Post: #876

(08-08-2013 03:31 PM)gandt Wrote:  

(08-08-2013 02:57 PM)starmaze Wrote:  i am in my mid 30s too and think hiding your intentions behind "opinion openers" like that is way more creepy than being direct. indirect is ok when its situational but what you do is "opinion opener" and it doesnt sound natural to me. if i was a girl i would think" is this guy really so shy and awkward he pretends to be interested in my opinion on a book"? If you are affraid to go direct look at Giovonny approaches, he often use some situational, natural indirect style.

I've said it before and I'll say it again:

Anything you try and hide makes you creepy.

I guarantee you that as soon as you get one number from going direct this whole idea of "it being creepy" will fade away.

Exactly correct Gandt. In addition, what really is creepy is the guys who just stare at the hot girls and don't approach (99% of guys).

Hitting on girls is normal. It's human nature. It's how we are able to reproduce.

Also, has anyone started doing the Yadstop? I'm going to give it a go soon.

Post: #877

double post

Post: #878

(08-08-2013 04:22 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(08-07-2013 03:13 PM)gandt Wrote:  Tomorrow is a new day

Haha, yes!

Thank you.

Tomorrow is already here. I will do a few more today.

I am getting myself back into flow. I can feel my masculine energy building.

Here are a few from yesterday..

Whole Foods. Produce section. Young Latina. I see her looking around for something...

Of course, before I say anything, I put myself in her line of vision so she can observe me for a few moments before I make my approach. She is searching for something..

me: what are you looking for?
her: lettuce
me: its right there
her: omg right in front of me
me: its hard to see them because everything is green
her: seriously

I continue shopping but keep an eye on her. 2 mins later..

me: did you find your spinach?
her: spinach?
me: oh, wait, i was looking for spinach, lol, i mean did you find your lettuce?
her: I did.
me: I really just wanted to come and say hello to you because you look nice today, whats your name?
her: christina
me: im gio, nice to meet you, do you go to school around here?
her: yes, at the junior college
me: oh, i went there for a semester, i liked the weather
her: it is nice
me: cool, listen, would you be interested in hanging out sometime? maybe get coffee or a drink?
her: hmmmm, well...
me: seems like you are thinking about it, you are not sure..
her: well, i mean..
me: whats holding you back?
her: oh i don't know..
me: do you think i'm too old for you?
her: umm no
me: how old are you?
her: i'll be 20 next month
me: oh thats fine, i'm 30
her: oh ya thats ok
me: why don't you call me and that way i will have your number and we can do tacos and a beer sometime..?
her: honestly, im not really looking for anything right now
me: oh nothing too serious
her: ummm, no thanks
me: you look like you already regret your decision
her: haha, im ok
me: you sure?
her: yes, no offense, i respect your confidence for coming up to me like that.

That's what she said.

Shit, I'm not even warmed up yet.

*****

At the mall, I see a fine Asiangirl walking at an angle to me. I carefully put myself right in her pathway so that she walk right up behind me. As she gets up close to my back shoulder, I pretend that she surprised me and I turn my head to look at her..

me: hello
her: hi
me: you look nice today
her: thanks
me: do you date spanish guys?
her: no
her: thats creepy
me: you should try it sometime

Kept walking. I'm building momentum.

just out of curiosity; i see you keep saying "you look nice today". i wonder why you put world "today" at the end as if you saw her in the past already and she didnt look so nice...? i translate it directly to my native language so maybe its a semantic differences...

Post: #879

(08-08-2013 05:53 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

(08-08-2013 04:22 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(08-07-2013 03:13 PM)gandt Wrote:  Tomorrow is a new day

Haha, yes!

Thank you.

Tomorrow is already here. I will do a few more today.

I am getting myself back into flow. I can feel my masculine energy building.

Here are a few from yesterday..

Whole Foods. Produce section. Young Latina. I see her looking around for something...

