Post: #1

I'm struggling with re-initiating contact with a girl I've already had sex with but first some backstory:

I knew her from work. Didn't bang at the time these summer I just fb invited her to a bar and we went and banged at her place the same night. Afterwards I went to her place maybe a couple of times. She went out on vacation for like a month and I kept in contact a bit (not too much since I generally hate to chat on fb or w/e the fuck).

I asked her what's up again this weekend and she had just come back from vacation and was going to the beach so I didn't set anything up (though in retrospective I should have) I feel like I made a couple of mistakes after these chick went on vacation and now every time I contact her I feel like a supplicant.

Obviously I still want to fuck her if at all possible but how should I go about it?

Push through my uncomfortable feelings? Radio Silence? Invite to a bar again? I feel like my intentions and desires are crystal clear and she has all the power. Things were not like this before...

Post: #2

(08-18-2013 05:09 PM)Spikeball Wrote:  I'm struggling with re-initiating contact with a girl I've already had sex with but first some backstory:

I knew her from work. Didn't bang at the time these summer I just fb invited her to a bar and we went and banged at her place the same night. Afterwards I went to her place maybe a couple of times. She went out on vacation for like a month and I kept in contact a bit (not too much since I generally hate to chat on fb or w/e the fuck).

I asked her what's up again this weekend and she had just come back from vacation and was going to the beach so I didn't set anything up (though in retrospective I should have) I feel like I made a couple of mistakes after these chick went on vacation and now every time I contact her I feel like a supplicant.

Obviously I still want to fuck her if at all possible but how should I go about it?

Push through my uncomfortable feelings? Radio Silence? Invite to a bar again? I feel like my intentions and desires are crystal clear and she has all the power. Things were not like this before...

I think you are misreading things. After a chick fucks you, she has given up all of the power. Controlling when she gives up her pussy to you is by far her most valuable asset.

When you are talking about your uncomfortable feelings, you sound like a woman talking.

Tell her you want another date(can be drinks, going to beach, or better yet would be just asking her to come over to your house to watch a dvd or for dinner/drinks/whatever). I would suggest trying to get her to come straight to your house since you have already banged and just keep escalating when you throw the dvd in.

Post: #3

(08-18-2013 05:24 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  I think you are misreading things. After a chick fucks you, she has given up all of the power. Controlling when she gives up her pussy to you is by far her most valuable asset.

When you are talking about your uncomfortable feelings, you sound like a woman talking.

Tell her you want another date(can be drinks, going to beach, or better yet would be just asking her to come over to your house to watch a dvd or for dinner/drinks/whatever). I would suggest trying to get her to come straight to your house since you have already banged and just keep escalating when you throw the dvd in.

Right. I thought it might be my own brain playing tricks on me but it's nice to hear a 2nd opinion. Just gonna proceed as normal and hope it was only in my head and im not coming off really needy. Thanks dude.