(04-14-2014 09:51 PM)QuillanGornt Wrote:  Gents, this woman wants me to meet up with her RIGHT NOW for some drinks. Just met her on Tinder, she gave me her # and asked how soon we could meet.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national...-1.1560385

Then she sent me semi nudes of herself. She looks pretty damn good. Senior members can PM me for the pics to prove I'm not lying.

Do any of you guys want to meet up with her in LA tonight? I'd be happy to forward you her info. I don't want to get involved with her since my Apt building doesn't have any sort of lockable front gate and/or security guard to ward of crazy chicks..

I'd fuck her(I am in los angeles). But you are missing the obvious: she will realize that I am not you pretty quickly.

I've been traveling around Europe the last month and I've literally been in Moscow for less then 36 hours and I matched with 20 ladies. Matched with 60 something total within a month from other cities (Vienna, Prague, Budapest, Munich, Paris). To say the least they are hurtin for a squirten. I'm a 25 year old Black make so maybe that plays a factor Idunno. I missed my flight to LA and they advised me not to leave the airport so I dont know the flake percentage of Russian women here.

Here's what I've found so far:

1. Try changing your main pic every week. It can have a huge difference. I went from only uggos responding to getting lots of cute girls responding with a simple profile pic change.

2. Only message in the evening, no one responds before dinner time.

(04-11-2014 06:45 AM)casio Wrote:  

(04-11-2014 06:01 AM)bojangles Wrote:  When i went abroad it kept showing me matches from home so I gave up. Brisey had the same issue

Tinder caches users. You should've swipped through the 20-40 users who were still in your local cache and it would've refreshed.

THANK YOu, i'm back abroad next week, I'm gonna smash through it

(04-15-2014 09:13 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  Here's what I've found so far:

1. Try changing your main pic every week. It can have a huge difference. I went from only uggos responding to getting lots of cute girls responding with a simple profile pic change.

2. Only message in the evening, no one responds before dinner time.

I delete my account and make a new one every few weeks of dead activity. A lot of girls on Tinder try it out for a bit and stop, its good to take advantage of the algorithm showing new members first.

Just a pet peeve of mine but so many girls within the first line or so she refer to themselves as "awesome." As a general rule any girl that say that gets an instant left-swipe. I see nothing about the way she looks or what she has to say that would indicate that she's anything but average in any way.

Would need to see more photos from ashleigh, but i think a lot of it would depend on how competitive she was running marathons. if she just jogs them in 5+ hours, then yeah, she is average. At least she isn't fat.

(04-17-2014 03:01 AM)eradicator Wrote:  Would need to see more photos from ashleigh, but i think a lot of it would depend on how competitive she was running marathons. if she just jogs them in 5+ hours, then yeah, she is average. At least she isn't fat.

Are we looking at the same picture? With her arms up and extended like that, we should be able to count her ribs if she wasn't fat. She STILL looks like a barrel. This chick sitting in a chair would be resting her gut on her lap.

No way this chick is running full marathons.

(04-17-2014 03:23 AM)Bix Wrote:  

(04-17-2014 03:01 AM)eradicator Wrote:  Would need to see more photos from ashleigh, but i think a lot of it would depend on how competitive she was running marathons. if she just jogs them in 5+ hours, then yeah, she is average. At least she isn't fat.

Are we looking at the same picture? With her arms up and extended like that, we should be able to count her ribs if she wasn't fat. She STILL looks like a barrel. This chick sitting in a chair would be resting her gut on her lap.

No way this chick is running full marathons.

You see all types running marathons, and certainly this girl could be running them.

Probably, she looks like a bulldog, while she is running.

I would NOT call her fat, but I would NOT want to wrestle her, she may kick my ass...

I am generally NOT attracted to girls who may be able to kick my ass. Scares me.

I can confirm northern Ireland is the thirstiest place for girls. I couldnt swipe a girl without her having already matched me. 15 matches in a row daily kind of shit. None of them are hot - terrible quality in that place.

(04-17-2014 03:34 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(04-17-2014 03:23 AM)Bix Wrote:  

(04-17-2014 03:01 AM)eradicator Wrote:  Would need to see more photos from ashleigh, but i think a lot of it would depend on how competitive she was running marathons. if she just jogs them in 5+ hours, then yeah, she is average. At least she isn't fat.

