Post: #151

i met this girl with her left arm missing at the gym today, i wasn't going for it but then thought "if soup is not gonna make it, i will" going to drink wine at her house now.

she passes the bonner test, she will probably want to hang out somewhere before drinking to eat something... never been in public with a chick whose left arm is missing.

Post: #152

(06-29-2013 04:50 PM)beltoforion Wrote:  i met this girl with her left arm missing at the gym today, i wasn't going for it but then thought "if soup is not gonna make it, i will" going to drink wine at her house now.

she passes the bonner test, she will probably want to hang out somewhere before drinking to eat something... never been in public with a chick whose left arm is missing.

Where are you located? What color hair is she?

Post: #153

(06-29-2013 11:51 PM)soup Wrote:  

(06-29-2013 04:50 PM)beltoforion Wrote:  i met this girl with her left arm missing at the gym today, i wasn't going for it but then thought "if soup is not gonna make it, i will" going to drink wine at her house now.

she passes the bonner test, she will probably want to hang out somewhere before drinking to eat something... never been in public with a chick whose left arm is missing.

Where are you located? What color hair is she?

Feeling left out?

Post: #154

I texted her the other day with something like "you aren't the flaky type are you "

She texted back "no!"

Things seem to be tenuous with this girl; the entire pickup is holding on by a limb. Maybe there's a way she can right the wrong.

Post: #155

(06-30-2013 03:24 AM)soup Wrote:  I texted her the other day with something like "you aren't the flaky type are you "

She texted back "no!"

Things seem to be tenuous with this girl; the entire pickup is holding on by a limb. Maybe there's a way she can right the wrong.

maybe she's busy and she's got her hands tied up with work!

Post: #156

update

some pics of her

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i went to her apartment with a bottle of wine, she looked hotter than at the gym. She said she wanted to eat somewhere, i suggested italian food. We talk, we laugh, she checks me out when I call the waiter. I postpone the kiss until after the 1 hour mark.
me: i just want to drink that bottle of wine right now, let's go back to your place
girl: ummm not sure...
me: yeah i know, we just met today but we had this strong connection
girl: yeah.. hummm... but we are not having sex , only make out, ok?
me: sure... i wasn't going for it (lie) , we have just met today.
girl: fine then

We kiss, I got the bill and then suggested drinking my bottle of wine at her place.

There we talk, watch a movie, then make out, but with strong LMR. I used the "too drunk to drive back home" move to get her in bed with me but only to get more LMR ("aren't we going too fast?"). After 2 hours she says I should leave because we just met , and that I should come back another day. Not sure if I will get the flag, though.

Post: #157

(06-30-2013 10:08 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  update

some pics of her



i went to her apartment with a bottle of wine, she looked hotter than at the gym. She said she wanted to eat somewhere, i suggested italian food. We talk, we laugh, she checks me out when I call the waiter. I postpone the kiss until after the 1 hour mark.
me: i just want to drink that bottle of wine right now, let's go back to your place
girl: ummm not sure...
me: yeah i know, we just met today but we had this strong connection
girl: yeah.. hummm... but we are not having sex , only make out, ok?
me: sure... i wasn't going for it (lie) , we have just met today.
girl: fine then

We kiss, I got the bill and then suggested drinking my bottle of wine at her place.

There we talk, watch a movie, then make out, but with strong LMR. I used the "too drunk to drive back home" move to get her in bed with me but only to get more LMR ("aren't we going too fast?"). After 2 hours she says I should leave because we just met , and that I should come back another day. Not sure if I will get the flag, though.

Yours is similar, but has bigger tits, a little more padding, and not as cute face as mine. Also, you aren't in NYC.

Post: #158

OH SHIT...her body is bangin'. She's pretty enough in the face. Arm or no arm, I'd have to smash.

Post: #159

Even without an arm, there's enough for me to hang on to in this picture.

Post: #160

I want the bang too... she is hotter in person. but i think she will only fuck if i get into a ltr with her... any suggestions?

Post: #161

(06-30-2013 11:34 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  I want the bang too... she is hotter in person. but i think she will only fuck if i get into a ltr with her... any suggestions?

It looks like if she responds and meets you again, she'll give it up by date 3. She probably just needs more comfort.

All said and done, I'd do her. Hand down.

Post: #162

She's alright mate. Go for it. A comfort date, don't be overly enthusiastic about escalating and get her on the third date when she'll be craving you.

You don't have to get the notch on the first night.

Post: #163

i texted her this afternoon... no answer. Not sure if I was too forward last night. I didn't even try to get her clothes off. She wouldn't have the arm to stop me.

Post: #164

(06-30-2013 11:34 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  I want the bang too... she is hotter in person. but i think she will only fuck if i get into a ltr with her... any suggestions?

My suggestion is to stay the course; never let a girl strong-arm you into an LTR as a prerequisite for sex.

Post: #165

update from today's text convo

me: hey how are you doing? 1:00pm
girl: a girl friend of mine is at home having lunch with me. 2:00pm

me: hey, where are you going to watch the final match? 6:13pm ... . (brazil vs spain)
girl: hi, at home it's raining i dont feel like watching it out 6:18pm
me: is there still any wine there? we have to drink them no left overs , i am coming over ok? 6:23pm
girl: yeah, the wine is here i haven't drank it. Come over another day, i got pms today, im not ok. 6:28pm

Radio silence until she texts me. I don't care banging her or not, I am new in this city, moved last Friday night and met her at the gym Saturday in the morning. I have 2 FBs here in this city, but she is the hottest one, I raise my left hand to swear it.[/align]

Post: #166

So get into an LTR with her while banging other girls then break up with her (or not). Simple. LTR is not the devil. Maybe you have to slow things down and give her a bit of a bf experience? She's probably feeling the heat from your dick right about now and she sounds uncomfortable. Needs more comfort I suspect.

