Post: #76

to get back on topic, some of the sweetest girls I have ever met have been Mexican women from the region my family is from (West-Central Mexico or the states of Jalisco and Zacatecas) and German girls. but with the Mexican girls from West-Central Mexico, it connects with my quote from the bartender when I was in Guadalajara the last time. he told me that foreign men would be so seduced with the sweetness of the girls from Jalisco that they would risk getting married within a week.

Post: #77

(03-27-2014 10:36 PM)Hispanic_Reasoning Wrote:  

(03-27-2014 08:02 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(03-27-2014 07:30 PM)Hispanic_Reasoning Wrote:  

(03-27-2014 07:25 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(03-27-2014 06:39 PM)Hispanic_Reasoning Wrote:  loveblondes is Chilean...... quit the witch hunt for random Indian dudes...... what loveblondes posted is very true. Iberians aren't that keen on people from South America, especially if you say you are from Peru, Bolivia, and Colombia. if you say Argentina or Uruguay, then you are cool.

O.k... I will admit that I accused him of being a troll b/c his post fits a pattern. There is also a pattern that he is being a bit defeatist as well, in his post rather than considering how to work whatever angle he may have.. including maybe choosing his geographical location... or even his target girl(s).

On the other hand, if a guy cannot change his geographical location or his target girls, then likely, he is going to need to consider another angle to work to his psychological satisfaction rather than seeming to engage in complaining that other people are causing him misery, even if there is some truth to it...

I'm NOT steadfast in my views regarding any of these points, and i though that I was merely identifying some problematic areas in loveblondes' pessimistic and stereotyping post.. and maybe a lack of information was provided therein, as well.

loveblondes mentions something thats very true. the thing is, iberian and italian women aren't so fond of guys darker than them usually. but he could care less in that he likes german girls.

It is good to have a work around, that is for sure, and it seems as if Loveblondes has found a work around.

I would hate to be stuck geographically in a place in which I was having troubles finding some kind of an angle to work the women and that would work for me and my preferences. For example, I find that overall in LA, women tend to be very difficult to cold approach; however, sometimes I meet some very sweet women, and mostly I am able to accomplish this with my salsa dancing hobby.

Other guys have found that social circles work pretty well in LA, and I have witnessed some of that too. In that regard, I would NOT characterize LA women as being very sweet, but sometimes, I meet women that seem to be very sweet... even though I question how long their sweetness would last in an LTR - even though sometimes it can work for shorter periods for banging purposes.

you know, I am a Bay Area guy and I fucking hate LA with a passion. the ironic thing for me is that all the girls I have ever reaching anything close to serious with (2 girls), both were from LA. they have been very sweet to me and completely different to girls here in the Bay Area.

I think it always depends on the person. cold approaching can be hit or miss here in Nor-Cal. the only problem here is that talent is in very low quantities unless you like Asian girls.

Surely sweet girls can be met anywhere, yet there is a certain supply and demand issue that seems to pervade the whole of the united states.... and guys getting into their 40s makes for tougher and different strategies, if the guy wants to meet young women (which is my current situation). I lived in the Bay area for several years (nearly 6 years), and yes, i have appreciated differences with girl sweetness, too, between urban and rural areas, so sometimes the overall culture of the community can make a difference... And, overall California suffers quite a bit of difficulty, despite some variance between different cities.

Believe it or NOT overall, i have found girls in DC to be more friendly than LA, even though people complain about DC. Yet, sometimes, there is a certain level of exoticism that a guy may bring to the table when he is traveling.... and over the last 10 years or so, I have tended to meet girls in the salsa scene.

I have various ongoing business connections in LA; however, I am working on leaving LA and to travel.. (even though I have been here for more than a decade) and to establish location independent living.. My first destination will likely begin in Asia, so I do like Asian girls. Though I like other girls as well. hehehehe...

I am looking forward to a change of venue.. that is for sure.. I am just continuing to work out details in trying to get my business shit sufficiently together so that I do NOT have to return to LA too often.. and I do NOT have to worry about certain matters if I am traveling for extended periods of time and in that regard to be able to sustain a location independent kind of living... For me, it has NOT been easy to wrap my business matters up and to attempt to get these matters to such a self-sustaining point.. so I have been having to make adjustments to my projected time-lines.

