Post: #676

(12-30-2013 11:06 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  do you guys have problems with message delay times?

I got my second match today. Last night I got my first one but was wasted and asked her to fuck.

This one I more subtly asked to fuck, but the back and forth seems rly choppy. I accused her of being a pedophile then she made a comment about one of my pictures. 5 minutes later she replies to the pedo comment

at least it gave me a good in for the #

"this shits too choppy. whats your #"


upon further inspection: shes a chunker

It's really sketchy.. sometimes it's just like iMessage and works well, sometimes it won't send, sends duplicates.. all sorts...
It's a good excuse to get them off there asap and onto Whatsapp or something. Firstly it separates you from the tons of matches she's getting messaging her on there, plus it's much easier to have decent text conversations rather than just a slow back and forth

Post: #677

(12-26-2013 12:56 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  ^ hey blurred, I read your zero date bangs post.

All good, but the part you're glossing over is the 1-2 weeks of txt game you're running, before getting them in person. That's a lot of game.

My problem is I'm only in a city hardly a week before I'm off the next one.

You mentioned sending them pictures of Miley Cyrus. Could you break down your txt game a little more? I suspect you're creating a lot of interest and entertainment via your txts. Would love to know more about your routines.

The holidays have been a drunken haze for me this year, so I missed your post. I'm happy to break it down in as much detail as I can. Tonight is NYE though so I'll get on this in a couple days.

Post: #678

Praise the lord 2 more of these hoes want to bang. I'm already drinking amd they're driving distance. Fuck!!!!

Post: #679

try to get them to come to you?

Post: #680

(12-26-2013 12:56 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  Would love to know more about your routines.

I decided to just post my reply in the Zero Date Bangs thread, so hopefully more guys that aren't using Tinder can learn from it: /thread-28403-...#pid618058

Post: #681

I finally downloaded it the other day. Last night I didn't go out for NYE so decided to just thumb through it and hit "yes" on a ton of cute girls. Between today and yesterday must be over 150 girls. I've gotten 5 mutuals so far.

I'm getting killed on two things:

1) Race. I live in the south now and for some reason, like 95% of the chics on here are white and I'm black. So that's going to make it hard when all they have to judge you on is your pic and race is the first thing people see.

2) I'm 37. Nearly all the attractive girls are below 30. It shows your age right there in big letters and you can't change it since it pulls from your FB. The 5 girls that have given a mutual like are 29 to 37. Not getting any responses from cute younger girls, even though girls IRL routinely tell me they think I'm mid-late 20s.

Post: #682

(01-01-2014 10:06 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I finally downloaded it the other day. Last night I didn't go out for NYE so decided to just thumb through it and hit "yes" on a ton of cute girls. Between today and yesterday must be over 150 girls. I've gotten 5 mutuals so far.

I'm getting killed on two things:

1) Race. I live in the south now and for some reason, like 95% of the chics on here are white and I'm black. So that's going to make it hard when all they have to judge you on is your pic and race is the first thing people see.

2) I'm 37. Nearly all the attractive girls are below 30. It shows your age right there in big letters and you can't change it since it pulls from your FB. The 5 girls that have given a mutual like are 29 to 37. Not getting any responses from cute younger girls, even though girls IRL routinely tell me they think I'm mid-late 20s.

1 - I thought you were based in Cali

2 - Change and lie about your age.

Post: #683

(01-01-2014 10:06 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I finally downloaded it the other day. Last night I didn't go out for NYE so decided to just thumb through it and hit "yes" on a ton of cute girls. Between today and yesterday must be over 150 girls. I've gotten 5 mutuals so far.

I'm getting killed on two things:

1) Race. I live in the south now and for some reason, like 95% of the chics on here are white and I'm black. So that's going to make it hard when all they have to judge you on is your pic and race is the first thing people see.

2) I'm 37. Nearly all the attractive girls are below 30. It shows your age right there in big letters and you can't change it since it pulls from your FB. The 5 girls that have given a mutual like are 29 to 37. Not getting any responses from cute younger girls, even though girls IRL routinely tell me they think I'm mid-late 20s.

