Post: #1

We all know the type. You try to talk to a new girl and she ignores you and won't even acknowledge that someone is trying to engage her in a conversation. So my question to all you experts out there is: How do you open an ice queen? If she is with other people you could talk to her friends, but what if she is alone or worse youre dealing with a group of ice queens?

Post: #2

I'd approach with whatever opener I have in mind and see how it goes. Are you presuming these are ice queens or do you know for sure? They could be completely different when you approach, lots of girls put on their 'bitch face' when uncomfortable.

I would continue to run my set past their moodiness, if nothing works I would take the piss out of them. Then move on to a more receptive feminine girl.

Post: #3

(10-18-2013 05:19 PM)James 2013 Wrote:  We all know the type. You try to talk to a new girl and she ignores you and won't even acknowledge that someone is trying to engage her in a conversation. So my question to all you experts out there is: How do you open an ice queen? If she is with other people you could talk to her friends, but what if she is alone or worse youre dealing with a group of ice queens?

You don't.

You walk away immediately. . .someone like that isn't worth your time.

Then,
You go find a hot girl that is receptive to you.

There are somegirls that just get off on rejecting guys, you need to stay away from women like that, they're like that for a reason. IF by some odd chance you do "crack" one of them and bang them. . .you'll know WHY she's like that and eventually regret it.

So yeah don't waste your time.

Post: #4

thanks for the advice guys

Post: #5

- Do not seek rapport - for instance when you approach on dancefloor and she's ignores you don't stay there plowing. Instead give her props (yes!) like "haha good blow out girl! respect" and move on with smile on your face. Do your own thing like nothing happened. Come back later.

- Be more indifferent/casual - No over pursuing, no invading girls' personal space, no forcing girls into a conversation. It's very try hard. Instead, make a quick comment or some kind of humorous observation with flirty glance or mischievous smile. Almost as if she happens to be just the next thing on your way. If girls don't care or keep walking leave them alone and come back later. Again, don't seek rapport. If they stop or respond then use it to flirt.

- Attitude - Have that ballsy and shameless "Trust me, you want to talk to me" vibe or "I dare you to reject me" subtext that Cajun talks about. That's when you almost expect them to drop anything they do at the moment and focus on you.

Post: #6

Those are some good thoughts, XXL. Something else that I have discovered is that sometimes a girl that you approach that blows you off will tell her friends about it, then her friends become interested in you out of jealousy because you didn't approach them!