My 100-Approach Journey And What I've Learned
Sup playas,
I've completed my 100 approaches and I've gotta say it's amazing how far I've come from the beginning. I encourage anyone who's reading this contemplating whether or not to do this, to DO IT. This post will be long. Get ready.
10/21:
I've decided to restart my approach challenge after going out on the weekend with local PUA seeing night game is not worth it in my opinion. This will help me get out of society's way of what is suppose to be. I can become more charming and sociable with women as icing on top. The challenge is to do 100-approaches within a month. It's definitely doable.
I felt great this morning and took off for the campus to do some approaches. I parked my car with the meter running for 3-hours. Time for some hunt. I had several opportunities to approach but I chickened out by thinking too much about what's going to happen afterwards and the spotlight effect where other people are hearing what we are talking about. Those two hurdles blocked me from approaching a single girl. On the bright side, I did make a lot of eye contact with cute and gorgeous girls while I was walking.
At night I smoke and had an epiphany. I felt going up to girls and telling them they are cute especially with the Yad-stop is not normal especially on campus. It's going to scare the cat. A better approach is to stop the girl and ask an innocent question like where is this place or a suggestion. I saw a video where it was talking about alpha males in chimp. They suggested women love to nurture so it's in their DNA to help poor lost lamb like me. Little do they know I'm a wolf in disguise. But I think they will figure it out sooner rather than later because the sub communication suggests that I'm hitting on them. Just the verbal is saying something different, which I think is what girls want anyway. The people around us hear one thing while we have a completely different conversation. And that turns them on.
This is what I'm planning to do tomorrow at the mall. I also thought of another awesome tactic for setting up the first date.
So I will text the girl suggest we should shoot some rounds and get some drinks. (Ambiguity)
It could either mean we shoot/drive some golf balls or shoot a gun. She will ask what it means. I then challenge her asking if she is a good girl (golf) or a bad girl (gun). Kind of testing the water so I can be prepared for what's to come.
10/22:
I went out this morning feeling great. I drove the a mall that is pretty empty. There were several opportunities for me to approach but I chickened out. Finally after walking around twice, I saw a cute young chick working outside of a glamour shot store.
Approach #1:
I went and asked her a question about what I should get for my niece for her 10th birthday. I was sweating and my words were not coming out smoothly either. But she was nice and she kept stroking her hair which could mean she is either nervous too or she was attracted to me. She asked what she liked. I told her she just plays on her iPhone and studies. Her parents and my parents just buy her clothes so I don't want to get her that. She suggested buying a DS. I act dumb and asked what it was. She explained it was a portable video game. So I said so it's a portable Wii. She suggested some other stuff and told me she is a video game geek. (I should tease her about that) Then I thanked her for her suggestions and left.
Remarks: I was nervous because I haven't done it in a while and she was cute but she was working so I don't know how much that plays out. I should've went for the number and suggest we play some video games together.
Approach #2:
I went a B&N and saw a cute blonde reading a book by the feature stand as I walked in. I observed her while she was reading and she was reading a book about Lincoln. I hesitated and walked around different aisles deciding to approach. My mind was into overdrive thinking about what to open with even though I knew what I should say. A few minutes later she went away and a moment later she actually walked past me in the aisle as she headed out the door. I was a step too late to chase her down. She got into her car when I went out the door. FUCK! (What a great missed opportunity)
I made up for it when I went to another B&N. I saw a blonde sitting down at the stairs reading a book. I went up stairs and started to read a book that was interesting. After 20 minutes, I went down again and she was still there. I opened her with “You seem to be enjoying yourself.” It took her a while to make eye contact with me. “Is that a good book?” “Yes” She said. “What is it?” She shows me but she was not engaged at all from her body language. I asked if it was fiction and told her the only fiction book I read was The Ender's Game and it's coming out as a movie. Then I told her I was reading a book by a concentration survivor upstairs, explaining to her what it was about. But she was not interested at all. So I told her to have a nice day and left.
Remarks: There was nothing I could have done because some girls just aren't interested. I was proud of myself when I made up for the missed opportunity previously. I also saw another girl walking outside of B&N and we made eye contact and I think she smiled too. I was deciding how and if I should approach her. I started to follow her walking but she walked too fast. I even ran for a bit before she went into a restaurant.
Approach #3:
I was walking towards my car and I saw a cute mom with a stroller. She walked to her car to put something. I thought she was going home but she then walked back towards me. She had a cute smile on. I said “You look like you had left your baby and you are going back for her….. or something.” She said “Ooh” and laughed. But she kept walking and I didn't stop either.
Remarks: I was thinking if I should even approach moms with kids or toddlers because the moral issue.
Approach #4:
I ate lunch at home and was pumped to go out again. I went to another mall outdoor. This time it was much faster to open. I opened a girl walking towards me and asked her what I should get my niece for her b-day. She gave me her suggestions and we talked for a bit and I thanked her.
Remarks: I didn't really transition that to anywhere. After I open with it I need to get more personal like asking what she's doing, how her shopping is going.
Approach #5:
I walked inside of Dillards and went to the 2nd floor. I saw good looking blonde coming off the escalator. She works there at the counter. I saw her and she saw me. I went to the left side but thinking I past the moment. Then I was fuck it. I go back and do it. So I did. I went up to her and asked what I should get for my niece for her b-day. She was actually puzzled because she couldn't think of anything. We talked a bit and I told her I want to be the cool uncle that got her something cool that's memorable. She suggested a perfume and asked me if I want to check it out. I thought why not and went downstairs with her. She showed me two and I told her isn't perfume bought for the guys but she's still too young to be attracting dudes. She agreed and said it is tough to find a gift. She said her niece 10th b-day is coming up too and she doesn't know what to get her neither. I said it's better to be an uncle or aunt then to be dad or mom because uncle can be cool without the responsibility. I don't think she agreed from her body language but she didn't say anything. She suggested to have a pair of Uggs that's $150.(Lol) I told her they even got Uggs for men now and Tom Brady is doing commercials for them. I commented I like how she went for $50 gift to a $150 gift. She said it will make it memorable for my niece. We checked out some adult version of the Uggs. I asked her if she has any pair and she said she didn't. I teased her about telling me to get a pair and you don't even own one. Then the conversation died down and I thanked her and left.
Remarks: I thought the vibe was friendly and not flirty at all. She was just trying to help. I should have teased her more to get her out of her rhythms a bit.
