Post: #1

Interesting video from Joe Budden and his dudes...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHt3mHk04...r_embedded

Post: #2

(03-27-2011 10:44 PM)jevodom809 Wrote:  Interesting video from Joe Budden and his dudes...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHt3mHk04...r_embedded

Saw this on Worldstarhiphop yesterday and was gonna post it as well.

IMO, this video is the truth. This quote here:

"Women would rather be a made nigga's slut than a regular niggas queen"

That illustrates hypergamy perfectly and is truly among the realest statements I've ever heard. The discussion about the flakiness was dead on as well. I've pursued more than one NYC girl(black ones) and just getting them to respond to simple texts was a challenge. Their facebook statuses were re-done like clockwork, but they'll leave your text sitting there for eternity. They must be up there amongst the flakiest women in this country.

On another note: I'm really starting to get the feeling that Black American women may be the most hypergamous female demographic in this country. I'm seeing too much anecdotal and statistical evidence to suggest otherwise. Maybe its just me, but I think that theory has some legs.

Post: #3

So funny, kinda reminds me of some convos I have had with others...... Strippers have this mentality as well BIG TIME.... I spoke to one,, got to know her kinda well, and she's talking how she's got some man down in miami etc... I told her, you know you ain't the only woman in his life for this playa,,, she goes, I don't care,,I can play as well.... So this is nothing new where women will throw their own pride out the window, and be manipulated or played by these playas..... I am not putting down the playas, they know the women are only after them because of their status, so they treat her like shit (good on them)....

The women who are aloof and don't respond to your texts etc, while dancing around it by updating other computer/phone stuff aren't worth your time.... I had a similiar experience. I texted the chick, you up for going to the raptors game tonight? (I didn't even have tickets).. she responds promptly,, sure, what time you wanna meet? I told her I'll get back to you in a bit... and then delete her contact.... screw her..... A. She only responds when she can get something out of it B. Read A. USER.... Some chicks are like this, and finding out who they are before you waste time and money on them is a must.

Post: #4

Sure, "regular" guys have a shot when they hang around "regular" crowds. These dudes on this video are probably hanging at the same spots with Joe Budden and hoping that a chick in the "materialistic circle" will change her thinking. Why attend a party where all the chicks on the guest list are either video vixens, strippers from the places rappers frequent or chicks who have been involved with one or more rapper/entertainer/athlete?

Post: #5

I call this "Fishbowl" selection. You gotta put yourself in the right "Fishbowl". If you are a little fish, don't try to swim with sharks.

When I was in college I would always try to hang around the coolest, trendiest places in the San Francisco. I never did very well because it just wasn't my scene. I didn't know how to dress, talk, and carry myself in that world. I went back to just day gaming around school, hanging at the local college bars and using social circle game. This gave me much better results.

Bottom line is....Put yourself around girls that are gonna like you, and that you have a chance with.

Post: #6

Focus on getting money and status. Get as much as u can. Ever since I was young Ive always noticed that if you have money and/or status you dont really need game. Women just come to you.

Also, get in shape to where women actually notice. Do things that make women notice you and take interest before you even open your mouth.

If imma work hard at something, Imma work hard at getting money and improving myself......not getting a bitch.

"You niggas hustling backwards if you chasing a bitch. Might as well chase paper......they come with the shit"

Post: #7

(04-02-2011 11:36 PM)theIVth Wrote:  Focus on getting money and status. Get as much as u can. Ever since I was young Ive always noticed that if you have money and/or status you dont really need game. Women just come to you.

Also, get in shape to where women actually notice. Do things that make women notice you and take interest before you even open your mouth.

If imma work hard at something, Imma work hard at getting money and improving myself......not getting a bitch.

"You niggas hustling backwards if you chasing a bitch. Might as well chase paper......they come with the shit"

Amen.