Are we looking at the same picture? With her arms up and extended like that, we should be able to count her ribs if she wasn't fat. She STILL looks like a barrel. This chick sitting in a chair would be resting her gut on her lap.

No way this chick is running full marathons.

You see all types running marathons, and certainly this girl could be running them.

Probably, she looks like a bulldog, while she is running.

I would NOT call her fat, but I would NOT want to wrestle her, she may kick my ass...

I am generally NOT attracted to girls who may be able to kick my ass. Scares me.

Wouldn't call her fat? Seems we have different ideas of what fat is. I wonder where your line is. Can you post a picture of someone you'd say "just qualifies as fat" for you?

I'm curious because it seems that people these days think that the average woman is not fat.

I can only guess why that is. Maybe it's because people think of fat as describing "significantly above average weight" and skinny as "below average weight"?

But average, below average and above average are not the same as skinny, normal and fat.

When I was in my teens, they were pretty much the same but when the entire population's average weight increases by a good 30 or 40 pounds, the 'average' woman is 'fat', at least to me. Fat is fat, regardless of what the national average is. Even if a 70kg woman is the lightest in the country, unless she's 6'5", she's likely fat.

The chick in the picture is at the VERY least chubby, but the fact that she maintains a barrel gut despite having her body extended like that tells me that is a very thick middle. You can call it chubby or pudgy or whatever you want, but I'm still guessing that naked, I'd call her fat. :-D





For reference, here's a girl that I think is fat enough for me to not really want to bang. If she was throwing herself at me, I probably would. Her face is cute, she has titties, but she's a bit too rounded everywhere for me. Is she huge? No. Would I call her "fat"? Borderline. Definitely a bit chubby. Am I saying that I can walk into a bar and get better than her with the snap of my fingers? Nope. Just saying her body is not what I like. But my preferences aside, I'd bet her BF% is over 25%, which is on all charts I've seen for women, "overweight".



Here's another one. I guess I'm in the minority here but damn, I can't get over the marshmallowness of her body. She's fat. I literally see nothing attractive about her body. She would have a hard time getting and keeping me hard for long. I couldn't get excited about a bang with this girl. Thankfully, her face seems ok.

I'd rather bang what I like once a month than bang something like that even if it was offered to me every day.



Too fat.



Even KK, I never understood what was so great about her. In this pic, she's "curvy" and I'd slam but I wouldn't be quite as excited as I would if she was say 10 or 15 lbs lighter. Flab on the stomach, legs a bit too big. Still quite good, IMO, but on the verge of going out of bounds.



I don't know if this is shop'd or not, but I think her body looks much better here. She looks curvy and fit, not just 'curvy'. This would excite me mucho.

Then again, I've always been partial to smaller and skinnier girls so maybe that's why the girls above are 'fat' to me? Or is it a generational thing? When I was a teen, there just were nearly as many girls that were fatter than these. These girls were 'fat' for me and all my friends. Today, no one seems to agree with me. lol

^^^ Dude I would rail the fuck out of every single girl you just posted. And I actually prefer thin girls, though I can certainly appreciate a pleasantly voluptuous woman too. Some dudes are waaaaaaay picky I guess. To each his own.

Trust me, man, I really wish I were not so picky. I wish like crazy that I could get excited about girls like the pics I posted (with the exception of the last one of KK, which I think is great). I would get laid a lot more often than I actually do because I wouldn't be passing up so many opportunities.