Approach #6:
I was walking back to my car and I saw a girl dressed all black with a pretty cool black bag with red stripes on it. I commented to her as she was texting. “I like her bag.” “Thanks” “It really matches your outfit. I think it's the red stripes. "Thank you.” I don't think she even lifted her head from texting.
Remarks: I don't think I was actually committed to the approach as I was just walking by and never really stopped. Maybe that's why she wasn't really committed either.
Day Remarks:
Overall, I was proud of myself for doing this many approaches after my revelation. I got out of my shell and my personality shined even if it was for a bit. There were numerous opportunities that I missed and I wished I could have done those. Live and learn. I noticed after all those approaches, I was really sociable. I went to the gym and joked around with the front desk person. I also talked to this black guy with a cool watch. He was very receptive too. I think I get a high from doing this.
10/23:
Approach #7:
I saw her walking towards me a cute white girl. I said “Hey, excuse me, where is the main building?” She stopped and helped me. Guided me through how to get there. I acted dumb trying to follow her direction. After enough time, I didn't continue and thanked her.
Remarks: I forgot my excuse for going to the main building(lost my id, getting a new one). I should continued the conversation by asking her where she was going or make a comment like she was getting her day started.
Approach #8:
I saw a blonde walking by herself on the narrow sidewalk we were walking. I opened with the same thing. I think she was initially a bit surprised by me opening her. She was confused what the main building is. I told her I lost my id and was trying to get a new one. She told me I need to go to another building and pointed out how I can get there. Then continued her way. I thanked her.
Remarks: I thought she looked better from far away then up close. But she didn't seem like she wanted to continue the conversation.
Approach #9:
I saw another dark blonde girl (a bit older up close) walking with a rolling luggage. I had to intercept her by walking parallel to meet her up. I pretend I was checking my phone and then look up at her at just the right moment. I opened her with the same thing. She told me to go to the building the previous girl told me. She really wanted to help me as she tried to pull up a map of the campus. I commented they should have an app for the campus or maybe they already have. As she was working her phone, I saw a indention on her thumb and ask her about it. She asked where and I touched where it was. She didn't know how it got there. Then I transition into some personal stuff with her. She seemed excited to talk about herself. The vibe was great. She grad student doing opera who's going to perform this weekend too and told me I should come and see her. I told her maybe I will check her out.
Remarks: Perfect opportunity to get her number and didn't go for it. I was kicking myself afterwards for not doing so. I thought she was pretty interested.
Approach #10:
I saw a cute(so I thought) asian girl on her phone texting. I opened her with the same thing. She told me and said that it was pretty far. I commented “So I should take a bus?” She agreed and I asked which one. She said a bus. “But doesn't that just go around campus?” She said yeah. “So I would need to walk regardless”. She laughed. Then I thanked her and departed.
Remarks: She wasn't that cute when I actually saw her face. Don't know if she was interested or not and not really interested to find out.
Approach #11:
I was walking back to my car. I saw a blonde (4-5) looking lost or was trying to find something. That is exactly what I commented to her. She said she was looking for a place to meet her friend. She pointed out the place she was looking for. I said “The UPS?” She said “No the Thai place.” I asked if the food was any good. She said she's never been there but is going to find out. I was going to tell me let me know but I thought how the fuck is she going to let me know.
Remarks: Not really an approach but I just did it because I thought it was appropriate for me to comment. I didn't really stop either. I just kind of turned but kept walking slowly.
Approach #12:
I was almost to my car when I saw a cute blonde walking towards me but she turned left before I had a chance to open her. Damn it I thought. But I continued to follow her in her direction. I wanted to run but my shin hurts like a motherfucker. So I kept following her on the side of the street. Until she crossed the street to my side. Then I was determined to approach as I jogged slow up to her. I didn't do the Yad-stop completely right as I didn't get in front of her. More like to the side of her but she stopped.
Me: “Hey, can I tell you something real quick?”
Her: “Yeah.”
Me: “I was just walking and I saw you cross the street. And I wanted to come and say hi and tell you that you look very nice.”
Her: “Thank you.”(I think she was going to walk away at this point)
Me: “I think it's your walk. It's very feminine.”
Then I commented that she looked like she was getting to her first class. She said she was actually going back for her second. I guess her major (from her outfit - liberal arts) but she was actually engineering. We kept talking for about 2-3 minutes about classes and grades. At the end, she asked for my name and she told me hers. I tried to get her number and she said no but maybe we will see each other around. I told her what the chances we will see each other out of 30,000 people. I said come on but she left.
Remarks: Afterwards, I was very proud of myself for actually doing this approach and sticking it out like a boss. I think I could have slowed down a lot of stuff to improve my non-verbal communication. But during most of the conversation, I was relaxed and wasn't in my head at all, just going with the flow. I could have teased her more.
Approach #13:
I was going home and needed to get something from the grocery store. I went to an asian market. I thought if I see someone cute I'm going to approach her. Turned out there was one. She was a bit old but still cute. I saw her in the frozen aisle but I didn't approach. Later I tried to find out where she was. I saw her finally and I kept walking and turned into an aisle. She followed me to the aisle(lucky). She was still looking at the frozen stuff while I was looking at all the teas. Finally I went near her and asked if she could recommend any ice cream there. She said not really. I commented the ice cream here are weird compare to the traditional grocery store. She agreed but the conversation died from there. I kept looking and examining the ice cream to save face. Then she finally walked past me and said “No ice cream for me today.” I said “Have you seen these? They give these in Japanese restaurant as deserts.” She was half listening while she strolled her cart on to the next aisle.
Remarks: That was my first supermarket approach. I'm glad I did it. Also I saw the ring on her finger. Maybe that's why she wasn't all that interested.
Day Remark: I was proud of myself today for actually doing campus approaches which I couldn't do before. I still have the spot-light anxiety going on. I'm going to conquer that soon. More teasing and more transition into personal questions when approaching is my next step.
10/24:
Approach #14:
Really cute blonde girl walking towards me on the sidewalk. I ask her for direction and she asks what for. I told her for getting a new id. She points out to me. I noticed she had a piercing on her nose and said I liked it. We got in a good conversation about piercing and the vibe was good. We ended it when my phone rang.
Remarks: I thought this approach went well. I should have asked her number but my phone started to ring and I got cockblocked. I noticed her made a facial expression like confused/weird when we said goodbyes.