Post: #167

Don't like the fake hair color and not super crazy about her face but the body is great, the missing arm wouldn't bother me, I say go for it with no regrets.

Post: #168

What is this "get into an LTR" bullshit going on? If getting an LTR was as simple as wanting one there'd be one million fewer lonely betas right now.

That blonde girl may be missing an arm, but she's still just a regular American slut. If you didn't bang her on the first date you probably never will.

(06-30-2013 11:45 AM)augen sehen Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 11:34 AM)beltoforion Wrote:  I want the bang too... she is hotter in person. but i think she will only fuck if i get into a ltr with her... any suggestions?

It looks like if she responds and meets you again, she'll give it up by date 3. She probably just needs more comfort.

All said and done, I'd do her. Hand down.

(06-30-2013 02:11 PM)MattC Wrote:  She's alright mate. Go for it. A comfort date, don't be overly enthusiastic about escalating and get her on the third date when she'll be craving you.

You don't have to get the notch on the first night.

(06-30-2013 07:38 PM)Menace Wrote:  So get into an LTR with her while banging other girls then break up with her (or not). Simple. LTR is not the devil. Maybe you have to slow things down and give her a bit of a bf experience? She's probably feeling the heat from your dick right about now and she sounds uncomfortable. Needs more comfort I suspect.

Post: #169

Yea, I get it...you want the novelty bang. Honestly, it's not worth it. PMS excuses and shit. You don't deserve that level of shit from a girl you have not banged. Abundance mentality here at RVF.....NEXT that cunt.

Post: #170

(06-30-2013 08:34 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  Yea, I get it...you want the novelty bang. Honestly, it's not worth it. PMS excuses and shit. You don't deserve that level of shit from a girl you have not banged. Abundance mentality here at RVF.....NEXT that cunt.

Well....I wouldn't next her yet. Definitely backburner though.

Post: #171

(06-30-2013 08:13 PM)Samseau Wrote:  What is this "get into an LTR" bullshit going on? If getting an LTR was as simple as wanting one there'd be one million fewer lonely betas right now.

That blonde girl may be missing an arm, but she's still just a regular American slut. If you didn't bang her on the first date you probably never will.

My line of thought was that from the beginning, it was going to go one of two ways:

1) She's only got one arm which means more people are put off of her, and she's sex starved, so will be willing to drop her underwear sooner than most

2) She's insecure about only having one arm and it's going to take a bit more comfort than usual to get past her more fragile state of mind, in the sense that she's wary of what a pump and dump will do to her.

Sounds like she wants a bit more reassurance that he's actually into her, that's all.

I don't have experience with American girls, so you're probably right, but that's my take on things.

Post: #172

(06-30-2013 08:40 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 08:34 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  Yea, I get it...you want the novelty bang. Honestly, it's not worth it. PMS excuses and shit. You don't deserve that level of shit from a girl you have not banged. Abundance mentality here at RVF.....NEXT that cunt.

Well....I wouldn't next her yet. Definitely backburner though.

Good point. I'm working on not burning those bridges....ive had some success weeks / months down the road.

Nice Avatar btw....Enter the Dragon?

Post: #173

(06-30-2013 08:52 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 08:40 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 08:34 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  Yea, I get it...you want the novelty bang. Honestly, it's not worth it. PMS excuses and shit. You don't deserve that level of shit from a girl you have not banged. Abundance mentality here at RVF.....NEXT that cunt.

Well....I wouldn't next her yet. Definitely backburner though.

Good point. I'm working on not burning those bridges....ive had some success weeks / months down the road.

Nice Avatar btw....Enter the Dragon?

Yes...that's Jim Kelly of "Enter the Dragon" fame. He passed away today, so this is my tribute:

http://movies.msn.com/movies/article.aspx?news=815906

Post: #174

MattC's #2 theory makes more sense to me, that pms thing sounded bullshit though. If she doesn't contact me i will send a restart text in a couple of weeks because i still want the bang, radio silence until then. Working on other girls in the meanwhile.

She is Brazilian, not American.

Post: #175

(06-30-2013 10:17 PM)beltoforion Wrote:  MattC's #2 theory makes more sense to me, that pms thing sounded bullshit though. If she doesn't contact me i will send a restart text in a couple of weeks because i still want the bang, radio silence until then. Working on other girls in the meanwhile.

She is Brazilian, not American.

That's the way to play this one. Sometimes when a chick thinks you're sweating her, she'll act flaky, thinking you'll keep trying to see her. If you disengage and go silent, sometimes the hamster goes nuts and they'll contact you. It almost hurts their pride that you stopped chasing. I find this happens with online chicks too. If you're writing all the time, or sending comments regularly, they don't bother to reply. All of a sudden, when they stop, they'll send you something because they think you've lost interest and they want the attention from you. If they don't react, I delete them. If she fails to re-engage, then it's safe to say you can drop her.