Of course, before I say anything, I put myself in her line of vision so she can observe me for a few moments before I make my approach. She is searching for something..

me: what are you looking for?
her: lettuce
me: its right there
her: omg right in front of me
me: its hard to see them because everything is green
her: seriously

I continue shopping but keep an eye on her. 2 mins later..

me: did you find your spinach?
her: spinach?
me: oh, wait, i was looking for spinach, lol, i mean did you find your lettuce?
her: I did.
me: I really just wanted to come and say hello to you because you look nice today, whats your name?
her: christina
me: im gio, nice to meet you, do you go to school around here?
her: yes, at the junior college
me: oh, i went there for a semester, i liked the weather
her: it is nice
me: cool, listen, would you be interested in hanging out sometime? maybe get coffee or a drink?
her: hmmmm, well...
me: seems like you are thinking about it, you are not sure..
her: well, i mean..
me: whats holding you back?
her: oh i don't know..
me: do you think i'm too old for you?
her: umm no
me: how old are you?
her: i'll be 20 next month
me: oh thats fine, i'm 30
her: oh ya thats ok
me: why don't you call me and that way i will have your number and we can do tacos and a beer sometime..?
her: honestly, im not really looking for anything right now
me: oh nothing too serious
her: ummm, no thanks
me: you look like you already regret your decision
her: haha, im ok
me: you sure?
her: yes, no offense, i respect your confidence for coming up to me like that.

That's what she said.

Shit, I'm not even warmed up yet.

*****

At the mall, I see a fine Asiangirl walking at an angle to me. I carefully put myself right in her pathway so that she walk right up behind me. As she gets up close to my back shoulder, I pretend that she surprised me and I turn my head to look at her..

me: hello
her: hi
me: you look nice today
her: thanks
me: do you date spanish guys?
her: no
her: thats creepy
me: you should try it sometime

Kept walking. I'm building momentum.

just out of curiosity; i see you keep saying "you look nice today". i wonder why you put world "today" at the end as if you saw her in the past already and she didnt look so nice...? i translate it directly to my native language so maybe its a semantic differences...

The word "today" has no significance.

Post: #880

(08-08-2013 05:53 PM)starmaze Wrote:  maybe its a semantic differences...

Yes, purely a semantic difference. Not a factor in the approach at all. I could say it or not say it and it wouldn't matter much.

This is the very first time I am seeing these girls.

Just for fun, I will stop saying it and see what happens..

Post: #881

I approach for various reasons.

Sometimes, I approach to find a new sex partner.

Other times, I approach to test myself and see how fearless I am.

Other times, I approach just to keep my skills sharp.

Sometimes, I don't care how the girls respond. I am doing it for my own personal development.

I approach for me, not them. Keep this in mind. Approach to impress yourself, not to impress girls.

In my opinion, Sober day time approaching is the single greatest tool to eliminate fear and anxiety from your mind.

Post: #882

Leaving Trader Joes, I see a cute Asian walking east, my car is parked to the west. Obviously, I walk east. She comes to a red light. Perfect!

me: cool dog, what breed is that?
her: shiatsu
me: beautiful, boy or girl
her: boy
me: whats his name?
her: spiro
me: what a good boy he is

The dog could smell my food. I purposely let him bite at my bag of avocados. His teeth got stuff in the mesh bag. Perfect! I took my time getting my bag out of his mouth.

her: omg, sorry
me: thats ok, this is what young boys do
her: hehe
me: he likes good food, thats why his hair is so shiny

I'm start petting him.

The light had not turned green. She did not press the little button.

me: we missed our chance, did you press the button?
her: oh, i guess not
me: no problem, i distracted you
her: haha ya you did
me: ya blame it on me.

The light finally turns green.

me: do you go to school around here?
her: yes, u of sf
me: oh cool what do you study?
her: nursing
me: good for you, my name is gio
her: im perla
me: thats a nice name, are you part german or something?
her: no, my dad just liked that name
me: its unique
her: thanks
me: are you single? wanna hang out sometime?
her: no, i have a bf

I am still rusty. I am not causing any tingling in their vaginas. I just need to "own" my masculine direct style.

I need to be more masculine and more direct. I am not "owning it" enough right now. I need to be more sexual and edgy. Give them a feeling that they have never felt before.