Approach #15:
Another blonde chick walking towards me. I said “Hey, do you know where the main office is?” She smiles as I open her. She had no idea where it is. I asked if she was a freshman. She said she's a senior. I asked how she never got an id as a senior. She said she never heard of anyone calling it like that. And it just went awkward from there and I thanked her and she walked away.
Remarks: Weirdest approach by far. Nothing I could really do about it but laugh it off.
Approach #16:
I went to the museum because it was free today. I figured I could make some comments about the art. I opened a girl looking at a painting. I tried to open her from the side but she went to sit down. I sat down next to her and describe what I saw from the painting. I don't think she quite understood what I said but we continued talking. I found out she was from Peru and was visiting her friends. I welcomed her to Austin asked her what she'd seen. I stood up and was about to leave and I asked her about Peru and what is Peru known for. She told me and I told her if I was ever in Peru, I would look her up.
Remarks: I thought the vibe is great. There were a few pauses in between but I was never in my head trying to think about what to say. Relaxed definitely so that's awesome. This approach was in a quiet setting too and I was worried about it.
Approach #17:
I commented how the girl in the painting had a creepy look with a scissors too. The girl agreed and commented a bit further. I didn't even look at her in the eye when we talked.
Remarks: I could have tried to took it further and looked her in the eyes.
Approach #18:
I was looking at an armor. A cute blonde girl stood next to me to check it out. I commented “Can you imagine wearing something like that around?” She agreed. “It's like you are training for the Olympics.” She laughed. I said “I guess you gotta do what you gotta do to survive back in the days.” She agreed and said something about deflecting a lance.
Remarks: I didn't look at her at all. Just looking at the armor. But I did see a dude coming up to the display too. Who I just assumed was just the beta-knight trying to mate guarding the chick. Later I see them together so it's probably true.
Approach #19:
I went to the gym to workout a bit before going to boxing. I see a blonde girl with matching outfit for training. She was in front of me but I didn't approach right away. I finally got a chance to make a comment on her outfit. I said “I like how you have a matching outfit.” She said “Thanks I just got it.” I asked her if she planned it that way and she told me how to came to assemble her outfit. I said “And now you have the complete set.” I transitioned to asking what she was training for? She just said “I'm not training for anything just stretching.” Then I just went back to my work out.
Remarks: I didn't know how to continue this after she said that. But overall I'm glad I did an approach at the gym where it is a taboo to do so.
Approach #20:
I went to a grocery store to try to get ready for a “date”. I wanted to get more social and get something while at it to increase my alcohol tolerance. I talked to a guy asking if banana would be good before drinking. He recommended some granola bars. I walked around the store and saw some approachable girls in the cereal aisle. I was browsing through the different brands when a girl bumped into me from walking backwards. (Don't know if it's intentional or not) She apologized. I immediately said “Hey, for bumping into me. Let me ask you something. Which one would you recommend?” She told me her preference. I asked her what she was shopping for. She told me for some cereal. “For tomorrow morning eh?” I said. She said there is too many choices. I said it's all a deception, all the brands are owned by the same company. She said she tried almost all of them. “So you just get a new cereal every 2 weeks?” I asked. She said yes. Then I left with what she recommended.
Remarks: I think I could have asked for her number. She seemed interested enough.
Approach #21:
I was outside the grocery eating my bananas. I approached a young couple picking out pumpkins. I asked the girl how to pick a pumpkin. She told me and we got into a discussion about pumpkins. The vibe was super chilled and the guy didn't say much.
Remarks: I was just bored by myself so I thought I would entertain myself by talking to these people.
Day Remarks: I think I'm getting good at this. The more people I talked to the better I'm able to stay sharp on my feet. There is almost no approach anxiety because I'm not expecting anything from them. I'm also making more direct eye contact with girls I see. Like I keep looking at them even if she's not looking at me to try to challenge her to make eye contact with me. Some girls actually smiled when I look at them. I think it's just the confidence. Oh, also I got laid tonight with a cute latina girl who is down for some play. All I had to do was be relaxed and not fuck up. That was it and I was in the zone too. After we played pool, I just said “Let's get outta here.” She immediately complied. I told her to get in my car and I will drive her back and she complied too. As soon as she went inside my house, I started to manhandle her. I spanked her like I promised. Hard too. By the time we got done, her cheeks are bloody red with palm marks.
10/25:
Approach #22:
I was going around the grocery store stalking for cute chicks. I saw this cute asian girl by herself shopping for stuff. I went to the aisle she was at and started to look at instant noodles. I wanted to get her opinion on them but there were too many people around so I didn't do it. I didn't want to stalk her and follow her to the next aisle where she went. So I just went to the asian sauce aisle and started to look at the sauces. Lucky me, she came by with her shopping cart. She strolled past me but I sensed she wanted me to open her. She was on the far right side and I was in the middle. I wanted to go and ask her about which sauce would be the best to marinate chicken. Then a middle aged white guy actually approached her asking her about sauces I think which I thought was hilarious. I laughed as I kept looking at the sauces. After he left, she strolled past me again but this time I did open her. I asked her what I wanted to ask. She didn't know but I insisted. She finally said depending on what mood she was in. She said she didn't really cook chicken. I said it could be for steak too. She still had no idea. So I teased her saying “I thought you said you were this good cook but you don't even know what sauce to use.” She got defensive and didn't really get the tease. She said she never said anything like that. Then she recommended me the oyster sauce and I asked her what that tasted like. The vibe is ok but felt kind of distant. Maybe because I wasn't facing her directly. Only turning and facing her when I ask her questions. I continued and asked her if she was half chinese. She said no but didn't provide any answer. So I vacuumed and stayed silent. Finally she said she's half vietnamese but didn't provide the other half until I pushed further. Before she left, she asked why is everyone asking me about sauces? Lol.
Remarks: I still have a bit of spotlight effect when I'm still warming up for the day. She kept twirling her hair which I took as a good sign. But her words aren't that flirty or friendly. Looking back I think she was attracted me to on some level. I should face her more after she gave me a good sauce to work with as kind of a reward. Also when she asked why is everyone asking me about sauces, I should've said because he is trying to fuck you. I wonder what reaction she will give. If she asks me and you are not? I know it's on. My reply would be that would depend on the sauce you recommend with a smirk.
Approach #23:
Right after she left, I saw a tiny cute girl holding a bottle of sauce. I think she was looking to put it back after I saw she worked there. I pointed my finger on a random shelf and said it's right there. She went for it and I bust out laughing and said I'm just playing. She was playfully wanted to hit me. I vibe a little and she told me she just started working here 3 weeks ago and recently moved to Austin. Then she had to go and teased her more about reading the aisle sign you know the letters that make up the words. I ran into her again after she was helping some customers. I said “Still looking?” She wanted to hit me again and said “I was helping someone.”
