude having "weak hand" with a bird.

Post: #25

Hah, I know what you meant, it was a joke.