Post: #26

I preempt this by saying I plan to not respond unless she does, but if someone has a better response I am open to the idea.

20 year old met online. Claims she isn't high maintenance (clearly is), 8/10, moderately intelligent. Here's the end of exchange online before I switched over to text:

Quote:"Just re-read your profile and it's hilarious. Seriously funniest I've seen on here. Do you have a facebook?"

"After all of the facebook attention whoring I'd seen throughout and after college I stopped using it except for with family. Plus I don't even know you, for all I know you could be some craaazy high maintenance stalker girl. I don't need another one of those haha. If you have a phone though I do know how make phone calls and text... I promise I won't make too much fun of you for not being able to cook or drive.

I'm at #"

"Honestly I just use facebook to screen to see if you're hot. For all I know you could have been putting up the only 3 flattering pictures of yourself on here, and I'm a little iffy on the shirtless one.

Going on good faith though, my number is # "

----Text banter for a bit the next day then this exchange----

Quote:"Oh nice. Where do you work?"

"That's a much better first date question. Hmm, join me in [place] for bowling on [day] and i'll tell you all about my life as a Russian James Bond " [inside joke]

"Haha im a little hesitant to meet up till ive seen your facebook"

"Lol you are new to this huh? Well its the only other time I'm free till next Tue. Unless you are really lame it'll be fun I promise."

"Completely new, completely shallow, and a girl so gotta be more careful ya know?"

Leaving her hanging for now to see if she gives in.

Thoughts?

I know I am giving this way too much thought but I've ran a few scenarios and they all seem to fail besides silence.

*Note, she's much more playful in the other texts outside of these.

Edit: She's on IM right now so technically I could hit her up there too (and vice versa).

Post: #27

I'm overthinking something myself so I'm no help right now. I'd let her sit on it though.

Thought about it. Don't forget you're the prize. Just give her the take it or leave it response.

She'll take it.

Post: #28

(04-26-2011 06:21 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I'm overthinking something myself so I'm no help right now. I'd let her sit on it though.

Thought about it. Don't forget you're the prize. Just give her the take it or leave it response.

She'll take it.

Yeah I considered this. Needs to be worded properly though.

Post: #29

How about;

To be honest w you, the last girl I met was a total stalker and wound up messaging everyone on my fb trying to say we were in love and all sorts of stuff. Told my mom we were getting married! Anyway, I'm pretty cautious myself now, I'd appreciate it if you could understand. If not, I'm sure you'll find another secret agent someday.

Or something along this template?

Post: #30

(04-26-2011 06:35 PM)Fisto Wrote:  How about;

To be honest w you, the last girl I met was a total stalker and wound up messaging everyone on my fb trying to say we were in love and all sorts of stuff. Told my mom we were getting married! Anyway, I'm pretty cautious myself now, I'd appreciate it if you could understand. If not, I'm sure you'll find another secret agent someday.

Or something along this template?

Eh worth a shot, I'm not waiting on this bitch I'd rather make plans with someone else if nothing.

Post: #31

Ok well help a brother out to get your mind off it. Met this gal today 19, I lost the frame where she started asking me a bunch of questions that I didn't get to adequately answer, I felt like the attraction was diminished. I got the number but, I feel like the next time I text her, I've got to pique her interest again. She's Colombian 9/10 if not hotter. Totally spoiled.

Post: #32

(04-26-2011 06:46 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Ok well help a brother out to get your mind off it. Met this gal today 19, I lost the frame where she started asking me a bunch of questions that I didn't get to adequately answer, I felt like the attraction was diminished. I got the number but, I feel like the next time I text her, I've got to pique her interest again. She's Colombian 9/10 if not hotter. Totally spoiled.

No response. She checked my profile though. Pretty sure that's done.

Post: #33

(04-27-2011 08:20 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

(04-26-2011 06:46 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Ok well help a brother out to get your mind off it. Met this gal today 19, I lost the frame where she started asking me a bunch of questions that I didn't get to adequately answer, I felt like the attraction was diminished. I got the number but, I feel like the next time I text her, I've got to pique her interest again. She's Colombian 9/10 if not hotter. Totally spoiled.

