Post: #451

(10-26-2013 04:36 PM)shotgun Wrote:  Obvious I know, but:

After getting a match, if you're really interested in the girl, I suggest adding her on facebook after a few back and forths in the chat. Not only it allows you to see other photos of her (there are plenty of SIFs on Tinder), but it also takes the interaction a bit deeper, separating yourself from the horny guys that are messaging her on the chat app. Then ask her out after a few back and forths on Facebook chat.

Cool idea.

It adds an unnecessary extra step though.

The more time between first contact and first bang, the less likely it is to happen.

Make contact, get the digits, get the meet up.

Ideally, you want to run something like soups game from earlier in the thread. It's not always possible, but what's that old adage "shoot for the stars, something something... "

Post: #452

I made a new FB profile for this but need to add fake friends. Does Tinder automatically transfer your pictures over? Should I upload all of the pictures on FB that I want to use on Tinder? Anything else I need to know to get started?

Im a kid fresh out of high school according to facebook

Post: #453

(10-26-2013 07:14 PM)houston Wrote:  I made a new FB profile for this but need to add fake friends. Does Tinder automatically transfer your pictures over? Should I upload all of the pictures on FB that I want to use on Tinder? Anything else I need to know to get started?

I don't see the need to create a fake facebook profile for Tinder. I've been using Tinder for I think 8+ months now, and they have never posted anything on my Facebook page or anything like that. The app is legit.

You can create a "private" photo gallery on your facebook page that friends can't see, and then use those photos for Tinder. I do that since I don't want my online dating photos also sitting on my facebook page.

The other big benefit of using your real FB is that Tinder tells you if you have mutual friends or mutual interests with the girl. If I detect a potential SIF, I'll look up the girl on FB via our mutual friend or mutual interest (Facebooks new Graph Search feature enables you to do this) and then check out her other pics to see what the deal is.

Another thing to know getting started...the more you use Tinder, the more it front ends you to girls. Meaning if you don't open the app for a week or don't message any of your matches, it will stop showing your photo to new girls.

And finally, what most guys forget...is that Tinder is a slow roll. It takes at least a few days if not longer before matches start rolling in.

Post: #454

(10-26-2013 10:06 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(10-26-2013 07:14 PM)houston Wrote:  I made a new FB profile for this but need to add fake friends. Does Tinder automatically transfer your pictures over? Should I upload all of the pictures on FB that I want to use on Tinder? Anything else I need to know to get started?

I don't see the need to create a fake facebook profile for Tinder. I've been using Tinder for I think 8+ months now, and they have never posted anything on my Facebook page or anything like that. The app is legit.

You can create a "private" photo gallery on your facebook page that friends can't see, and then use those photos for Tinder. I do that since I don't want my online dating photos also sitting on my facebook page.

The other big benefit of using your real FB is that Tinder tells you if you have mutual friends or mutual interests with the girl. If I detect a potential SIF, I'll look up the girl on FB via our mutual friend or mutual interest (Facebooks new Graph Search feature enables you to do this) and then check out her other pics to see what the deal is.

Another thing to know getting started...the more you use Tinder, the more it front ends you to girls. Meaning if you don't open the app for a week or don't message any of your matches, it will stop showing your photo to new girls.

And finally, what most guys forget...is that Tinder is a slow roll. It takes at least a few days if not longer before matches start rolling in.

The thing is...houston doesn't have FB at all. So he has to start from scratch.

Either way, it's easy to make a profile from a phone.

Post: #455

I just met a girl from Tinder. A 6, has been on Tinder a week and has well over 20 matches, four dates in a week, me being the fourth. A SIF, she fooled me because she is quite a good photographer actually.

Anyway, I may get 1 or 2 matches a week, and perhaps only 50% of all matches turn into a number, and from that only 50 into a date.

Damm this world, where a 6 fattie can date as many guys as she wants.

Post: #456

(10-26-2013 05:26 PM)TheMan Wrote:  

(10-26-2013 04:36 PM)shotgun Wrote:  Obvious I know, but:

After getting a match, if you're really interested in the girl, I suggest adding her on facebook after a few back and forths in the chat. Not only it allows you to see other photos of her (there are plenty of SIFs on Tinder), but it also takes the interaction a bit deeper, separating yourself from the horny guys that are messaging her on the chat app. Then ask her out after a few back and forths on Facebook chat.

