Post: #1

Date 1
Date 2
Date 3
Date 4
Date 5 or more?

Post: #2

Well after reading this forum way too much if I don't get laid by the 2nd date I don't contact the girl anymore. I don't know if this is a smart move but it seems I've kind of became a robot and got the routine down to a T.

I've had a decent amount of first date bangs and a few 2nd date bangs after that I just move on to the next one. Sometimes I push too hard on the 1st date for sex that I think she decides she doesn't want a second date.

I think this means I end up banging a lot of slutty girls though which isn't always the best. Sometimes I want to go on a 3rd or 4th date but I realize that mathematically that isn't the proper move.

Post: #3

I can do as far as date 3 if needed (girls is worth it). Date 1 - usually coffee towards the evening. If things pan out - bar for few drinks, then forward towards bang.

Date 2 - drinks (if date 1 didn't pan out). I think that sampling dataset is too small. If i go on 10 dates and get 2-3 bangs, 1 being first date, 2 being second and third date, i am technically throwing 33% each. Maybe I just don't do online game that much.

Post: #4

I go for the bang on the first date every time. 2nd date is almost always a girl that put up LMR but wants to see me again for the bang

Post: #5

3rd date hard to visualise let alone 4th+

Post: #6

By percentages, it would be:

Date 1: 10%
Date 2: 30%
Date 3: 60%

I don’t go past date 3 and never really have go. My biggest challenge is the logistics as my place is about 20 minutes outside of town and the main party/bar area. A lot of girls live with roommates, so generally, their place may be off limits as well, which creates a logistics problem for a first date bang. Anyways, here is my normal routine:

Date 1: Meet up for drinks mid-week (Build comfort, kino, go for the kiss close). If she lives by herself, walk her home and go for the bang. Otherwise:

Date 2: Do some fun day activity, like rock climbing.

Date 3: Dinner and movie at my place. Get the notch I generally try to combine date 2 and 3 in the same day depending on what my plans are.

Note: Based on my personal experiences especially with Russian and Ukrainian girls (my niche) is that it usually takes 3 dates… it’s like they almost keep count in their head before they give it up.

Post: #7

90% 1st

Not because i have super tight game but because:

(11-11-2013 11:33 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  I go for the bang on the first date every time. 2nd date is almost always a girl that put up LMR but wants to see me again for the bang

Post: #8

I would say 10% first date, 40% second date, 40% third date. Representative sample is around 50 girls in the last three years.

Post: #9

60% - 1st Date
30% - 2nd Date
10% - 3rd Date+

I only go on a second date usually if they are 6.5+ or if I have been in a slump.

3rd Date+ I reserve for 7+ girls. I could see going on a 4th and 5th date if the girl gives me more action each time and is attractive and fun.

Longest I have waited is 4th Date for a bang add it was mostly worth it. Sort of annoying but attractive redhead. Was my first redhead and gave amazing head, so it was worth it.

Post: #10

You have to be aggressively screening out non-bangs.

Girls throw a lot of noise out there.

Post: #11

I said 2nd Date because the first is when I meet the girl. For instance, if I take a bus and a girl sits next to me and I talk to her, it was the first date. After I get her number and say to her come to my place to watch a movie or whatever, that's the second date lol

Post: #12

Went on dates with 2 girls from websites and ended up banging both on the first date. Take the girls to where I want to go: Shooting Range. Guess it works, 4/4 1st date bang when taking a girl shooting...some correlation possible?

Post: #13

I go for the bang on the first date every time. 2nd date is almost always a girl that put up LMR but wants to see me again for the bang

Post: #14

Is this poll saying online girls give it up on the 1st date, or online bangs are different from regular meet ups?

Post: #15

(11-11-2013 01:35 PM)Remington Wrote:  Went on dates with 2 girls from websites and ended up banging both on the first date. Take the girls to where I want to go: Shooting Range. Guess it works, 4/4 1st date bang when taking a girl shooting...some correlation possible?

Dannyfrom504 said the same thing. The adrenaline starts pumping and they latch on to you emotionally. What other activities are like a shooting range in that respect? The only ones that i i can think of is drag racing or getting the broad on a motorcycle.

Post: #16

I can't answer, because I have 2 contrary data sets;

Online dating in the US: 90% 1st date

Online dating in eastern Europe: All 3rd+ date

Post: #17

(11-11-2013 04:25 PM)pheonix500000 Wrote:  

(11-11-2013 01:35 PM)Remington Wrote:  Went on dates with 2 girls from websites and ended up banging both on the first date. Take the girls to where I want to go: Shooting Range. Guess it works, 4/4 1st date bang when taking a girl shooting...some correlation possible?

Dannyfrom504 said the same thing. The adrenaline starts pumping and they latch on to you emotionally. What other activities are like a shooting range in that respect? The only ones that i i can think of is drag racing or getting the broad on a motorcycle.

I have a membership at my range so the only thing I need to worry about is ammo (get the girls to pay for that), and then I pick up 3-4 targets for $1 each. Simple and inexpensive, and apparently it really turns a girl on when you shoot a big gun...all of them have said that...hmmm.

Anyways, paintball could work, except you may have a girl bitch at you for getting shot at or something, plus its pretty expensive. Anything fast and/or dangerous

Post: #18

Date 2 is gold for me.

A few have held out to date 4. I usually don't do 5 dates without sex.

That generally goes for girls I met in clubs or day game.

Post: #19

Normally online boppers know whats up. As soon as they respone to your message, that is them saying "I like your face and if he doesnt fuck it up them he can have my pussy."

Can you imagine how many times they get hit online? I had one who had three messages from POF on our date. Use Tuth's model to first date bangs and your closure rate should be alot higher.

Post: #20

1st date most of the time because most of my online bang came from girls I didn't want to meet again or just barely passed the boner test, also since I work 2 weeks north of QC (basically no pussy..) and 1 week off in Montreal its really essential trying to go for the bang on first date or you end up waiting forever in my case.

Post: #21

So 60% of online bangs are on the first date? Incredible.

I have a feeling the "anonymity" of online dating allows girls to take liberties with fast sex. Girls are more likely to give it up on the first date with a guy they met online as her friends/family will never find out. Whereas if she met the guy via social circle, slut-shaming will make girls wait until date 2-3 or beyond.

I also think most guys online are banging 1-2 levels beneath them. Online dating gives average girls access to guys they'd normally never come across via social circle (ie. working-class girls to upper-middle class professional guys, ethnic girls to white guys, chubby girls to fit guys etc.) So an online girl may give it up on the first date if she perceives the guy as "above her" (looks or status) as the guy is better than what she's normally used to getting.

How are you guys screening girls for first date bangs? Do you escalate aggressively via sexual texts such that you know she's DTF on the first date? Do you filter out girls who are not likely to give it up on date 1 or 2 by amping up the sex texts? This will screen out the pretenders, but you also know right away which girls are DTF.

Post: #22

(11-11-2013 05:08 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  I can't answer, because I have 2 contrary data sets;

Online dating in the US: 90% 1st date

Online dating in eastern Europe: All 3rd+ date

Yep, mine is 90% UK 1st date bang, not a single 1st date online bang from eastern europe. All 3rd date or longer.

I'm actually on not speaking to any girls after the 1st date, i just can't be arsed, there's plenty of chicks on the plenty of fish

Post: #23

I've only done online game in Thailand and nearly every time is a first date bang.

I don't meet with girls I don't think are down to fuck on the first date.