Remarks: This one went super well because I think she was a playful type of girl and plus she thought I was attractive and wanted me to get her number which I should have done. I missed the opportunity to get her number and didn't capitalize on a great vibe. She did hint she was new to Austin. GET THE NUMBER NEXT TIME!
Day Remark: I was a bit lazy today. Maybe because I got laid last night and my balls are out of jizz. I went to the mall in the afternoon but didn't approach anyone. There were a few opportunities. I need to go for the numbers and expect rejections. Hope for the best and expect the worst.
10/26:
Approach #24:
I saw this cute girl working out in the gym. I think she notices me checking her out and I notice her checking me out. I was working out near her but didn't approach. Then I got on the lower ab workout and she was in the machine directly in front of me. I saw she has a tattoo behind her ear so after I finished my set I went in.
ME: “Is that the new trend now for tattoo behind the ear?”
HER: (Smiles) “I got this a long time ago.”
ME: “Oh, so you are the pioneer.”
We kept continue to talk about tattoos. She asks me if I saw what the tattoo was. I took a closer look. It was weed, love and peace. I asked if she had any other tattoos. She showed me her ankle with a few tats. I touched those tats on her feet slowly and seductively too. Then we talked about a piercing. She had she had some and I told her where I got mine. Pointing at the places got my face doing it slowly like my finger was following a trail. I guess her age at 29. She said she's 26 but has kids. That's why I guessed higher. She's said “That's fucked up.” I smirked and knows she loves it. Afterwards I just went back to my work out.
Remarks: I thought this one went really well. The power of observation, timing and vibe were all on my side. I wanted to get her number and ask for a drink. I figured I will see her again when she leaves. While I was doing plank, she walked by me to throwaway trash. She walked downstairs. I chased her down but didn't see her so I went to the locker room to wait for her to walk out. I didn't see her so I went out and saw she was getting into her car with her two little kids. At that point, I didn't want to go and approach her anymore.
Approach #25:
While I was at the mall, I walked around for a bit before I saw this cute exotic looking girl walking in the parking lot. I stopped her and ask about what to get for my niece. She couldn't think of anything so I transitioned into something else. I saw her had a piercing on her nose so I commented on that. I asked “Are you half Persian?” She said no but no follow up after that. Finally I found out she was from Columbia and was her to get her master. I told her the women from Columbia are beautiful. She said thank you. I vibed with her about her major and how she thinks this mall sucks. I asked her about the malls in her country. After about 5-7 minutes, I asked her for her number and told her I was take her out. She gave me her number and I asked her number.
Remarks: I liked this conversation. There is not that much eye contact I can see. Maybe she wasn't that attracted. I texted her about 3hrs later and didn't get a response. I will try to set something up on Monday. I was proud of myself for going for the number and closing it too.
Approach #26:
I saw a cute smoking something cool. I asked her about it. I didn't realize she was on the phone talking to someone. But she said it's cool and kept talking about where she got it. If you can smoke hash oil on it. She was really friendly and so I was.
Remarks: Not really an intentional approach but I thought it was cool and she was just the right girl at the right time.
Day Remarks: I'm starting to have “don't give a fuck attitude”. I look people in the eye automatically until they back down and I look at whoever I want and I make comments to strangers too. I have this really playful vibe going on that teases on people and have a great time in the process.
10/27:
Approach #27:
I just got on campus on Sunday. There is not a lot of people walking. I saw a cute blonde walking out of a building. I ran up to her and stopped her. I didn't get in her way, more like approaching from 45 degree angle.
Me: “Hey, can I tell you something really quick?”
Her: (smiles) “Yes.”
Me: “I was just walking over there and I saw you walking. I just have to say that you look nice.”
Her: “Thank you.”
From there I asked what she was up to. She said she's a math grad student. I asked her what's the hardest problem she had to solve. I kind of answered it for her instead of vacuuming for the answer. Then she said she had to get to somewhere. And she said “Thank you.” I said “No problem.”
Remarks: She seemed all friendly and stuff when I opened her. But afterwards it kind of went downhill. Maybe I should put her more on the spot and qualify her to me.
Approach #28:
I saw a dirty blonde girl in sweatpants with a starbucks in her hand walking towards me. I stopped and asked her where the student union is. She had no idea but told me where the student activity center is. I commented she looked like she just got back from the gym. She said no she is just lazy and hung over. I asked her if she went to a crazy party. She said it was an unintentional getting drunk. We were about to part ways and I saw she had a big tattoo on her back. I told her I liked her tats. She stopped and let me take a look. I asked her what the symbol meant. She tried hard to explain it was some kind of mythology. I teased her and said you are too hung over to be explaining mythology right now.
Remarks: The vibe was very casual. I think that's why indirect works when the vibe is chilled and normal. I could've went for the number but she wasn't my type.
Approach #29:
I was just walking down the street and saw a girl with purple dyed hair. While we were close enough, I gestured with my hairs waving around my head so she would see me. I asked her how did she get the purple hair. She said she had to bleach it twice and color it. I said “Isn't it bad for her hair?” I think she got defensive and tried to explain it to me. I told her the color was like magenta. And she looked like Storm from the X-men. Then we left our separate ways.
Remarks: I didn't transition into anything else like I should but this approach was very natural because I was curious.
Day Remarks: Today approach was very easy for me because I started as soon as I saw someone interesting. Funny thing was when I got on campus, this guy approached me and asked me what building it was and how to get somewhere. Exactly what I had been doing. I didn't do anymore today because my shin was killing me. Walking does take its tolls.
10/28:
Approach #30:
I went to an outlet mall in the morning. There weren't that many people but there are definitely some approaching girls. I saw this mexican looking girl wearing glasses walking around the corner to me. She didn't even look at me while we were closing but I said “Hey, can I ask you something quick?” She smiled and said “Sure.” I asked her about what to get for my niece. She couldn't think of anything. Then after about 30 seconds, I commented with “You look like you bought out the whole store.” She laughs and said she was doing Christmas shopping early. I couldn't think of anything on the spot so I asked her name. “Mercedes” she said. “Like the car.” I said. I asked if there was any special meaning behind it. She said “It meant faith in Spanish” I asked if that was the reason why Mercedes made their name. I thanked her and shook her hand and said “Thanks for nothing.” She laughs.