Funny story. When I went to the Philippines, there was one girl that I had pipelined and we were texting at around 10pm or so. I asked her if she wanted to meet but that it was late and I just wanted to hang out in my room, if she's cool with that. She was cool with it and showed up 30 minutes later. She was very cute but built similar to the one in the orange underwear (2nd pic above). So after our first drink, I start dropping heavy hints that I am very tired and want to go to sleep. I am also making it clear that what I'm saying is not an invitation to fuck. She ain't leaving. She wants another drink. Ah.... Ok, I give her one. She starts making not-so-subtle advances that she's interested. She's not pinning me down or anything like that, but I know she's putting herself on a silver platter for me. Nope. Can't do it. Part of me is thinking, go for it, who cares! But my dick just isn't interested. I wait for her to finish her 2nd drink and then tell her that it was nice to meet her but I have to go to bed so... (hint hint). I actually felt bad, seeing her disappointment as she left. This girl just needed some good dick. Nothing wrong with that. I'm just very sensitive to fat and there's a line that, once crossed, I lose all interest. 30 lbs overweight is not that different to 50 lbs overweight for me. I don't want either. The fattest girl that I've banged in the past 15 years was no fatter than the girl in the blue swimsuit above. And I really liked her, which is why she could turn me on despite that.

It's not an ego thing. I have fucked much bigger than that ages ago. Didn't like it, but I did it and I'm not ashamed to admit it. It's just that I can't get turned on by a girl with more than about 20lbs over the ideal. I'm not sure why, but I honestly wish I wasn't like this. It would be so much easier to have a full plate.

(04-17-2014 01:09 PM)Bix Wrote:  Trust me, man, I really wish I were not so picky. I wish like crazy that I could get excited about girls like the pics I posted (with the exception of the last one of KK, which I think is great). I would get laid a lot more often than I actually do because I wouldn't be passing up so many opportunities.

Funny story. When I went to the Philippines, there was one girl that I had pipelined and we were texting at around 10pm or so. I asked her if she wanted to meet but that it was late and I just wanted to hang out in my room, if she's cool with that. She was cool with it and showed up 30 minutes later. She was very cute but built similar to the one in the orange underwear (2nd pic above). So after our first drink, I start dropping heavy hints that I am very tired and want to go to sleep. I am also making it clear that what I'm saying is not an invitation to fuck. She ain't leaving. She wants another drink. Ah.... Ok, I give her one. She starts making not-so-subtle advances that she's interested. She's not pinning me down or anything like that, but I know she's putting herself on a silver platter for me. Nope. Can't do it. Part of me is thinking, go for it, who cares! But my dick just isn't interested. I wait for her to finish her 2nd drink and then tell her that it was nice to meet her but I have to go to bed so... (hint hint). I actually felt bad, seeing her disappointment as she left. This girl just needed some good dick. Nothing wrong with that. I'm just very sensitive to fat and there's a line that, once crossed, I lose all interest. 30 lbs overweight is not that different to 50 lbs overweight for me. I don't want either. The fattest girl that I've banged in the past 15 years was no fatter than the girl in the blue swimsuit above. And I really liked her, which is why she could turn me on despite that.

It's not an ego thing. I have fucked much bigger than that ages ago. Didn't like it, but I did it and I'm not ashamed to admit it. It's just that I can't get turned on by a girl with more than about 20lbs over the ideal. I'm not sure why, but I honestly wish I wasn't like this. It would be so much easier to have a full plate.

Yeah, you may need to get your hormones checked to verify whether you have the right ones, and also while you are at it, you may get your log in identification checked to make sure you signed into the correct website.

Ok, after a week and a half of a shirtless pic and still no matches, I'm going back to my usual arsenal. Only about 1-2 new female profiles on average appearing per day, so volume is still abysmal.

I still think I should have gotten some matches from my 50-70 total profiles viewed so far (I just swipe right on everything, per the good old "kill 'em all and let God sort 'em out" method), though. I take care to switch some pictures (other than the main one) around and slightly change my radius every day. It's just maddening to work with such small samples.

(04-17-2014 01:31 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  Yeah, you may need to get your hormones checked to verify whether you have the right ones, and also while you are at it, you may get your log in identification checked to make sure you signed into the correct website.

Nah, it's OK. If your hormones make you happy banging girls like this...



...then by all means, have at it. I don't get it, but I guess it's a good thing because every time a porker like that captures your attention for the night, it just means fewer guys getting in my way of going after girls like this.

Anyway, sorry for derailing the thread. I got sidetracked. This should be about Tinder.
Apologies.

^^^ Well if you're banging girls of that quality on the regular let me know when your ebook comes out.

(04-17-2014 03:46 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  ^^^ Well if you're banging girls of that quality on the regular let me know when your ebook comes out.

