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RE: What book changed your life?
(08-11-2013 01:55 AM)RioNomad Wrote: (08-07-2013 10:23 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote: It's funny that people still call complete bullshit on that book when it's changed so many people's lives and created the exact type of people Ferris talked about.[/b]
It's a knee jerk reaction. People think "What!?!? No way you can only work 4 hours per week!" and claim the book is garbage.
The funniest thing about that knee-jerk reaction too is that when you actually dig into the book he says multiple times it's not really about working four hours a week and explains how the title just won out in the split test. He originally wanted to call it "Drug Dealing for Fun and Profit" or something like that.
I've heard a lot of different criticisms of the book but most were explained away within the text by Ferriss before anyone even had a chance to criticize it. Always annoying when people just ignore what an author is actually saying and confront the most skin-deep interpretations of the book - as if they just read a review of it and organized their arguments based on that....
Sounds like it hit us both much in the same way. I feel like going back and reading it again now.
(08-11-2013 01:58 AM)RioNomad Wrote: (08-07-2013 02:44 AM)TopPanda Wrote: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.
A bit dated in parts, but still a great read.
I see this book recommended the most by people. I just can't seem to read it. It doesn't hold my interest. I need to sit down and give it a good solid 1-2 hours while sitting by the pool I think, because the bit I've ready already is valuable, but the dated nature of the writing makes it hard to keep my attention and I end up day dreaming.
About "Think and grow Rich," Rio.
Look up a condensed audo version of the book created by Earl Nightengale. Actually I think this is it right here: http://www.amazon.com/books/dp/1932429158
I used to listen to this driving in my truck back in the day everyday while running around in Humboldt and it radically transformed my mindset and brought me a ton of success at the time. I later went and tried to read the original version and just couldn't get through it - way too slow and drawn out.
And it's very rare for a book to bore me enough not to finish.
I highly recommend this version if you felt the same way trying to read the original.
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RE: What book changed your life?
There are sooo many, but i will go by category:
In Game:
Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden, this book really helped me understand how fucked up female fantasies can be. It's rather an eye opening book.
Art of Seduction - Robert Greene - if you like history, it's an interesting book. I think R.Green spends too much time circle jerking in his book, but decent read.
The Fine Art of Erotic Talk - can't recall the author. It's good for beginner, i found it to be too bland.
The Selfish Gene - Richard Dawkins. It's not for everyone. After reading this book I was paranoid that all my girlfriends were fucking on the side. But it truly puts Alpha male Beta provider male into perspective. I like Dawkins.
Comedy Writing Secrets - Helitzer - that book just helped me be more funny with girls. While reading you'll start analyzing jokes. Then it goes away. It literally changed my social life. I started getting "you're so funny" remarks not only from women but from guy friends too. Everyone loves laughter.
In Psychology:
Sway - Ori Brafman - an interesting outlook why people act irrationally. It allowed me to understand women better.
Just about any book by Malcolm Gladwell - Tipping Point, Outliers, etc. He's an exceptional writer.
Psycho-Cybernetics - various authors, but original concept is fascinating.
Virus of the Mind - Richard Brodie - fucking amazing book that explains why shit goes viral. LITERALLY way before Internet existed the way we know it. I am actually about to re-read this book. Also talks about "memes". No, not the Advice Animals or Awkward Penguin ones.
What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do The Opposite - DiSalvo - this book opened my eyes to why we do shit we do. It's an interesting and easy read.
and finally,
You are not So Smart - David McRaney - this book is not only entertaining but also gives you a lot of interesting psychological mind-fucks media and society uses on you (maybe not on purpose). This book explains social tricks and a lot of misguided concepts you see on TV. After reading this book, I felt a little bit shaken.
In Business:
Lean Startup - Eric Ries, exceptional outlook on entrepreneurship. Addresses "paralysis by analysis" issue with most startups. If you're into running your own business, it's a must.
Power - Jeffrey Pfeffer - this book is fundamental for anyone trying to achieve success in business. It breaks down principles on how to become more influential. Good read.
In Life:
Tao Te Ching - just read it. It's not long and it's a perspective on life. Also if you liked Eckhart Tolle books, that's along the same path.
7 Habbits of Highly Effective People - Stephen Covey - self explanatory.
Brave New World - Huxley - it's a sci-fi book that's becoming very close to reality in modern days.
Whatever your patience can stomach by Ayn Rand. She's not an easy read, but start with Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged. I will see you next year. It is that fucking long.
The Elements of Style - William Shrunk - most of us cannot write for shit. See?
Poking the Box - somewhat motivational.
Power of Habit - Duhigg- I CANNOT STRESS THIS BOOK ENOUGH.
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RE: What book changed your life?
When i a was 19 i was broke , frustrated and confused, I didnt fit in at college and didnt know were to go other than i would be an entrepreneour.
I read Think And Grow Rich, By Napolean Hill....It changed my life. I found success and have gone on to use the concepts to build businesses that employ the college graduates i didnt fit in with .
"The 4 hour work Week" By Tim Ferris increased my efficiency and caused me to implement a business that i could run from anywere in the world. Further expanding my career.
Atlas Shrugged, Ayn Rand , This book has formed the basis of my political and economic views.
But i was still missing something. A big part of a young man's LIfe is Women, and i kept failing with them . The same story repeating itself. I read "The Rational Male" it changed my life an experience with women.
And FInally Bang , ANd Day Bang by Roosh witch expanded my prowess with women on the principles i learned in Rational Male. I hope everyone on this forum has read these .
Writing this from Tallinn Estonia in an apartment near old towne center, with my Yamaha R1 sitting outside , bank account full making 100k per year , A rotation of young firm Ass, The above books helped me get here!
Currently reading.....
1. The 48 laws of power.
2. Fight Club
3. Twist of the Wrist 2 (motorcycle riding technique)
4. The Autiobiograpy of Benjamin Franklin
I dont watch TV, fuck that waste of time box.....I read!
-SeaWolf007
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RE: What book changed your life?
Mans Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl was the epiphany I needed at a young age and as an athlete to endure all the turmoils, ups and downs, and setbacks associated with athletics. I recently read it again, as a more mature audience, and saw that the teachings are directly applied to life, passions, and living life to the utmost. I highly recommend it for anyone that is seeking their purpose, or has found their passion and just looking to get through the rough days. The man survived the nazi regime and went on to write the most influential quote that guides me daily: "a man that has a why to live can endure almost any how". Inspirational.
"Money over bitches, nigga stick to the script." - Jay-Z
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