No response. She checked my profile though. Pretty sure that's done.

Gonna follow it up with a "Nevermind"

Post: #34

(04-26-2011 05:11 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I'm eating my words. Today I got the number of perhaps the most naturally beautiful girl I've encountered since being in Vegas. She's 19. There's no fucking way I'm taking this girl to a movie. I think I'll try to run a game plan like Gio.

Fisto,

Here is another one that I like sometimes...

I say..."I'm going shopping later, wanna come be my assistant?"

or..."I'm going shopping later, come have a drink and be my stylist"

or..."I'm going shopping later, come help me pick out some outfits"

Something like that. Take her to a nice shopping area. Grab some drinks and put them into paper cups. Walk around, get a little tipsy and start going into some high end clothing stores. Let the store workers work for you. Have them put together some outfits and try them on. Have fun with it. Let your girl help you. Try on a few outfits and keep drinking. Buy a nice expensive outfit! Let your date go into some nice womens stores and try stuff on. Play around with this and use it to build comfort/attraction. After a while, get something to eat.

This is my basic "afternoon mall date" with a younger girl. Use all the stores and people in the mall to your advantage.
There is alot of interesting stuff to look at and make conversation about. Some stores are sexy, some stores are fun, some stores are artsy. Go into a bunch of them and use them to create the mood and vibe you want. When she gets a little tipsy, take her into "Victoria's Secret" or something. Stuff like this.


Keep your receipts so you can return whatever you buy!

Post: #35

(04-27-2011 01:05 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(04-26-2011 05:11 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I'm eating my words. Today I got the number of perhaps the most naturally beautiful girl I've encountered since being in Vegas. She's 19. There's no fucking way I'm taking this girl to a movie. I think I'll try to run a game plan like Gio.

Fisto,

Here is another one that I like sometimes...

I say..."I'm going shopping later, wanna come be my assistant?"

or..."I'm going shopping later, come have a drink and be my stylist"

or..."I'm going shopping later, come help me pick out some outfits"

Something like that. Take her to a nice shopping area. Grab some drinks and put them into paper cups. Walk around, get a little tipsy and start going into some high end clothing stores. Let the store workers work for you. Have them put together some outfits and try them on. Have fun with it. Let your girl help you. Try on a few outfits and keep drinking. Buy a nice expensive outfit! Let your date go into some nice womens stores and try stuff on. Play around with this and use it to build comfort/attraction. After a while, get something to eat.

This is my basic "afternoon mall date" with a younger girl. Use all the stores and people in the mall to your advantage.
There is alot of interesting stuff to look at and make conversation about. Some stores are sexy, some stores are fun, some stores are artsy. Go into a bunch of them and use them to create the mood and vibe you want. When she gets a little tipsy, take her into "Victoria's Secret" or something. Stuff like this.


Keep your receipts so you can return whatever you buy!

That is some great stuff right there bro! I'm on it. Thanks. This gal's mom owns a clothing store so I know she'd like to do that stuff. I've never even thought of this.

Post: #36

(04-27-2011 12:17 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 08:20 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

(04-26-2011 06:46 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Ok well help a brother out to get your mind off it. Met this gal today 19, I lost the frame where she started asking me a bunch of questions that I didn't get to adequately answer, I felt like the attraction was diminished. I got the number but, I feel like the next time I text her, I've got to pique her interest again. She's Colombian 9/10 if not hotter. Totally spoiled.

No response. She checked my profile though. Pretty sure that's done.

Gonna follow it up with a "Nevermind"

I think you're better off with radio silence or " 8===>" in a week or 2 you can write "Hey we never got to hang out, still want to give it a shot?" (I remember some poster putting that and I tried it and it worked" That'll give her time to see it's no big deal and all the pressure is off her for being weird.

Post: #37

(04-26-2011 01:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  The best place to take a girl under 21 is to your couch. They usually don't need much wining and dining. Don't do any formal "adult dates". I think taking them to a club is even too much investment. Just tell them to come over to your place to watch a funny tv show.