I am 37, i switched my age on facebook to 29 and reinstalled the app and get matches with cute girls in their early to mid 20s.

Just had a coffee date with a half french half german woman, 28, very cute face, she is a bit muscly from cross fit, but definitely will try to bang the next time i see her.


As for race, I think if you put up some group shots of you with white women, or you with group shots with white guys, you can maybe get some of those white girls in their 20s to swipe yes and go on dates with you. Though if you are black in the south, this might be a difficult task.(maybe not, I am white, I can't speak for a black man's experience.)

Post: #684

(01-01-2014 10:14 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  1 - I thought you were based in Cali

I left a few weeks ago. The city I live in now is like 25% black at least so don't know why so few black chics on here.

(01-01-2014 10:18 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  I am 37, i switched my age on facebook to 29 and reinstalled the app and get matches with cute girls in their early to mid 20s.

When you reinstalled the app did it delete all your previous conversations? I've got maybe 10 matches now and have some conversations now going.

Post: #685

Question on this:

I downloaded this app last week. Set up a fake FB account with a different name, but with a few of my real pictures. I wanted to lie about my age, since this app is so age-oriented.

It's a skeletal FB profile, in that it only has basic info about me and my profile photos.

No friends are in my fake FB profile I'm using. Does that matter? Does Tinder care if your FB profile has no friends? I don't think it does, because I've been getting Tinder matches here and there.

I'm just wondering of the Tinder search algorithm would perform better if my FB profile had a lot of info on it.

Post: #686

^Not in my experience.

I would add in some kinda generic "likes" or "interests" to the fake profile though, so that you might match something up with a girl though.

Post: #687

Heh heh...got it.

Post: #688

I'm chatting with this 25 year old chic that's decently cute right now. She's asking if I'm up for some fun right now, then I replied and she asks if I've ever made a woman squirt and she's looking for a man that can make her do that. My guard is up, I think I'm being trolled.

edit-- Yep, knew it was too good to be true. Webcam girl trolling me. Blocked and reported her as spam.

edit again -- Changed my FB age, deleted the Tinder app and reinstalled. It didn't change my age. Maybe Tinder blocked people from changing their age through FB. Damn. Oh well...

Post: #689

Just got my first tinder fattie!

I invited her to my place for champagne.

When I went down let her in the door I saw this chunky monstrosity waiting outside. FUCK! She didn't have any body pics on tinder and her face was cute.

I still let her come up but I just started treating her like one of the guys and started telling her all of my funny sex stories. We bullshitted for 45 minutes and then I told her she could give me a blow job if she wants but I'm not going to fuck her.

haha she left.

Post: #690

(01-02-2014 12:24 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  I'm chatting with this 25 year old chic that's decently cute right now. She's asking if I'm up for some fun right now, then I replied and she asks if I've ever made a woman squirt and she's looking for a man that can make her do that. My guard is up, I think I'm being trolled.

edit-- Yep, knew it was too good to be true. Webcam girl trolling me. Blocked and reported her as spam.

edit again -- Changed my FB age, deleted the Tinder app and reinstalled. It didn't change my age. Maybe Tinder blocked people from changing their age through FB. Damn. Oh well...

Speakeasy:

The way around this is to set up a fake skeletal profile on FB. Use your real pictures, but chop a bunch of years off your age. And use a different name. When the chick asks you later why you use a different name, say it's a nickname.

QC

Post: #691

But don't you need at least 50 FB friends to use Tinder?

Post: #692

(01-02-2014 01:01 AM)murrb Wrote:  Just got my first tinder fattie!

I invited her to my place for champagne.

When I went down let her in the door I saw this chunky monstrosity waiting outside. FUCK! She didn't have any body pics on tinder and her face was cute.

I still let her come up but I just started treating her like one of the guys and started telling her all of my funny sex stories. We bullshitted for 45 minutes and then I told her she could give me a blow job if she wants but I'm not going to fuck her.

haha she left.