I need to approach more. 2-3 a day is not enough to create sustained momentum. I need to do 5-10 a day. That is how you get shit done.

Right now, I am approaching like a pussy. Not displaying enough power and spirit.

Post: #883

Damn Gio what happened? Got bunkered in with a hot piece of ass and gave up the game for a solid month?

Based on your previous approaches (I read them all pretty much) it seems like you aren't being as direct as before and introducing yourself too early in the interaction. One thing I never understood is why you need to do the name exchange and ask if shes single?

Have you ever tried ending your little conversation saying that you have to go "but we should grab drinks sometime" and hand her your phone. Maybe your method cuts out more flakes? Im curious why you do that.

Post: #884

whats sasha type game?

(07-27-2012 03:51 PM)houston Wrote:  Giovanny how many girls are you fucking that you get numbers from? I like how you keep it simple and don't pull some retarded Sasha type game.

Post: #885

(08-14-2013 04:28 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Damn Gio what happened? Got bunkered in with a hot piece of ass and gave up the game for a solid month?

Hahahahaha!

Your instincts are strong!

You are a man of experience!!!

Yes, I've had a 21yo cutie who has been keeping my very satisfied.

I approached her at a public library and banged her on the 2nd date..

I wrote about it here:

/thread-14130-...#pid391063

(08-14-2013 04:28 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Based on your previous approaches it seems like you aren't being as direct as before and introducing yourself too early in the interaction.

Yes, I am not being direct enough. I am not "owning it"!

I am being to cautious and not fearless enough. They can sense my hesitation.

I lost some of my masculine momentum that I had built up.

My game stopped progressing.

Sometimes, we take "2 step forward and then 1 step back".

I am just a litte out of practice.

I actually enjoy these moments when I struggle. I have to re-learn and re-teach myself certain aspects. It helps me to ingrain these concepts in my head and it helps me to teach others.

I enjoy the process of forcing myself to compete and improve.

I know I will be back in rhythm after 20-30 approaches or so.

(08-14-2013 04:28 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  One thing I never understood is why you need to do the name exchange and ask if shes single?

I don't need to do it.

I do it because I don't know any better. My game is still evolving.

Thank you for pointing that out.

When guys like you point stuff out, I can adjust, evolve, and improve.

I will work on a better way.

(08-14-2013 04:28 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Have you ever tried ending your little conversation saying that you have to go "but we should grab drinks sometime" and hand her your phone.

No, I haven't tried this.

I will start using this today.

Thanks

(08-14-2013 04:28 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Maybe your method cuts out more flakes? Im curious why you do that.

I don't know if my method cuts out flakes or not???

I do know this, the more emotion the girl invests in the interaction the less likely she is to flake, generally speaking.

Everything I do, I do because I don't know any better.

I am still learning from guys like you.

Honestly, I still consider myself a beginner. I know I am just scratching the surface of this stuff.

Great feedback. I appreciate it.

Post: #886

Your too modest Gio. Ive learned most of my approaches from you.

Ive gotten shut down a very high % when asking for their name first. I think it just comes off as weak and my guess would be a lot of beta/weak men have done the name introduction first and there is a bad vibe to doing it this way. I asked a girl her name and she instantly said "I got a BF that lives in a mansion" and her friend in the backseat said "oooh shut down". Another girl we were having a really funny good vibe convo and I asked her name and she didn't reply and ignored me for the rest of the ride. Another girl responded "why? do you like me or something?" in a snarky tone. There was a post in this thread a few pages back by Gandt where he had a really good opener with the jungle pants girl going through her bag and once he asked her name she just instantly shut him down.

I have around a 60 outta 75 average of getting numbers at my job and at least 5 of those fails were the name intro first.

My close is almost always the same. "We should chill/hang out/get drinks sometime soon. Toss me your number."
I usually don't hand them my phone but Ill get the number and make a joke about there being a rule your supposed to know the persons name first.

If its a group of girls I will wait until we stop, turn to the back seat and say "Girls, I have to ask you guys something serious here. Should I get your friends number?". This has worked around 9 outta 10 times.