Bix only bangs 8.5 and above, apparently.. .and sometimes he's NOT in the mood for the lower level 8.5s b/c they won't get his willy up.

I'm sure that he has all kinds of pointers to guide some of us guys who have lesser discretions.

Even though this is the Tinder thread, I'm sure some of us could benefit from finding out some details regarding how he does it.... and how long it takes to bang these girls, are the long term relationships or does he just have a few of them in his rotation. Some details may be helpful also concerning where he meets these girls and how he gets them to fuck... Has he met any on tinder or does he find meeting them in other venues? I'm sure he has some details apart from a few model pics that he downloaded from the internet.

(04-17-2014 10:04 AM)Bix Wrote:  

I don't know if this is shop'd or not, but I think her body looks much better here. She looks curvy and fit, not just 'curvy'. This would excite me mucho.

I worked with a pr agency for KK. there is not one publicity photo of her that's not shopped. Her makeup for a 30 min photoshoot took 4 hours

(04-17-2014 03:00 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  Ok, after a week and a half of a shirtless pic and still no matches, I'm going back to my usual arsenal. Only about 1-2 new female profiles on average appearing per day, so volume is still abysmal.

I still think I should have gotten some matches from my 50-70 total profiles viewed so far (I just swipe right on everything, per the good old "kill 'em all and let God sort 'em out" method), though. I take care to switch some pictures (other than the main one) around and slightly change my radius every day. It's just maddening to work with such small samples.

Did you delete your profile or set up a new one? If you only changed pictures, you only had the "new" users as a base for your judgement.

Not sure if you guys saw the adweek article on Tinder.
How One Guy Wooed 2,000 Women on Tinder

Some good takeaways

"Little known Tinder fact: Updating profile photos puts you back in the pool of singles who swiped you off the first time around, giving you a second chance."

Adding a call to action in your profile.

(04-17-2014 10:31 PM)Thug Muffin Wrote:  Not sure if you guys saw the adweek article on Tinder.
How One Guy Wooed 2,000 Women on Tinder

Some good takeaways

"Little known Tinder fact: Updating profile photos puts you back in the pool of singles who swiped you off the first time around, giving you a second chance."

Adding a call to action in your profile.

This article made it clear, we arrived at the decade of self marketing. Either stay off the grid completely to protect your privacy or market yourself on Facebook/Tinder/the other social networks.

(04-17-2014 03:57 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(04-17-2014 03:46 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  ^^^ Well if you're banging girls of that quality on the regular let me know when your ebook comes out.

Bix only bangs 8.5 and above, apparently.. .and sometimes he's NOT in the mood for the lower level 8.5s b/c they won't get his willy up.

I'm sure that he has all kinds of pointers to guide some of us guys who have lesser discretions.

Even though this is the Tinder thread, I'm sure some of us could benefit from finding out some details regarding how he does it.... and how long it takes to bang these girls, are the long term relationships or does he just have a few of them in his rotation. Some details may be helpful also concerning where he meets these girls and how he gets them to fuck... Has he met any on tinder or does he find meeting them in other venues? I'm sure he has some details apart from a few model pics that he downloaded from the internet.

LOL. You guys are funny. Way to miss the point. (Which was, the more guys that are satisfied with banging and go after fat chicks, the better for us guys who limit ourselves to thin chicks because it's less competition.)

I never said I bang models. No one posting here is. I said I go after thin girls and I don't bang fat ones. Thin =/= model.

Here's the e-book version: Move to Japan. It's not nearly as hard to avoid the land whales here. Now send me my $5.

(04-17-2014 10:31 PM)Thug Muffin Wrote:  Not sure if you guys saw the adweek article on Tinder.
How One Guy Wooed 2,000 Women on Tinder

I did the whole "match of the day" thing after speakeasy send me the link in PM - but the results weren't that great.

I had extra matches for sure - but I'd argue they were lower quality. Like the more stupid/low tier girls, and I think the smarter ones just saw trough it and found it silly.

I generally like my girls smart/educated - so if this isn't important then go ahead and try the whole "match of the day" thing, it has a slight increase of matches.