Post: #78

(03-27-2014 11:04 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  Surely sweet girls can be met anywhere, yet there is a certain supply and demand issue that seems to pervade the whole of the united states.... and guys getting into their 40s makes for tougher and different strategies, if the guy wants to meet young women (which is my current situation). I lived in the Bay area for several years (nearly 6 years), and yes, i have appreciated differences with girl sweetness, too, between urban and rural areas, so sometimes the overall culture of the community can make a difference... And, overall California suffers quite a bit of difficulty, despite some variance between different cities.

the problem with California is that the cost of living is at stratospheric levels, which makes people work more than they usually would. this in turn creates people who are extremely stressed. add to other problems California has (worst traffic in the country, overpopulation, etc). with all that, you get the present situation of people being shitty, overtly materialistic, parents not giving a fuck about their children, and having more career aggressive women who don't give a fuck about their looks as much.

for me, the sweetest women I have found in the US all tended to be religious, even if they are from California (both of the girls from LA are very religious). unfortunately, Californians aren't very religious for the most part, which also reduces sweetness. it's also why I keep finding girls from the mid-west and the South to be sweet to me.

Quote:Believe it or NOT overall, i have found girls in DC to be more friendly than LA, even though people complain about DC. Yet, sometimes, there is a certain level of exoticism that a guy may bring to the table when he is traveling.... and over the last 10 years or so, I have tended to meet girls in the salsa scene.

it all depends on the person. I have found muslim girls to be very sweet with me, even though I was raised Catholic (now agnostic).

[quote]I have various ongoing business connections in LA; however, I am working on leaving LA and to travel.. (even though I have been here for more than a decade) and to establish location independent living.. My first destination will likely begin in Asia, so I do like Asian girls. Though I like other girls as well. hehehehe... [quote]

unfortunately for me, the only women who get me boned are european, central asian, latin-american, and middle eastern girls. east asian girls never get me.

Post: #79

(03-27-2014 10:46 PM)Hispanic_Reasoning Wrote:  to get back on topic, some of the sweetest girls I have ever met have been Mexican women from the region my family is from (West-Central Mexico or the states of Jalisco and Zacatecas) and German girls.

Por otra parte, otra vez estoy en Alemania por un par de semanas. No me resulta fácil decir esto, pero tengo que admitir que durante mi estancia, he visto muchas mujeres hermosas. Si se añadiera a su comportamiento un toque de dulzura, la mujer alemán sería tal vez un don del Señor. Pero cuando veo a mujeres hermosas aquí, me parece que lo que les falta es siempre lo mismo.

Post: #80

Non-American girls.

really though Mexican girls. Brazilain are so warm. Latin America in general. Asian girls are down. Non-America in general more.

Fuck America. Latin America is the place.

Post: #81

Philippines
Poland
South Korea
China
Thailand

Seriously though, you guys who have said Mexico and Latin America must really be lost. Latina women are the most coldest, money-hungry, racist bitches on Earth. I'd gladly be with an American feminazi than any Latina woman.

Post: #82

(04-03-2014 11:47 AM)All_That_Is_Man Wrote:  Philippines
Poland
South Korea
China
Thailand

Seriously though, you guys who have said Mexico and Latin America must really be lost. Latina women are the most coldest, money-hungry, racist bitches on Earth. I'd gladly be with an American feminazi than any Latina woman.

Really? I'd take a Latina over a Korean any day.
I'd take a Latina meltdown over a Korean meltdown any day.

(though honestly, I'd prefer to avoid the meltdown altogether with a nice Filipina or Indonesian)

Korean guys tells me they don't like Korean women's attitude.
Korean women tell me that Japanese girls are way sweeter than they are.

I've seen many incidences of lack of sweetness in Korean females from age 6 to age 85.

Post: #83

(04-03-2014 11:47 AM)All_That_Is_Man Wrote:  Philippines
Poland
South Korea
China
Thailand

Seriously though, you guys who have said Mexico and Latin America must really be lost. Latina women are the most coldest, money-hungry, racist bitches on Earth. I'd gladly be with an American feminazi than any Latina woman.

Interesting

I've never experienced this with Latin women

Post: #84

(04-03-2014 08:29 PM)buja Wrote:  Korean guys tells me they don't like Korean women's attitude.
Korean women tell me that Japanese girls are way sweeter than they are.

I've seen many incidences of lack of sweetness in Korean females from age 6 to age 85.

Yeah, that is some funny shit. Korea girls could only be considered "sweet" if you have never been to East Asia before. They are among the craziest, most materialistic bitches I have come across.

Japanese girls are a good bet. Then again, you need to learn Japanese and understand the culture to find the really sweet ones, so the "barrier to entry" is high in Japan.