If I could get better at everything else game related I'd be a monster.


edit: on the "are you single?" part: if you aren't going really direct and flirty already you could risk her saying yes which shuts you down right there. This is assuming you don't care if your fucking a girl who has a BF.

Post: #887

I only try to post interesting approaches that lead to some success in this thread, this one I would like advice if anyone is up for it. Longer post. I enjoy reading the more detailed game logs as I learn tricks and see conversation flows, I hope this may serve the same purpose.

Setting: Chicago El-Train
Girl: 7.25 5'4" 23 y/o bright natural blonde, skinny, my favorite type short, happy, blonde. She had an extremely fun happy energy. Something tells me she'd be dynamite in the sack.
Good points: Hit a on a girl I thought was very attractive in a packed train. At least 12 people were within 5 feet and not talking so I definitely had an audience. Day-time, did after a day of taxing interviews. I am enjoying getting to a level where it doesn't matter if there is a girl I am dying to bang I am passing at her. I have an easy time making up some improvisational things so this is helping me more and more in day game pick up to lead conversation.


This approach was important to me in the fact I was visiting Chicago for interviews and while still being in the zone of staying serious for interviews, I am starting to day-game on auto mode.

I am sitting on the train next to one of the handle bars. Train gets packed with girl standing infront of me and facing to my left. Her hip and tits were a mere foot away from my face. After another stop she readjusted and faced toward holding the handle bar with her pussy about a foot from my face. She is bouncing a little to the music she is listening to, it was enthralling. The train is still packed. I see a foot tattoo and remember Roosh's bang story about "What does that mean?" (Thanks Roosh).
I tap her arm:

T: "What does that mean?"

Blonde: *takes out ear bud* "What?"

T: "Your foot tat, what does it mean?" *Friendly smile and point down while looking into her eyes*

Blonde: "Oh my tattoo it is part of blah blah blah symbol..."

T: "Oh cool."

Blonde: "Yeah look see I have another tattoo on this foot for them to go together!" *Stands back and bit with her feet pointed out to show me with glee*

T: "Wow, I see, so does that mean you are always in some crazy yoga position or standing in strange ways so your tats always line up?"

Blonde: "Hahah no no no!, well maybe yes sometimes!" *playing along*

T: "I see you've got a nice little dream catcher necklace there too, I like that, nice little style you got going on there. Did you steal that from a dead Indian? Because you know that's the only way a real dream catcher works you have to take it from a dead Indian or its fake. And you can't kill the Indian, if you kill the Indian and take it, it kills their dreams and won't work!"

Blonde: *Constant giggling* "Yes! I know it has to be from a dead Indian of course!"

T: "So are you just coming from wandering around downtown? ... Coming from school, do you still learn?"

Blonde: "Haha, no I am coming from work"

T: "Oh done with the school thing huh?, done learning I see for now."

Blonde: "Yeah *smiles, nods*"

T: "Me too I am done for now"

Blonde: "Well I want to go to grad school for medical anthropology"

T: "Hmmm well I know the word anthropology means study of people and medical means medical.... so how does that work together?"

Blonde: *laughs* "Yeah it is the study of medical and people!"

T: "Oh so like hmmmm isn't Joseph Lister's invention of antibacterial soap the most important invention of all medicine because it killed common infections and bacterial diseases? Like dysentary?"
*completely making this up as I go along*

Blonde: "Yes, yes that would be one of the most important parts" *smiling and giggling*

T: "I actually just came from all these crazy interviews. One was with these Swedish guys dressed in crazy blazers and pocket squares, and jewelry, they looked like Gerard Butler and blahblah the Swedish versions, really cool tho haha"

Blonde: "Omg really that's crazy!"

T: "Yeah I really like it here though with all the easy transportation I may take an offer, aren't there free bikes here everyone shares? Like you just take a bike park it and some else gets it?"

Blonde: "Yeah!"

T: "Yeah I just starting taking any bike I saw many were kids' bikes. You know they are really hard to ride. I felt like a circus bear on a small bicycle. You know some of those kids got really pissed when I took their bikes. I didn't understand why they were yelling after me everyone shares bikes here!"