Cool idea.

It adds an unnecessary extra step though.

The more time between first contact and first bang, the less likely it is to happen.

Make contact, get the digits, get the meet up.

Ideally, you want to run something like soups game from earlier in the thread. It's not always possible, but what's that old adage "shoot for the stars, something something... "

I just don't want to get an unpleasant surprise when I meet up with the girl (see the post above this one).

I do agree that chatting too much with the girl leads to nowhere, though. Text her just enough to build comfort so she agrees to meet up.

Post: #457

"The more time between first contact and first bang, the less likely it is to happen. "


untrue.

i've banged three chicks from tinder now

each one of them involved a couple full days of messages and then texts back and forth setting the tone and establishing comfort.

though i have a different game in that i'm setting up explicitly BDSM relationships with these women so there is a lot of talking to do

but to say that increased communications decrease chance of bang is simply false

Post: #458

oh and i never, ever, ever ever! add a girl to facebook, EVER

not EVER

Post: #459

You can start talking the same day you match or later. But I've found it best to rapidfire text her until you get her number and you text off Tinder. Waiting hours or days between Tinder texting robs the seduction of momentum, because she's getting a stream of matches constantly. It's now or never, so get the iron hot and strike - dropping a little bait in the tank every day isn't going to do it.

Once you're texting off Tinder though, you have more leeway.

Post: #460

(10-27-2013 06:41 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  "The more time between first contact and first bang, the less likely it is to happen. "


untrue.

i've banged three chicks from tinder now

each one of them involved a couple full days of messages and then texts back and forth setting the tone and establishing comfort.

though i have a different game in that i'm setting up explicitly BDSM relationships with these women so there is a lot of talking to do

but to say that increased communications decrease chance of bang is simply false

It'll depend on the type of game you are looking to run, I think. If you are trying to run Quick Online Bang game (I made that name up) then the rapid-fire "get numbers now" approach will net you the best ROI, as those women who aren't comfortable or interested will weed themselves out in the first half-dozen or so messages. If you are trying to run some variant of a deeper game, where you get that emotional connection and establish a rapport, then that's your own thing. I think his statement was still accurate in that the chance to bang is reduced, but I think the statement also needs to be scoped "in eligible candidates". It's possible with your approach you're getting higher quality candidates, but your ROI is much lower since you could've opened a lot more women over time by ditching the one "maybe" in favor of dozens/hundreds of unknowns.

(10-27-2013 06:42 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  oh and i never, ever, ever ever! add a girl to facebook, EVER

not EVER

This. Totally this. 10000% this. I already found the 19-year-old cheerleader on Facebook. She's cute and, most important, she posts pictures publicly, so I can see she's got a decent body. Apparently her ex-boyfriend is a sheriff's deputy, so that's kinda' annoying, but I doubt I'll ever have to deal with him post-bang. I'm putting in just enough effort to make sure I'm not going to get SIF'd if we meet this upcoming weekend.

(10-28-2013 12:05 PM)basilransom Wrote:  You can start talking the same day you match or later. But I've found it best to rapidfire text her until you get her number and you text off Tinder. Waiting hours or days between Tinder texting robs the seduction of momentum, because she's getting a stream of matches constantly. It's now or never, so get the iron hot and strike - dropping a little bait in the tank every day isn't going to do it.

Once you're texting off Tinder though, you have more leeway.

I tried getting the cheerleader's number--she wouldn't have any of it until she "was more comfortable with me". I was mentioning above about the varied approaches to game on Tinder, and she wasn't completely repulsed by my honesty but wanted to know me a bit more. I think I'm falling somewhere in between, I just hope I don't slip through the cracks in the process! I imagine a scenario like that to sound like "Too nice to bang, too mean to keep as a friend". I'm keeping our conversation topics pretty locked down and I change topics frequently so she doesn't get to ask any "deep" questions about my background (which might lead to me revealing something that would prove I'm 10 years older than I told her.)