Remarks: I didn't continue the conversation very well. I should have teased her more. When she said she's doing her Christmas shopping, I should've responded with what did you buy me. Also I should have at least tried to get her number.
Approach #31:
I was walking around about to go. I see this older woman with short hair cut walking on the other side of the mall on the same walkway. I should've intercepted her by getting on her path but I didn't. So I looped around hoping she was just going to walk around too. She did. And I opened her with the niece gift. She said she couldn't think of anything. And said “I'm sorry honey.” Then she walked away.
Remarks: I guess she knew I was approaching her with an excuse. Maybe because she saw me the first time and wonder why I didn't do it then when it was more natural.
Approach #32:
I was on a CC campus checking out some potential. It's a lot smaller than regular campus so I don't know how to go about it. I walked around and went inside a building. I saw this girl walking downstairs and I was trying to think of a way to open her. She had something that was glowing in the dark. So when she walked out she was putting something in her backpack and I went.
Me: “Does that glow in the dark?”
Her: “Oh, I don't know.”
Me: “I saw you walking downstairs and there was a part that was dark and it was glow there.”
Her: (she looks at it and shows it to me)
Me: “It looks like a light from a bicycle. Do you ride a bicycle?”
Her: “Yes but it was stolen.”
Then we talked about her major and when she was going to graduate. She said she was graduating in a year. I told her we should get a shot and celebrate. I asked if she was going to look for a job. She said she wants to look for one before she graduates. I think she tried to ask me something but I kept plowing through. Then she said “That's me.” I see a dude pull up in a car waiting for her. I told her it was nice meeting her.
Remarks: I think elderly opener does work when I find something interesting which then I can transition into something else. I'm debating whether to keep the conversation going or get the number quick.
Approach #33:
I was working out at the gym. I saw a cute blonde chick with a great body working out by herself. I wanted to approach but there was no opportunity plus too many people. As I was walking out the door, I see that girl walking out in front of me. After I exited, I commented to her as she was about to dial someone on the phone.
ME: “It looks like you had a great workout.”
HER: “I did.”
ME: “What did you do today?”
HER: “Biceps and triceps.”
ME: “So just the small muscle groups then.”
HER: “Yeah.”
Remarks: We were talking while we were still walking. Neither one of stopped and we split into separate direction. I could try to stop her but it seems like she's busy and is not interested.
Day Remarks: I felt tried today because I was smoking weed and drinking last night with the FB. Woke up later than usual and showed a few houses. I'm definitely more playful than ever. Even when I'm showing houses I tease and crack jokes with my client. And she loves it and plays along. I guess Game is universal and can apply to everything.
10/29:
Approach #34:
I was at the gym working out. I see a girl that I've seen before at the gym when I was coming in the late morning. As I was doing my set, I heard her grunting. After I finished my set, I went up to her and said “You don't hear many woman grunting while working out.” I don't think she heard me and she grabbed my arm while she asked me to say it again. I did and added “Maybe in tennis.” She was smiling and giddy the whole way. She told me she works with autistic kids. I assumed she was a teacher. She said she works specifically with those kids at home. She had to prepare herself with the kids because they'd be doing MMA shit. We kept chatting about it for a good 3 minutes or so.
Remarks: I thought the vibe was awesome. She dug me right away. She probably knew who I was plus I was chatting with other dudes before. She sound really excited to talk to me.
Approach #35:
I went to a grocery store and saw a really cute girl (thought she was Mexican) strolling her cart around the store getting stuff. For the life of me, I couldn't do it for some reason. I think was expecting a response from her or thinking about how bad it will be. Just my mind projecting necessary shit to me. Finally after a good 5 minutes stalking her, I went in. She was grabbing some baking package and I went up to her and said “You got the wrong one, get this one.” For a second, I thought they were exactly the same. Then she asked “This one, the cookie?” I said “Yes, do you know how to bake?” She said “Yes.” I commented on how she bought on the whole store in her cart and it's going to last her 2 weeks. She said she's got 3 kids (WTF) probably won't last for 2 days. I checked out her cart and teased her about how bad the food are. I asked her if she was a good cook. She said she cooks good food. I asked her what her best dish is. She just says all kinds. I teased her and that's what everyone says but they can't name one dish. I got a bit defensive and she cooks filipino/mexican food. I said commented like tacos mixed with sesame chicken. She said she doesn't know about that. She said her dad was filipino. I ran out of shit to say as I was about to leave, I said I liked her necklace. Then we split.
Remarks: I was proud of myself for finally going in when the duty calls. It was a pretty good convo we had. I think she was semi interested but I wouldn't know unless I got her phone number, which I should have done.
Day Remarks: I still have trouble approaching in supermarket. I tried to have the perfect timing to get in but that never pans out. Most of the time, I was just walking aisle to aisle looking for a girl to approach while holding a box of granola bars. Then I was actually see a girl I like, I don't approach and tried to wait for a good time. I just need to go in and act dumb, which is what I'm going to do. Acting dumb and just play with them because they are cute.
10/30:
Approach #36:
I was in front of Starbucks waiting for my client. I saw a girl parked her car in front of another store, walking towards me. When she got to the door, I said “You can't park there.” She said “There is no sign. Why can't I parked there?” I said “You going to Starbucks and Chipotle people won't like that.” Then we kept going for 2 or 3 more rounds and I finally said “I was playing.”
Remarks: I didn't continue with I think you're cute because it seemed like a lost cause. She wasn't that playful. But I was proud of myself for opening with no hesitation and saying what is on my mind. I'm getting more playful by the day.
Approach #37:
I was at the mall trying to do indirect-direct opening. Basically acting dumb/finding excuse to open girl and tell her she's cute. I saw one sexy brunette walking towards me. I think she just got approached by two dudes at the kiosk for hair shit. She blew right past them. I said “Excuse me, do you know where Macy is?” She didn't even stop, just turned around and gave me the look “Dude, it's right here.” (I was actually coming out of it). I just laughed and kept going.
Remarks: She must had a bad day to start. She had a mean expression on her face. Nothing I can do about that.
Approach #38:
I was at the gym doing my ab work and this fine ass asian chick was working out two seats down. She walked in front of me a couple of times and I've seen her at the gym before but today she wasn't wearing a cap. When I finished my workout, I went up to her and said “Your whole back looks like a master piece.” (Her big ass wing tattoo on her back) She didn't hear what I said. I repeat. Didn't hear again. I repeat again. She said thanks. I asked what is it. She said it's just a wing. I commented that it must of too a while to get it done. She said no it only took 7 hours. That's long as hell and it's multiple times too I said. She said she did it in one sitting because she didn't want to go multiple times. She was put her earbuds back, I asked if she got it here. She said yes.
