Sunday evenings are definitely Tinder time for girls in and around London...
Last night i matched with sixteen 7's and 8's, and one 9. About half were girls that as soon as i went on the app and swiped yes we matched and half girls that must have swiped yes on me after i'd already swiped yes to them over the last week or so. Given since the summer when Tinder was new and you'd get a match back the same day now there's often a delay, i guess from the huge volume of guys swiping yes on girls and her working through the 'backlog'. It's definitely more effort to find the 7+'s now than it used to be..

Have 3 chatting on whatsapp now.. including the hottest girl i've ever got off Tinder onto Whatsapp since starting in the summer. All are coming to Winter Wonderland (a huge Christmas fair in Hyde park London, perfect place for getting drunk and 'romancing') with me on consecutive days this week. Good job i like Gluhwine...

A FB of mine who's a solid 9 showed me her Tinder this weekend too, she's started using it to hook up with phenomenally hot girls. I don't know where these girls are on my Tinder, gutting she has access to hotter girls than i do.. but apparently lesbian models are common in London. Who knew... good girl tho, she's working on bringing a few back for me.
I can tell you now, girl game is absolutely shocking... some of the messages were hilarious. But also.. so is the game of really good looking guys and male models. Some of the messages these guys send are vomit inducing. Highlights the fact that blue pillers are only as good with their brains as they need to be in life.. and in the end that will always catch up with you

All that said. I need to get out and approach more. I'm getting too comfortable getting laid via Tinder, OKc and POF...

(12-14-2013 12:38 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  I would suggest all of you add "yoga" toy your facebook likes. Yoga women that do it seriously tend to be good and flexible.

Kudos MT, this is an awesome shout.

Tinder just exploded for me in the past week, almost like people we're sensing me being in state. Of course that's not possible via internet. Getting matches and numbers left and right. Two girls were already up for coming to my place for coffee/videogames whatever. These girls are looking to bang and I'm going to exploit the hell out of it.

It's holidays, they're back in town, they don't know people, they hit up tinder. Great time for it.

I thought I saw my finest tinder match on the train yesterday(she didn't respond to my message months back), she wasn't close enough for me to talk to her but I busted out my phone to look at her pics, I was 98.5 percent sure that was her, she had just added 20 pounds since she took those pics

Guys, when you get the match I suggest you message her right away, because these girls probably get a ton of matches and theres a possibility that yours will fall to the bottom of their chat page and they wont notice you in the end.

Hate to say this but if you not photogenic this app is a waste of time.

I'm back in my hometown foe Xmas. Fired up the app and realized two things:

1. Quality has dropped off the earth. Toronto women are leagues ahead hotter then the whales in my town

2. I know half the broads on here.

I grew up with most of them and not even sure how to play it. I just got matched with some broad with a fit body and a heavy face. She's got access to money as her dad owns is crazed venture capitalist and owns huge stakes in a lot of energy based firms. She is eating well but me being here just a short time pumping and dumping broads can add a new dynamic to my cred here at home.

I had to delete my face from my dummy account tho. That one is me shirtless and I had. I fact of what I'm looking for. All was cool until my cousins best friend pops up and I jumped and deleted that shit quick.

Full steam ahead or aid on some caution?

What do you guys do when you meet girls of tinder, do you meet them at a bar/your house? And when you do meet them do you sexualise the conversation early or leave it till later?
Im just asking because I met a girl of tinder and completely fucked it up and ended it up not even getting a make out.
Im not to bothered as she wasn't the best looking so to speak, but I don't want to fuck it up with a half decent girl and be like a rabbit caught in headlights while trying to escalate.

(12-24-2013 07:30 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  What do you guys do when you meet girls of tinder, do you meet them at a bar/your house? And when you do meet them do you sexualise the conversation early or leave it till later?
Im just asking because I met a girl of tinder and completely fucked it up and ended it up not even getting a make out.
Im not to bothered as she wasn't the best looking so to speak, but I don't want to fuck it up with a half decent girl and be like a rabbit caught in headlights while trying to escalate.

Meet some place safe and then ramp it up as usual. Unless they are idiots they should know the deal and its basically a go if your game is good.

I try to make out with them after about a hour of drinks and talking.

