(10-12-2013 02:35 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(10-12-2013 02:31 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  I've been on this thing for a few weeks and I only have 1 mutual match - does the girl need to like you to get a mutual match?

Yup, both need to like each other.

Are you guys getting matches? I'm like 0 for 500 and I'm a decent enough looking 6'3 white guy.

I got 15 matches, 5'7" average looking hispanic. Maybe it's your age, I'm 21 and in college so it bonds with with sorority bitches.

(10-12-2013 02:56 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got 15 matches, 5'7" average looking hispanic. Maybe it's your age, I'm 21 and in college so it bonds with with sorority bitches.

yeah I'm 36 I think its killing me

(10-12-2013 03:07 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  

(10-12-2013 02:56 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got 15 matches, 5'7" average looking hispanic. Maybe it's your age, I'm 21 and in college so it bonds with with sorority bitches.

yeah I'm 36 I think its killing me

Change your age to 28 or whatever younger age you can pull off. Say you're an MBA student.

(10-12-2013 03:07 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  

(10-12-2013 02:56 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got 15 matches, 5'7" average looking hispanic. Maybe it's your age, I'm 21 and in college so it bonds with with sorority bitches.

yeah I'm 36 I think its killing me

Play to your strengths. A hookup app like this is not a good terrain for older guys. Do day game for the young girls.

(10-12-2013 03:16 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(10-12-2013 03:07 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  

(10-12-2013 02:56 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I got 15 matches, 5'7" average looking hispanic. Maybe it's your age, I'm 21 and in college so it bonds with with sorority bitches.

yeah I'm 36 I think its killing me

Change your age to 28 or whatever younger age you can pull off. Say you're an MBA student.

I just changed my age. I wonder how this will work.

here in Minnesota...its so dramatically different than Georgia. 1 in every 20 non-black girls connected with me. I am no exaggerating when I say, last time i signed on the first chick connected and sent her number. Every 1 outt 2 OR 3 CONNECT WITH ME HERE.

Just had to point this out.

i'm 37 and there is an endless stream of chicks in their 20's swiping right on me.



i'm also in chicago now and getting so many more matches. guess i play better in the midwest

I started to use it last Thursday. I had 15 matches so far. But not all guys talk back, even if I take the iniciative.
I am 27. I saw good looking guys 35+, I don't think this is a problem... Maybe if you put higher distance range... I don't know.

Been getting a lot of matches again, but either the girls live too far away or don't respond to my opening message.

(10-14-2013 06:06 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  the girls live too far away

Don't discount the far away girls. I've matched with and number closed girls all over the US through Tinder. Next week I'm going to a new city for work, and have 2 girls there that wanna meet up, that I met on Tinder. Who knows if anything will come of it, but it's better than going in blind.

The other angle you can play is: "you live so far away, you got any single friends in my city?" Girls love hooking up their friends with cool guys. I have tried this angle a couple times unsuccessfully, but that doesn't mean it won't eventually work.

I have realized that part of being a player is seeing opportunity where others see closed doors.

What the guy above me said, some girls think I'm too young for them but always tell me they're more than a happy to play matchmaker with one of their cousins or friends.

I want to try it but sounds like a bitch to get it up and running.

Been using Tinder for a month.

So far 112 matches, 6 dates and 2 bangs. Really a huge numbers game.

You'll end up with lots of women blocking you, talking for too long or just going silent. I get the feeling a lot of women also delete it as profiles go dormant for days or weeks which is a problem.

Hardest part is getting the chick OFF Tinder and onto whatsapp/phone etc

(10-14-2013 08:53 PM)houston Wrote:  I want to try it but sounds like a bitch to get it up and running.

actually its incredibly easy. wont take more then a couple minutes.

Does anyone care to share some tinder openers?

Im struck between using a long opener or a short one, tinder feels quick so a long one might lose their interest.

"ready for some awkward conversation?" works 100% of the time half the time

"this app sucks, text me at 555-5555" works 95% of the time 45% of the time

(10-16-2013 08:19 AM)reaper23 Wrote:  works 100% of the time half the time
works 95% of the time 45% of the time

Man, I hate doing math

So 50% and 42.75% of the time?

Just started using this app yesterday - so far, after three matches, one of which I converted to a number. Drinks lined up for the weekend. Logistics seem to be the hard part, you really have to narrow down to a local area (2-3 miles) in a big city like London.

Funny part, swiped past my girlfriends little sister. Potentially opening myself up to a world of hurt here.

Do i have to go through my Facebook account for this app?

It accesses Facebook to get pics and some info

(10-05-2013 04:05 PM)Ringo Wrote:  I'm pretty sure there must be something wrong with my Tinder:

I used to get from 3-6 matches a day.

Now I'm getting like 2 or 3 a week, at most, and sometimes with girls I'm almost positive I didn't "like".

I've been blocking away girls who dont respond since you guys said the algorythm favours people who exchange messages constantly. Still, the situation hasn't improved in the last days.

Is anyone facing something similar?

I sent Tinder a message regarding the issues I was having with the app. Here's the reply:

"Hi There,

Thank you for writing in. We were experiencing some issues with our servers earlier and everything should be back to normal.

iOS users will want to update to v2.2.0 and Android users will want to update to 1.4.

If you are still experiencing any problems please try logging out of Tinder and then Log back in:

Please go into Tinder

--> tap the button in the top left of your main screen

--> tap the button in the lower left corner of the list that showed up

--> tap the Logout button

--> then log back in with Facebook

If you have another issue or question not related to this please reply to this message and we will get back to you as soon as possible."

(10-16-2013 06:56 PM)houston Wrote:  Do i have to go through my Facebook account for this app?

Houston you are leaving pussy on the table by not using this app. Plain and simple.

Tinder is very location dependent.

I was in a large American city this weekend and my phone did not stop with the app.

In NYC it's basically useless, on the other hand.

(10-16-2013 03:40 PM)Blick Mang Wrote:  Just started using this app yesterday - so far, after three matches, one of which I converted to a number. Drinks lined up for the weekend. Logistics seem to be the hard part, you really have to narrow down to a local area (2-3 miles) in a big city like London.

Funny part, swiped past my girlfriends little sister. Potentially opening myself up to a world of hurt here.

Yeah in London set it to 5miles otherwise you're getting outside London chicks and you won't get anywhere at all.
I nearly got into the same situation as you lmao