Remarks: I felt like I was the shit after the approach because I approached a hot ass girl in the gym when there are shit load of dudes around us. Even though she was being a bitch, it didn't matter to me. I felt great just going for it. I'm sure all the guys were watching us but within that 30 seconds, I felt like we were alone and the rest of world fades away. I find that to be true in every time I talk to a girl engaging in a conversation.
Day Remarks: I feel like I'm growing a little every day, breaking my comfort zone one step at a time. There were still a few times in stores where I want to approach but didn't. The excuses were piling on. Some of the women are married but won't be offended if I just flirt with them a little or made their day better.
10/31:
Approach #39:
I went to Chipotle for a late lunch. I saw a cute girl eating by herself when I went to the line. After I got my food, I went up to her and said “You look like you need a lunch buddy. I'll be your lunch buddy.” I sat down. She couldn't process what just happened. I asked her what she was up to today. She told me she has go teach a class. From there I was just vibing to what she was giving me, completely in present mode with no thinking between what I'm saying. Our vibe was matching really well from the beginning. I teased her about her being a flute teacher. She said me what my profession is. I said I already kind of told her. She was trying to think and I was refreshing her memory. I teased her she's like Sherlock Holmes, or better yet, Joan Watson. At one point, when she was speaking, I was just amazed by her eyes. I told her that. I said “Wow, you have beautiful eyes. They look like…. eyes of a killer. Not in a bad way, the good way.” She said thanks but was playfully smiling when I said killer. Overall, we talked a lot of stuff that should be talked about over a day 2. I even asked her what her ideal guy would be. Say she's a programmer and can program anyone to her liking, what would he be? Getting the number was just a formality. I pull out my phone and had her entered her number in there. During the convo, I mentioned something that I had to take her out because she was new in town and didn't know anyone.
Remarks: Best approach so far. I think I was in the zone. No fear, no hesitation, just going for it. The vibe was so key. It didn't matter what we talked about as long as I tease her and playfully guide the conversation somewhere. The pace of the conversation was so natural, it feels like we known each other for years, well maybe 3 months. We talked for about an hour.
Approach #40:
I went to the mall and I saw this cute asian girl with a box of food walking somewhere. I was following behind her. I felt like stalking her. I didn't want to run up to her and doing the Yad-stop so I kept my distance. Finally she got a table outside to sit down and eat her lunch. I didn't go in immediately and I walked around the mall once. After I made my round, I circled back to where she was, I went up to her and said “Excuse me, where I can find Macy's?” She chuckled and pointed right behind her. I said “I know, I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you.” I sat down and started talking to her. I asked her about her food and she got it. Then I commented she worked here. She said “Yes at H&M.” I told her I thought she would be working in Banana Republic. My vibe was still playful. I asked her what she thinks I should for my niece for her b-day. She couldn't think of anything. She was closing her lunch and getting back to her. (Excuse?) She introduced herself and asked for my name when we were getting up. I walked with her talked about her work. At one point, I stopped to see if she would stop. She did. Then I told her if I was ever in H&M, she's going to be personal consultant.
Remarks: My vibe is killer today. I think she was partly engaged. She wasn't super interested but I think she's at least intrigued. I should've pushed for the number to gauge her interest level.
Approach #41:
I was at a grocery store. I talked to this guy asking him if the grapes were a good deal. It was 22 cents off. It's his first time at this particular grocery store too so he doesn't know. I tasted it and it's sweet, so I grabbed one and was about to check out. I saw this blonde chick at the nuts and granola aisle. I was going through another aisle but I turned around went for hers. I stood behind and beside her. “Is that how you can granola bars?” I asked. She said yes. She actually makes her own granola bars. I asked her how she makes it. She tells me. All the while, I'm still playful and eating my grapes from my bag. I teased her how she's buying up from all the bins. Next time I come around she's going have 10 bags. I didn't transition into anything else. I said “Imma call you up next time I'm making granola.” when I left.
Remarks: She seemed interested. She was smiling and make eye contact with me. Maybe get her number too.
Approach #42:
I was walking around B&N and as I was about to leave. I see a young cute blonde reading a book near the magazine section. We made eye contact. I turned around and went up to her. I said “You look like you are enjoying yourself there.” She turned her book and showed it to me. I asked her what it was about. She tells me. I asked her where she got it. She points it out to me at the last aisle. I slowly walk there and go back and shaking my head. I said “There's only engineering books there.” She walks up with me and we go see where she was talking about. She brought me to the section and I some comments. I told her it looks like you are skipping school. (She had her backpack on) I said no she just graduated and she had be home schooled. (From what I assume high school) I asked her if she's going to college. She said she's thinking about it. I told her no don't do it. We talked about a lot of different stuff. The vibe was super chilled. Then she gets a call from her brother asking her where she was. Then a few seconds later, her brother shows up. (I saw him at the stairs earlier) I commented she was just showing me some animal books. She's laughing. Then they leave and she told me it was nice meeting me.
Remarks: She was definitely interested. Probably need some vitamin D anyways from getting cooed up in the house. Ready to release her unresolved issue with her daddy. The brother had to cockblock at the last second. I should've gotten her number earlier and left. Or get the number in front of her brother and say “let's read together sometime.”
Day Remarks: I was in the zone today. After I was done, I actually played “Niggas in Paris” while driving back. My vibe was on point. Maybe it was from the after effect of smoking weed last night. I passed out on my bed, feeling the niceness from my bed. Then I woke up in the morning with the lights still on and lying half naked with no cover on. Even got a sore throat. But everything was worth it. I love my “Devil May Care” attitude flowing through me. I'm still playful with a “don't give a fuck” attitude to back it up with.
11/01:
Approach #43:
I was at the gym this morning. I saw a cute asian girl was doing squats with impressive perfect form and heavier weights. When she went to the stretching area, I went to approach her. I pointed at her to get her notice me and said “You have a very good form when you are squatting.” She said thanks. I continued “Most people don't do squats properly but they keep adding weights.” She agreed. I asked her what she was working on. She said she doesn't know. I teased her saying “So you just come here and do whatever you feel like?” She said yes. Then the conversation just died. I didn't continue to anything else and just left. Before I left, I saw her doing lunges and said “You are doing it wrong.” while I walked away. She smiled with a face of contempt.