The trap is every broad is going to be a few points lower, no broad I've come in contact with looks as good as their pics.

So what's the play for getting them off the damn app and in person?

I'm sitting on about 200 tinder matches across 15 different cities. Haven't gotten a single one live and in person yet. They txt and txt, but as soon as I suggest a get together, they go radio silence.

How do you build attraction without a proper profile?

Are you guys building attraction over txt?

Do you get them to answer a phone call?

What's the trick?

(12-24-2013 10:45 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  So what's the play for getting them off the damn app and in person?

I'm sitting on about 200 tinder matches across 15 different cities. Haven't gotten a single one live and in person yet. They txt and txt, but as soon as I suggest a get together, they go radio silence.

How do you build attraction without a proper profile?

Are you guys building attraction over txt?

Do you get them to answer a phone call?

What's the trick?

Really? I dont' txt much - just give a bs reason why you want to get off the app (i.e. wifi does not work etc). That weeds out the ones who are are interested. I do no more than 10 lines (often less) in Tinder. Get the phone number and the set up a date. 10 Tinder matches that I chat up result in about 2-3 dates and 1-2 bangs.

I was just like... hey, you seem pretty cool/interesting/whatever adjective, let's get some coffee and chill together and continue a conversation in person.

Got pretty good responses. My dig is going coffee => bar as a venue change.

evening coffee date?

(12-24-2013 10:45 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  So what's the play for getting them off the damn app and in person?

I'm sitting on about 200 tinder matches across 15 different cities. Haven't gotten a single one live and in person yet. They txt and txt, but as soon as I suggest a get together, they go radio silence.

How do you build attraction without a proper profile?

Are you guys building attraction over txt?

Do you get them to answer a phone call?

What's the trick?

You've got the wrong mentality. You don't need to build attraction, Tinder does that for you. She selected YOUR pictures out of hundreds of guys that she has seen, so the work is already done. A Tinder match is the equivalent of a girl pinching your ass and winking at you in a bar as she walks by - respond accordingly.

My strategy:
Ping them with a quick conditional opener, then let her respond. Tell her that you two can make out and elope to Mexico, but it all depends on if she qualifies for the condition you set up in the first message. She will LOL, then you get her number. Play the flirtatious game with her; it disarms her and makes it normal that she's meeting a guy from online. Bring up making out a couple times to make sure she's on board. Invite her over, and bang. Absolutely no dates. I break it down here: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28403.html

Source: 130+ numbers and 21 no date bangs from Tinder in 2013.

^ hey blurred, I read your zero date bangs post.

All good, but the part you're glossing over is the 1-2 weeks of txt game you're running, before getting them in person. That's a lot of game.

My problem is I'm only in a city hardly a week before I'm off the next one.

You mentioned sending them pictures of Miley Cyrus. Could you break down your txt game a little more? I suspect you're creating a lot of interest and entertainment via your txts. Would love to know more about your routines.

I'm interested in checking this out, but it seems you have to have a facebook login, which I don't have. Is there any way around this?

I suppose I could create a facebook profile with just a couple of pics, and nothing else, no friends, and make it private (non-searchable) - but if Tinder uses your FB network of friends to figure out who to show you (and does the same for women), as opposed to simply proximity, then creating a minimalist facebook profile just for Tinder would seem to be a waste of time.

(12-27-2013 11:28 AM)assman Wrote:  I'm interested in checking this out, but it seems you have to have a facebook login, which I don't have. Is there any way around this?

I suppose I could create a facebook profile with just a couple of pics, and nothing else, no friends, and make it private (non-searchable) - but if Tinder uses your FB network of friends to figure out who to show you (and does the same for women), as opposed to simply proximity, then creating a minimalist facebook profile just for Tinder would seem to be a waste of time.

I don't believe anyone has said in this entire thread that it uses your FB network of friends to figure out who to show you. It uses your actual location. You'll need friends (even if they're random) on your facebook account only to legitimize it in the eyes of Tinder as a real account.

From the original post:

(12-31-2012 01:20 AM)BudgetGlobetrotting Wrote:  Anyways, it's an app linked to your Facebook. It WILL NOT post anything to your Facebook (big plus), but uses your FB login for your Profile Picture, age, and other private data harvesting for their own income...fine with me.