Post: #461

tinder has been taken over by fatties and trollish women. the party is over, I would say about 80% of my tinder dates are let downs, the women are usually a far cry from their photos, as with most online dating. I would say most of them I wouldnt bother approaching on the street. I would rather take my day game percentages than waste evenings and time, at least I would feel good from an approach even if it resulted in nothing, than having to wait around to drink a glass of wine or two with some random ugly girl with chapped lips and the sniffles.

Post: #462

delete.

Post: #463

Just got on here... seems to be a gold mine comparatively. All the college girls are on here; all the college girls are NOT on other places.

Two days, 30 mins of investment, and I'm setting up a date with a cute Guatemalan chick at my local uni.

Post: #464

So far I got:

11 Matches

Cant get past the first message, I even tried RVF member Kickboxer's lines.

Well....one replied "." but that ain't much.

Post: #465

(10-27-2013 06:42 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  oh and i never, ever, ever ever! add a girl to facebook, EVER

not EVER

Why not? i always add girls from OkCupid to Facebook. I estimate it's saved me from dating at least 5-10 SIF in my time. It's gold. You can't fake being thin in 100 photos.

Are you wasting your time meeting fatties or what?

Post: #466

The reason I like adding people on facebook is because I can see their pictures and interests.

There's been a few times where I tell girls, "wear this outfit".

Post: #467

Every girl I've added to my facebook I've never met up with. Which is weird, but I'm pretty sure it's because my pics suck and I have nothing - the whole profile is locked down. No social proof.

I avoid facebook wholeheartedly...

Post: #468

(10-28-2013 04:19 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

(10-27-2013 06:42 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  oh and i never, ever, ever ever! add a girl to facebook, EVER

not EVER

Why not? i always add girls from OkCupid to Facebook. I estimate it's saved me from dating at least 5-10 SIF in my time. It's gold. You can't fake being thin in 100 photos.

Are you wasting your time meeting fatties or what?

facebook is private for me. only closest friends and family. those girls dont get that information.

no man, before I see them I have them take me many real time pictures and send them to me. most of them i can get to send me at least semi nudes before hand.

not my first time at the rodeo, i know how to sniff out the SIF

Post: #469

"this app sucks, text me here 555.5555"

works 9/10 times

Post: #470

Do you have to turn your gps on while using the app? I should be up and running soon. Facebook blocked me from adding friends for 2 days because I added to many strangers.

Post: #471

been on it a couple months, a lot of matches since i do the "like,like,like,like" without looking so i get a lot of 5s and below that "like" me back but i never message or ignore.

Off those matches, got a few numbers, met up with two, working on one and the other the furthest i've gotten was a HJ last night

Post: #472

(10-28-2013 03:25 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  So far I got:

11 Matches

Cant get past the first message, I even tried RVF member Kickboxer's lines.

Well....one replied "." but that ain't much.

In how long? I've messaged back and forth with half my matches. Several I haven't messaged because I wasn't sure if they were really up to my standards. Reasonably cute... but I don't have time to do reasonably cute.

Just usually was like "What's up" + some comment on them or question to them.

The odd thing I've had is that not a single girl I've liked has liked me back; or at least, I've not had a single match from girls I've liked... though I've had some extremely cute ones that have liked me, and then I get a match when I like them back. Considering I've had some very pretty girls like me, and then we've chatted (and I've got dates set up, went on one; one girl lives in my old frat house, a sorority bought it from my old frat).. I don't think it's my looks, especially as I've liked some only so-so girls.

Feels like a bug or something, out of a 100+ girls I've liked, at least one should've liked me back. Kinda annoyed with that so far.

Post: #473

Just started using this in London.

Huge numbers of cute girls, so far I've only set up one date with one hot girl and rejected about twenty 5s. I wonder how long it takes for them to see my profile. I've probably swiped 1000ish likes in just an hour or two.

Facebook adding has been absolutely gold in uncovering those SIFs and also boosting my image.

Post: #474

Plan to dip my toes into tinder gents! I plan on creating a completely new profile but I'm curious does this app create matches solely from your interests and/or mutual friends? If I don't add any friends and haven't 'liked' anything the app will not work? I was planning on just have 2-3 good shots of me but I suppose I could just spam many high volume interests...Twilight etc

Post: #475

Had two of my mates recently tell me to get on it. I see a lot of hot girls on it which makes me suspicious.