Blonde: "Oh no!"

T: "Yeah I actually take all the kids bikes I have taken here and store them in a garage. There is like 50 now fills up the whole place. My plan is to give them to poor kids. You know I see myself as the Robin Hood of kids' bikes."

Blonde: "Hahahah"

T: "Hey I am getting off in a few stops we should hang out sometime"
*Shove my phone with a New Contact into her hand*

Blonde: "Yeah sure!" *punches in digits*

T: "Well where do you get off?"

Blonde: "X stop"

T: "Is that where you hang out after wandering the city?"

Blonde : "I live there!"

T: "Cool, what are you up to tonight?"

Blonde: "Going to blah blah with my mom"

T: "Cool"...... "Haha oh your stop is way aftermine. I should have planned this more smoothly you know. Since I am new to the city I had no idea when I was getting off. Well now we just have to hang out. See if I knew my way around here I would have made the smooth exit by now!"

Blonde: "Hahahah yeah"

T: "So what are you listening to? You were dancing earlier now you are talking to me to. You are talented and doing lots of things at once aren't you? Think you could ride one of my stolen kid's bikes and chew gum, and talk to me and listen to music all at once?"

Blonde: "Hahaha yes! I am listening to X band? Heard of them?

T: "No you should text me their stuff"

*My stop's coming up*

T: "Here I have texted you, you should get it when we get above, this number look good? *with my phone contact of her held upside down*
*I genuinely have had enough #'s fuck up manually after I get a good approached going for a number crunch I get paranoid*

Blonde: "Hahah yeah"

*Stop comes*

T: "This is me, big hug goodbye"

*She gets surprised as I give her the hug*

Blonde: "Oh hahah ok"

I get out of the train and turn to wave/smile she is staring at her phone immediately, I secretly hope it is because the train has come above ground now and there is signal so she wants to see my text come through.

Texted her earlier: "hey its T the bike stealer"

I get back 2 minutes later after leaving the El stop

Blonde: "Ha hey"

T: "cool" "good first hug you are talented in strange and new situations"
*no clue why I sent this I got the tiny hispter hippy vibe from her clothes jewelry and foot tats so I thought something odd would bait her into me a little*
"ill call ya later"

*** I am leaving town the next afternoon for at least 3 weeks+ ***

So.. 2 hours later I text.. wanted to go for the bang somehow before i left...

"hey i know you're out tonight, i am in town til later afternoon tomorrow. let's meet up before i am out for a few weeks."

No response after that been a few days and I am out of Chicago now.

Best plan of action I thought is to give her a call if I take a job there after I am physically there and ask to meet very close after the call takes place same night or a day or 2 later.

Thoughts? Critiques?

Post: #888

I am not a fan of the 'big hug' goodbye to a girl you just met on the train. Others may differ.

Post: #889

Pretty proud that I ended up making out with a girl directly from a day game approach

Post: #890

Damn I just kissed a girl a few times after sitting in a seat next to her on the bus for 1 hr 45min. Sheeeeiiitt

Post: #891

This was after getting a cute girls number and another girls fb on metro... I was just talking to pretty girls almost nonstop from 10:30-12:45

Post: #892

Working out at the gym, girl opens me with "oh oopsy I almost took your weights off the bar - giggle giggle giggle". I engage in small talk about going back to school soon etc and she tells me shes new in town. I told her I would show her my favorite spot downtown and to write her number down for me before she leaves.

Go to Wendy's and get my regular double baconator. Girl makes a comment about giving me the wrong order last time (probably an opener again)
me: you got the wrong boy
her: oh i hope i didnt
me: your a bad girl
her: i am
me: keep it up and i am going to spank you
her: oh god... oh.. i would hate that
<stared her down>
<pulled out my phone and stared at her some more>
she gives me her number, forgets to give me her name

This is the same Wendy's where. I smashed another driv-thru girl. Maybe she talked about me?

Pussies are so fucking wet this time of year. I think it was Gio who said you can literally smell the hormones in the air. I am getting some pretty ridiculously forward attitudes and body language. Get off your keyboards and go talk to girls...