The Japanese girls who learn English well tend to be on the less feminine side. They know that foreign "gentlemen" will put up with their shit more than Japanese guys do.

These specimens tend to be less domestic and are only good for pump and dump. Funnily enough, white guys off the boat think these girls are 8+. I imagine it's similar in other places too.

Post: #85

(04-03-2014 11:47 AM)All_That_Is_Man Wrote:  I'd gladly be with an American feminazi than any Latina woman.

Post: #86

(04-03-2014 11:47 AM)All_That_Is_Man Wrote:  Seriously though, you guys who have said Mexico and Latin America must really be lost. Latina women are the most coldest, money-hungry, racist bitches on Earth. I'd gladly be with an American feminazi than any Latina woman.

Post: #87

I wrote about it before in the Bang Osaka thread, but Japanese girls will sometimes pay for you if they like you.

-They are polite
-They will sometimes bow and apologize after rejecting your number close attempt (provided you were interesting but she wasn't available)
-Clean
-not fat (I think I saw a total of 5 fat j-girls in a 2year period of being there)
-After dates, sometimes they will bow and wait until you disappear from their field of view before leaving themselves (feels like an honor when they do this to me)
-No bullshit ( i never really had an argument with a j-girl)

they can be cold and hard to read at first despite the politeness, but after the bang they open up

Post: #88

^^ To add to the above about J-girls:

- They cook well. Japanese food, western food - you name it, they will cook it.
- They are charming in an understated feminine way. You really feel like a man around a J-girl. Not surprising when you consider this country created the geisha and hostess clubs.
- They are domestic. Many past girlfriends of mine would clean my place and do my laundry for me without prompting. They don't expect any thanks or anything in return. It just the "normal thing" for girls to do.
- (Assuming you are young) They don't care about money. They tend to live at home with their family and get money from daddy so it's never really an issue.
- They leave you the sweetest little handwritten notes. This will make you glad you learned Japanese.
- They apologize for the smallest things
"I'm sorry. My period is today. Is it still OK if I sleep over?"
"I'm sorry I left your room in a mess yesterday. I will clean up next time"
"I'm sorry I didn't cook last night. What do you want me to make next week?"
- They expect you to cheat but that's OK because you are a man. Cover your tracks, don't rub it in their face and they are cool about it.
- They are undemanding on your time. I've dated many a J-girl who was cool with meeting 2-3 times a month. In the beginning, when I was stuck in my Western bubble I actually complained about this!
- They are modest. The girl I'm currently dating is an excellent cook but is always playing her abilities down or nitpicking something about the food that wasn't good. Meanwhile, I am typically struggling to keep a straight face.

I could go on and on but people probably wouldn't believe me. And yes, these are the typical "good" girls who generally don't speak English.

Post: #89

I'd give Indoenesian girls a +1. Super respectful and humble, and can't imagine them ever attempting to overpower their man/boyfriend. Besides, being too nice is a massive negative for me, i don't want some girl apologizing for every little thing, that would get annoying (and I've experienced it before). Indo girls are sweet without being fake.
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Post: #90

(04-04-2014 01:10 AM)dreambig Wrote:  ^^ To add to the above about J-girls:

- They cook well. Japanese food, western food - you name it, they will cook it.
- They are charming in an understated feminine way. You really feel like a man around a J-girl. Not surprising when you consider this country created the geisha and hostess clubs.
- They are domestic. Many past girlfriends of mine would clean my place and do my laundry for me without prompting. They don't expect any thanks or anything in return. It just the "normal thing" for girls to do.
- (Assuming you are young) They don't care about money. They tend to live at home with their family and get money from daddy so it's never really an issue.
- They leave you the sweetest little handwritten notes. This will make you glad you learned Japanese.
- They apologize for the smallest things
"I'm sorry. My period is today. Is it still OK if I sleep over?"
"I'm sorry I left your room in a mess yesterday. I will clean up next time"
"I'm sorry I didn't cook last night. What do you want me to make next week?"
- They expect you to cheat but that's OK because you are a man. Cover your tracks, don't rub it in their face and they are cool about it.
- They are undemanding on your time. I've dated many a J-girl who was cool with meeting 2-3 times a month. In the beginning, when I was stuck in my Western bubble I actually complained about this!
- They are modest. The girl I'm currently dating is an excellent cook but is always playing her abilities down or nitpicking something about the food that wasn't good. Meanwhile, I am typically struggling to keep a straight face.

I could go on and on but people probably wouldn't believe me. And yes, these are the typical "good" girls who generally don't speak English.

I think I need to start learning Japanese...