(12-27-2013 12:37 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  I don't believe anyone has said in this entire thread that it uses your FB network of friends to figure out who to show you. It uses your actual location. You'll need friends (even if they're random) on your facebook account only to legitimize it in the eyes of Tinder as a real account.

From the original post:

(12-31-2012 01:20 AM)BudgetGlobetrotting Wrote:  Anyways, it's an app linked to your Facebook. It WILL NOT post anything to your Facebook (big plus), but uses your FB login for your Profile Picture, age, and other private data harvesting for their own income...fine with me.

Thanks. I didn't read the entire thread. I read a blog post on Tinder somewhere and it seemed to suggest that the app uses your friends network.

On your other point, does Tinder reject accounts without any friends? I was hoping to keep the FB account totally private and non-searchable, and not connected to anyone I actually know.

Are there any popular proximity apps that don't use Facebook logins?

I would suggest you read the thread. At one point the number of friends needed was 50, at another point it was only 10 or 11

plenty of ways suggested on how to quickly set up a new facebook account and add the needed friends.(basically add a few facebook apps that require friends, and then go to friend adding forum for that app)

Tinder in London has dropped off for me. I'm still working through a backlog of stunners from the early days and getting dates with them but past two weeks hardly any quality has come through even though my matches have increased.

Glory days were the first two weeks I was on the app around November.

Ive been running onto 2 problems on Tinder recently:

1- Its been showing up women that not only I know, but I have laid already. I have over 350 women friended on FB and the 2 or 3 that have showed up, Ive laid.

This is not much of a problem, but I thought Tinder only showed women you where not friends with on FB.

2- I travel, so sometimes matches appear after Ive left town already.

What to do in the case where Im not going to be back in town for perhaps weeks? Game regularly, take them on Whatsapp, and then hitting when Im back in town, or wait until im back in town to chat up on Tinder? I know closing fast is the key on Tinder, so, play now and close later, or wait to play later, and close fast then?

I've been having pretty good success with Tinder lately. I've fucked a few girls from there and I have more solid leads than I can keep up with. A lot of girls on there aren't serious about meeting up but it's still fun talking to them, it keeps your text game sharp for when it matters, and it shows you what conversation topics will get you traction in person.

Keep an eye out for girls who might be hot but put a bad/vague pic as their first pic. Some girls are hot but aren't smart about playing the tinder game and will put a landscape or a bad pic (like one of them with a motorcycle helmet on or something) as their initial pic and will get skipped over by most guys. You gotta find the diamond in the rough. And fuck that diamond.

Just banged a French / Turk 23yo on a Sunday night no less. Going to work Monday morning with a spring in my step

(12-29-2013 11:58 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  Tinder in London has dropped off for me. I'm still working through a backlog of stunners from the early days and getting dates with them but past two weeks hardly any quality has come through even though my matches have increased.

Glory days were the first two weeks I was on the app around November.

I agree.
Believe me, when i was first on Tinder back in June/July/August when it was new to London.. it was stupid how hot the girls were and how willing they were to meet up. What genuine 9's were doing on a dating app was beyond me.. but they still love the cock i guess. And it gives them an opportunity to get some on the DL without friends knowing and judging...
Back in the summer it was almost like the hotter girls 7+ knew about Tinder or were confident enough to use it long before all the fatties were..

Now there are far more attention seekers. Hot girls not really looking to meet. I would say 1 in 5 i match with has a boyfriend that can easily be found with a little twitter/facebook sleuthing. Some of these chicks are seriously slow when it comes to privacy..
I also put it down to girls now having far more options as more and more guys are matching them. Shame.. but it was always going to be closing window. Still well worth the effort being on there though. The average quality is far in excess of OKC and POF.

do you guys have problems with message delay times?

I got my second match today. Last night I got my first one but was wasted and asked her to fuck.

This one I more subtly asked to fuck, but the back and forth seems rly choppy. I accused her of being a pedophile then she made a comment about one of my pictures. 5 minutes later she replies to the pedo comment

at least it gave me a good in for the #

"this shits too choppy. whats your #"


upon further inspection: shes a chunker