Post: #893

(08-15-2013 03:54 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Ive gotten shut down a very high % when asking for their name first. I think it just comes off as weak and my guess would be a lot of beta/weak men have done the name introduction first and there is a bad vibe to doing it this way. I asked a girl her name and she instantly said "I got a BF that lives in a mansion" and her friend in the backseat said "oooh shut down". Another girl we were having a really funny good vibe convo and I asked her name and she didn't reply and ignored me for the rest of the ride. Another girl responded "why? do you like me or something?" in a snarky tone. There was a post in this thread a few pages back by Gandt where he had a really good opener with the jungle pants girl going through her bag and once he asked her name she just instantly shut him down.

I have around a 60 outta 75 average of getting numbers at my job and at least 5 of those fails were the name intro first.

My close is almost always the same. "We should chill/hang out/get drinks sometime soon. Toss me your number."
I usually don't hand them my phone but Ill get the number and make a joke about there being a rule your supposed to know the persons name first.


edit: on the "are you single?" part: if you aren't going really direct and flirty already you could risk her saying yes which shuts you down right there. This is assuming you don't care if your fucking a girl who has a BF.

I agree that asking a girl's name is usually not a good technique, especially early on in the interaction and agree that it's because that's the way many gameless guys have approached her in the past:

Hi, what's your name?
Where do you go to school?
What's your major?
How old are you
Where do you live?

Don't be one of those guys. I call it the "Twenty Questions" style approach. It telegraphs interest too early. Actually, I've had girls approach me in the same way quite a few times and I can tell you it's boring and annoying and intrusive.

My rule is that I don't ask a girl's name until she's asked mine-at that point I know she's interested. Sometimes I don't ask it even then-being aloof like this is intriguing to them. typically they will volunteer their name if you don't ask it. I also never ask a girl her relationship status-if she doesn't bring it up I certainly am not going to.

Post: #894

(08-18-2013 07:29 AM)bacan Wrote:  Pretty proud that I ended up making out with a girl directly from a day game approach

This is the Approach Thread..

Breakdown the approach!

(08-20-2013 10:24 PM)MrXY Wrote:  That's the way many gameless guys have approached her in the past:

Hi, what's your name?
Where do you go to school?
What's your major?
How old are you
Where do you live?

Don't be one of those guys. I call it the "Twenty Questions" style approach. It telegraphs interest too early.

Great post.

Newbies should study this. I also need to study this.

I have been this guy in the past. When my game regresses, I can regress back into this line of questioning.

My weaknesses was that I was too "interview style" as you described.

I have gotten a lot better better but I still need to correct this.

MattC helped me a lot with this last year.

This summer, I allowed my game to atrophy a bit.

Now, that school has started, I will make a strong push and get back to improving everyday.

This is where I will start.

Post: #895

Don't ask questions, make leading statements - probably the best Game advice ever on picking up girls.

Post: #896

Just got the number of an intimidatingly good looking girl a mall here ..kind of impressed with myself

Post: #897

Sorry for the short responses from my phone.

I am on fire at the moment though and have to drop some knowledge here. I have three day game approaches that led to instant kissing and two to +1s less than 48 hours later.

The girl I talked to tonight lit up like a Christmas tree when I talked to her. I think she intentionally walked by me after I smiled at her. I don't think I would have had the guts to open her if I wasn't on such a hot streak right now.

Man imagine being a hot girl.. You are pretty much powerless to begin an interaction.. You just have to strike a balance between sexy and approachable, walk by a guy, and hope he has the balls and the game to stop you, make you laugh a bit, and smoothly get your number.

Post: #898

(08-25-2013 05:33 PM)bacan Wrote:  Sorry for the short responses from my phone.

I am on fire at the moment though and have to drop some knowledge here. I have three day game approaches that led to instant kissing and two to +1s less than 48 hours later.

The girl I talked to tonight lit up like a Christmas tree when I talked to her. I think she intentionally walked by me after I smiled at her. I don't think I would have had the guts to open her if I wasn't on such a hot streak right now.