Remarks: She didn't seem like she's interested or maybe she just wasn't use to guys approaching her. Nothing I could have done. Maybe keep teasing her.
Approach #44:
I went on campus. Right after I parked my car I saw an older woman (not student) walking with her to-go lunch. I stopped her and said “Hey, is that from Canes?” No she said. “Oh, did you see crazy line they had outside the place? People were lining up.” I said. She saw it and I asked her what she's having. She told me and a little more convo, we head out separate ways.
Remarks: She wasn't particular attractive but alright. I didn't really want to push the convo further. Also she gave me a “ok, that was random” look when she walked away.
Approach #45:
I was walking around campus and I turned around and saw an attractive blonde looking at me. I continued forward then I turned around and went up to her as she was walking behind me. She was just beginning to call someone. When I was in front of her, she ended the call. “Hey, do you know where the main building is?” I asked. “You mean the tower?” She questioned. “Yeah.” I said. “It's right there.” She said. “Oh… yeah, I know. I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you.” I said. I asked her name and told her mine. I asked her what's up to and she said she was meeting up with a friend for lunch. I asked her what's good around here. She told me a couple of places. That was it.
Remarks: She seemed neutral at best. Not really interested but not rude either. I didn't push further for transition or number because I was afraid. Afraid of rejection and taking her time. I don't know why I had it here. I should've went for the rejection anyways to toughen myself up.
Approach #46:
I was walking inside the student activity center when I turned around and saw a decent asian girl walking behind me. I turned around and asked her “Hey, is Zen any good?” She said yes because she's Japanese. I teased her “So you are biased then.” Then I commented “So Zen is like Panda Express of Chinese food.” She smiled. I asked her what she's eating in her hand. “Taco Cabana” she said. We talked where she came from, what her major is, how long she lived her, and why she picked the city. Then I asked her number but she didn't want to give it. I pushed for it one more time and she still refused. I asked her for her name and I gave her mine when we shook hands. She was shaking when we shook hands.
Remarks: I thought I had a good vibe going but I guess she was too nervous to play it along. Her body language was interested like locking her legs together when standing but I guess she could be nervous too. Later in the convo, she was looking away not listening to me while I was talking. I even looked back to what she was looking at, I thought she was looking at someone she knew but I think she was just trying to tell me to end the convo.
Approach #47:
I was at Quizznos getting some lunch. While I was waiting for my order, the guy called out a number and a cute blonde went for it thinking it was hers. The guy called out a number after her. I commented “Aww, they called a number after you.” “I know” she said. “That's messed up.” I said. An cute asian girl went up to get that one after the guy left. After I got my order, I went up to the asian girl who's studying at eating by herself. I said “You look like a good lunch buddy. Mind if I join you?” She smiled and said “Sure go ahead.” I asked her what she was eating. She told me. I asked her if she was Chinese. She said she's Korean. She started to ask me questions. I told her to guess my age, major, what city I'm from. She's loving it. We had a very great vibe. She's smiling and laughing at pretty much everything I'm saying. She even closed her book after she finished her lunch saying “enough studying.” Finally, she said she had to go for a meeting. I said I had to meet a friend too. I said “Let me grab your number so we can hangout sometimes.” We grab each other's number and I told her “I will text you when you are not so busy.”
Remarks: I thought the approach was great from the beginning. It was a bit of a shock for a girl in the beginning I think to have a guy approaching them. But once that phase is done, the girl becomes very comfortable. Being playful is a huge part of it. Now that I'm reflecting back, I think she was trying to qualify herself to me by agreeing with me with whatever shit I'm saying. At one point I asked her what her favorite wing sauce. She told me one or two which I didn't like. I told her “We are not going to get along.” I told her mine and she did an immediate 180 turn to agree with me.
Day Remarks: Today went very well. I'm very comfortable walking around campus and just being myself. There were a couple of approaches that I should have done but didn't. But overall I'm proud of myself for stepping up to those approaches that I've done with no hesitation. I'm feeling very confident now. I openly make eye contact with attractive girls walking towards me even if they are not even looking at me. I still turn my head to look at them brazenly until they pass me. Most people look away when I make eye contact with them. To think just a few weeks ago, I was exactly like that. I'm amazed by the improvements of “not giving a fuck” attitude has grown on me.
11/02:
Approach #48:
I was at the gym today. There was a decent blonde chick doing some complete workout. I went up and asked her if that was a good workout. We chatted for a little bit about it before she put her earbuds back on.
Remarks: She was friendly enough. I think I could have continued the conversation if I transitioned into something else. Maybe asking what she was training for.
Day Remarks: Not much to report for today. I did go to the mall packed with people. There were a lot of opportunities for me to approach but I was just not feeling it. My mind is projecting the future and not staying in the present moment. There was an approach that I wished I could have counted. I saw a cute blonde (from the back) walking on the sidewalks of the mall, I was following her then I lost her. I saw her again at the parking garage. I told myself fuck it let's do this. I ran up to her and stopped her and said “Hey, I think you dropped something.” Pointing back there. To my surprise, the chick is actually a dude or a tranny. Then he actually went back to look for it. I told him “I'm just fucking with you.” Twice. He didn't hear me the first time. He said “Oh.” And we both left awkward as fuck. It was funny as hell though.
11/03:
Approach #49:
I was at Walmart and I saw a cute blonde chick had 4 trays of frozen food in her hand. I didn't approach her at first. Then I saw her again but this time she was getting instant noodles. I went up to her and said “No, those are bad for you.” She looked at me and agreed. She said she had frozen food before. I told her they are both bad but instant noodles is the worst. I asked her what she's getting it for. She said for lunch for the week. Then silence. I tried to interject by saying back in the days I was eating Maruchan ramen all the time. After that, we basically ended over conversation.
Remarks: I'm still not approaching right away. I think I'm hesitating to open at the right moment but it never comes. Only regrets of not approaching and seeking reaction from the girl. This girl isn't very talkative. Later I found out she was shopping with a guy. I also wasn't making much eye contact with her, which I should initiate more.
