Post: #1

One time a girl in Colombia told me that 60% of the time, the guy does not call after sex.. She said she was surprised I wanted to meet up with her again. I was surprised at this crazy statistics. 60% of guys just hit it and quit it!! She was sexy, too, so it blew my mind. I mean why not at least repeat once or twice? 60%!!*

For those of us are not stone-cold players, it's tough to "pump and dump" a girl in a situation where she really expected things to lead at least.. somewhere.. especially considering that she made things so nice and easy for me when she could have been a major bitch like many other girls are. Still, though, most of us are not looking for things to get too serious too quickly and sometimes you just have better things to do after banging a girl for the first time than continue seeing her. What factors determine how likely a girl is to expect you to continue hooking up?

Local culture? i.e. Ukraine vs. Iceland
Timing of first sex? i.e. 4th date vs. ONS
Contents of interactions? i.e. Cocky/joking demeanor vs. laying it on thick in terms of future dating plans, feelings, emotions, etc. (I've never done this but know some guys do.. I consider it pretty cruel when guys do this and it's all bullshit.. plus it makes it harder for the rest of us when girls have serious bitch shields/trust issues)

Obviously, if a girl goes home with me the first night we meet (especially if I'm a bit out of her league), she probably knows there's a pretty good chance she is not going to see me again and I don't feel bad leaving it as is. But I'm more interested in the nuanced cases.. like getting laid on a 2nd or 3rd date off of okcupid, or something like that.

What can a guy do to lower expectations of things developing without lowering his odds of getting laid?

* Footnote: It might have something to do with many guys in Colombia having to pay for motels to get laid and not having their own places.. their marginal cost of a repeat lay would be higher than mine was. Still, though.

Post: #2

(02-17-2014 09:30 PM)bacan Wrote:  What can a guy do to lower expectations of things developing without lowering his odds of getting laid?

I think latinos got it right in the sense they know how to communicate 100% sexual. The only thing you can do is know what you want and not have feelings yourself. If you have feelings, then the girl will probably have them after you bang her.

In addition, I think latinas understand and accept how men are, so they know exactly what to expect and know the game. While with western women you have to bullshit and pretend you don't want sex, with latinas you can be direct. This allows you to be clear about your intentions without any judgement.

Post: #3

Depends on
- your game and your approach to the game
- her culture
- how much investment you made

BUT

You'll fuck a known whore who then wants to turn her life around because of you.

Bitch goes from Jenna Jameson to Martha Stewart, and there weren't any signs of her stage 5 clinger-ness.

What makes it worse, is that she has no problem living the double life of Town Bike and PTA mom.

WIA

Post: #4

Women will always expect more and more from men constantly.