Man imagine being a hot girl.. You are pretty much powerless to begin an interaction.. You just have to strike a balance between sexy and approachable, walk by a guy, and hope he has the balls and the game to stop you, make you laugh a bit, and smoothly get your number.

breakdown the approach please

Post: #899

Alright here we go.. time to drop some knowledge here....

My most recent approaches

Today / super hot blonde hair, blue-eyed brazilian..
Spent a few minutes pondering how hot this girl was and how intimidating she looked being totally dolled up and all.. I told myself I had to find a way to approach her though..
She was sitting at the table next to me, but I didn't feel like moving towards her or speaking loudly to get her attention..
When she looked at me, I smiled back confidently

Finally she got up and walked in front of my table to leave the food court.
I took this as a sign that she was interested (girl game is super indirect) and just said "excuse me, it's my first time in this city and I don't know this mall very well.." from there I ended up being playful and joking around.. mentioned how everyone wants to sell me a $100 shirt but I just need socks.. etc.
Asked when she had to get back to work and said oh ok, well let's get your whatsapp (nice move here in Brazil) and I'll chat with you after

Result: digits from a very, very hot blonde brazilian .. may go get a beer from her immediately after this post
Game tips:
* realize that just by talking to a girl that is that intimidating (she has a "hot" almost bitchy face, not a cute face) you're showing that you have 1/1000 type balls and giving her
* if a girl walks by you on her way out, open her -- it's her way of giving you one last shot.. it might especially be the case if you notice her just sitting around on her cell phone or just waiting around for a few minutes looking bored or not busy before she does so..

A few weeks ago / cute Brazilian
Also used this same technique to get the number of a pretty girl in a cafe a few weeks ago.. asked her if there was a better cafe around just as she was walking by me to leave (thanks for "do you know another ___ near here?" Roosh)

A few days ago / cute Brazilian
I asked a girl for help at a bus stop.. ended up spending the morning together.. even checking into my hotel together.. lol (+1 later on)
game tips: always be flirty and in game mode, even if you're not feeling at the top of your game (this was at 7:15 in the morning and I was not looking/feeling so sexy)

Last week / very sexy young Brazilian
Asked her to confirm that the train was going the direction I wanted.. then joked about how the city is so big and confusing.. then just started rambling in a fun, flirty way.. found out what stop she was getting off at and asked for her number (whatsapp) one stop right beforehand.. Ended up having an amazing date the next night... Most amazing body I've touched here in Brazil...

How did I get the number of a girl so hot from just a quick cold approach?
Game tips:
* Constantly be flirty and approaching. I got this number because I was in a fun, flirty mood from just charming a different girl on a prior train.. I just took my existing momentum and went even further..

Last week / 30-something hot Brazilian
I was still enjoying the high of the number I got from the sexy young Brazilian girl.. I was getting on a bus that was going to be 2 hours long.. I saw a guy take my seat so I sat next to a girl I saw smile at me and...
1.5 hours later.. after lots of stories, jokes, smiling, touching... we had so much chemistry that we kissed goodbye like boyfriend and girlfriend when she got off the bus! imagine that!! ha ha

last week / 30-something year old Brazilian
Had a few second window to say something to this hot girl as she was walking out of a shop.. commented on her accent with a word of English she said.. and from there it was on.. drank beers together, laughs, fun, flirting.. ended up kissing her a few hours later!
Game tip: Same as before! Use the momentum of talking and flirting with lots of girls to keep yourself going! The second I sat in the seat

The last time I had this much success from day game was when I was in Peru.. ended up meeting multiple "Miss" models and everything... Don't hate on Peru .. Those girls are sexy if you meet the cream of the crop..
Openers there were looking for restaurants and helping me locate a place to buy a plane ticket..
Game tip: Open your mouth and talk to intimidatingly beautiful girls.... Seriously..
Then immediately just start complaining about how confusing the country is, how you can't figure anything out, how you need to talk to strange (beautiful girls) for help

A few days ago / cute brazilian girl
stopped by her receptionist desk .. talked about how the Brazilian weather is so ridiculous.. my winter is much better.. finally a cold day.. bla bla, flirting, funny..
Left my card (she was working), went on a date with her last night..