Exactly

(04-26-2011 01:08 PM)CJ Wrote:  I agree with Gio. Just get her straight over to your place. If she's under 21 she may live at home, so going over to a guy's house is almost like going out anyway. Plus chances are these girls have drank before, and don't want to go to a bar where they can't drink. At your place you can pop in a movie, get a couple drinks and proceed.

& Exactly 2x

At home you can be yourself .. the more comfortable you feel in your environment the more focused you will be on your goal. For those girls anything is better than staying in their house TRUST that one.

And if you get her back to your house I strongly consider, STRONGLY, that you have a variety of up to date magazines. Because at any point she gets bored whip those shits out. Women are curious/nosy creatures, and it couldn't hurt to have them just in case.

Honestly if a girl at that age doesn't want to just hangout for one night, shes probably not worth you bending over backwards to mess with her.

Post: #38

If the weather is good, how about grabbing your dSLR camera and going out to take some pictures with her.

Girls love artistic, creative stuff. And they love having thier picture taken.

Post: #39

(04-27-2011 02:17 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 12:17 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 08:20 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

(04-26-2011 06:46 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Ok well help a brother out to get your mind off it. Met this gal today 19, I lost the frame where she started asking me a bunch of questions that I didn't get to adequately answer, I felt like the attraction was diminished. I got the number but, I feel like the next time I text her, I've got to pique her interest again. She's Colombian 9/10 if not hotter. Totally spoiled.

No response. She checked my profile though. Pretty sure that's done.

Gonna follow it up with a "Nevermind"

I think you're better off with radio silence or " 8===>" in a week or 2 you can write "Hey we never got to hang out, still want to give it a shot?" (I remember some poster putting that and I tried it and it worked" That'll give her time to see it's no big deal and all the pressure is off her for being weird.

Nah honestly if this chick is gonna be like this from the start I have no interest in putting up with it even for the bang. I don't have any shortage of dates right now.

Post: #40

(04-27-2011 02:34 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  If the weather is good, how about grabbing your dSLR camera and going out to take some pictures with her.

Girls love artistic, creative stuff. And they love having thier picture taken.

Seems like a good idea.

Post: #41

(04-27-2011 03:57 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 02:34 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  If the weather is good, how about grabbing your dSLR camera and going out to take some pictures with her.

Girls love artistic, creative stuff. And they love having thier picture taken.

Seems like a good idea.

My only caveat with a move like this is that it's liable to raise her value next to yours if you play it wrong. You don't need to be implicitly telling her you think she's hot shit (by doing a "photo shoot" of her), before you've pounded it out. If you frame it as "let's take pictures of each other," then it might work--especially if you structure it like you're teaching her photography skills and playfully criticize her lame picture-taking along the way.

Post: #42

(04-27-2011 04:02 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 03:57 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 02:34 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  If the weather is good, how about grabbing your dSLR camera and going out to take some pictures with her.

Girls love artistic, creative stuff. And they love having thier picture taken.

Seems like a good idea.

My only caveat with a move like this is that it's liable to raise her value next to yours if you play it wrong. You don't need to be implicitly telling her you think she's hot shit (by doing a "photo shoot" of her), before you've pounded it out. If you frame it as "let's take pictures of each other," then it might work--especially if you structure it like you're teaching her photography skills and playfully criticize her lame picture-taking along the way.

Don't forget, you can make fun of her poses, thereby lowering her value. Then push pull and give her a complement "I like your right eye better than your left one here" *smirk*

Post: #43

(04-27-2011 04:33 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Don't forget, you can make fun of her poses, thereby lowering her value. Then push pull and give her a complement "I like your right eye better than your left one here" *smirk*

That's a nice approach. I do a similar thing whenever I take a picture of a 7+ girl in a regular setting. I take one and make a face or say something disparaging about the picture before adding, "hmm. Let's try again." You could be specific about your criticisms, like you've suggested, and get a good, balanced effect.

Post: #44

(04-27-2011 04:50 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 04:33 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Don't forget, you can make fun of her poses, thereby lowering her value. Then push pull and give her a complement "I like your right eye better than your left one here" *smirk*

That's a nice approach. I do a similar thing whenever I take a picture of a 7+ girl in a regular setting. I take one and make a face or say something disparaging about the picture before adding, "hmm. Let's try again." You could be specific about your criticisms, like you've suggested, and get a good, balanced effect.