Approach #50:
I was at the outlet mall. I see a young girl by herself in a Nike store. She walked out and I tried to chase her but she went to Hot Topic right away. I walked around and she was in front of me. I stopped her and asked “Hey, where is the Disney store?”(right behind her). She pointed behind her. I said “I'm messing with you. I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you.” She smiles. I asked “What are you shopping for today?” She said she's shopping for a pair of jeans. I said “You gonna get some skinny jeans or flat line(don't ask)?” She just nods her head upon hearing skinny jeans. I asked her what I should get for my niece. She suggested getting her a laser engraved iPhone case. She shows me her phone. I tease her about having Justin Bieber on her case. Then her mom calls her and she said it was nice meeting me.
Remarks: I think she's too young. Maybe 17 or 18. Probably in high school. But she was receptive to my approach. Maybe I could have gotten her number if her mom hadn't called.
Approach #51:
I was at the mall. I see a cute girl eating by herself wearing a uniform of some kind. I walked around the food court deciding if I should approach her. I walked 3 rounds around the food court before saying fuck it let's do this. I walked between the seatings straight to her. When I got to her table, I said “You look like you are really enjoying that pizza. You even folded it.” She just looked at me not really saying anything. I said “You looked cute and I wanted to meet you. Do you mind if I join you real quick?” She nodded and said yes. She does mind. Didn't want me to sit down. I said “aww, really?” I asked her if the cinema here is good and how big it is.(she works there) She told me and said “thanks” and left.
Remarks: I think the hesitation killed me and tacked on the nervous vibe I was projecting. I need to approach right away to not feel the nervousness. Maybe she noticed me walking around there and knew something wasn't right.
Day Remarks: I'm feeling approach anxiety part of the time. I feel like I need to approach when I first see an opportunity to do so regardless of what the situation is like. This will help me stay present and think on my feet. Also, I regret not approaching than actually bomb an approach. It feels after an approach regardless if it went well or not. I think that's what I really need to chase instead of chasing for women's reaction to my approach.
11/04:
Approach #52:
I was at Walmart taking my lunch break. I walked around and saw a cute asian chick with her cart in the frozen food aisle. I went up to her as she was looking at some stuff. I said “you should get this - Nacho cheese tacos. It's really good.” She just did a nervous chuckle and said nothing. I opened the fridge, took it out and looked at it. Didn't know if I want to engage her further but went for it. “What are you shopping for?” I asked. She said “For dinner.” I looked at her cart and commented “These are all unhealthy, what you got there: instant noodles, canned foods…” She wasn't very receptive at all. She said “Yeah, I'm just making dinner.” I just left it at that and left.
Remarks: I actually saw her before in another aisle but didn't approach. Maybe it would've been better if I approached her when I first saw her. I wanted to approach this cute latina but my balls failed me. I lost her but found her after my second approach but she was literally next to this asian chick. I regret not approaching her. Who gives a shit what that girl is thinking if I approached. Later when I had to go, she saw me going without anything. Haha.
Approach #53:
I was walking around and I saw this cute brunette looking at some facial stuff in the aisle. I past her once but decided to go back and approach her. I went up to her and said “Get that one.” She was startled while she took off her earbuds. I told her “I scared the shit out of you.” She agreed. I asked her what she's listening to. She said “Drake.” “The new album or the old?” I asked. She thought about it. “The older one.” I asked her what she was shopping for. She was getting some facial cream. We vibes a bit. She said she has an obsession with facial creams. I teased her saying she probably has a closet full of them instead of how some girls have shoes. I framed a line one the counter rack for the amount she has. She laughed and said she doesn't have that much. After a bit, I said “Well, you seem cool. Let me grab your number and we can hangout sometime.” She smiles and said “Sorry, I just got married.” She showed me her ring and said she just got back from her honeymoon in Dubai. I asked her how that was. She got really animated and told me about it. We kept talking for a while and I just said “Those are the memories you want to treasure.”
Remarks: I think this girl was receptive and would be down if she wasn't married. I'm glad I went for the number because I'm not usually a closer. I need to keep closing regardless of the situation.
Day Remarks: I was proud of myself for doing the 2 approaches within the limited time I had. After work I went to more grocery stores but didn't find any girls to approach or I chickened out. I'm still hesitating when it comes down to approach right then and there. I need to work on this.
11/05:
Approach #54:
I was walking around campus looking for girls to approach. I was having a hard time starting. I think I was thinking too much and not focusing on the long term goal and seeking for a reaction instead of doing it for self-amusement. Then I saw a girl looking at some plant on the sidewalk. I didn't really want to approach because she wasn't that particularly attractive but I saw her drawing when I past by her. I back stepped a few steps. I asked her “What is that?” She smiles and said “Horned beatles.” “I didn't know beatles could have spikes.” I exclaimed. “Yeah, they are pretty cool.” She answered. “Could they shoot those spikes?” I asked. She said “No, but that would be cool.” Then I asked her about her major. She said art. I thought biology because she was looking at the plant. I asked her what she draws. Then I ended the conversation.
Remarks: The vibe was good but it was just friendly because I was just curious plus I wasn't that attracted to her and she has a ring. I think if the convo went any longer it would turn weird because my intentions wasn't clear. Something I learned is “don't hide the banana” with direct-indirect.
Day Remarks: I was having a hard time approaching today. There was so many opportunities it's not even funny. I felt like I was starting from day one over again where I couldn't approach. I was thinking too much and expecting good reaction from the girls. My goal for now is just to approach whenever possible with no expectation in mind. If I approach I win. This will help me build a habit to approach. Also after the approach, I will ask for the number regardless if she seems interested or not. I will come from a screening mentality with an abundance mindset.
11/06:
I didn't do any approaches today. Mainly because I didn't have any time. I was staring a side hustle and needed to meet someone and that took longer than expected. By the time I was done, I had to go to work. During lunch time, I went to Walmart to see if there was any approachable girls but I didn't see any. Actually there was a decent white girl that looked pretty trashy but I didn't do it. Maybe because today the weather got cold and less people were coming out at night.
Day Remarks: I'm reflecting what's blocking me and I think I'm still get approach anxiety where I would look at a girl and not proactively finding a way to approach her. Sometimes I regret not approaching and sometimes I don't care. But I need to look at the long term benefit of doing this. I have to be outcome independent which comes with an abundance mentality and keep a playful attitude because the world is already so fucked up, might as well have fun with it.
11/07:
Approach #55:
I was walking near the main building and I see a cute girl walking towards me. She had her earbuds on. I said “Hey, do you know where the main building is?” as I'm smiling. She smiles, “The main building? You mean the clock tower (right in front of us)?” “Yeah, I'm just fucking with you. I thought you were cute and I wanted to stop you and say hi.” I introduce myself and she did too. I asked her what s
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