I applaud your handling here.

You absolutely have to try to do some snooping on these girls first... the SIF's are masters of hiding the body in pics.. which is impressive given how much body there is for some of them to hide...

Top Tip: You know if you add them on whatsapp or text them and therefore have their phone number on your phone (for iPhones at least) you can then use the facebook app on your phone to tell you their facebook name. There's an 'add friends' feature that lists all the people on facebook it can find in your contacts who you aren't already facebook friends with. And most girls seem to have their number on facebook (even if it's not public).
8 out of 10 girls from Tinder i have been able to snoop their facebook profiles this way if i can't do it via mutual friends etc..
Rarely do they not have at least a few giveaway photos as publicly viewable.

Post: #693

(01-01-2014 11:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(01-01-2014 10:18 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  I am 37, i switched my age on facebook to 29 and reinstalled the app and get matches with cute girls in their early to mid 20s.

When you reinstalled the app did it delete all your previous conversations? I've got maybe 10 matches now and have some conversations now going.

It will delete all of the old conversations and matches when you delete the app. they would have to add you again, and you would have to add them again. I guess try to get phone numbers on any you are even remotely interested in then delete the app and reinstall.

I am about to do this in the next week or so. I have about a hundred matches, but will try again with different photos(all of the old chicks will see my new photos and maybe I will get some new matches)

(01-03-2014 06:11 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  But don't you need at least 50 FB friends to use Tinder?

At one point it was 50, at one point it was 10 or 11. try it and see.

Post: #694

(01-03-2014 07:51 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  I am about to do this in the next week or so. I have about a hundred matches, but will try again with different photos(all of the old chicks will see my new photos and maybe I will get some new matches)

Master Thespian:

I appreciate your utilitarian sacrifice (at least it has a utilitarian flavor) to give up 100 matches for potentially greater quantity or greater quality matches...

Post: #695

Did anyone else's matches almost completely dry up? I was getting a couple per day, and now I get one a week, and that was a camwhore. Didnt change my profile at all.

I dont swipe much. Does the algorithm show you off less if you dont swipe?

Post: #696

(01-04-2014 12:43 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Did anyone else's matches almost completely dry up? I was getting a couple per day, and now I get one a week, and that was a camwhore. Didnt change my profile at all.

I dont swipe much. Does the algorithm show you off less if you dont swipe?

mine are drier than the sahara, I think it goes by logging in because I never swipe first.

Post: #697

Been texting back and forth this one girl, she's 35. Turns out she'd actually be a great professional contact given that I'm in a new city. I'm considering just shifting away from trying to get her out on a date to trying to network with her.

Post: #698

(01-04-2014 12:43 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Did anyone else's matches almost completely dry up? I was getting a couple per day, and now I get one a week, and that was a camwhore. Didnt change my profile at all.

I dont swipe much. Does the algorithm show you off less if you dont swipe?

Yeah my shit blew up the first few days I signed up then nothing. I even put up way better pics and put a cocky tagline

A cute chick matched with me and I said what up like 5 minutes after and she never replied! Then on new years some chick invited me over to bang but she was too far away, and she never talked to me again

I can't figure it out

Post: #699

My guess is beginners luck. That or you use the app too much. Stop being active for some time and the first few girls you swipe should be matches. Tinder doesn't reward thirst haha

Post: #700

Just a notice, I started a new profile with a lower age. As soon as I got to 11 new FB friends I went to sign up and Tinder allowed me to join, so I guess the number is now 11 as of now.

Edit -- scrolling through the app now. Wow what a difference. I'm seeing just tons and tons of cute, thin girls in their 20s. Unbelievable. I don't see these chics at all when I'm out and about in my area. Crazy. After switching my age from 37 to 28 I'm also seeing a lot less older single moms popping up. Getting a few more black girls too on here now even though it's still like 90+% white girls.

I'm basically just swiping right like a madman on every girl that's a 5.5 or higher and not fat. We'll see what happens tomorrow.