I use a similar approach when kissing, though I'm sure I borrowed it from somewhere. This works every time for me, especially with younger girls.

*kiss*
"I give you a 7. Not bad, you have potential... with practice.

Usually they are shocked and call you an asshole while smiling or something like that (or: "I can't believe you're criticizing my kissing!") Just go in for another. Like with everything, delivery is key.

Post: #45

(04-27-2011 04:50 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 04:33 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Don't forget, you can make fun of her poses, thereby lowering her value. Then push pull and give her a complement "I like your right eye better than your left one here" *smirk*

That's a nice approach. I do a similar thing whenever I take a picture of a 7+ girl in a regular setting. I take one and make a face or say something disparaging about the picture before adding, "hmm. Let's try again." You could be specific about your criticisms, like you've suggested, and get a good, balanced effect.

Usually I do the same where I tell her to pose one way, and then do something to adjust her pose and keep telling her to do that thing and tease her that she doesn't know how to pose . Other times I'll tell a girl to lean forward or move to the side and then take a picture of something else in the background and she'll be surprised/ turned on that I cut her out of the picture for something more "interesting." I think the combination of telling a girl what to do and qualifying her by teasing her that she doesn't know how to pose sexy is a double turn on for her.

Post: #46

I've never thought about taking pictures like that. I don't know if I want to go out and buy a camera for this though

Post: #47

(04-27-2011 04:02 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  My only caveat with a move like this is that it's liable to raise her value next to yours if you play it wrong. You don't need to be implicitly telling her you think she's hot shit (by doing a "photo shoot" of her), before you've pounded it out. If you frame it as "let's take pictures of each other," then it might work--especially if you structure it like you're teaching her photography skills and playfully criticize her lame picture-taking along the way.

(04-27-2011 04:50 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 04:33 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Don't forget, you can make fun of her poses, thereby lowering her value. Then push pull and give her a complement "I like your right eye better than your left one here" *smirk*

That's a nice approach. I do a similar thing whenever I take a picture of a 7+ girl in a regular setting. I take one and make a face or say something disparaging about the picture before adding, "hmm. Let's try again." You could be specific about your criticisms, like you've suggested, and get a good, balanced effect.

Another even more powerful way of accomplishing a neg would be to say, "hey let's go and take some pictures.", but when you actually get there, totally ignore her and take pictures of the scenery and the surroundings. Even if she tries to get in the shot, tell her to get out of the way. All the time she's thinking that you invited her along because she's gorgeous and you want to take pictures of her, but instead you are not interested in photographing her at all. She will be practically begging you to take pictures of her.

Post: #48

I got this 18 yr old high school senior's number 2 weeks ago and we're finally going to chill tomorrow. I can tell she likes me and wants to be my girlfriend . She told some friends about me and keeps asking if I'm going to hurt her like her ex did if we go out because she has feelings already. 4'11 and 90 pounds

Anyways, I'm thinking of going to a cool park that looks nice to be romantic or maybe an "alternative" strip where we can go to a bunch of stores and mess around. I'm gonna casually pour up some vodka in a cup and pass it to her whatever we do. She's nervous about coming straight over to my place so I'm trying to play it cool an d make her feel comfortable before we do that later in the night. She said she doesn't care what we do as long as she sees me.

Post: #49

(04-05-2013 11:51 PM)houston Wrote:  I got this 18 yr old high school senior's number 2 weeks ago and we're finally going to chill tomorrow. I can tell she likes me and wants to be my girlfriend . She told some friends about me and keeps asking if I'm going to hurt her like her ex did if we go out because she has feelings already. 4'11 and 90 pounds

Anyways, I'm thinking of going to a cool park that looks nice to be romantic or maybe an "alternative" strip where we can go to a bunch of stores and mess around. I'm gonna casually pour up some vodka in a cup and pass it to her whatever we do. She's nervous about coming straight over to my place so I'm trying to play it cool an d make her feel comfortable before we do that later in the night. She said she doesn't care what we do as long as she sees me.

Just wondering. How old are you?

Post: #50

Early to mid 20's.