Day game.. you are one damn beautiful thing

I have my phone just stock full of beautiful girls right now ... In the past few weeks I have one single rejection from a girl who was touching and flirting and hugging me but wanted to be faithful to her boyfriend (and was also young)

Last tip on my approach thread.. I think my success lately just comes from being on fire and knowing it...

I have no hesitation, ever.. Every time I meet a girl in a bar or a mall or the street I know I'm the coolest guy she's going to meet that day..

This has spilled over to my night game.. On both Thursday and Friday this week I just went to this bar, got a beer, and immediately opened groups of three pretty girls and ended up getting numbers and spending the rest of my night with them both times..

With the Thurs night girls, I was just making them laugh and laugh and laugh and laugh. It felt like a comedy show. Teasing the one girl about how she wanted to give me ten kisses after I intentionally misheard her portuguese word.. Telling them my crazy stories here in Brazil..

It was such a high like that knowing I was the coolest guy in the bar who was just charming the hell out of the three hottest girls there while every other guy was just standing around with his fancy clothes and big muscles sipping a beer with his bros looking like a tool..

Then after I left those group of girls, I met these two other very hot young girls and got their numbers and got invited to go out with them .. Girls so hot that I could jerk it to their fb pictures... lol
How did I do it? I just carried forward my out-of-this-world confidence and vibe that I had going strong from my interaction with the three hot girls in the last bar...

And how did I get that going with those girls?
Because before I went into that bar, I just got a girl's number after opening two girls on the way out of a shopping mall?

And how did I have the balls and the high energy to get a girl's number and make girls laugh in the middle of a street? Because I had just opened two girls sitting at a food court.. They weren't even that hot.. I just wanted to get my energy level up so I could use the fun flirty confident outgoing vibe on other better girls..

And why did I have to get my vibe up?
Because I started my night feeling like crap! I couldn't talk to these beautiful stylishly dressed girls in the mall.
Why couldn't I?
Because I ran out of clean clothes and I went out in an old t-shirt, athletic shorts, and no underwear.. you cold probably see the outline of my dick if you wanted to!

So in one single thursday I went from feeling paralyzed in a mall, unable to approach hot girls because I felt like a schmuck in my lame ass clothes to building up my vibe with one successful approach after another after another..

In the end I ended up getting 3 girl's numbers that night from opening sets of 2 (just to get in an outgoing vibe) then 2,3,2 .. got digits from super hot girls and I did all this in shitty clothes, hilarious..

In both cases where I just walked into the bar and immediately started making the hottest girls in the bar laugh, I already was feeling good and had a good vibe going..

Girls can smell fear like a shark smells blood.. When you enter a girl's field of vision, you have 2 seconds to be the fun, confident guy who just walks into a bar or yet another guy who is going to stand around and nurse his beer all night like a loser...


Game tips summary:
* Do your best to maintain an always on vibe of fun, flirtiness, outgoingness, confidence.. Even if you have to do some practice day game openers just to boost your mood by making some girls laugh even if they are not hot..
* Approach girls that are intimidatingly beautiful...
* Be ready with lots of stories, situational humor, funny demeanor... this is my style, at least
* Be ready to capitalize on even a 1-second window of opportunity to open a girl.. She walks by your cafe table, your food court table, drops a piece of paper, walks by you on the way to the metro train door, says a single word in English while walking by you.. all things I've used to get girl's numbers in the last two weeks

Bam!

Post: #900

Pokemon huntin at a frat party. My goal was to not worry on pulling but up my verbal/approaching game. And trust me, I got blown out.

Rosca "On a scale to 1 to awesome how do you feel?"
Pokemon "Awesome" (awkward face)

So many chicks there and so many of them in big groups it was weird for me. Best thing I did when I felt that way was either dance or chill outside for a bit.

Danced with some other chick and was play hitting her with a pillow. Didn't go as I expected.

What if the chicks approach us? Can we post them here as well?